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The "Dating Black Book" has been reviewed by many site editors. Here is what they have to say....



Review by TokyoPUA, Fast Seduction 101

I've often said that the reason we need advice on women at all is that our fathers didn't or couldn't take the time to teach us what we needed to know (and our mothers taught us the wrong things). What I felt like while reading this book was that a combination of a martial arts sensei, a wise man, a great sales man, a seductionist, and finally dear old dad were all rolled into one giving me the kind of great advice I needed years and years ago.

If you are the type of person who thinks "better late than never" then give this book a good reading. Like the author says in one of his cool, yellow highlighted quotes "You don't know enough to be pessimistic". And if you are looking to better your success with women, you don't know enough not to learn even more by buying this incredible book.

A good PUA (pick-up artist) I once met said "you have to run it like a business", meaning that you have to be serious and systematic towards your approach to success with women. I would say that like no other book I have read on the subject of women, The Dating Black Book brings together examples from actual business (sales in particular) to show you how to really apply strategy and tactics based on sound knowledge to your pursuit of women...

In The Dating Black Book, you find out how to apply this concept to dating and success with women, and how to keep on track with the goals that you set, by following various stages he sets forth for you...

I also found myself during the course of reading the book facing personal and business issues that needed strength and resolve, and every time I would come back to reading this book, I found that it would give me encouragement just due to all the positive, logical, and upbeat advice it was giving.

For example, a key element to this book is pragmatism, the idea of living in the real world and seeing things (women in particular) for what they really are, and dealing with things accordingly. It is sprinkled with wise advice like this that will help you improve your life in general, not just in the area of seduction and dating...

Here is some other miscellaneous cool stuff that you will also find in the over 200 pages of this book:
  • "Top Ten Dating Mistakes"
  • Availability ˆ when and when not to be available, how to schedule dates
  • Why you don't want to have too many women friends (I'd never thought of or heard this before, but it makes sense how he explains it)
  • Great explanation on the power and use of infrequent and unexpected reinforcement
  • How to deal with competition from other guys
  • The control principle
  • What women want (a list worth memorizing)
  • Types of women (good and bad) and what to look for and what to screen against
In summary, this was a great book that will help you with dating women. To quote one of my favorite highlighted passages from the book, "it is better to regret the things you did than the things that you didn't".

If you aren't getting all the success you want with women, then not buying this book now could be one of those decisions that you will regret later.


Review by Teddy Shabba, www.dating-advice-coach.info

Too many books dealing with meeting and dating women focus on techniques instead of the basic fundamentals of what actually attracts women to men. In fact this is the main reason why so many nice guys have problems actually getting any further than the first few dates with women and that's if they find the courage to actually use the techniques on women.

However, Carlos Xuma in his book "The Dating Black Book" shows men the basic fundamentals of attracting and being successful with women. The Dating Black Book starts off explaining the importance of actually improving yourself and building self confidence to attract women.

If you are looking for a sugar coated version of what it is going to take then this is Not the book for you.

After covering the different aspects of your inner game as well as how to build your self confidence, Carlos moves on to actually show you how to find a girlfriend or women for a long-term relationship.

Many times men have a tendency to get comfortable with a woman quite early and end up in a relationship they do not want and do not know how to get out of. The Dating Black Book helps you understand what to look for in a good woman and what to watch out for in a Not so good woman.

To finish off the book Carlos quickly covers the basics on sex as well as some additional resources for men to read that will help improve a mans life in general.

Overall, if you have ever read anything that Carlos Xuma has written on dating and women then you already know that he has a lot of very useful information and knowledge to give men and The Dating Black Book will help you get even more of that information and knowledge.

I would highly recommend this book to the majority if not all Nice Guys or Recovering Nice Guys out there who are struggling with some of the concepts and techniques that other guys teach.

If you want to just be yourself and attract women then The Dating Black Book by Carlos Xuma is for you.


Review by Jack Kammer, author of "If Men Have All the Power, How Come Women Make the Rules?"

Carlos Xuma is like that older, wiser brother you always wished you had. He comes home and sits on your bed and talks to you. You love him because you know that he cares about you. He wants you to do well, to be happy. He doesn't brag, he just tells you what he knows and you know he knows what he's talking about. He admits his mistakes and tells you what he's learned from them. He wants you to grow up right, as a man of power, pride and integrity. Because of him you're ready to overcome the obstacles and inequities the world throws in your path. You feel like the luckiest kid in the world. And in a way, since you've found Carlos Xuma, you are...


Review by Matthew Doeing, Getsexy.com - Ugly Man's reviews

Over 200 pages of very serious, very beneficial advice. Mr. Xuma has put together an extremly good study course here that is informative and easy to read. He understands the fundamental flaws in most men's behavior when it comes to their lack of success with women and his book does a damn good job of setting them straight.

Get [the e-books] and learn about 'The Big Trap', 'The Three Stages Of Continuum', 'What Women Really Want', 'The Female Sex Types' and much, much, more. This is a good read and will definitely help you in your quest to please women!

Rating = 5 Diamonds


Review by Dusan Belic, Great-Dating-Services.com

Great work! Since I'm personally involved in the online dating business, I must say I was impressed with the information that you've provided in your ebook. As you mentioned, this is more than just a dating guide - it is a collection of priceless information on how to improve one's life in general. Everyone who follows the instructions given in your book will definitely benefit from it -- a MUST HAVE for all single men out there!!!


Review by Freedatingtips.net

What I like about this e-book is that it sees dating as a "dynamic" relationship... meaning it's constantly changing and shifting. Unlike most ebooks that seem to be modeled after the "macho American" way of getting laid, The Dating Black Book has a lot of eastern philosophy that blends very nicely into the body of the book.

Don't know how to approach a girl? Don't know how to get her phone number? The Dating Black Book will show you all.

With over two hundred pages of well-written material, it could very well be "the" Black Book you need to improve your game.

Rating: 4.5 / 5


Review by D. Kwan, DatingClass.com

Carlos knows exactly what he's doing and reveals all in his Dating Black Book. You can't go wrong when you follow what he teaches. I can tell you that he studies this game like an expert...

He invests both his time and money to provide his subscribers with the best dating tips, resources and information. I already got more than my money's worth from his Dating Black Book and highly recommend it to you...