Dating Advice For Men

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Read about how other guys like you have MASSIVELY improved their dating skills with Carlos Xuma's programs...

"CX, you da man for making this program..."

"My biggest obstacle was thinking I could not fit the "image" of a Bad Boy". I have always noticed how women are drawn to this type of man. I want to be that type of man.

My results are positive. I notice women, and men by the way, treat me a little different than before.

I liked how Carlos defines a boundary between being a Bad Boy and being a jerk. He also warns how easy it can be for your girlfriend to leave you for a Bad Boy. Wow, I have a couple of painful experiences on that one!!! CX, you da man for making this program.

[I have] Self Confidence, a sense of Self Reliance, and an inner feeling that I can get an awesome girl that I once considered "out of my league".

I would recommend this to a close friend because I know about the struggles of men first hand."

- - Derek M. - Anderson, IN
"It became as easy as tying my shoes to approach and succeed with women..."

"My results are amazing. Not only has it became as easy as tying my shoes to approach and succeed with women but your products have made me a better man. Ya know, I think You taught me how to live with a mental strength that makes life my playground

Specifically, I liked the fact you teach from a place of power and truth without gimmicks - like I said my life has improved in every aspect

I would make it required reading for all men as it will awake your TRUE Alpha allowing you to realize the power we all posses that society tries to hide from us.

Can you imagine how the divorce rate, drug use, and violence would be absent if all men read your work and uncovered their Alpha?

I would recommend this program to a friend because it will change your life - happiness, women, emotional and mental strength will become your normal way of life"

- Ryan R. - Creston, IA
"I wouldn't hesitate to recommend the purchase of your products..."

"Skepticism was the biggest obstacle. I needed to do something positive to fix my attitude and my knowledge.

What I really like was that the real life experiences matched mine & I got the feeling that you were genuine in your attempts to share the information you had put together.

Your program gave me CONFIDENCE and I have only covered 20% of the book so far!!!!

What else does a person want!!! I am feeling on a daily basis that I can live my life as myself, I look forward to explosive expectations every day and the program pushed my positive attitude to life even higher.

I spent 3 years getting my Degree; I spent nothing on Relationships; even though I'm in the sunset of my life, the books/programs and articles that you produce are simply INVALUABLE.

If anyone wants to talk to me, I wouldn't hesitate to recommend the purchase of your products. "

- - Tom R. - South Australia
"I look at women completely differently now..."

"My biggest obstacle was getting laid and being comfortable around women. I tried to do everything I could to please them to make them like me.

I look at women completely differently now and I'm slowly becoming more confident in myself around women that I'm attracted to. It's helped me with a lot of inner game issues

Specifically, I liked your videos and your diagrams. Listening to you explain your material while you laid out the entire formula visually was a big help

I would recommend this program to my friends who, like me, have tried being the nice guy, given a woman everything they could to make her happy but still lost her..."

- Chris T. - Lancaster, PA
"After a while though I realized that what I needed was a short compact and yet comprehensive program without too much information.

My results are that after only a week I'm going on two dates with two different women, both of which are very extraordinary :)

One I met when I approached her directly, the other I met online when I fitted some of the principles in GGF to a more text based approach.

The program is simple and easy to learn, generally it gives you a very good picture of what it is women want, and it boosts your self confidence knowing how to behave around attractive women."

- Anders K - Denmark

"I'm buying it for my son as well..."

"I am feeling damn good about it!

Three other benefits are confidence building, enlightenment (education), and that it's great to be a guy. This program has actually helped me in general. Would I recommend this program? Hell yes, and already have. I'm buying it for my son as well.

Keep up the great work! "

- Rick W - Sacramento, CA
"You are top of the list by a landslide...."

"I've recommended and raved about all your programs . Even your programs that seem to emphasize the complex interactions upon approaching and dating women- I always try to convey that the main theme of the products are not based around manipulation or role playing . Many uninformed assume . It's about becoming the best you.

Please continue updating and making these programs available for men like me, in the past decade I've sampled pretty much every major self help / PUA Guru - You are top of the list by a landslide and even my second favorite for years collaborated with you many times. "

- Joseph N. - Brockton MA
"I am good enough to get any girl I want..."

"My biggest obstacle was not being able to keep a girl interested in me once had her. I was always giving her all the power. I was tired of feeling like crap for not being able to put girls in their place. I bought the program because I wanted more in my dating life.

I am putting your stuff into practice and talking to other women, ALL women.

Three other benefits are , 1. I am good enough to get any girl I want. 2. I am strong enough to let her go if she does'nt give me what I want. 3. I am putting myself first and my own happiness, without needing a woman to make me whole as a man.

...Your stuff woke me up. Guys need to learn that you don't have to lose your power to a women to make her want you.(When you do, you are never happy.) When a girl knows you can get another girl if she fucks up, it makes you more attractive.

Keep doing what you do. I think a lot of men could benefit from you. You helped me realize even though I'm a great guy, I was always afraid to put a girl in her place, which according to you is being a doormat. "

- Vladimir J - Cincinnati, OH
"Informative and detailed... must-know..."

"...excellent informative and detailed...

Specifically, I liked Everything. How detailed, organized, and outlined the system was the viewer.

...must-know for guys who are struggling with women "

- Josh S. - Alabama
"I now have the balls to push past it..."

  Press play to hear - Waleed A. - Sacramento, CA...
"My results are...well quite simply empowerment... I now have the balls to push past it and GSD if you know what I mean. Alpha Masculinity + Bad Boy Formula = BADASS

I also loved how you focus on making a well rounded man not just go to the club and try this line out attitude and approach.

Would you recommend this program to another guy?

YES! YES! YES! Honestly if you are a guy out there with the dealing of a lack of purpose as a man and without an masculine identity. These programs will walk you through it all.


- - Waleed A. - Sacramento, CA

Testimonials for Carlos Xuma's products

Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...

  Press play to hear Oliver T...
"If I knew about Carlos Xuma's products earlier in my life, it would have saved me a lot of years... Trust me, Carlos has changed my life -- he can change yours too!"

- Oliver T., CEO - Captivate 2 Connect

  Press play to hear Simon...
"... We're here to say with absolute CERTAINTY that you clearly deserve to be amongst the top 1% within the crowded triangle.... He always OVERDELIVERS in his dating programs and, long story short... his techniques WILL get you the results you want. Period."

- Simon Heong/David K- Publishers: Instant Approaching Secrets,
"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"

- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications,
"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. I highly recommend Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, it's 100% real."

- the dean,

  Press play to hear James...
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques..."

- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women

  Press play to hear Grant...
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character..."

- Adam Gilad, CEO -
"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."

- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"

  Press play to hear Dean...
"I've read every book and studied every system on dating and seduction. ... Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."

- Dean Cortez, M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator

  Press play to hear Rion...
"Carlos Xuma is on the 'dating forefront' of teaching guys in this area and he can help YOU fast-forward your own skills and confidence to get R.E.A.L. results with women."

- Rion Williams,

  Press play to hear Jason...
"I was blown away by how much this guy knows... I highly recommend learning from this man..."

- Jason K.

  Press play to hear Mehow...
"Great stuff... Really awesome... this stuff will put all the elements together man... I highly recommend it..."

- Mehow, In-field Insider

  Press play to hear David Shade...
"I can tell you that Carlos lives what he teaches... He is genuine, authentic, and very much in tune with people..."

- David Shade, Masterful Lover

"...guys need to know this..."

"My results are I am now aware of how being the nice guy and coming off as easy to get have been killing attraction to the girls I am interested in...

I liked how it outlines step by step the process a man needs to take and the mindset a man needs to have to attract the girls that are worth getting...

I never realized how I was destroying attraction by being the nice guy that I thought every girl wants...guys need to know this to be able to get the quality girls..."

- Ty L. - Dayton, OH
"I wish I would have found this material a lot sooner..."

" ** What is the biggest obstacle that prevented you (before now) from buying this program? My biggest obstacle was paying money for what I thought I could figure out for myself. I thought I had women figured out and that I didn't need "coaching".

I bought the programs after a heart wrenching break up and recognizing I kept getting stuck in the same patterns, ending up blind sided when my most recent relationships ended seemingly "out of the blue"

I would recommend this program to another guy because no matter how successful and confident a guy may be, there's always room for improvement and sometimes we all need some a refresher to break out of our ruts and find our focus again.

I wish I would have found this material a lot sooner. It could've saved me a lot of heartache and frustration.

Now I'm more confident now that using this material will help me in the relationship areas I've been lacking in."

- Eric D. - Syracuse NY
"These programs have improved and changed my life..."

"I have gone from a shy guy with no girlfriend or social skills to having fantastic social skills and currently dating at least 5 high quality women.

Specifically, I liked the overall win-win philosophy and the the angle that woman should be an addition to a fulfilled life.

These programs have improved and changed my life more than any other material I have encountered... I have reaped more benefits and improvements from these courses than anything else in my life!!!

Carlos Xuma walks the talk!!! His programs are the best and life changing. His books have allowed me to improve my social and dating life 1000 fold. I would gladly buy any new programs put out by him and have to utmost respect for his work.

I would just like to say, thanks!!! If you become a multi millionaire from your work you deserve it!! "

- Jim S. - Shiloh, IL
"Puts most PUAs material to shame. GREAT JOB!"

"Bare-bones facts that guys should know. I love this program! A great cut through the bullshit that puts most PUAs material to shame. GREAT JOB!"

- James K - Chicago
"You will NEVER find this kind of information anywhere else..."

"I felt that me getting this program was not really an option, it was an absolute NECESSITY!

My results are me being a lot more aware and actually much more confident now after listening and now finally finishing the program for the first time.

I really do believe that this program is one of a kind because I don't think there's really anybody else out there that will put the time, energy, commitment, and passion into something like this... It's almost as if you can read me and my own behaviors like an open book.

you will NEVER find this kind of information anywhere else. I really don't believe the other PUA's teach this stuff other than pick up lines. "

- Shaun V. - Houston, TX
"My results are pretty much immediate. I've really only applied one thing and that is the phrase "I'd pretty much kick myself ..." It has been very effective to being the ultimate icebreaker.

...It isn't too technical; very practical information that can be applied right away.

my approach anxiety is nearly gone now!"

- Ryan D. - Portland, OR
"I have not stopped listening since I got it..."

"I have bought programs before and was disappointed...

I have actually noticed a change in my mood - I seem much calmer ... I have also been offered (given) a promotion at work after 4 years!

(1) it gave me permission to man up

(2) it gave me confidence that I could man-up

(3) it gave me permission - yes I know that is the same point as 1 but its an important one :-)

Its affordable, compelling, unique and fun. I have not stopped listening since I got it.

I have noticed a shift in the number of women attracted to me and, for the first time had a few approach me. I even turned down 3 women! "

- James Nolan - Derby, UK
"It's straight no nonsense practical advice..."

"I liked that you gave me the ability to think positively about relationships again.

It's straight no nonsense practical advice.

It's a great product and I'm entirely happy with it..."

- Keith Dixon - Manchester, UK
"you will feel more confident about going after what it is you want..."

"My biggest obstacle was approaching and confidence with women

I feel more relaxed about talking to people and have less worry than before.

[It] teaches people about confidence and what it really is even if you are confident about many things in your life already.

You wont just get a relationship from using these programs but you will feel more confident about going after what it is you want."
"better confidence..."

"I'm able to get a better confidence to talk to women and boost my confidence..."

- Chris Gonzalez

"you get your balls back..."

"My biggest obstacle was being a wuss!

Specifically, I liked your manner and approach to us customers ! I wasn't always a wuss but I allowed my manliness to be taken from me when the kids were born and I am only now getting it back get your balls back - start doing things for you ... it helped me explore asking for what I want..."

- Will C. - UK
"... more women opening me, smiling at me, talking to me, paying me interest. Women are happier to talk to me now, and more women have been checking me out.

Specifically, I liked the body language pointer tips and exercises

...if it could get another guy having women come up to him and say hi, smile at him, throw him Indicators of interest, like it did for me, then I would definitely recommend it.

I enjoyed the little tips and exercises very much, and practise most of them daily. "

- Jacob F. - Sydney, Australia
"of all the programs I have seen or heard this is the best..."

"I'm about to get involved with a hot nurse

Concise, well structured and well narrated ...of all the programs I have seen or heard this is the best. (No offense David D)

Let the good times roll! _____________________ "

- Lars C - Denmark
"It's an excellent and comprehensive program..."

"I heard of this program from your newsletters and got very curious about it.

The main reason for getting the program is the fact that too often I found myself confined into the "friends" zone, and recognized that I need to increase my sexual communication and presence in relationship with women.

I'm a fairly good at approaching and getting a solid rapport, but taking the relationship to the next level often feels awkward and not as smooth.

