"Hi Carlos & staff. I have enjoyed the Alpha Man program, the Advanced Coaching, and now the Approach Now programs... Your stuff IS the best... "

- Randy J.
"That was f*ckin' awesome! Finally, someone detailing out the main tactical step in talking with women in simple, rational, effective terms. I can definitely understand how it will work to dissolve approach anxiety..."

- Andy H.
"I cant thank you enought man, this is def a major turning point for me. great message..."

- Ian
"I have already bought your Power Social Skills, and... it it is the best and the only program of its kind out there dealing with the tiniest subtle social cues..."

- J.H. - New York
"Hey Carlos, Thanks a lot for your products. They're really good stuff. I've been an introvert since I was 5 up to around 18. It's quite a long time... Your products really helped introduced a new sense of what "lifestyle" means in me..."

- B. F. - Brooklyn, NY
"Carlos has made me from wimp to champ now. I started reading his material when I was 17, I am 20 now. People have noticed a HUGE difference.

It feels very rewarding after you put in the work and people start commenting on your new behaviours. If it wasn't for Carlos i'd probably still be a virgin..."

- Justin G. - Canada
"Hey dude, You are great.... Your materials helped me to build that logic in the dating world. In just three weeks, I went from zero to ten. :) I am meeting with attractive women, left and right nowadays. It is a blast. :)

Thanks a lot. Keep on motivating people."

- Cem
"Awesome! Talk about a shot of the truth! Keep up the good work!"

- Tobi
"That was f*cking outstanding, Carlos. You said what had to be said in the clearest and simplest terms. You are so inspirational and motivational...You're a great writer and speaker... I can't thank you enough for all the pumpitude!"

- T. P.
"Powerful stuff Carlos I intend to listen many more times. I felt like a new man after hearing this..."

- John
"You hit life right on the head. You may have called it ranting....I think it was both ballsy and cool - thanks for the advice..."

- M.
"I'm running 3 girls from listening to your stuff and reading your lit thanks..."

- DC
"I bought your "Alpha Lifestyle: Triple-Threat Program" ... and needless to say it rocks! - thank you so much..."

- Heiko S. - Berlin, Germany
"Thank you so much carlos for your advice it is the best and you're the best....wow"

- Ary - United Kingdom
"Your dating materials are WORTH THEIR WEIGHT IN GOLD!!! I seriously have improved my skills with women because of you man! Thank you SO MUCH!"

- Drew M. - Auburn, AL
"One of the things I like about the course, is that Carlos wants us to be ourselves and not tell women a bunch of lies just to get them. This is important to me and also, keep you from getting into the cycle of telling more lies to cover the one told before.

I also like how he lays out his course in clear and easy to understand language. Thanks, Carlos."

- Will W.
"Carlos your programs are awesome. i could go on and on... I have the dbb and am reading Secrets of Alpha Man..."

- Alex D.,
"...I've chosen to stop reading David DeAngelo's e-mails in light of better material from men such as yourself..."

- Abel G.
" First things first: your products are first rate --- no guy should interact, let alone look at a woman without first purchasing then studying your material (be it the ebooks, the audio coaching, or the DVDs). I've recommended your products to friends across Canada..."

- Ken
"I have been studing dating material over 5 years now and my heart resonates most with the stuff that you teach. It really helped me out from some of my limiting beliefs and put forward more my real personality.

Seriously ... Thank you SO much. "

- J.
"I'm a big fan of Carlos Xuma's work. He fits squarely in the Natural Structured methods, teaching men to be confident in general, and only after that in their dealings with women..."

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"Your the f*cking man, gave me a 180 degree turn around in life. Got my first girlfriend and have never been happier..."

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"Hi Carlos, I love your advice, it is really helpful, I've gotten other products and I believe you are one of the best at what you do..."

- Berto F., Oceanside, CA
"My Dear Freind Carlos, Thanks for the lexicon. Your stuff really rocks, man! No wonder you are at the top of your game. It's great to learn from a master like you..."

- Matt D.
"Carlos, You really are brilliant!"

- R. S., Beverly Hills
"Dear Carlos, After reading your 70 something page masterpiece, I became filled with an incredible sense of urgency to do something more with my life, my relations with family and friends, my outlook, and my attitude.

