Just 60 Seconds Away From
Discovering How to Attract Women -
With Confidence and Alpha Male Power...
These are the secrets of how to meet
and what women want that you won't learn from a "pickup
I want you to ask yourself this:
- Do you ever feel like women have the "upper hand" when
it comes to dating?
- Do you feel confused trying to figure out if a woman
is into you or not?
- Do you ever feel like women are completely alien to
you, and you have no idea where or how to relate to them?
- Do you ever feel nervous and paralyzed with fear when
you see a woman you want to talk to, but by the time you work up your courage,
- Do you feel like you can't "escalate" things
with a woman because you're afraid of making a mistake and blowing the
- Do you ever feel pissed at yourself for not knowing
how it works with women? And then you get more and more frustrated and
angry when you get more of the results you expect?
- Do you find yourself having trouble talking to women
and making the conversation go somewhere?
- Do you ever feel like you want to be totally prepared
to meet women, so that you don't run into unexpected challenges and surprises?
- Do you ever feel like giving up on women and their
crazy games, just because it's so tiring and futile?
- Do you ever feel insecure that you're not as tall,
good-looking, or rich as other guys out there?
- Do you ever feel embarrassed or ashamed of your sexual
desires of women? And you fear what a woman would say if she knew about
what you wanted from her?
- Do you ever feel like you get way up "in your
head" when you're around a woman you find attractive and desirable?
And then your mouth turns to mush?
- Do you ever feel like there's some special training
on understanding women that you missed out on as a kid that you should
have had? And now you're playing 'catch-up,' but you feel completely lost?
- Do you ever find yourself panicking when a woman becomes "emotional," and
you don't know what to do or how to handle it?
- Do you ever feel like there's a special "higher
level" woman that you don't have access to? The more beautiful and
- Would you like to meet one special woman to sleep
with, create a relationship with, or just connect on an intense level,
but you're afraid she either doesn't exist, or she just wouldn't be interested
Well, I can tell you from years of experience
that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.
When you feel like you're not as good as
other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are
as a man.
A few years back, I had what you might call
I'm not going to bore you with all the details,
but let's just say that my dating life was really empty. I went for about
a year without a girlfriend of any kind. I was meeting the occasional girl,
but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground. (I think they call this "failure
I went out all the time and hung out with
my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I
was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly
ever get a phone number or date.
And if I did get a date, it always ended
up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy."
But I'd also look at my guy friends who
had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or
all that smart."
I Had To Figure It Out:
"How In The
Guys Doing It?"
I asked myself that over and over again.
I started to get really frustrated, and
then I even got angry with women over it. I felt myself blaming them for
my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem. It was very tempting
to give up and just write women off completely.
But then I had a realization...
If there were things other guys were doing
that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was,
and then learn it and use it myself. I had been learning songs on guitar
for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why
would this be any different?
Well, I learned a few things...
Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something
First, it's not the same as just learning
the "notes" on sheet music. I'd ask guys what they were doing to
get women interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. "Just be
confident," one guy said. "Act like you don't care," another
one told me.
Wow. That's a big help.
The truth is that once you do figure out
the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple. You just need
to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right.
You need someone who's been through all
the same things you have.
Lesson 2: Attraction Can't Be FORCED.
Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted
to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. I never talked
a woman into liking me.
On the other hand, when I learned the right
steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do
all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway.
Attraction isn't LOGICAL. It's emotional.
But the funny thing about attraction is
that it does work by predictable laws.
Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden
And then you'll get more and more success.
And the other cool thing is that when you
know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat
your successes. Over and over and over, as much as you want.
Here are a couple tips I learned along the
way that will help you...
FAST SUCCESS TIP #1: "Tease
I call this technique "Tease to Please",
and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense
mechanisms against meeting 'strange' men. You see, every woman
comes with her factory-installed defensive shields against meeting new
men or letting them into her life.
When a guy approaches her, for any reason, the
woman assumes you're picking up on her. It's what she's gotten
used to. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine they
use of being a little stand-offish to you until you can bust
past this barrier.
Instead of complimenting a woman when you
first meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her.
Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would
on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... you don't
have cooties, do you? I don't want to catch anything from you."
By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip
her Trust switch in her head. You see, she starts out needing
to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes
you as a friend.
Translation: “Friend” =
non-lover, a man she won’t sleep with.
If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is
he safe? Is he normal?" For all she knows, you're just another dweeb
looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.
Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words
and actions) that you might be more challenging. You're different -
i.e., interesting to her. Maybe you’re not just
another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.
Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction.
Don't make it cruel, but make it clear that you're not intimidated by
her beauty. Make it playful and fun. If you're reading
her body language well enough, you'll be able to take this as far as
IMPORTANT NOTE: Most guys will be afraid of making
a woman mad, and will fear using this tactic, even though it
makes complete sense to women and it will work like crazy on them.
If you play it her way, you're going to have to spend weeks and weeks,
dates and more dates, money and more money, on a woman just
to get her to open up and believe you're a good guy.
The best way is to learn how to shortcut
past this and get women attracted right away. No more wasting time or energy
on women that aren't what you want.
Do you ever feel like attraction between
you and a woman is like some kind of magic 'trick'...?
And that it's something cool that you can see other guys do, but you'll never
really "get it"?
Some guys out there will tell you that you
need to get your "inner game" of confidence and self-esteem all
taken care of before you can meet women and get more dates.
This is popular advice from people who don't
understand how to train guys properly.
The most important thing for you to do is
to get what I call "Fast Success." I'm not talking about the kind
that you were warned about by your Jedi grandfather, who told you to "beware
of the easy path."
Fast Success is getting you results as quickly
as possible so you don't quit too soon!
So your first step is to learn the basic
skills so you can get those quick victories and teach your "unconscious
mind" that you can do this.
Let me give you an example of something
quick and easy that you can use the next time you're out talking to a woman...
FAST SUCCESS TIP #2: "Conversation
Have you ever been talking to a woman for
a few minutes, and as the energy of the conversation starts to dip a little
(right about where you are running out of things to say) she just
looks back to her friends and turns her back to you?
I call this the "back turn," and
it's one of those experiences guys hate more than anything. You get that
sick feeling of not just being ignored, but de-valued as
well. It feels like a punch in the stomach.
Even though she didn't actually do it or
say it out loud, you feel like she just laughed and called you a loser.
Let me give you the best strategy you can
use when you sense that this situation is coming up and you might lose her...
Just look at the girl and ask her to tell
you how everyone in her group knows each other. You can say this:
"Hey, before you run out of
cool things to talk about, tell me... How do you all know each other?"
If you listen closely, what she says will
give you at least ten new subjects that you can then talk with her and her
friends about - their jobs, their history, all the juicy stuff you can use
for a good conversation.
Plus, by getting her friends back in on
the conversation, you avoid that "creepy guy hitting on their friend" situation.
You may know this one, too, where you're talking with a woman, and suddenly
one of her friends drags her away to go talk with some other "friend."
What really happened there was that the
girl you were talking to used her "chick code" (those looks women
share that seem telepathic) to say, "I need to find a new conversation..."
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- Learn the Secret Attitudes behind the Myths
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how to get to be the type of guy that women want...
- Why you must avoid the "Poison Women" -
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- The 5 Reasons you must do exactly the
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if you don't know the rules...
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- 15 Attraction Killing behaviors -
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Playing - Two more deadly pitfalls to avoid when dating
women - and how guys "learn" their anger toward women accidentally...
- Why women put up defensive shields to you, and
how you can easily talk past them and create REAL connections...
- 13 simple words that will get
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- Beware the "Date Questionnaire" mode,
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"Hey Carlos, One honest thing I could say about [The Dating Black Book] is that compared to other authors (I've read quite a few) this is the BEST.
Period. I've swept the whole thing several times, and now I use it as a reference manual, it's been real helpful."
"Instead of promising supersonic seduction with canned speeches, you tell it like it is so you can get results by being yourself - thank you... I have spent hundreds of dollars on other "information" and yours covers the most topics ... [there's] no theory-only B.S. here.