My results so far: I got a much better insight into the female psychology, different "types" of women and better understanding of what really attracts and turns them on.

I started to feel more relaxed and confident in communicating with women (something that's been already noticed by them).

Specifically, I liked the different formats (audio, video, ebooks) and the way you present info and concepts in a fun, logical and easy to understand manner.

I'm currently in the middle of the journey through the program, and love all of it. The sections I found particularly enlightening are sexual roadmap and sexual psychology.

there's also lot of great and helpful advice in the "performance" section. And lot more...

It's an excellent and comprehensive program, and I already found it very helpful."

- Dragan K. - Croatia
"great advice..."

"I liked how it gave me ideas and challenged me to think outside the box on a few things like what i believe in and still struggling with some things which maybe holding me back or well i just not sure about.

it helps not just with women but with other areas of your life... this is great advice to understand why you feel confident and why you feel the way you are.

It teaches you to try to get over your fears and that women are not any different than you

I would recommend this to any guy that has something holding them back or feels they do not have much self worth for any reasons that might be, as it is really good advice.

Thank you Carlos, while i have not solved all my issues with women just yet i certainly understand why i feel things a lot better now thanks to your advice.

for any guy that uses this, go out and make use of this advice in your own life as it is the only way you will feel the benefits "

- John M. - Surrey, UK
"Wow! results that i never thought I would see..."

"My biggest obstacle was making deep connections with women, i was always coming across as the nice guy, and i kept becoming there best friend, to the point that they would spend there time asking for advice for the other guys in their life.

... I knew this was the programme i had been searching for...

My results were initially a fail, trying to have this bad boy attitude was initially difficult for me, but the last 3 weeks i have had dates with 6 different women and escalated to sleeping with 2 of them.

Wow! results that i never thought i would see.

Thanks to Carlos i can proudly say I'm a bad boy that women love.

this course will increase your confidence in all areas of your life not just dating it opens your eyes to a new attitude of living, it gives you SUCCESS!

I am normally a shy guy who couldn't approach women and I'm astonished with my results.

You also have the motivation that Carlos just naturally gives out in his presentations and because you have the videos you can jump to any module at any time, and get that boost and you seem to learn something new everytime you revise.

I would definetely recommend the Bad Boy Formula to guys like myself, if you are shy, keep falling into the friends zone or just cannot seem to escalate attraction, this course is designed for you, trust me, you will never regret buying this as long as you can motivate yourself to try the techniques.

In fact any guy who seems to lose girls too jerks or just want to know how to be better with women this is your course

Thank You Carlos!, A very satisfied customer, I owe you big time, you have changed my life..."

- Liam M. - Scotland
"Your program boosts my confidence in me..."

"My biggest obstacle was that I was sure it would be worth buying, but I bought anyway. And I realize that I made a very good investment.

My results are that I found out I already had a lot of the bad-boy traits in me and I never thought those traits would be considered Bad Boy's traits.

Your program boosts my confidence in me and some of my friends started calling me Bad Boy without me telling them that I am studying that program.

...your program is strengthening me and educating me. ... it is a "masculinity shaper" - It's a real man builder...

I strongly believe any guy out there who wants to know themselves and want to the real man in them should possess and seriously study this program.

I would say thanks a million for the this outstanding program, man. You are educating me with this program.

Your "...Bad Boy Formula" is a program that can seriously help building the MAN that we all need to be..."

- Marc A. - Lynchburg, VA
"I've purchased programs from other dating experts in the past and I didn't get the results I wanted, so I look at new programs with skepticism. This one seemed genuine (as I'm sure your other ones are)

The whole program is pretty cool, but the parts I enjoy the most are the 1st/2nd steps and the bonus interview. Hearing about having your own rituals before going out and meeting women as well as having a "universal opener" was particularly enlightening.

This helped add to what I already knew, and it's areas that I'm currently working on improving.

... A lot of other guys that I know only have a few areas in their dating life that just need tweaking, this would probably fix those for them and improve their dating dramatically...

It's obviously worth more than the money I paid to get it... "

- Stu W. - Orangeburg, SC
"So far the Natural Attraction Blue Print seems to be really good...

Specifically, I liked that you delivered what they call "the Shit..."

That's a very big compliment on what you were willing to share. Alot of guys talk but they don't really deliver.

You do..."

- Gary N. - Amherst Junction, WI
"I feel I have a good coach. An alpha male intelligent brilliant philosopher which I am benefiting a lot from knowing...

he is helping me not to get laid only, but in many aspects of my life right now, especially confidence.....

[Get a Girlfriend FAST] is rich with positive in formations - and life changing. "

- Faouzi L. - Malta

"...Knowledge is power and this stuff works!"

"My results are very good!

Specifically, I liked how to talk to girls in a flirting manner versus a serious approach

Three other benefits are the supreme confidence I have developed, The knowledge on handling a relationship, and the helpful concepts on how to create attraction.

...because knowledge is power and this stuff works!

I like how Carlos, seems to care and responds to my emails. "

- Matt A. - Mobile, AL
"Guys need this program..."

"My biggest obstacle was talking to women and staying in the conversation.

[Now] I feel no tension talking to women.

Guys need this program to improve their game with women...

Carlos Bro keep up the good work "

- Amir U. - England
"I have more confidence than ever before..."

"My biggest obstacle was making the approach or calling.

My results are excellent 4 dates with one week. 135 hits on my profile. women actually wanting me to contact them with personal emails and numbers provided within my first three days on-line. Currently 250 contacts. 35 which are local girls. Can't thank you enough.

Specifically, I liked the approach techniques. with your game plan all I had to do was modify a few of my own and bingo. It has worked every single time now.

Making the approach to several females and using your methods plus a few of my own has really upped my game. I have more confidence than ever before.

Thanks for upping my game! "

- Don D. - Sacramento, CA



- Robert C. - Queensland, Australia
"...positively affecting my interactions with women..."

"I wasn't sure if it was for me

My results are that I am slowly but surely accessing my alpha male qualities and noticing how it is positively affecting my interactions with women.

Specifically, I liked busting balls info...lots of it is really good, but I specifically like the way Carlos presented this material. It was simple, easy to understand and I am now thinking about it a lot.

Carlos is pretty cool..."

- Robin H. - United Kingdom
"The programs are worth every penny..."

"...I heard your program advertised on Rush Limbaugh's show.

... I now have some valuable knowledge when I do approach and come across a female.

The programs are worth every penny. These programs are knowledge and knowledge is power. You're not going to find a program with this amount of factual and valuable information on the subject of approaching women anywhere else. "

- Dan A. - Bronx, NY
"I got laid..."

"I'd love to have you as a wing man to hold me accountable. I just tell you my skill level is improving...

As a result of listening to this CD, I got laid, this week have 3 new phone #'s all legit. Also have two upcoming nights out with the ladies I met. "

- Don D. - Sacramento, CA
"It works... It really does man!"

"I did not know how to approach and talk to strange women... A noticeable change in the way women reacted to me... And I was finally getting phone number and dates... Your programs are very well presented, clear and precise. Thanks for the info. It was and still is out there and it works! It really does man!"

- Robert C. - Queensland, Australia
"I liked the simple nature in which it was delivered..."

"Specifically, I liked the simple nature in which it was delivered and the fact that it was not too lengthy.

I would recommend it to those who have that little dip in confidence and need to gain some more control of themselves and give off the alpha attitude."

- Gene R. - Gardendale, AL
"...people are responding to me better. Girls are smiling at me more.

I am happier and feel more confident. Men have been looking to me for advice more... women have been looking at me with their sexy eyes more....

this is a much more powerful way to navigate the world.

thanks man. you rule. "

- Jason M. - SLC, Utah

"After hearing carlos's programs, i realized that i was completely full of un-useful information and false paradigms.

My results are that I'm more confident when approaching women and i understand a bit more about the game.

Specifically, I liked the simplicity of the language and the examples which gives you a real awakening.

I would definitively recommend this program to another guy, because it will definitively improve your dating skills...

This has been the best thing that has happened to me in the past 10 years, definitively Carlos is the soldier. I really appreciate what he's doing for his fellows out there struggling with women.

Thumbs up for Carlos and his team, keep up the good work! "

- Cesar M. - Kingsville, TX
"I am using the programs information to bring me back to being social..."

"I am using the programs information to bring me back to being social. I was in a relationship that left me with very little social outlet now having to relearn being social..."

- Mike W. - Anchorage, AK
"My results are phenomenal!"

"My results are phenomenal! I'm not where I want to be yet but I'm so much more open to people. It's funny how when you give, you get!

Specifically, I liked How Carlos presents everything in an honest and straight forward manner, like a true alpha man. No beating around the bush. "

- Cris G. - Las Cruces, NM
"I needed a way to jump start my dating life after my wife passed away. I started with one of your programs and enjoyed it so much... are simply teaching men concepts that they should have learned from their fathers, brothers and friends during the maturation process.

I'd recommend any of your material to every man I know..."

- Brad M. - St Louis,MO
"Interest was peaked and price was right.

The "aha!" moment of understanding some crucial body language basics; how to lead and not mislead when meeting.

...section on eye contact seriously bumped my awareness as did lean back/lean forward.

...obviously the built-in inducement to get out and play / experiment.

...yes for all the young guys having trouble with their initial struggles.

I intend to Practice Practice Practice."

- Larry M. - Harrison Rd.
"My biggest obstacle was I was afraid to spend money on something I thought I could figure out on my own.

My results are much more confidence in my approach...

Knowing what to say and when to say it.

Three other benefits are getting dates, getting laid, and how to keep it going.

...Yes I would recommend it to other guys.

What more can I say than I haven't already said??? "

- Jason G. - Kansas City, Mo
"I wanted to know more than I already did about the topic...

My results are that it helped me grow and get dates.

...the best feature was about you mentioning bright suns and black holes where I realized that I'm a sun which needs a bit of energy from other suns to grow and shines even more, generally in life. Thank you for that.

Three other benefits are seeing this in my folder...

...because it contains valuable information.

I have about 2000 e-mails in my inbox, newsletters and mails so I've missed it."

- Miodrag B. - Serbia
"My biggest obstacle was Price!

Specifically, I liked the simplicity

Three other benefits are self confidence,confidence,confidence,!!"

- Andy M. - Athens
"Only one obstacle prevented me from getting so far earlier was the lack of money.

Already now I can correct a lot of bad habits of course, mainly just to be the nice guy.

Specifically, I liked the beginning of the studies...

I answer this later.

Yes of course... Generally all men can learn very much out of it. There would be very much happier couples!!!

Like that you probably stay much longer the main originator as you deserve! Thank you for doing this!!!"

- Kasimir B. - Jonschwil SG, Switzerland
"I finally bought it because of the variety of situations described...

My results are : Big Self Confidence

Three other benefits are Confidence, self esteem and The detailed strategy analysis you provide "

- Andreas M. - Athens, Greece

"I strongly recommend for anyone who is lost in this life of being a man in today's world..."

"My biggest obstacle was just being skeptical and not thinking that being a nice guy was really a problem. I thought being nice was a gift! Man O man have I been wrong...

My results are I am currently in module 4 of alpha masculinity, and I am already seeing a different kind of person emerging... I know that this program is what I really need to get my balls back. ... I already know that I am on the right track.

Thanks for these amazing programs, Carlos - you are the man! And I strongly recommend for anyone who is lost in this life of being a man in today's world. Keep up the great work!

You need to be a dominant. An alpha. And these programs show you a clear and straight path to being just that... grab your balls, Take that first step, stop whining about the obstacles, and get there! Its time to stop the talk and walk the walk... "

- Marwan S. - Dubai UAE
"My biggest obstacle was the price

My results are satisfactory

Specifically, I liked the ebook.

Three other benefits are full of useful contents

Yes. "

"I strongly recommend this program to any guy who wants to understand women..."

"I have been in several long term relationships - one as long as four years leading to a marriage proposal.

Every time they have ended, I been left with a strange feeling that I as a man somehow did or didn't do somerthing that was the underlying reason for the breakup instead of the all the bad stuff that went on on the surface of things. I felt as if I didn't understand the mechanics of the relationship.

[I] want to make my next long term commitment really last, so I decided to try the Girlfriend Training Program.

...I have a much keener understanding of the dynamics in a relationship and what to look for in finding my next girlfriend. This has had a significant impact on my confidence, since now I know that I have something really good to offer any woman as a long term partner.

...well put-together and make the concepts easy to grasp.

I strongly recommend this program to any guy who wants to understand women and interaction with them in relationships. It is packed with valuable information."

- Anders K. - Denmark
"It completely changes the way you talk to women..."

"My biggest obstacle was the slight embarrasment at having to buy a product to learn how to talk to women. I felt excited at what I could acheive and slightly nervous at discovering what I may have been doing wrong all the time.