Aside from the advice for getting better with females, your advice on becoming a man with ambition and a sense of being is something that is invaluable.

Those words were pure gold, and there are no words to explain my gratitude for you writing them and making them available to me, but I just wanted to write you and thank you anyway.

I've been on the mailing list for David D. and Mystery, and your e-mails are the only ones that make sense to me. I trust what you have to say, and look very much forward to anything else you have to offer. Best wishes,"

- A.G.
"Hey Carlos I want you to know that all your stuff absolutely rocks. I've been using your Seduction Method with women and I've become an awsome ladie's man..."

- Nizu A., Mexico
"Hey Carlos, I've recently been reading your newsletter and your Dating Black Book, and I've found both incredibly helpful... "

- Fraser W., West Sussex, England
"Thanks for all your advice and effort ... You wouldn't believe what a difference it has made in my life..."

- Gerhard V.
"Carlos provides extremely insightful ideas about what it takes to approach women, and build the attraction necessary to get them interested in you. There are many, many sources for dating advice, but only Carlos seems to be able to put everything you need to know into simple terms, and easy-to-understand analogies.

Whether it be his use of martial arts ideas and terminology, or his examples found in movies we have all seen, Carlos always manages to find a way to break through to me, and make me have that elusive Aha!, or Eureka! moment.

What can I say? The Approach Women Now program is awesome."

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"I have now got to the point where women can't stop chasing me..."

- M.K.M.
"Your Dating Black Book is fantastic, by the way. So much information..."

- Matt
"This DVD set is simply amazing. It can change your life forever and for the better. The amount of information that Carlos and his friends share in the DVDs will definitely make you live the alpha-lifestyle.

Since I got the DVDs I watch them over and over again and I definitely notice an improvement in myself, I feel happier, more confident to talk to women and now there is NO ONE in the world who can change that.

THE ALPHA LYFESTYLE TRIPLE THREAT is DEFINITELY a must for anyone out there who are willing to improve their lifestyle."

- R. D.
"Calos, I want to thank you for all of your help, and to let to know that your programs are really good stuff with tons of useful knowledge..."

- Greg C.
"Carlos, I must say that after listening to the [Approach Women] CDs I had to go out and give it a try... with unexpected consequences. Suddenly a new world opened up for me!

I don't have to think anymore what to say when approaching women. I get good responses (smiles on their faces! and sometimes more). Keep up the good work! "

- G. K.
"Carlos, your stuff really open my eyes and help me become a better lover... "

- Willy L.
"Just sitting back admiring how well your programs are put together...

You are definitely a stand out relationships and dating expert. It is always great to read your stuff ..."

- David B.
"Carlos! I just want to take a minute to compliment you on your work. I've read a lot about the PUAthing and I got a lot of info and material but had often a hard time relating with it, it wasn't me you know.

So rather then making me more at ease with the whole thing it actualy stressed me out a little; in approaching women instead of more in control in felt more uncomfortable and less natural, like a athlete being filled up with things to do by his coach decreasing all his natural abilities.

Things changed when I heard your interview with David De Angelo (interview with Dating Gurus) and I could directly realy relate to the things you said. This is the stuff! ...your work eases me down instead of gets me uptight and that's one of the Alpha male characteristics I think.

Your approach about changing who you are in stead of who you 'act to be' ... really changed my views on things. Thanks for that man.

Looking forward to your next newsletters."

- Roel W., Amsterdam, Holland
"Love the material ... the genuine approach works better than any canned material its all about delivery and belief in yourself and what you are doing... Am having great fun with meeting new people and being more attractive...Thank you Carlos"

- Craig R.
"Prior to obtaining the Secrets of the Alpha Man, I was your typical "beta, nice guy, average frustrated chump." Years of programming from my father led me to believe that I was not worthy of women or of success.

My initial purpose for obtaining the tapes was to improve my belief in myself, improve my over-all self confidence and to learn social dynamics for improving myself in social and professional enviroments. After listening to the tapes over and over again, I began to see the patterns that have plagued me and affected my life for so many years.

