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Have you got what it takes?

Here's an offer you can't refuse:

Send me your best question about approaching and
talking with women and I'll choose the best one.

The winner gets a half-hour of free advice and coaching from me.

Live. On the phone…

Cool?

Send your entry to me here: Email Carlos…

Don't miss the teleseminar call this Wednesday night!

Ever since I've been putting up my videos and training articles on
the blog for Approaching Women 2, I've been getting a non-stop
stream of emails. (Don't forget, you can post comments ON the blog,
too…)

Well, in answer to your requests, on Wed. Aug 6th, at 6:00 PM I'll
be holding another teleseminar on approaching women. This time I'm
covering a few more of your questions on what "Real Alpha Daygame"
is all about…

And why DayGame is something that you CANNOT ignore if you're going
to approach women and keep up with the changes in the art of
approaching and at-tracting women.

If you don't keep your skills current and cutting edge, other guys
will eat your lunch when it comes to meeting women.

I'm going to cover topics like inner game, approaching groups, and
how to turn disadvantages into advantages when it comes to meeting
women during the day. This is a PACKED call.

Unfortunately, not everyone could make it on the last call. We only
have about 200 lines, and I couldn't get them to open up to more,
so you're going to have to be SURE to get on this one EARLY.

You WANT to be on this call.

I have a very important announcement on this call that concerns you.

If you have any questions you'd like to have answered, be sure to
post them on the blog post for this teleconference announcement.
I'll be pulling them from the blog, from the forums, and from your
direct emails…

Make sure you submit your questions to me right away, and please
keep them related to the topic of the call - Approaching Women -
Daygame.

Wed. Aug 6th, 2008 - 6:00 PM (PDT) West Coast time!
Dial-in Number: 1-218-936-1600
Participant Access Code 21047

Be there!

Your friend,

- Carlos Xuma

PS: Here are the call details. Print this email and post this
information by your computer and put it in your scheduler so you
remember the details.

Date: Wednesday, August 06, 2008
Start Time: 6:00 PM Pacific Daylight Time
End Time: around 7:00 PM Pacific Daylight Time
Participants: LIMITED
Dial-in Number: 1-218-936-1600
Participant Access Code 21047

Unbelievable - you need to listen to this right now…

I was going to post a link to a Blitz Session today, but I found something much more important and even better…

I just sat down and asked a few questions of a woman that you're going to want to hear.

I've been hearing a lot of concerns in email, the blog, the forums, that guys think that women don't want them to approach during the day.

Well, I'm going to help you with this right now.

You want to listen to this audio right away…

Close the door and listen to this audio NOW.
(WARNING: Your reality is going to be shaken here…)


It's not just about going in COLD…

Hey, I've been reading a lot of the mail you guys are sending in, and the great questions you've got about Real Alpha Daygame.

I'm currently planning a teleseminar to address a lot of those questions, so watch this weekend and you'll get more information on that. It's coming up this week…

But I also want to take this opportunity to point a couple of things out to you guys that might have a little trouble with this concept of "Daygame."

What really IS "Daygame?"

Very simply it's meeting women anywhere.

ANYWHERE.

Let me try that in a bigger font:

ANYWHERE!!

You see, bars and clubs seem to be all that guys think of when they think about meeting women. But there is a wide and undiscovered country out there where we are able to meet women:

- in the park
- at a friend's party
- at a business event
- at the gym
- in a coffee shop
- at a cocktail party
- at a library or bookstore…

Literally there is an infinite number of places out there to meet women that we are not using right now.

It's not just about walking up and talking to women cold on the street.

You see, I've talked to a lot of guys who have very strong beliefs about meeting women in everyday places. They seem to be scared to death of it because the woman will be guarded… cautious…

After all, you're a stranger!

Guys, you don't have to have anyone "approve" of where you meet a woman.

You don't need to meet a woman in certain designated areas. Regardless of what we think women MIGHT be thinking about it.

Whenever I talk to a couple, I ask them how they met. The women tend to romanticize the first meeting, but the guys always tell the facts.

Most of them met at a store, or in a gym, or in places where the guy simply sucked it up and did the unthinkable…

He approached her!

In fact, I did a certain hidden camera video just a couple weeks ago. I met a woman in the Apple Store and we had a GREAT conversation and connection.

Last night, after 2 weeks, SHE CALLED ME.

I haven't initiated any contact since then, but she called me up and left a 2 minute message.

How cool is THAT?

And, honestly, it wasn't a very spectacular approach. I just started talking with her for no reason.

She was a stranger.

Now she's a possibility for me. One that I would never have had if I had let the thought: "She doesn't know me - she's going to be scared of me" get into my head.

Repeat after me:
ALL limitations are self-imposed!
Stay tuned…

I've got more great stuff coming up…

Go check out the videos on the blog here:
http://www.realdaygame.com/approachblog/

Your Day-walker friend,

Carlos Xuma

PS: Thanks to all you guys who send me your questions and concerns. I'm even more convinced than ever that creating this new program is exactly what guys everywhere need to take their approach game to the next level.

Remember, every relationship starts with an approach.