My results are that I have become aware of my behaviour around women. I have been more decicive, suggestive and firmly spoken around women and everyone I meet. My confidence has made an improvement... It completely changes the way you talk to women. understanding how women think and are attracted to men gives you a hugh advantage.

In the past 2 weeks I have started to become more confident and passionate with in my own life. I am feeling good!"

- Sean D. - Ireland
"Buying Approach Women 2 was a natral progression. This program is however infinitely better than the other 2 because it includes practical examples, both good and bad, of applying the strategies.

My results are, not from buying the program but from implementing it, was a significant reduction in my anxiety level...

Specifically, I liked the practical examples you included on DVD4...

Three other benefits are the 1) showing how to develop a pathway from my present situation to being really effective (planned baby steps covered in DVD 1) 2)ideas on how to 'reframe' my feelings of anxiety. 3) the depth of information provided in the program.

The program is a complete solution.

I think the program is great and worth every cent."

- Peter E. - Canberra, A.C.T., Australia
"This is feedback concerning the new program "Alpha Sexual Power"

My results of listening to this new program are mainly inner game based, with some positive applications and results in outer game.

Specifically, I liked the ideas on "how to handle yourself if you are denied" The idea of self-control is very powerful.

1) objectively studying where a woman puts on the brakes 2) objectively approaching intention - having a sexual persona that amplifies things shows who you are 3) working to "get the result I want" no matter how she protests is the right thing

Yes. It provides a woman's perspective

Yes! I have quite a few examples of where I'm more control over myself..."

- Bill O. - Pittsburgh, PA
"I believe there is something screwy about the way your system is keeping track of who I am."

- Ann K.
"My biggest obstacle was The money

My results are , I feel a lot more confident in myself

Specifically, I liked how to get out of the mindset that women only look for money, good looks, and age

Yes, If I met a guy who needed a little boost up and some self confidence

...I would have liked to learn."

- Jim H. - New Jersey, USA
"My results are That start making a difference, starts by yourself.

Specifically, I liked The quality of the program

Three other benefits are Feeling good, self asteem and clarity.

Yes, it opened a lot of closed areas for me.


- Antran A. - Amsterdam. Holland.
"Specifically, I liked the topic which I really need to speak (learn) about"

- Vladimir R. - Bavaria Germany

"The program really helps..."

"My biggest obstacle was being such a wuss in front of women, being the good listener friend that would always please them.

(I) got lots more confidence on myself, stop being such a child before girls I wanted to date, being happier as a single guy and start living life as it should be lived.

I would recommend (Bad Boy Formula) to other guys cuz' it worked for me and if it worked for me, it can work to anyone else.

The program really helps..."

- - Leonardo Z., Brazil
"I will purchase some of your other products I dare say."

- Quentin T. - Maroochydore, Queensland, Australia
"Good references

Specifically, I liked the concrete "natural" examples you give.

Three other benefits are it's clear (good to follow), wide ranged, practical

To many men, many men I know aren't real man, something between a man and women :-)

Warn your customers more for the dangerous woman, I think that many "nice guys" go for this kind of woman..."

- Marc J.
"My biggest obstacle was being a nice guy and not knowing that other people around where nice guys

they improved and are getting better...

I learned a lot and enjoyed the program

Excellent presentation and defining of the topics tons of information guests in the programs giving their opinions

no because they have loads of girls already

I would recommend Carlos to anyone who wants to be successful at the dating game and he is a life coach and his knowledge is masterful."

- Abnashi B. - West Midlands
"I would say 85% I can understand. It's O.K.

I have no problem to talk to any woman but only in a case that a seduction is not a matter.

...the courage what you give in your program is great...

Absolutely. The shyness takes a lot of live experiences away and makes live boring and difficult.

Thanks a lot for your program, reports and all videos, it's a pity that I haven't discovered your program earlier."

- Peter B. - Liptovsk
"Ive had an awful lot of success with women over the years...

My results are AMAZING!

Specifically, I liked the in-depth detail of every module!

Three other benefits are: How to be more of a man confidence enjoy a better life

Yes! Excellent program

Fantastic! Have been a natural Alpha Male all my life... "

- Ian L. - Derby UK
"My biggest obstacle was getting the girl.

My results are good.

Specifically, I liked inner game toughts.

Three other benefits are how to be an alpha male, read body language, etc

Yes, it will teach you how to get the girl."

- Alessandro C. - Lima, Lima, Callao, Peru
"The couple of programs I have looked at getting didn't seem appear to be online for downloading and instant viewing and studying."

- Caleb S. - Queensland Australia
"My biggest obstacle was not knowing exactly what I wanted.

My results are that im finding the real man inside me.

Specifically, I liked the idea that says dont take shit from anyone.

Three other benefits are one major thing is clearing up confusion about who i am.

Yes. Today in society we are so watered down as men.

this program has really got things back in prospective."

- Nicholas M. - Chicago
"Actually, my expectations were pretty high. I heard you had a good reputation as a dating guru from Joshua Pellicer.

My results are better interaction with people, I'm more confident, socially aware, and feel so much better about myself around men and women.

Specifically, I liked the fact that you provide a lot of exercises to reenforce the material.

1. Understanding that the inner voice I hear is normal and I'm not crazy! 2. I see the value of social interaction much more clearly now. 3. I understand the dynamics of having to work on an inner game and outer game.

I would definitely recommend Ultimate Inner Game to another guy.

I think Carlos does an exceptional job at being THOROUGH. "

- Jimmy S. - Conway, SC, USA

"My results are I just got it yesterday

Specifically, I liked It makes sence to me...

yes, so long as it made sense to him

I do better with the chis when I'm ripped and not on heavy "supplement" cycles & not quite so emotional. Anyway, good program dude."

- Michael D. - Venice

- Matt
"My biggest obstacle was finding such an affordable but content rich product.

My results are increased confidence, better responses from women...

Specifically, I liked part on how to increase your confidence with women and in life.

Three other benefits are the way the program is split up into steps, the wealth of techniques in such an affordable program, and the entertaining style of Carlos Xuma as he shares these secrets and techniques.

This program will help guys improve their "inner game" as well as improve their "outer game".

Carlos Xuma is very easy to listen to and is charismatic in his way of presenting information of such value. "

- Brian J.
"The price. Then when I refreshed the page I got a second offer that was very fair.

My results are great.

The idea of a lifebook sounds so awesome I have been thinking about that ever since you said it, and it sounds very interesting."

- Michael F. - Washington, DC

- Obire G.
"My biggest obstacle was fear that I'm learning fake things.

My results are that I approached more women, though not as much as I want to push myself to go for.

Specifically, I liked your examples that involved words that came from women's input.

Three other benefits are pretty much summarized by two basics I learned from you.

Hell yea. If all guys know this stuff, then women in general will be less delusional about the dating concept.

Yes, I want to ask you a question. I'm not sure if you'll answer it, but please do."

- Blame F. - Brooklyn, NY

- Jon T.

  Press play to hear Ken...
"First of all I just want to say thank you. Loving videos and information you share with us, bettering our skills in approaching women and in dating women... Your programs teach a lot... I'm getting out more than I did... Again thank you for everything!"

- Ken
"...I have new, amazing people in my social circle now..."

"I have to say that I have used a couple of your products in the past and I have to admit they are awesome. I am working at a coffee shop right now while I am going through school and going through the Ultimate Inner Game program completely changed the way I operate at work. Not that I did not enjoy my job before, but the workplace experience is just that much better now. For both myself and my co-workers I should add. I have new, amazing people in my social circle now. I have a few great women in my life. Things are good..."

- Derek V.

"Your work is very significant and worthwhile and not only in teaching guys how to meet women, which you are very good at..."

"The work and programes you present to men are POSITIVE, gone are the days of the manipulative PLAYERS, the truth underpinning your work is that "fix the problem" (INNER GAME) and it will all happen naturally and it does, along the way you provide a framework for moving forward and that is all that most men need, BUT what you are ACTUALLY providing guys with is how to fix their lives..."

- Kim W.
"This program was like a kick in the balls!"

"I love the fact that it is video content and the little charts Carlos uses to help describe what he\'s talking about. The relaxed conversation type coaching is great! This program was like a kick in the balls! It got me back to the Boss I used to be in High school. I still have to practice more but I'm confident I'll get the results sooner rather than Later."

- Oscar R.

- Tony
"I was given this program by a friend. But will definitely be buying some of the new material

I found that it's all in your mind. .

I love the fact that it is video content and the little charts Carlos uses to help describe what he's talking about.

Overall understanding of what I need to do to be the man I want to be in life.

I have to a bunch of my Fraternity Brothers and Friends

This program was like a kick in the ball! It got me back to the Boss I used to be in High school."

- Oscar R. - Montreal, Quebec

  Press play to hear Matt, Illinois...
"I have bought your Approach Women 2: Real Alpha Day-Game and I gotta say I'm in the early stages of getting through it and getting out there, meeting women... It got me to the point that I believe I'm the highlight of their day and I'm really glad that happened..."

- Matt, Illinois
"It's really opening my eyes on a very deep level..."

"I've been reviewing the Bad Boy Formula again and it's really opening my eyes on a very deep level. After getting out there and putting it into practice and seeing the positive effects..."

- Marcus G.

- Frogg Princce

  Press play to hear Tim, Chicago...
"I'm reading Secrets of the Alpha Man right now and it definitely helped with my game with women. Also lifestyle in general like that section about goals really helped me. My life is now more productive then before reading your book..."

- Tim, Chicago

- Sina A.

  Press play to hear Jarret - Phoenix, AZ...

- Jarret - Phoenix, AZ

- Greg P.
"This program is extremely helpful in explaining the complex conversational dynamics, which is rare. Often conversations just tend to go at random and you're left with nothing. Not only does this program go right into the matter, it's also rich in useful knowledge. I recommend anyone, who wants to enrich their social life, to get this one."

- J.A., Lahti

- Jarret M.

  Press play to hear Richard, Ohio...
"I'm absolutely 100% fascinated with your program and I love your Alpha Lifestyle concept... You're the brother I never had... You helped my develop my inner game..."

- Richard, Ohio
"Hello, I'm Vladimir from Czech rep. I'm 26 and after just hearing few videos (like 2-3) I was able to get 3 women to get conversation flowing and its awesome, they want me to get to meeting, coffe or so. :) Carlos!! You are so awesome, thanks!"

- Vladim
" us pure gold!"

" My biggest obstacle was I didn't have the money nor did I trust these sort of "We Promise Results" programs...

My results are Pretty posstivie. Although I only started it a few weeks ago, I really feel more comfortable and REAL around women...

Specifically, I liked the fact YOU, Mr. Xuma, weren't filling us with bullshit, but rather giving us pure gold! Loved the graphic solution you used as well, pretty darn good :)

other benefits are 1. You understand the problem when it arises during a conversation with women

2. You are given tools to solve it or use these potential turns offs to your advantage

Q: Would you recommend this program to others? HELL YES! so they can get some too! "

- Camilo Diez - Columbia
"I think you are the best PUA out there in the net..."

"My biggest obstacle was fear of internet knowledge due to many guys out there selling secondhand knowledge and not genuine PUA...

My results are deeper than others I have tried... you take us deeper into the psychology and your presentation of knowledge is clear with good examples...

Three other benefits are:
1. Guilt free in seducing woman
2. The confidence part helps other areas of life
3. Made my social life better

Your website is cool and I think you are the best PUA out there in the net..."

- Y. Suppiah - Malaysia
"There is a gameplan that you can follow and takes out the mystery of approaching..."

"My biggest obstACLE WAS having a gameplan in place. My results are it gave me a breakdown of the steps and a little bit of opposing perspective - Specifically, I liked fast paced casual style.

Yes, lets you know that there is a gameplan that you can follow and takes out the mystery of approaching..."

- VIn G.
"Worth much more than the money I paid..."

"All the programs that I purchase so far ,are worth much more than the money I paid. Thank you for making this affordable for me!"

- Rick P.
"I liked Carlos' mostly general way of talking about things and techniques and not mixing things up together. He gives it to you in a way that you have to think about it rather than absorb it.

I would recommend all of Carlos' products, most of which I have already. "

- Philip S. - Memphis, TN

"I now have much more confidence approaching women..."

"Dear Carlos,

I want to thank you for all your help but most of all I want to thank you for your friendship and giving me much more belief in myself and I now have much more confidence approaching women and I now really believe that I will find a girlfriend and get married and eventually have a family.


- Nathan C.
"I got a tremendous amount of value with all the information in the program..."

"I just wanted to say how awesome the girlfriend training program is. I have gone through it once, and I am really impressed. I have got a tremendous amount of value with all the information in program that I can use in future relationships. I just wanted to take a moment to say how pleased I am with GTP program. Thanks!"