It would take you hundreds of hours, thousands of dollars and lots of heartache to figure out what Carlos has done for you. If you have ever wondered why the jerks get all the girls - you need this book."
- C, Milwaukee, WI
"Your observations and conclusions reveal a great deal of insightful analysis. Like most guys frustrated with women, I typically just 'shrug my shoulders' and never adequately reflect on what or why something happened.
The Dating Dynamics Black Book successfully helps men begin to more fully understand cognitive behavior (emotional and behavioral problems) and dating, an area where many women often have maintained a slight advantage. I am genuinely impressed!"
- S.F. in San Francisco
The Dating Black Book is written for the intelligent man, who has taken women on dates too many times just to hear them say:
"You're so nice!
I'd like to just be friends..."
"I've been studying your techniques for almost a month now and wow what a difference!
Just a few short weeks ago I was recovering from a breakup- not my decision, feeling sorry for myself, and in a 'funk.'
After studying the Dating Dynamics™ program for a few weeks now my reality is beginning to change because I'm successfully creating the reality that I want!
If I'm doing this good after only a few weeks, imagining one year from now is almost scary! Thanks!"
"Carlos, I read your ebook 'The Dating Black Book' and I must admit I'm impressed. On many occasions I remember having a smile on my face and thinking, AH-HAAAAA.
Your material was VERY easy to read and constantly kept my interest peaked. Many situations you discussed I could closely relate to. I am astonished how you outlined in detail the dating process from start to finish. This book is a great reference manaul that every guy should have when in a 'jam'"
- J.O. from Pennsylvania.
Carlos Xuma is the cement that will lock in your "inner game," "outer game," and your Motivation...
"Just thought I'd write you an email and say that the stuff in your book is great and its changing a lot of things for me. Already working, getting phone numbers and meeting girls I never would have approached before.
Initially I thought your ebook would be a corny thing ... but I bought it out of curiosity, and its really great. Basically what I'm saying is, Thanks..."
- Josh E.
"Big Carlos! You should win the Nobel Prize of Peace, for your contribution to the well-being of mankind!
I truly believe that the stuff you teach is a lot more important for the peace in our lives and houses than anything else one can learn at school, with our parents, from (the pundits) books and from television.
What you teach to us is a lot more than 'how to get laid.' I believe that it is a lot more about how to be a man, go for what you want and to get it. The psychological principles you teach to us are the ones that FIRST make us better and stronger men and BECAUSE of that, make us able to get laid more often.
I'm not kidding you, man! I teach at a university! I'm serious! You certainly deserve an 'double' A++
Keep doing the EXCELENT job!"
- N. in Portugal
Don't talk yourself out of what you know you must do.
Take care of this area NOW - Once and for all.
"Your e-book and audio course is super-stuff! Really I searched for a long time [for] some material related the alpha maleness attitude, I've found so little about, but since I found your Dating Black Book...
It's the best all around. It also gives superior insights about THE REAL MALE attitude ... you really get it!"
- D., Italy
"Your information is worth millions and every male alive needs to have this information at their disposal ...this information has contributed to my success with women and without it, I would be very lost in the game of dating - thanks..."
"I got so intrigued and into it that I'm already finished with it, and look forward to reading it again, more than once, and especially looking at certain highlights numerous times. It all makes sense now. No meditation technique or anything you have to awaken from by counting to 5. Your book was the real deal and ... is a steal for this wealth of information and enlightenment..."
- J.K., Washington, D.C.
" check out Carlos Xuma's Dating Black Book. With over 400 pages of "written
smoke", this manuscript is a MUST READ for all men from the beginner to
the seasoned vet...."
- Angel Eyes, Devil's Smile review
"So I met this girl at work and started applying some stuff in this book. Its really amazing man. It literally feels like my whole reality has changed and I've been able to attract girls much more often then I use to. It does require practice though, but I've been working on it daily and its become easier and easier to get girls. Carlos helped teach me some very specific techniques that were amazing and things that I thought would never work. Turns out that they work perfect and I'm still continuing to improve. There so much info in this book it took me several weeks of continious reading to get through. Great book Carlos. Thanks."
- Ronnie N.