One by one I have began to replace old beliefs with new ones. In regards to women, I used to go numb and shy away from beautiful women. Now when I see a women I remind myself, "They do all the disgusting things in private that I do, so they are no better than me." I no longer think, "Oh yeah....definitely." Now I think, "Maybe or no. They have to prove their worth to me first."

The funny thing is, it works!! I no longer get nervous around beautiful women. Thanks Carlos for your help!"

- John S.
"I have to say, you were the first person who introduced me to this Forum, and you and you... have extremely sound and "HEALTHY" exercises, advice, for either Gender, and responsibilities that go with open dating, and respect for what it is ultimately to achieve...

[I] have found it much easier to really express who I am by implementing some of these techniques, offered here, on these sites...

Keep up the good work, Outstanding. "

- blshollenberger@yahoo.com
"Hi Carlos, [The Dating Black Book] is unbelievable. I'm 42,and now know to possess the "3 S's." Thanks 4 the 411!"

- Rocco S., Los Angeles CA
"...You've got some great stuff to offer. Your Alpha MANual was (#&$ing AWESOME!! That's the kind of stuff I'd LOVE to get more of...

Thanks again for all the time and effort you've put into creating materials for guys/helping guys to live their lives better :) You're an example of the less than 1% of people I'd be interested in getting to know better... "

- Andy H., Japan
"Great program, but I'm getting married now... Thanks for the help Carlos. You rock!"

- Andy J.
"Hey Carlos, i'm currently reading your Dating Dynamics EBook and I can't wait to get the money to buy your "Alpha Man Conversation and Persuasion"...

Your ideas are just brilliant...I'm loving your EBook and I'm only 8 pgs in... I actually felt a very positive "high" from reading this..."

- Robert M., Newark, NJ
"I should tell you that since getting your e-mails and buying some of your products a few months ago, I've definitely noticed that for whatever reason, I'm meeting and attracting more and more of the girls I want to meet. Like, each girl gets better than the last. And for the first time in about 5 years, I meet a girl who I can see myself in a relationship with. I guess I'm a little shocked and don't know how to handle it!

Thanks man..."

- Dan S.
"Carlos, I recently got your Conversation & persuasion program, it is fantastic..."

- R.S.
"By 2004, it had been a good five year without a proper date or a girlfriend for me. I came across Carlos stuff in early 2004 and step by step I broke out from my rusty shell.

From a self loathing, below average loser who could not stand looking at himself in the mirror I became a confident man, my life improved, there is No scarcity of women in my life, but this is not ONLY about women, it is about my body, my soul, my mind, my life's objectives , my everything.

I think Carlos is a messanger to improve our lives, and his commitment to his mission is an example for me, to give every task I set out to do, all my heart and soul.

I admit it is hard to stay on the ALPHA path, but Carlos is here to guide us. "

- Ramin T.- Toronto, Canada
"I just wanted to thank you for starting me in the right direction to tapping the inner Alpha Male that has been laying dormant in me for over 12 years. Your weekly aplha tips, and Alpha Immersion DVD series is helping me be my true self and further enhancing my life with my new girlfriend who is the love of my life. Thank you so much, Carlos!"

- Chris L.
"I have to tell you that you truly have changed my life. Buying your book was one of the best things I have ever done. I am still in the process of absorbing and putting into practice what you've taught me but I can tell you that I feel more confident and better about my dating situation then I can ever remember. Thank you and keep the advice coming! "

- WIll A.
"Hi Carlos, the Secrets of the Alpha Man program is the best I've come across so far. I'm getting good results..."

- Randy
"I find your newest program "Power Social Skills" unbelievable. I love how you talk about social skills on a general level rather than just pickup skills. Its really great..."

- Ron N.
"Before I even started with the Alpha man programme. I had never in my life even asked a girl out. But since starting with the e-books and audio sessions, my world has been opened up to a whole world of possibilities with women.

Carlos hits it right on the money. I'm creating interest with women even before I start talking to them, just by using the guides on body language and behaviour I'm able to create an impression on which to build. This is the best New Years resolution ever!!!"