- Gary G.

- The Pirate Steve Show
"I'm in a relationship now with the type of girl I've always wanted to be with..."

"Carlos thank you, I no longer have approach anxiety. Actually every time I go out now I'm just all genuine confidence. I didn't start of that way, I had a friend introduce me to your material years ago. I worked hard on myself & the way I thought, now years later I barely feel like I have to do anything when I'm out at a bar or some other place b/c my confidence acts like a magnet to women. But you know what? It doesn't really matter anymore b/c I'm in a relationship now with the type of girl I've always wanted to be with..."

- Ipninder S.
"I can talk to any girl of my choice..."

"I am so grateful for having the privilege to know who you are... Since I started reading this, of how to make a woman be actracted to you, of how to approach a girl, how to use my body language, and many others you know it has made me to be an a real Alpha man. I can talk any girl of my choice and she will succumb immedately. I can get them any time I like. Thanks a lot... I am sooooooo grateful."

- Arthur A.
"I started reading your newsletters daily and it really helped me..."

"So Its like 6 months ago, I started reading your newsletters daily and it really helped me. I didn't even had any female friends but after reading your newsletters I went out and approached a couple of girls, i got their phone numbers..."

- Akshay, India

- Elizabeth B.

- Brandon C.
"The Alpha Attitude Really helped..."

"I've learned a lot from the e-mails and dvd's. I have met my partner, and the Alpha attitude really helped..."

- Kyle P.
"I owe you my life, man..."

"By the way, I purchased the Girlfriend Training Program a couple of months ago and have been using it daily. My girlfriend used to tell me ever so often that I'm the best boyfriend in the world. Now she tells me almost every time we're together like five times a day. We really make each other happy and I wouldn't be with her without you. I owe you my life, man."

- Kevin H.

" changed my life a lot and you are the BOMB!!!"

"I just got so fed up from getting rejected and not being able to pick up i started browsing on the web on how to pick up...

it's kind of a long story about how i found you but it was extremely lucky i did

I got tons of results i feel like i can accomplish anything and i can do things i never even dreamed of myself being able to do

You gave examples and reasons which made me thing you were more legit and experienced

I would recommend this stuff to any guy that would need it because i was probably the worst you could be at his stuff so if it works for me it will definitely work for them.

I would just like to say you changed my life a lot and you are the BOMB!!! "

- Jack B - Melbourne, Australia
"I bought your products ... as a result, I can go anywhere and ask any girl for a date and get it..."

"I thought dating would help me, so I bought your products. I can tell you that as a result, I can go anywhere and ask any girl for a date and get it. I have been averging dating three woman a week - and average about 6 in the stable at a time. All different but all top flight - true # tens - all of them. People can't believe my ability to date so many gorgeous and seemingly special woman, all younger than me, from 25 to 50. I'm 58."

- Frank L., CEO
"Great program, great results..."

"... LOVING THE GREAT CONTENT. Since I bought the Girlfriend Training Program (great program. great results. The women in my life are shaping up and surpassing my expectations because I manned up and took action and did it. Grew a a pair of balls and actually did it.)"

- Albert C.
"I'm 69 and my new wife is 23 !! Beat that!"

- Angus G.
"This knowledge is FANTASTIC!"

"I would like to take ths time to say thank you so very much for granting me this fantastic opportunity to learn from you, I absolutely admire you , truly to me your like a brother that I never had, we just got different mothers, your really heling me this knowedge is FANTASTIC!

After a great deal of research, I learned that your site has the most advanced method of attracting the most beautiful women in the world. I just love the techniques, procedures, seduction tactics, this is just what I have been looking for, and your a marvelous teacher, I am so proud to be one of your students, teach me Carlos for I truly need help!

Once again, I thank you so very much for all that you teach me, please continue, I truly appreciate the opportunity to learn from you, your knowledge has made me feel like I JUST WON THE LOTTERY! I wish you all the success!"

- Richard M.
"...I start to adopt the Bad-boy attitude, don't give them a shit, because I still get your files, and your files are just fantastic, very down-to-earth, and makes my life so much beautiful).

My results are I got new girl-friends, among them a very good one. I had a divorce with my wife a year ago. We got one kid, a son. My wife left me, I was in a heart-break mode. I've tried to understand why.

... I got Carlos' programs on the internet. After getting The GTP, I was kind of wow: painfully realize that I was a wussy Nice Guy (as you said). ... extremly wonderful program. Man, I owe this Carlos a favor.

This Carlos is awesome... "

- Anh N. - Vietnam
"It is good to hear something that 'rings', that makes sense."

- David K.
"Your material is worth the price because it does exactly what it says..."

"Hey Carlos, really loved this article... All I can say,as far as I'm concerned, your material especially the cds, is worth the price because it does exactly what it says on the tin.

I love the fact that it doesn't only cover matters regarding how to attract women, also covers many aspects of human life and growth. It's all about Investing in success, investing in myself. So I'll keep on reading your material and putting it into practice, because it helping me in becoming a better human being."

- Ramazani L.
"Incredible programs..."

- Roland C.
"It is remarkable how you have turned this art into something you can teach..."

"I recently purchased your Bad Boy Formula course. Very nice job on what you have created. It is remarkable how you have turned this art into something you can teach. I commend you on a job well done.

Thanks Carlos for all your work and any feedback you have for me. Your course has already enlightened me much. Keep up the great work...."

- Adrian P.

- Nathan
"My biggest obstacle was Funds, tight on money...

My results are It helped me see into myself and take stalk of who I am and how I can use my personal assets...

Specifically, I liked giving me a different perspective to look at people and self

Three other benefits are breaking down barriers, realizing that I have what it takes,thinking before taking action

Your program is a great confidence builder, and teaches a person to analyze, situations

Abundance..Abundance, one of my favorite thoughts, you rock man!"

- Cory D. - Tacoma Washington
"It helps me see the world as it really is, rather than as I would like it to be.

Sure! I think most guys aren't into the more open minded ways of thinking, though. have opened my mind further to understand the realities of male/female relationships and how to become a more confident, independent Alpha Male!"

- Shawn L. - Palatine, IL, USA
"My biggest obstacle was money, and unsure of the reliability of the program. My results are that the information is very good and Carlos is a very likeable person and easy to listen to... Specifically, I liked the lines to use to get a girl attracted and chasing the guy. Three other benefits are Self confidence, being aware of how girls think, and knowing my self value..."

- Kelly P. - Culbertson, MT

- Eric K.
"My biggest obstacle is, i dont know how to start in approaching a woman.

My results are 1, am a bit enhancing

Specifically, I liked ur contents

cos am now getting use 2 approaching women a bit"

- Harmony E. - Portharcourt Nigeria

- Danisto X.
"What caused me to get the program was the e-course which was making a lot of sense to me.

I can approach any women at any time, without any fear.

Specifically, I liked the basic laws of attraction: The three S. It was extremely simple to understand and apply.

Amazingly, everything mentioned in the book is working if applied properly.

I would recommend this book to every guy in this world.

Words are not enough to describe how grateful I am for your efforts. "

- Talha O. - Hainan, China
"Now I am seeing the benefits..."

- Rami A.

- Anuj N.

  Press play to hear Mike T....
"I was able to meet women very easily..."

- Mike T.
"Worth every buck..."

"For the record, I think these programs I have are great (!) and worth every buck..."

- J. S.
"My inner game is much more solid now"

"Your focus on Alpha Man has really been bringing me around... I have numerous resources... I feel my inner game is much more solid now... "

- Bill O.
"Carlos, I have seen several of your programs both video and audio and want to say thank you for finally teaching me the truth about what women are attracted to. I actually feel I have a major advantage now over 95% of men (maybe higher) who still think the way to get a women attracted or into bed is to treat her like a princess, buy her gifts, treat her to dinner, complement her. I have been weight training for sometime and I feel I'm probably a 5 since I have a bit of a gut but I no longer feel intimidated by a 8 or a 9 like it did in my 20's. The biggest change for me I would say is the atitude of just not giving a crap if see wants you or not or if she is attracted to you or not. There are always others..."

- Raimond
"You're doing a favour to mankind..."

"Carlos, You're the best. You're doing a favour to mankind in this women crazy world!"

- Daniel

- Jason H.
"I was really ok before, but these programs are rocket-fuel!"

"I was checking out some of the other programs and waited (only a few weeks) before getting this one.

So far I'm running on this and a couple of other programs. I am surprised how good they really are and especially how FAST they help you get going and create results.

I am at the moment feeling turbo-charged, positive, outgoing and unstoppble (in a good way! Simply social!). I was really ok before, but these programs are rocket-fuel!

They break down things in detail and are very explanatory, thorough and systematic. They are exceptionally outstanding in creating motivation and in energizing the listener.

They help you FAST!! They are outstanding (!!) in motivating and energizing you. They are simple.

Get this program NOW! Carlos Xuma has created a nuclear device to kick-start and turbo-charge your inner game. He must have spend lots of work on this and yet by just listening you will be on a stronger path. It's like replacing stone and axe with a nuclear device. This is an investment in yourself that you cannot afford not to get.

Keep up the work on these programs! They (feminists etc.) almost got me! The CX programs help create a balance where you can develop, and yet without becoming hostile to any of all that. "

- Jens S. - Europe
"My biggest obstacle was go to bed with women

My results are cool

Specifically, I liked tactics"

- Anh N. - Vietnam
"I just wanted to send you a private note that your Approach Women 2 is fantastic and worth every penny."

- David Brooks
"It works in every arena of life..."

"I have bought 5 of Carlos programs. They have enhanced my life in many ways... my work, social life, relationships, state of mind and of course my dating life. I was just a nice guy with lots of women friends and no 10's in my personal world.

Now I can honestly say... I choose... rather it is in the mall. coffee shop, airplane, book store, even the bible book store :-), work, my doctor

... now I get to choose how far I want to go or when I want to go there, I have created attraction, kissed and had some great loving from wonderful women, from various backgrounds... I have recently been in a committed relationship with a Italian Model...

The Girlfriend Training Program has helped me to get the skills to make that decision and change.

So Carlos my guru friend, thank you for solid quality material, it has been life changing. I have bought some stuff from others, but yours is 'real time stuff', it works in every arena of life.

OH you should know, I am 5' 7-inch thick, bald, over 40 and divorced. All the girls I speak of are from 25-35 and hot. Keep the cutting edge stuff coming bro thanks again!"

- Barry C.

"You must be the hardest worker in this field..."

"Hey Carlos, I love your work. You must be the hardest worker in this field - well, you and David Deangelo. There seems to be a lot of fake 'guru's out there that are there to make money. But, you seem to be the most articulate, 100% real and really know your shit..."

- Ray
"I know that I can get a girlfriend..."

"My biggest obstacle was worrying about how I would fare when actually walking up to girls and striking up conversation and creating attraction.

I haven't had the program for a long time but I generally know that Carlos' stuff is quick to pick up on and apply to the real world.

Specifically, I liked the component that gives advice on how to get out of being in a girl's friend zone. I mean there are a few cute girls I know as friends that I would like to take out and get more intimate with.

Three other benefits are, for me, is that I become more confident with women daily. Another is that I know that I can get a girlfriend if I wanted to, even after a break-up. Lastly, I would pin down confidence as a great benefit. The feeling that you kick ass is immense.

I would recommend this, to anyone really, but especially younger guys like myself. Guys, I'm not even twenty and I can see immense value in carlos' programmes.

Carlos, you've probably heard this about a thousand times, but I think what your doing and are about is really great..."

- Jesse J. - Dorset, UK
"She had lost interest in me..."

"Hi Carlos. I just missed this program... Over the weekend I was being kicked out of my girlfriend's house for exactly the reasons I found in your videos... she had lost interest in me. So I did not get a chance to get on the net over the weekend, serious bummer!

I seriously need some help here, I turn into an absolute idiot in relationships and they always go down this spiral of mutually losing interest in each other. It sucks, I don't want it to happen again.

Is there any chance I could be a later order? I would really like to get this part of my life handled. Thanks!"

- Damien B.
"There is nothing to consider, dwell or hesitate about!"

"My situation was actually quite ok. I have always been quite confident and fairly successful with women. However, I have been far too much of the 'nice guy', understanding, supportive etc. Moreover, I have been too lazy and relying far too much on random and chance meetings.

...I got out of a very long relationship and had to get back on the dating scene. After a bumpy period and a set-back with a girl I found this program...

I have only had them for about two weeks or so. But, WOW!!! This is great stuff! And by great I mean brilliant!!! They are packed with invaluable and highly useful information and moreover they are exceptionally energizing and MOTIVATIONAL!!!

