Peacock Theory - and Inner Game
QUESTION FROM A READER:
"hey what you think about peackcock theory of mystery, cause i like to use special hat even before to know about the pua, i think is veeery usefull to open, thats the sticking point of all the people."
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
Well, believe it or not, this is an important INNER game question.
First of all, I always suggest that if something works for you - USE IT!
But always know WHY you're using it.
In other words, are you relying on your funny hat to do what you can be doing with your own personality? Or are you just in a situation where a little visual flair works to get people talking and interested?
I have my own peacocking items, too. But they're all personal to ME.
I have a pair of New Rock boots that are pretty cool, and I like to wear a special necklace when I go out. One or the other will eventually get attention.
But again, we Alpha Men are working towards the right goal - which is to be completely powered by our inner game, not slapping on some visual aids to make up for holes inside of us where we don't feel adequate.
I honestly feel like my personality is the craziest hat of all, and I wear that wherever I go. And often it's the silent knowledge that once I get going I'm going to have fun that gives me a calm sense of confidence in any situation.
Do you remember the kid at the playground that was always saying: "Look at me! Look at me!"
He got tiring. Pretty darn quick.
They say the empty can rattles the most, and this is so true.
So the two-prong advice I have for you is this:
1) If you need something to get you out there and opening women up for conversation, and it does the trick - then USE IT. Because being out there and talking to women is always better than NOT being out there.
2) Once you've evolved past this need, I suggest you get rid of the tricks. Because after a while, they become a crutch, and you'll find that your inner game will do much better when you are self-reliant and generating your Alpha Power from INSIDE.
What I see is that often times guys will use a quick gimmick - some outer game patch - to cover up the parts of them that they feel are inadequate or insecure about.
And that's a shame, because so many guys could be getting those areas TOTALLY fixed if they just do a few small things.
Most guys think that inner game work is the hardest, when in fact it's actually easier and more powerful than most of the routines out there.
Just remember, always ask yourself - WHY?
That's usually just as important as the WHAT.