- R. J.
" I am so glad that I ran into your material a couple of months ago because without it my life would totally be different without it. Not just in the women department, but almost every aspect. Because of the confidence that I have gained from listening to your stuff I've become a different man. I'm still in college but I'm working in a job that requires a college degree which is so awesome!

Hey just want to say that you're stuff is so amazing it's ridiculous! My skill with women has gone up by so much, and so has my skill in other conversation as well. "

- Aaron S., Washington
"Hi, you wont believe this. I am 55, she is 20 and can you believe it, she does not mind dating me in the least... Thanks to your tips... love you."

- A. Khan
"I have been receiving newsletters from you for a couple of months now and I'm comparing it to other newsletters that I'm also receiving from other 'gurus', and you sir, stand out!... I'm going to try your program and I'm hoping to really learn from you sir as I think you have a more comprehensive program than the rest of the dating gurus out there."

- E. Gruta
"Your products have been the best investment I've ever made! I'm MASSIVELY more confident with women now. I have virtually no problem just striking up a conversation with any girl that catches my eye! Its amazing, where I'm now, life is great! I've had your news letters for a long time now, and they've made me realise how I can change my life for the better, all it takes is a little bit of effort!"

- A. Cunningham
"It totally rocks man! Keep up the awesome work!"

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"Thanx Carlos... The information you've given me thus far is invaluable... I've even tried one or two things and it's worked... This has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for me... ;-) Awesome! Thank you!"

- R. Joel
"Alpha Communication & Persuasion... great program... dense as hell and not a second wasted, totally exceeded my expectations..."

- S. Minassian
"Keep up the good work Carlos!! You're the only person in this community giving 'real' advice not based on gimmickry, and your monthly coaching is extremely listenable..."

- N. Durant, London, England
"My luck with women has really changed after using the Secret of the Alpha Man program. Thanks Carlos!"

- Estuardo A.
"All your stuff is AMAZING!!! Thank you so much!!!"

- Nathan S.
"The Dating Black Book has been instrumental in making good decisions on dates as well as managing my emotions against falling into one-itis..."

- R. J., Ohio
"AWESOME MATERIALS !!!"

- J.M.
"Your Conversation program is Sensational!"

- Vaughn B., Boston, MA
"I'm telling you the dating black book is a great way to start into the dating scene! This stuff unleashed my inner alpha that has been dormant for soo many years. Looking back, what a shame. Thanks Carlos for an eye opening experience! "

- Curtis, J.
"[Alpha Conversation & Persuasion] Awesome Material!! You truly covered it all. Just the program I was waiting for."

- R.S., Morton, PA
"The stuff is right on, as an older guy you get to a point in life and want answers or at least confirmation of what you've learned is the best way to live. Alpha man is the only way to go, even without the women the personal sense of confidence and self-esteem is worth the price of admission, it's helped me confirm what I believe and opened my mind to a few things I havn't thought of . "

- A. G., California
"Do you REALLY want to make a CHANGE in your life?
Do you REALLY want to live up to your DREAMS?
Do you REALLY want more GIRLS in your life?
Do you REALLY want to have SUCCESS with women and relationships?
Get CARLOS stuff. IT KICKS! Believe me!! No Kidding!!!"

- G. Rocco
"I am probably much older than your average client, however I think there are so many 'older' guys who still have questions and want answers, your Alpha Man course gives those answers, I bought seduction courses, cocky comedy stuff but they didn't quite fit until I recieved Alpha Man, your Alpha Man program is the FOUNDATION that makes anything else work, without the correct foundation anything else is just parrotting someone else and won't have the NECESSARY attitude to really effectively execute their 'seduction or comedy'."

- A. Gunter
"I've only listern to about half, and I'm blown away by the information in it.

I have ordered and read other cd's on the same topic, but this is terrific for the buy. I can't wait to finish this course just to watch it again, and it's only day two."

- R. Spencer
"Hey Carlos! This advice is spot on man! I've been listening to you ... for well over a year now. While I still have a ways to go, I'm finding that practicing these techniques and (moreso) ATTITUDES are changing not only my outlook on getting women, but on life in general as well. You guys are awesome!"