The main change so far is my inner game, motivation and attitude! This has already been supercharged! Just a few days of listening to the programmes and I was on a completely new path!

On the 'outer game' I am making much more approaches, and talking to much more people. I also notice that I am perceived differently. More will come, but for the moment I am focusing on many shorter interactions and it works. I foresee a great spring coming up with me backed up by these programs!! I also have found a wingman and great friend. A problem is that his sister has started hitting on me, texting me, etc. His sister is quite hot.

JUST GET IT!!! There is nothing to consider, dwell or hesitate about! These programs may be the best investment you ever make! If you are short of money you can still afford at least one of the programs...

Look, I have never met Carlos and have no personal interest or stake in making commercials for his programs, but this is an investment FOR YOU, in YOURSELF! You cannot afford to miss this!!

Even if you are fairly successful already, as I was, you will get lots and lots of information and motivation from these programs. They are packed with useful information for every guy out there and they are exceptional in energizing and motivating.

I only have one problem with them and that is that I didn't discover them much earlier!

The programs are brilliant and worth every buck!!! Start for example with the 'Approach Now' program and build up from there! But do get them!

Thank's for putting this stuff out!!!! Yes I've paid for the stuff, but I still owe you! If I ever come to San Francisco the beer is on me!"

- Jens S.
"Mate just wanted to say thanks for all your help so far, I am blown away by your amount of knowledge you have and the easy way you can articulate it to your audience....I was planning to buy the girlfriend training program next week."

- Ben
"It's just what I needed, when I needed it most..."

"I just went through the intro Fast Start part of your Girlfriend Training Program, one time through. also your 3.5 mistakes that guys make, first time through, and I'm SO excited I found you!

This stuff sounds great, and I know it will help me. It's just what I needed, when I needed it most.

I'm impressed, and fortunate I pulled you in.

i so feel I made the right choice to get started! I'd recomend it whole heartedly to all thoses who found that special lady they'd like to make a special part of their life. I feel good about what Carlos has to offer me here in this respect...

Carlos seems to hit the nail right on the head with respect to dealing with all of these chalenges! Chalenges that now have tremendus power to dirupt your life otherwise, without a strong technology to properly deal with things. I feel this material represents my interests well, and I can't say how grateful I am for that.

i'm really looking forward to learning the principals and putting these materials to good use. I feel very good about doing this program.

Many Thanks Carlos, for making this available. Very Well Done! "

- Sal P. - Culver City, CA
"I enjoy your information. What your doing for guys is such a major deal. Want to thank you for it! Bart. P.S. looking to get the GTP program!"

- Bart S.
"I got five programs this month and will have to wait for the next salary to endulge in more, but I will get it. It's great stuff! And Carlos talk is very motivational!! Please pass on my compliments to the programs!"

- Jens

- Jason
"I am amazed at the wealth of information available with my orders; even though it will take me some time to examine and master this information I must say I am impressed."

- Marvin

"Your programs are the shit. Just got out of the "love of my life" relationship, and I absolutely appreciate your help in getting myself out of this shithole that I'm currently in. Thanks!"

- Jon
"I just wanted to thank you for all of the great insight! I'm 26 and divorcing from the girl I have been with from my teens... I haven't had to deal with any of this in a very long time and a little extra confidence goes a long way. And you are giving all your secrets away for free. This day in age everone is trying to make a buck, any way possible. the way that you operate your site and emailings shows a lot of class and I truly appreciate all of it! Thanks."

- Adam
"I purchased The Bad Boy Formula and Alpha Masculinity. I LOVE The Bad Boy Formula. But Alpha Masculinity is the foundation, to me, and it is the best stuff I have ever read on what it means to be a man. I want to keep Alpha Masculinity. It is my favorite piece of information at my house (I am an avid reader)... The Bad Boy Formula comes in a tight second."

- John
"Carlos Thank you for making the bad boy formula, in all honesty I can say that it got me back in touch with my inner bad boy.

I recently went through a lot of emotional and physical strife and felt castrated as a result and lost a sense of my "power" and had moments of wussy behavior and moments of alpha man behavior.

Now I am back to being the bad boy but more importantly I feel back to being me and it rocks.

... I don't wanna just be good I wanna be great and ensure my sucess. "

- Sean K.
"After reading about you and your advice I'd like to thank you, the techniques do work. There is this beautiful girl who I always liked but was not able to approach and now all that has changed.

One day I saw her and decided that at that moment am going to approach her and not care about rejection. She was in a coffee shop wearing a pink dress, I walked up to her with a natural look on my face and smile and I said to her 'interesting dress I didnt know you like to look like flamingos'. She laughed 4 a bit and I told her I won't stay for long because I'm ordering my coffee and sandwitch... She introduced herself and asked me to stay instead. From there I've been acting like I wasn't intrested in her and she eventually asked me out so today I'm dating her and shes hot! Thanks again"

- Oshoveli
"Hope you are doing good. I must say your articles are absolutely brilliant. You are a true Love/Dating Guru..."

- Vineet
"Carlos will definitely be my source of skill training..."

"My situation before I found this product was Broken down from loss of 4 yr girlfriend... Specifically, I Just listening as I down loaded it gave me a awesome insight...

I'd tell guys to Get it as many programs as you can access and afford, the man knows his stuff...You rock!

Carlos will definitely be my source of skill training, and mentorship, it all makes perfect sence..."

- Cory D. - Tacoma WA
"My situation before I found this product was good thing i just haven't been been able i purchase the body language, it wasn't all that i need help..."

- Wilbert A.
"Made me a rounded person..."

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"I'm subscribed to a number of your CDs... And they made me a rounded person, not only by being recognized by women but also by a lot of men..."

- Dylan R., London UK
"your material is awesome..."

"By the way I think your material is awesome. So on the money, so right on the mark. I feel validated and supported in my quest to create a better life for myself."

- Nigel

"Hey bro, my name is Mark, I've been reading a lot of the material you been sending me... and actual been putting it to use... It's been working great for me... I have this energy or zest that women are interested in... and their wondering why I'm single or where's my wedding ring... lol ... Even they try to get my attention or just blurt out that we should hook? and do the whole call sign... thanks a lot bro..."

- Mark
"Hello Carlos - your material is great + I have apprecaited receiving your insights."

- Grant
"Hey Carlos something amazing happened... I stepped out of my comfort zone and I am starting to get girls numbers and talk to them and they actually like me..."

- Jordan

- Jason
"Thanks to your flirting and seduction tips, I am able to attract almost any girl that I come in contact with. I was always a very attractive boy, but my personality was, at times, a bit serious, factual, and dry. Now, I have gone from the 'class cutie' to 'lady's man', going on dates with tons of chicks..."

- Greg
"Firstly, let me say that i have suffered from 'nice guy' syndrome for most of my life; I'm 47, but there are four words that you use which really resonate with me, and they are 'with Honor and Integrity'. This is why I hold what you say in such high esteem."

- Ian

- Liang
"I got your Alpha Lifestyle program and it really changed my perspective on life. I wish I had it earlier in the year when things were dark..."

- Tariq

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"You think what you're doing until you figure out you don't... If anyone is considering this program, don't hesitate - get it now, it will save you a world of pain later!"

- Anonymous

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"All started with your emails. I dated before but was not getting enough success... Now I have more slag, more focus... demonstrating what's possible... I reconsidered what I was doing..."

- Robert

"I guess everyone is full of sh*t until they qualify themselves, and if anybody reads your stuff for more than 10 minutes they realize you know your sh*t, inside and out... The big question is not that your advice and info is not good stuff, but are you willing to put it into action... and the fact that you keep pushing yourself, well, that says it all."

- Peter W.

- Vision
"My situation before I found this product was that i lose chicks. decent looking guy with the lucky ability to get...

When I used Carlos' program i saw a dramatic improvement starting with the first one and looking forward to more nice successes.

Specifically, I hey this is getting lengthy.

I'd tell guys to not wait another minute to get this program."

- David C.

- Kwame

- Shiladitya

- Nishant
"Just briefly wished to thank you for doing what you are, sharing what you've learned and experienced, and having integrity and high ethics in what you teach men. I'm not into 'pickup' being both older, long married and faithful to my vows while in a still married state, but what I glean from following your counsel and reading your work is useful in ALL areas of life, as everything is about relationships and being congruent with oneself is at the heart of everything you write about. I enjoy your writing and resonate with your counsel, not just for my own self-improvement but for all the screwed up males out here grappling with the complex issues of social expectations, career, psychology, biology and relationships."

- Magiclumen
"I hope you are well... it's been awhile and I'm happy to report that life has been really good for some time now. I'm living very alpha and happy in most ways; you have played a role in helping me optimize everything..."

- Todd M.
"I want to sincerely thank-you for your products. I have used your materials (extensively) over a two year period. I now have a great girlfriend and genuine sense of direction in life.

I started out with your 'Dating black book' then moved on to 'Secrets of the Alpha male' and finally 'Power social skills' I implemented every suggestion, from taking up martial arts, to finding goals outside women as well as establishing my boundary conditions with them. I even tried a few extra such as stand-up comedy (which is a great way of confronting your fears). All this work has helped me enormously and it is no exaggeration to state that your work has made a huge difference to my life.

So thank-you for providing me with these skills; you've done a great job!"

- Rajen
"...In particular I read the one below which led me to the "Get a Girl Friend Fast" offer page. I scanned the offer and saw several things of immediate interest to me personally. Since the price was so low I went for it. First, I want to say thanks for offering such a great product at such a low price. I understand (as you say in the intro material) it"

- Chester K.

"I have been an avid fan of yours for years and credit your materials for landing a great gal, and having a wonderful marriage. I really do appreciate your work and have given you endorsements in the past..."

- Stephen D.
"I just wanted to relay something to you. I've purchased a lot of your material and just want to let you know it's helping me immensely."

- Fernando M.
"I applaud with have great products. I love your approach of working on person's inner game and developing the Alpha lifestyle. Your definitely on the right track!"

- Neil
"Thank you for all of the great info that you provide.

Your insights have helped me gain a better perspective on my confidence, the definition of a "real" (alpha) man and a whole lot of other things. For that, I am greatful beyond what I can express through this email.

I will tell you though that you are one of the REALEST of the realest relationship "gurus" out there. (I know that you don't appreciate the "guru" label but you deserve it.) Thank you for sharing."

- Joseph B.
"Thank you Carlos. Your books have really inspired me and have giving confidence! Thank you again."

- M. Hernandez
"Just wanna say a big thanks for all your effort. I cant explain how much you have helped me. Thanks once again. I have an experience I wish to share with you. It is both good and bad. And I know that many guys out there might be facing the same thing, so it could be of help to them too.


I went out to have a swim at our university pool with some of my buddies. We were all having a good time... and there were so many attractive ladies there. In my mind I was trying to decide which of them I should go talk to.

Then I saw 2 sexy girls that caught my attention. I told one of my guys that we should go say hi to them, but he gave a lame excuse and freaked out.

I didnt let his mood bring me down so I just left him and decided I was gonna do it alone. I swam towards them with a floating ball and I immediately built instant rapport with them. Within a few minutes we were playing, splashing water, laughing and having fun.

Many guys who saw it wondered how I was able to do that (Thanks Carlos). My confidence was really high, and I knew that the ladies could feel it too. Plus I was full of exciting energy. I got their names and while the fun was still on..."

- K.F.
"...If you want to take action and finally seize control of your life, little by little, Carlos Xuma has had experience with these kinds of hardships and determined to find out what makes social dynamics work. All his insight he has gathered in his helpful, magnificent program. It's obvious how much time he has invested in the program and its content.

Power Social Skills is not about trying to constantly outstage others or crushing them to demonstrate your superiority... Instead this program is about getting closer to people and achieving authentic connections. That's the core of making quality friends and becoming a social winner.

If you desire improving your social life and increasing your personal power, which is one huge part of your identity, Power Social Skills is the most important gift you can give yourself."

- J.A., Lahti, Finland

- Isaac

- Adam

- Victor

"My situation before I found this product was I'd lost my edge and was getting deeper into a lethargic rut.

When I used Carlos' program I was given a lot of insight about the hows and whys of what was going on and how to correct them from the inside out.

Specifically, I was able to reverse direction and get moving forward again. It was great!

I'd tell guys to remember how awful it was when you put your shoes on the wrong feet when you were a kid."

- Mike C. - Pittsburgh, PA

- David

- Shashi
"When I used Carlos' program of the 7 principles i found that having a loose guideline of approaching and meeting women was helpful and effective.

Specifically, I found that being the 'bad boy' was effective.

I'd tell guys to get into this stuff.

hey Carlos, Just want to say thank you for everything so far. with your help it seems like i have created my own style of meeting women and approaching life."

- August G. - Sydney, Australia

- Aj

- Tariq
"I'm where I want to be..."

