Comments on: What frustrates you most?

By: Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 05:21:04 +0000

Good point… it's easy to over-invest if you don't know what to look for.

I cover this topic in the new program, and there are some tests for this you can do to cut it off.

I may get to this on the teleconference next week.

(Watch for the email…!)

By: Anthony

Anthony — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 05:06:04 +0000

I think one of the things that frustrates me when approaching women is that some of the women seem to have a naturally friendlier personality than other women and many times I seem to confuse this with an interest in me and I seem to spend time going after them only to find out later that they were not interested.

By: Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 23:26:55 +0000

Yeah, 2/3 is pretty damn good, in fact. Compare this with the response you get in bars and clubs and you'll find that your success rate will actually get higher in ALL locations when you understand Day Game.

You see, the skills you use to talk to women in the REAL world only make you that much more authentic and effective in the bars and clubs.

It's pretty amazing, actually.

By: Tolle

Tolle — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 20:12:47 +0000

Yeah, I'm the same way.

I think it's motivation, man.

But I think a 2/3 response is pretty good. I don't think that women are waiting to shoot guys down, like Carlos says.

By: Sam Domm

Sam Domm — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 17:35:01 +0000

It's not really that much frustrating in itself — I just need to actually do it more.

But when I do, I think my biggest frustration is I don't understand how my approach leads to the particular response I get.

From my personal experience, a third will have a positive response to my approach, a third just seems indifferent (no need for her to leave but not very positive either) and a third will look for a way to leave. Everyone is different of course. But that aside, what makes a woman want to leave soon in one situation, be indifferent in another or be glad I am talking to her.

Sam

By: Nedry M.

Nedry M. — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 05:24:46 +0000

I'm so ready for something new, man…

THe pickup thing sucks, dude. They don't konw shit…

How can I start meeting women without being a fake player type?

That's all I wnt….

By: Jerry R.

Jerry R. — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 00:17:14 +0000

Thanks for being an open ear, Carlos. I think I speak for a lot of guys when I say, I hear what you're saying about that frustration with women not being the approachers. I realize in my heart that this is true, but I'm so frustrated with my approaches that I really do wish it was this way, even if it can't be.

Anyway, my other frustration is not knowing how a good approach SHOULD look. I'm really hoping you can show us this in your new program.

Will that be in there? Maybe even with some examples of what NOT to do?

Thanks man….