For those of you in the Alpha Power Forum, I've been running an ongoing conversation about what frustrates you most about approaching women.

One of the most common frustrations I hear is about why it is that men have to approach women at all. Why don't women take on this role?

Well, I'd like to say that there's no reason, and women should just step up to the plate, but this is one of the biggest lies that feminism spawned upon us.

The lie is this:

Because men and women are treated as "equals," this means that we should throw aside our gender roles because we've suddenly become "enlightened" and now we can stop playing all the games.

Now, when you read that, what did you think?

If you're like most guys, you can identify with what I said, but at a core level you know that this isn't the way of the world.

I can wish I had the passive role in getting together with women, but wanting it to be that way will never make it that way.

That being said, there are ways to get women to do the approaching - in HER own way.

I'm going to be talking about those in a few days in the upcoming videos.

But for now, I'd love to hear your comments about what frustrates you about approaching women. Not just to bitch and moan, but to also talk about what you DO about it.

Just post a comment to this blog entry, or post to the forum where I've got these questions running all the time.

Talk to you soon… I'm going out in the sun to play soccer with some kids.

I'm working like a maniac, but I have to have a little rest…
:)
- Carlos