"Thinking from where I came from to where I am now, though it's been only three years since I started this journey, it's been the most rewarding, and when I think of the future......I just find myself smiling.

It took the dating black book, the seduction method, how to talk to women, bad boy formula, alpha masculinity, and not forgeting alpha rules (which was a milestone by the way) ... to awake this giant within. I'm where I want to be. "

- Thomas O.
"I skyrocketed my success with women..."

"My situation before I found this product was that I was lost without knowing how to start and continue conversations with women .

When I used Carlos' program , things got clearer and I gazed at an easy and efficient system to follow and apply .

Specifically, I skyrocketed my success with women. I'd tell guys to just try and see for themselves how this programs works."

- Daniel B.
"one of the most prolific and original thinkers in the industry..."

"Carlos is one of the go-to guys when it comes to learning how to man-up and add a little testosterone to your personality. He's also one of the most prolific and original thinkers in the industry, and has himself gone through the transformation that most guys are striving for. Highly recommended."

- Jordan Harbinger - The Art Of Charm -
"Keep up the good work, brother..."

"My situation before I found this product was good but this has pointed out ways of taking situations and making something happen instead of wishing something would happen.

When I used Carlos' program it made the approach easier as well as building rapore and comfort wich in turn made the close happen. Specifically, I had the balls to approach and talk to more women anywhere I happened to be. Grocery stores, gas station or walking down the street.

I'd tell guys to don't hesitate because you don't realy know shit until Carlos explains the ins and outs.

Keep up the good work brother..."

"...Get these programs..."

"My situation sucked. I was that nice guy wuss I thought girls would go for yet time and time again the girl I liked would go out with or be stolen from me by the bad boy or even worse, the jerk. I had no confidence and no game. I was extremely shy and very depressed. Not pretty.

When I used Carlos' program, things started to turn around. I stopped caring about who I offended or who didn't like me. I stopped caring about peoples' opinions of trivial things, like how I looked or dressed or whatever (this is the Bad Boy Formula). I thought things would backfire, but girls got more interested and for once I got a good explanation for why being the nice guy is not the way to go.

Now, I am that fun guy who always has something interesting to say. I'm very flirty now, I know how to tease women in the right way and I know how to not take shit from them when they flake out without being a total asshole.

I'd tell guys to get these programs. Seriously. Carlos said that he teaches how to become the Bad Boy (or better) with honor and integrity and he delivers. The Alpha Masculinity Program helped me get rid of all the bad traits of the nice guy and become the man I always wanted to be... it has turned into one of the best investments I ever made."

- Steve K - Chicago
"...Use the program because it really works..."

"...Before I found this product was that I suffered form approach problems. I did not know what to say at an initial encounter with a beautiful woman that I wanted to talk to and get to know.

When I used Carlos' program I became more confident in approaching women and learned how to approach and talk with a woman that I was interested in.

Specifically, I have been able to land dates with beautiful women and have made many female friends and have a couple that I am getting really close to.

I'd tell guys to use the program because it really works. Apply what you learn in the program into the real world and you will be successful in attracting beautiful women and getting many hot dates. "

- Michael E., Wagoner OK

- Obire

- EuGene

- Irfaan
"Thanks for all your help Carlos - I've finally found the girl of my dreams!"

- Rishik

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"I've met this wonderful girl - I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart..."

- Gary

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"It's such good information... You're such a fuckin' pro!"

- Susan

- Chris
"You Have Saved My Life..."

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- Alex from NJ

- Francis

- Oswaldo

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"I've been signed up for your audio coaching... and have learned so much about way to attract women..."

- Jerod

- Anuj
"Hey Carlos -- great stuff on QUALIFICATION in your last video.

...your videos tell me why girls respond this way.

And more BTW, I really appreciate you don't see any great need to use filthy language when you teach us.

All the best-- "

- Scott S. - San Francisco, CA
"Thanks Carlos, this is such great information and it is excellent for my personal development!

Even for me a strong christian man.

Peace! "

- Tom M.
"Hey Carlos! Great stuff man! "

- Sid S.
"...This is the most exciting, comprehensive, thoughtful, well put together material I have ever read!"

"I have a degree in psychology, but this is the most exciting, comprehensive, thoughtful, well put together material I have ever read! I have been putting it to use with outstanding results and more importantly has gotten me back on track in my personal and business life. Been having lots of fun experimenting with the various techniques.

What I like best about this material is that it's not based on some tricky, hocus pocus crap but based mainly on getting your shit together, developing an interesting life and acting like a real man to attract the women."

- George R.

- Yaasir

- Eugene

- Nikki

- Andy R.
"The most effective way to instantly communicate higher status..."

"Carlos Xuma's 'Badass Body Language,' covers every part of body language you need to know to command respect...

Carlos breaks it down in a formula that makes sense and is easy to follow ... Plus the most effective way to instantly communicate higher status.

I am skinny and 5 foot 5 inches... I started using Carlos's advice ... Now the girls like talking to me better... Plus my approaches have been going much better.

If you are ready to step up and communicate on the most effective and primal level, you should absolutely buy Carlos Xuma's 'Badass Body Language.'"

- EP Missoula MT
"This program is really insightful and empowering. It strikes right to one of the most important, if not crucial parts of success and charismatic interaction: social skills.

It brings up many frustrating social games you are most likely familiar with and simple strategies to win these games. The program also tells about various problem personalities, where you are likely to encounter them, how they often act and how to manage their games so you don't wind up a victim.

The best of this program is its core about connecting authentically with people. It's obvious Carlos has worked a lot to find out about this problem bothering so many people. How can I connect with others in a way that feels real? If you've ever asked yourself a similar kind of question or wanted more real friends, this program is a treasure."

- Jyry

- Long

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"Dating Black Book is awesome. I read it from cover to cover. Lot of great information in there... Thank you so much..."

- Pete S.
"When I used Carlos' program,I immediately felt a surge of confidence, because now I had the tools. And they were great tools.

My posture and attitude has changed, and so has the attention I'm getting.

I'd tell guys to get the program. I've already thought about how I'm going to pass this on to my grandson when he comes of age.

As an educator, I recognize excellent teaching skills, outstanding content, and a format where each step leads to the next. Great job, Carlos! "

- Alvoro L. - Dayton, Ohio

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"Don't tell the other gurus... You're my favorite..."

- S. P. in Missoula, MT

- David B.

- Daniel A.

- Phillip K.

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"I've been having pretty good success with 'How to Talk to Women' program and I especially like the Banter and Attraction MP3."

- Mike, Jersey

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"Your programs are incredibly informative and they helped me out in numerous ways along with giving me references to emotional intelligence."

- Johnathan

- Julio Cesar
"When I used Carlos program I suddenly inplemented some changes to my behavior... Specifically, my first amazing result was very early. I didn't even complete watching the program.

I'd tell guys to try [The Bad Boy Formula]! It gets really specific into formulas and examples and what could be done. I think it's important to get an idea about how this Bad boy lifestyle could look like and Carlos did that really cool!"

- Sebastian W. - Germany

- Scott
"Carlos love your stuff it has gotten me out of the house and meeting women... "

- Steve J. - Brookline, MA
"His teaching is so down to earth and he explains things remarkably well..."

"I signed up for your newsletter and also purchased your program "Get a Girlfriend Fast." This is the first product I have purchased from Carlos and absolutely love it!!

His teaching is so down to earth and he explains things remarkably well! The things he teaches and explains are things I can do immediately and have helped me more than I ever thought possible!

My question is that I have purchased some products from (another "guru") and they didn't help me at all, in fact they confused and frustrated me!

I was just curious because Carlos is amazing in his skills and also his teaching style and ability! Thank you so much for your time and have a great day! Also tell Carlos to keep up the great work!!!"

- Jeremy W.
"Hi Carlos. I must say, I like what you are doing and have learned a lot from you!"

- Amund Hamnes A. - Oslo, Norway
"Great stuff carlos! Ill even say life changing because thats whats its done for me!"

- Don G. - St. Louis, MO

- David

- E.W.
"Carlos earned my trust..."

"I have drowned in the delirium that is spun as "pick-up," but is really a bunch of crooks repackaging obscure advice and selling it to addicted young men, lost in the sea of confusion. Before I was introduced to you I felt worse then I did before I ever gave any serious thought to how my "game" was and if there were actually resources to help me improve it.

At first glance I might not look like I need advice- I fitness model, have a fantastic education and career, and a thriving dream to be a US Navy SEAL. But candidly, I needed a system to help me implement my God Given talents and identity SOCIALLY.

I feel like I am truly onto something and for the first time I am reaping REAL rewards that last forever and don't make me feel hollow inside.

Carlos earned my trust by always giving and showing a genuine sense of committement to helping people, but his aptitude and ability are the traits that will keep it..."

- Ty

- Rahul C,

- Rodney T.

- Irfaan F.
"I am so STOKED about this program"

"I am so STOKED about this program (THE BAD BOY FORMULA)! While THE BAD BOY FORMULA is not primarily about being masculine, I am finding that Carlos' idea's compliment what I've learned... I am learning so much about how to be the better man that I crave to be, from this program. This is very exciting to me, intellectually, but also practically.

I'm going to study the SHIT out of this program! Then, I'm going to implement the SHIT out of this program! Then, I'll tell you what I've accomplished along with a cool ass review...

I just had to say something because I am so F'in stoked about this program. It's going to get my full attention for a long while. "

- John M. Cannon, North Carolina

- Paul R.

- Irfaan F.

- Paul J.

- Shane P.

- Sky B.
"you are already a fantastic help..."

"... the advices I have gotten already have enabled me to have a sweet loving dedicated Girlfriend - one who now have the highest aspiration of marrying me and having tiny version 2's with me.

I keep reading your newsletters as they inspire me to keep my life exciting, and offer sone great tips that also functions to keep the relationship renewed and my motivation up.

So really, you are already a fantastic help."

- Ieet
"I purchased the bad boy module and... it's great. Have been looking for something like this for a while. I'm 62 and wish this had been around in my 20's.

Just the first module would have made unnecessary many years and thousands of dollars of therapy.. I would have also avoided a bad marriage which I‚m getting out of now. Your stuff is really powerful.

- You have convinced me that being the good- bad boy is behavior that I can learn, not that I had to be born with. Major error on my part. Lots of wasted time obsessing over this.

- Importance of knocking women off the pedestal. They are not special human beings, except for a couple of tantric goddesses I have discovered.!!! They do have something special that most women could learn from...

- Most important of all, your material gave me total permission to try new behaviors. I never would have thought of a lot of things you put in there, but I have been close to doing this stuff. Just needed you to say it was all right, and to hell with what people think!! "

- Marvin G.
"You are the best..."

"...please accept this bit of praise - of all the proprietors I've encountered out there offering life - changing advice to men interested in finding female companionship, you are the best.

You promote character and integrity and you don't waiver. I appreciate that...

I hope you continue to offer your perspective and advice for a long time. "

- Tim T. - Fullerton, CA
"When I used Carlos' program I began to see that my fears about approaching women were completely unfounded and a little ridiculous!

...I'd tell guys to drop whatever they're doing and study the material presented by Mr. Xuma. It ain't rocket science, it is simply a set of skills that, when applied in the real world, work."

- L. S. - Nuevo Leon, Mexico
"I’ve been a student of yours for over three years. I’ve gotten an incredible amount of value from your teaching.

I want to thank you for helping me climb out of the pit of masculine despair, not by turning me into a jerk, but by helping me become an authentic man..."

- Don M.
"I will never be alone anymore..."

"For many years I enjoyed your dating dynamics podcasts, and even though I had a girlfriend... Not only did it improve my relationship, me and my grilfriend turn out to be both polyamorous so we both could have multiple partners ...

Thanks to your podcasts have I have now the sense that I will never be alone anymore ever. Even better, I never have to choose between 2 girlfriends anymore if I can get them both. ;-)"

- Olaf B.
"...Your material is the best there is, I have tried a lot of other pick up material out their, yours is by far the most natural.

I have a few of your programs that I have learned a great deal from, I am a better man because of You. I have a great girl that I have been living with for the last 6 months..."

- Scott B.
"I just wanted to thank Carlos for all his great advice and knowledge about Inner Game. It is by far the best investment I have ever made and it has completely changed my life in many ways."

- Chris P. - Brighton MA

"...Carlos' programs have changed my life. The original purpose of getting better with women has now moved down on the priority list as the programs help me race ahead with career and other goals I never thought possible in my entire adult life.

A curious side effect of this change is the attention I'm getting from women. Wonderful! Thanks Carlos! "

- Sanjiv B. - India
"I respect & love your work..."

"... just wanted to say that i respect & love your work, i thank god i found it, i love to learn & when i listen to your content i learn not only about pua but about life, so im very happy i found your stuff...