- Glenn
"The Dating Black Book has changed my life. Ultimately, it led me to believe in myself and my innate abilities. That is why I recommend this book to my friend. It doesn't change who you are, but it allows you to be who you really are. And you don't beat around the bush, no bullshit here."

- E. Cannell
"Your 'Secrets of the Alpha Man' is the best book I've ever read. Thank you a million times over; completely eye opening."

- John Battista
"I bought your Secrets of the Alpah man about a year ago and it has completely changed my life and my interaction with people. I am more confident, able to flirt with women effortlessly..."

- Damian N.
"hey whats up Carlos, it's Jason, a long-time reader/fan. I've been studying your scriptures and dvds and must say I am most definitely impressed. Trust me when I say, 'You are the dating guru'."

- Jason G.
"I am sending you this because I truly believe that you are value for money, providing with exceptionally unique and easy to understand mind blowing concepts and tools...

What sets Carlos apart from other dating coaches and experts is his sheer volume of invaluable and simple practical tools that he provides which you can use from Day 1.

Carlos teaches you how to teach yourself, so you don't need to rely on weird pick up lines, or weird rehearsed approaches. Carlos has an uncanny understanding of human behaviour which he explains with incredible precision.

His understanding on women is mind blowing, and when you hear him talk and explain, it all becomes so amazingly clear. No matter what situation you are in, if you are stuck in a deep rut, Carlos will guarantee to get you out of it..."

- A. J. Hussain
"I purchased Carlos Xuma's 'Dating Black Book' and 'The Secrets Of The Alpha Man' about a month ago, and I gotta tell you...the program has changed ENTIRELY my belief system AND my attitudes toward women and life. The moment I started listening to the easy-to-understand program and reading the e-book, I felt like an Alpha Man ALREADY.

I felt like I'm one of the LUCKIEST guys who has his hands on 'The Secrets of the Alpah Man'. Nowadays, I've the confidence and the right attitude toward dating and I'm starting to approach so many women that I never used to, and I'm carying myself with 'Alpha Body Language' and I'm getting LOTS of attention from women everywhere.

The moment I walk to different venues, such as restaurants, grocery stores, strees, subway, etc.. women start checking me out. They try to make eye contact with me, which is GREAT! This is GOLD guys! I'm looking forward to purchase more and more products of Carlos Xuma. I personally thank Carlos for doing a WONDERFUL job putting together all his the-hard-way learned stuff in an easy-to-understand program."

- Essa N.
"Carlos, I am finding your programs very useful in many areas of life. Much of this stuff is so simple, it should be common sense. But, most guys have never been exposed to these concepts. Most importantly, what these programs do is ignite a new thought process. I've looked at other programs and yours is the only one that goes directly to the root of the problem... Your programs are a step above all the others..."

- J.W. - Syracuse, NY
"Carlos Xuma's Alpha Man Program is the guide to being a man that most men are looking for. He teaches you how to develop qualities within yourself that naturally attract respect, money, and women into your life. As a man, you learn to live your life from the inside out. The more effort you put in, the more his program will work for you.

I know because I have been going through his material for only three months now, and my mindset on life has moved noticeably from timid wussy to alpha man. People now always tell me, "Gosh, you've changed so much," and they say it in an interested, intrigued manner.

The feeling you get from that makes Carlos's materials worth any price he puts on it."

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"I would recommend the Alpha Man Program to any guy. The best part of the semester was about how to develop your "Day Game" which has helped me to meet smart and sexy professional nurses and therapist at coffee shops, large business meetings, and professional semesters . Thanks, Carlos"

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"Carlos within the first week of getting these discs, I was already exercising this material. Now at least every week I'm talking and approaching women. And because this material is so versatile I've gone beyond talking to women, and now talking and approaching people...period.

Through this Approach Women-Now program, I've really opened up generally to the world. I find myself breaking out of my shell and becoming more expressive... I'm more intuitive and futher to the social world around me. [This program] has basically help me become a better, sociable man.

Thanks so much, and a bunch Carlos, keep on keepin' on. A desire accomplished is sweet to the soul.... "

- Victor A.
"I have recently purchased your Dating Black Book in paperback to save a little money on my utility bill, and I have to say it is absolutely amazing and the best dating book out there and I am only half way through it..."

- Jason H.