I've listened to other pua's but for whatever reason it didnt hit home with me, but i feel your advice is practical & when i hear it, I find myself saying, "i can do that", as in its not something i would feel awkward trying. so just wanted to say nice work & all the best. peace john"

- John - Tampa, FL
"Suraj is an Alpha Man now!"

"Alexei wishes he had Secrets of the Alpha Man 10 years ago..."

"Since I've received your information, the transformation is amazing..."

"Dear Mr. Xuma,

I never write or e-mail to people I've never met, or don't actually know in some way, but in your case I have to make an exception. I started getting you newsletter and videos before Christmas and what a change has come over my social life as a result...

I just couldn't attract the type of women I wanted, and whenever I tried, I would stumble and bumble and just be an a**! It was strange and out of character, and of course the worse it got, the worse I got. I decided to start doing some research, and there you were with videos, newsletters, free reports, and some great advice. I saw the qualities you espoused, and realized I had them all in spades, I just wasn't using them socially.

Since I've received your information, the transformation is amazing! I am now dating lawyers, teachers, doctors, and lots of other intelligent, attractive career women ranging in ages from 27 to 40. Exactly what I want. I now carry myself socially with women the way I have for years with men that I've lead. I'm now inline with myself. What a difference!

The reason for this e-mail is that today was truly amazing! I saw this incredible red head talking with a friend. I walked over to the two ladies, apologized for interrupting, but said that if I didn't introduce myself to the two of them, I would always regret it.

We talked for a few moments, the friend was married (perfect!) and the next thing I had a lunch date for tomorrow with the red head, along with a phone number and e-mail! It wasn't even a pick-up! It was just a conversation between a secure, confident man and an attractive woman!

Eventually, through dating and meeting lots of women, I will find the one I want to spend the rest of my days with. I believe I have you to thank for that Carlos, for making me realize I had what it takes, I just needed to align my inner game with my outer game, and express those alpha values in a consistent way in all areas of my life.

Keep up the great work, and by the way, I'm 41 years old so its never to late to learn something. All the best, and I must go now because I have a date tonight with Doctor of Electrical Engineering. Should be a great conversation! "

- Dave P.
"Hi Carlos, I am very happy that I invested in your Day-game program. I am going out everyday and approaching women. Getting the phone number is so easy and natural now that I don't need a clever line for that!

I owe my success mostly to your 21-days approaching habit program, I'm doing it well over a month now. When I started out, I needed to push myself to go out, but now, if I don’t go out everyday, I feel anxious!"

- Ali A.
"Hey Mate, I'm downloading like a mofo. Its a good thing I have a fast ADSL speed. Ive been watching and I think they should be teaching this at school.

I cant BELIEVE the F&ck ups ive done in the past. I wish my dad could have taught me this stuff.

Love your [Bad Boy Formula] product!"

- C. C.
"Now I'm starting to get it."

"I just finished the Bad Boy program, and I felt like Carlos was talking to me.

I grew up in an extremely dysfuntional home (mentally ill parents, various types of abuse)and so I never got the "how to be a man" course. Now I'm starting to get it.

The style of video with graphics worked GREAT! Much better than just audio or a book. Just ordered the Alpha masculinity program. More lessons to come, I'm sure. Thanks."

- Anonymous - Louisville, KY
"Carlos, from the first email, I realized, you're teaching me how to be a man. And DAMN, that has good affect on ALL aspect of my life!"

- Bryan C. - Spokane, WA, USA
"You are incredibly smart. I've been listening to Tony Robbins and The Secret and The Four Agreements (which you should read, if you haven't) and even the Secret Laws of Attraction. You are in line with all of these people."

- David S. - Sarasota, Florida

"Great stuff Carlos! I'm 48 Ive been divorced for quite sometime now And have been receiving your materials for about a year now! AND IT ALL MAKES PERFECT SENSE!"

- Don G. - St. Louis, MO
"Your book is real and I respect the shit out of that."

- Chris R. - Chicago IL
"I wanted to let you know that your Bad Boy Formula (BBF) program is helping me out a lot. I'm getting a broader understanding of my personality from it."

- Kyo J. - California
"I am in the middle of a divorce and your words were/are timely and EFFECTIVE! "

- James E. - Denver, Colorado
"All i have to say is u are amazing! you have truly changed my life. I was in a state of depression for awhile and i found u online and started getting ur emails and taking everything in.

Everything u talk about not only helps me with women but also with my life. Thanks to u im out of my shell and doing everything with more confidance and ambition. Thanks alot!"

- Trevor L.
"Grow a pair of balls, get yourself together and take these steps..."

"I was pretty much halfway there, but still didn't quite know how to bring out my inner bad boy 100%. I figured out that I got the pyshics of a bad boy, long hair, soul patch, tattoos and I love listening to extreme metal and hard music.

When I used Carlos' program he put thing really into a great perspective. He is authentic, and geniune as well as extremely informative. He gave me a kick in the ass, which really helped me localize, what to work on with myself.

He made me realize, the height issue is MORE in my head, than in the girls heads. It's about projecting more alpha qualities, and authentic "bad boy" qualities than just sitting there in self pity whining over problems.

...Carlos simply put down understandably what made my ex so keen on having me back, even after i kicked her to the curb.

I even applied some of these attitudes at work, and received some more respect from people who would usually be nagging bitches.

And while chicks used to approach me for hobby psychological sessions, I now sarcastically tell them that my hourly rate is 125$...

...Grow a pair of balls, get yourself together and take these steps. You're not getting younger, and if you wanna avoid seeing your favorite girl humping some badboy hunk be my guest. But the sooner you make these changes, the better it is.

I have 2 bad boy friends, and It's time to not let them take away my targets anymore..."

- Simon J.
"it is simply the best I have ever encountered in all my years..."

"... I my friend am moved by your is simply the best i have ever encountered in all my years on being part of this community.

yesterday i sat and listened to your bad boy materials for four straight should have seen the changes in my attitude that very night! one very cute girl in particular was just amazed at the spontaneous cocky funny stuff that was just spouting out of my mouth! no canned routines whatsoever...just pure improv!"

- Jack
" When I used Carlos' program, I straightened out my behavior. With guys and girls.

I'd tell guys to buy [The Bad Boy Formula] before anything else on the list. It's the product that I've been wanting all along but couldn't find..."

- Steve
"I realize that the advanced coaching would really help me to achieve my goals faster ...You surely won a fan, What I'm learning from you is really changing my life for the better, and I intend to buy your other products.

Thanks, Brother!"

- Vicente, Brazil
"Absolutely Great..."

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"It's been real invaluable... Having your voice and having your programs... Absolutely great..."

- Gerry S.

"I had the best date of my life, she's Playboy beautiful..."

"Incidentally, I must say I see vast improvement in my communication skills. ... I think of them as a "gift" to the women I date. On Saturday I had the best date of my life, She's Playboy beautiful, (I guess you'd have to say milf LOL but we're 50), warm, and funny.

I don't take your products as a bible of what must be done, but I do use lots of it and learn as much from the rest...."

- Stuart A.

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"It is the best program that I've listened to... I look up to you, and I aspire to be like you..."

- Jeff M.

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"I saw you pick up a girl there that was super hot..."

- Jack L. - Montreal
"i have just finish listening to all 8 modules of the [Bad Boy] program. It is like nothing i have ever heard. Phenomenal.

thanks once again for your incredible work..."

- T.L. - Canada
"I just watched your "How to be a bad boy" video and loved it. That also prompted me to get in touch with you and let you know about some of the success I have been having.

I can now talk to most people so easily. I feel like I have reclaimed a child-like playfullness back into my life and I'm actually starting to really believe that I am desireable man. The hook ups and sex are a by-product, this is really the first time in a long time that I have felt good about my self.

Your working wonders, Carlos!"

- Lance K.
"Changed My Life"

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"Not only have you helped me with women, but you've helped me with ... my life in general... I'm ready to go... Changed my life..."

- D.X.
" know you’ve been my sensei in all this relationship business for a long time and I feel that I owe it to you once in a while to post a story.

I went to the Caribbean for a New Year Party and met some friends there... So a group of us are all hanging out on the beach waiting for the stroke of midnight and we spotted a group of girls. So Todd and I go over and wish them a Happy New year. That was all it took!

They we're totally into us. Carlos, I thought I was the alpha stud...

I kept up this playful banter with the girl I was spending my time with... We partied until 7am and Todd was gone. I went home with my new girl friend and went for a swim. We ended up kissing in the swimming pool and she ended up in my bed that morning...

I have a new girl friend now and just want to enclose the photo to show you. Shes a very sweet girl! Thanks to you Carlos I think I did pretty much everything right.

[My friend] Todd was amazing to see in action. His forwardness is something people tend to say women don't like, but I was watching the opposite happen before my eyes with amazing results. (And a guy in his mid 40s) Age is a joke! "

- David B.
"In our society, most men have lost their real masculinity, actually we don't even know anymore what it is.. and not being being able to claim our full masculine potential hurts both us and the women.

The Secrets of The Alpha Man program will show you exactly what masculinity is and you will reclaim your masculinity. Women will instantly fall for you, because 95% of guys out there are not like the man you will be after the having studied this awesome program.

Thanks Carlos for your amazing work!!"

- Mike L.
"Thank you so very much for allowing me the opportunity to study with you, I appreciate this fantastic education..."

- Richard M.
"I would like to thank you for newsletter and weekly alpha tips. The alpha tips are great and i love listening to them each week. Getting this stuff for free seems too good to be true..."

- Glen

"My situation before I found this product was all work and no play.

When I use Carlos' program I have women asking me out for lunch, potlucks or a few beers, its awesome.

Specifically, my fellow co-workers male and female alike dont understand how this happens with me now. I consistantly have woman looking for me.

... this program is like money in the bank..."

- Frank R. - El Paso, TX
"Carlos, I love you man! I mean it! Your materials are amazing! I can really feel the internal difference - I don't think its just the caffeine! The outer game stuff of techniques and "good guy vs. jerk" are all transients. The powerful stuff is what's inside.

I met a girl (Melanie)Saturday night - and I put myself out there. I didn't ask for her number - I asked for a date! She said yes..."

- Bill O. - Pittsburgh, PA
"I purchased the Ultimate Inner Game System this past summer and have noticed a huge difference in all aspects of my dating and social life. Its fantastic...

Thanks a lot Carlos. This is life changing stuff. I once was a skeptic but no more. "

- Shawn B. - North Carolina
"I'm very grateful to you... Since I've learned from your newsletters, video & audio programs, I no longer go through the painful experience of being the hot girl's shoulder to cry on..."

- Ken C. - Philippines
"My situation before I found this product was my girlfriend left me,and I was so frustrated with my lack of success with women...

Specifically, I became better at approaching women. I started doing it regularly and more often and getting better responses than I expected.

I'd tell guys to ask Carlos' advice on the best product to start with for where you're at. Every guy out here has a 21st century Alpha Man within. Start revealing it to yourself and your world..."

- Troy F. - Hickory N.C.
"... it seems like you got your shit down on this... your shit is best for inner game... Respect man...

I've only listened to bits and pieces of your program so far, but so far from what I see, it looks like I'm going to be excited and it looks like a guaranteed sale... You are the fucking man."

- Tony A.
"This stuff WORKS !! I've tried out so many places with a large number of ladies...n got success everytime. Guaranteed 100%...this is the kind of system every man out there needs... rock solid natural game ! "

- M. B.
"It's funny, I find myself using some of your techniques to motivate my employees and it's incredible how they react to that kind of coaching.

You're a good man Carlos. I want you to realize that you're not just selling this stuff, you're truly inspiring men to become confident leaders..."

- Brett B.
"way to go man, you are the shit ;-)"

- Nolan H.
"arlos! Firstly, thank you. I've been an avid reader of your newsletters for about a year now (I think) and have benefited tremendously from all your material.

What you deliver, is the highest quality help with women I've seen anywhere, and consistently. I see myself as a the kind of guy who read a ton of stuff and sifts through it and uses what 'speaks' to me the most, what's most useful to me.

Your stuff is just packed with useful information, and a healthy balance of inner-outer game. Your stuff doesn't focus on 'picking up chicks' like some sort of 'player's guide' but it focuses on male empowerment, social skills, and genuine self improvement. It's been a vital asset in my transformation into a powerful, centered man, and I could not have done it without your help.

I've been getting so much more success with women, and not just random hookups, but generating real attraction in women I'm interested in, it's incredible."

- Chaim M.

"This is just to say that your materials are awesome ! Your work and references are great, they helped me a lot."

- Olivier DF
"Mr. Xuma, I am a big fan of your work. Going over your "alpha conversation" program and finding it not only extremely helpful but enjoying your skill of breaking the most complicated aspects of human interaction and communication to the simplest basics. You should've been an architect :)

Anyway, I'm from Eastern Europe, and a couple of friends and I share your passion. Even almost unheard of in these areas, ... Mystery, Zan, De Angelo, we've pretty much been through it all.

Still, i found your style unique and most closely resembling my attitude and beliefs. The part about dropping the pretense, being completely honest and real, even using an openers we're only genuinely interested in- exactly what I believe this process should be about.

So i told the guys i'm going to specialise in Xuma 8-)

So, my early-New Year resolution is to go through all of your material, all of your books, audios and videos, implement it and therefore enrich mine, and the lives of those around me."

- Dino I.
"What do I do once your techniques prove to be so powerful that I end up meeting THE woman of my dreams and worships the ground I walked on? I don't want to get complacent, but...geez, I kinda like this!

The kicker: I'm 51! and this WORKS, even for this old coot! I KNOW it will work for the younger guys out there! You are a !@#$%^& GENIUS!"

- J. S.
"I picked up a lot of girls on Halloween thanks to you.

I respect the heck out of you. Your tips were fantastic going into Halloween and I just wanted to say thanks. Got lots of phone numbers."

- David Brooks

"All I wanted to do is take the chance to thank you for these programs. I have almost finished 'Secrets of the Alpha Man' ebook and it is incredible. Literally, if I feel my Beta sneaking upon me now, I just take a couple hours to read a couple of chapters to give me a good slap in the face.

It is because of this ebook I have made new friends, experienced things I would normally pass on and found hobbies I had never thought to explore with any real conviction. For this I thank you.

I've been a student for the past 4yrs but have only now just completed my degree, I have been waiting so long to begin the alpha lifestyle opposed to the; penniless, stressed, monotone ventures of student life. I've been waiting to purchase more of your products as they are worth their weight in gold, now working, I finally can...

PS Your ebook has taught me to grasp for so much more in this world than the mediocre life we have all accepted as the apparent apogee of existence."

- Kyle K. - Australia
"Been a subscriber for a long time and a purchaser of your "Alpha Man" program and I gotta say my man, your instruction & inspiration has been life changing! In my former life I was one of those supplicating guy's who tried to always please women, bring flowers, take them to an expensive dinner and very happy if I got a good night kiss, only to never hearing from them again.

Now, with your help, I occasionally have women asking me out, wanting to make dinner for me and yes, even spending the night ... "

- Greg D. - Mesa, AZ
"Carlos Xuma's well-crafted messages reach thousands of men who are seeking to increase their attractiveness to the opposite sex. Having worked with Carlos in his recording studio creating self-help programming for his website and CDs, I found the experience enjoyable, professional, and enlightening. His interview style puts guests at ease and draws out the speaker’s expertise.

I’ve also had the pleasure of booking Carlos as a speaker for SingleLifeCamp. His presence was quite a draw, as both men and women signed up to receive his well-researched information on attracting the opposite sex. He mesmerized the audience with his knowledge and passionate presence. Definitely a top draw, Carlos’ presentation had the audience asking about the future SingleLifeCamps.

In the dating industry, he is unmatched in his attractiveness to both male and female guests for his informative presentations and charismatic speaking style""

- Jerusha Stuart - Author
"Hey man. big fan of your, love your books thanks for the advice and thanks for the emails!!.I'd be screwed without you.. well actually because of you im getting screwed more often lol so thanks !!"

- Mike S.

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"You're stuff is dynamite - it's GREAT - right on... You've really taken a lot of the mystery out... Great stuff, can't get enough of it..."

- Don G.

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"I actually haven't made it through the entire book yet, but it's like my game's got leaps and bounds since I've started applying that...helped me out a lot...just want to thank you guys..."

- Mike F.

"Hey Carlos, I just want to let you know that your program is awesome and now I like it even more after I started listening to it again... I'm already in module 3 about the power of questions and about letting go and I'm feeling much better now..."

- Alison G.
"I've purchased 3 of your products recently, and you are amazing. I'm so impressed with you and your intelligence, along with my results that I recommend every guy I know to purchase your products..."

- Marc W.
"I had no idea how to act or talk around women. When I used Carlos' program I was skeptical at first, though I listened to the audio twice, took notes and began to realize that what he was saying was right.

Specifically, I lost my virginity. Not even kidding you, there was this one girl I met through the web, and one day she suggested I should come over. I was tired and didn't feel like it until I remembered how Carlos made it a point in the program to never turn down an invitation.

So I went over to her apartment, played it cool, and kissed a girl for the first time as well as lost my virginity.

I'd tell guys to give it a chance, knowledge is power.

Why did I not find you and your programs sooner!?"

- Vince
"Hey Carlos.....Enjoying your GGF program - it is very well made"

- Praveen A.
"I just have to say since I've entered the realm of dating gurus, your stuff has hit me the hardest and by far is affecting the most in being the best I can be as an individual."

- Jim N.
" Just wanted to say your kicking some butt with your programs. That inner game program is working out for me really well...

your program of secrets of the alpha man and ultimate inner game is helping me get there. "

- John P.
"I am just the impressed reader of your well-written, refreshing e-books. Your stuff rocks..."

- Jose L.
"My situation before I found [Get a Girlfriend Fast] was the same as most guys. I was having trouble with my confidence level. When I used Carlos' program it gave me a new sense of confidence and ability to walk up to any woman I was attracted to...

I'd tell guys to try this out for themselves. There is no risk and the rewards are endless..."

- Larry C. - Evanston, IL
"I am impressed with Carlos' depth and clarity. He has a way of speaking that supports real growth and the inner game, and also gets you fast results... "

- Mike Stone
"I've been listening to your audio program on Alpha Masculinity. Thank you. I mean it - THANK YOU! It's intelligent, thorough, clear and dead-on.

Looks like I'll be spending a fair share of the upcoming weeks and months trying to get myself back on track... you held one helluva mirror up to me and showed me that being Mr Nice Guy is not such a nice thing to be..."

- Tim T. - Fullerton, CA

"Alpha Masculinity is worth every penny of it and a million times more, a must have programme for every man who desires to reach that true inner self and release his true potential, no bullshit no cheap talk, just hardcore truth..."

- Tom O.
"This is gold Carlos and it has motivated me more... Our time is short we must become Alpa and achieve great goals! "

- Tom M. - Australia
"hey carlos, before i ask you my qs, i just want to say that you are amazing - and everything you put out there is great, i bought a lot of your products - and they all deliver..."

- Shawn S.
" Are you ready for a success story?!?! ... I just have to say THANK YOU dude, you are the greatest, I have been using your Inner Alpha Game audio tapes and they have elevated my game beyond imaginable levels.

I am at the point where I have been talking to and dating a MIN. of 3 girls per week for the last 2 months. I am kinda worried about going any higher because I work and am a student also its been hard to make the time.

I know have girls giving me their phone numbers and they are making the first move to hang out, just today two of the grls I have been talking to all week both asked when we can hang out sometime

I can not thank you enough bro keep up the good work!! I hope this inspires all other men out there that you can do anything you set your mind to..."

- Andy F.
"...I now have alot more confidence in myself thanks to your products... Your stuff works, thanks buddy I am becoming more alpha every day with the abundance attitude, Keep up the good work..."

- Shah
"...First of all, I'd just like to point out how much the Dating Black Book has helped me in my mental attitude towards the other half of humanity, and attracting this particular species. It's been an eye-opening experience in that I can now see how fundamentally flawed my interpersonal ethic has been when trying to orchestrate the process of attraction!

Thanks for this Carlos!"

- David L. - U.K.
"I have nothing but respect and gratitude for him for putting his time and energy into making these programs for not just a better life, but a better world to live in.

I will definitely be spreading the word.... "

- Gurare R.
"Thanks for all the good work your doing. The most comprehensive program in all of the comunity. The correct material at the correct time. Your material is making me dig deep and work hard.

... Keep up the great work."

- T.C.
"your Approach Women program helped me overcoming my anxiety and after going through it midway,I gained some confidence at least saying hi to beautiful ladies,and eventually started approaching them,

...Now when I go outside I don't have problem meeting new people and women(I usually try places where there are plenty of women like art shows etc.)..."

- Rahul B. - Los Angeles, CA
"...The reson I am writing to you is to tell you that I have been exposed to many bullshit dating, seduction and communication skills programs untill I found out about you and your high quality programs.

The fact is that your program secrets of the alpha man + Alpha man conversation and persuation both have opened a whole new horizon for me and they really made me see the world from different perspective.

What was amusing is that they also helped me in my business and career life. Although our culture is very different than yours but believe it or not they worked like magic.

You have had a dramatic effect in my life. THANK YOU MILLION TIMES."

- Wael S. - Middle East

"Carlos, you're the MAN... I'm serious man, girls are now looking at me, calling out after me, waving at me in class, approaching ME and want to find out what I'M about.

You helped me go from needy boy to centered man who doesn't crave attention and give up my energy... and this is all about a WHOLE LOT MORE than just seduction.

Thanks man - Deep Love to you... I can't thank you enough man"

- Peter K.

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"I got your approach women 2 course... and it is dynamite... it is awesome, it is right on the money... I have learned more with this than I have EVER... I'm getting - making out with someone that I just met... having fun and flirting..."

- Don - St. Louis, MO
"wow man, I have to say your stuff is so awesome. I really enjoyed listening to it on my way to Portland last weekend.

Carlos, I want to... keep doing this until it gets like you said, where it can be done as natural as tying a pair of shoe laces every day. Thanks again so much for your great work..."

- David B.
"...I've become one bad MF-er with your advice. Love the Inner game program!! Lengthy, but; great. It really expands on the "Secrets of the Alpha Man". "

- Brett B.
"Seriously, you were the first dating guru out there that I both learned and bought from. Thanks so much for your help in pushing me in the right direction in becoming the Alpha Male I've always dreamed of. God bless you man!"

- Vince M.
"Carlos, you have truly changed my life with your teachings. I do my best to be up on your latest work. Thanks for everything."

- Robert L.
"Carlos Xuma's wisdom on this topic is unsurpassed by any other author I've read.

Carlos leads the reader, with a solid grounding in some timeless psychological principles, on a journey through the female psyche and what the male in contemporary society has to do, to bypass the female inbuilt protection mechanisms to create that attraction, naturally.

A must-read for every guy who finds himself scratching his head, thinking 'where have I been going wrong all these years? Why don't women like me? After all I'm such a NICE GUY!'

Read it and never think the same way about women again!" "

- David L. - U.K.
"I began listening to your Audio Coaching mp3's in November 2003, or thereabouts. (I listened to your monthly audios a lot - just about everytime I was driving.)

Listening to your advice - and incorporating it into my life - certainly improved both my dating life and my life in general.

I met and dated a lot of women in the early and mid 2000's ("wash...rinse...repeat") and eventually met my fiance in October 2005 - we're getting married next month."

- Greg F.
"Carlos is that rare individual who seeks out and acquires for himself an encyclopedic knowledge of every subject he pursues, then passes that knowledge along with a concise clarity that makes it understandable for anyone.

Beyond that, he's fun, optimistic and focused on his own success as well as that of his clients. I would not hesitate to give Carlos my highest recommendation."

- Robert Martin
"Carlos consistently produces and provides high quality personal coaching products and services that deliver effective results. His products and services are offered in "tailored" programs to help meet the needs and demands of both novice and experienced customers looking to develop or simply improve their lives and relationships.

The best part of his coaching is his ability to share his own personal experience while drawing upon a rich amount of published resources.

His ability to distill important ideas and theories down to their essence and incorporate them into everyday practices in his coaching lessons improves the effectiveness of his coaching and reduces the amount of time a person would have to otherwise invest in order experience the same amount understanding and improvement in their lives.

His coaching and programs are both pragmatic and effective."

- Liang C.

"Carlos is a brilliant dating expert who wholeheartedly gives all of himself to his clients and business."

- Briddick Webb, CEO Attractology
"Carlos provides a great service to men of any age and gives you raw advice that you can use in your daily life as well as personal. His work has been a great source of knowledge to help me personally achieve my goals in life!"

- Christian Olivieri
"The content was great. ... I think your messaging is really valuable for guys to hear.

I no longer dread going up to girls, asking for numbers & dates etc... keep doing your thing... you'll be hearing from me down the line..."

- Brian L.
"Thank you for the incredible value you provide to the entire dating community... and I also bought a few of your programs. I'm getting lots of success especially after I started working on my confidence with women and after purchasing a few of your programs..."

- Amit B.
"...I would like to say thank you very much for creating the Power Social skills program. I have only listened to the entire thing about twice, however, it has helped me incredibly in my attempts to relate to other people. It has really allowed me to have an easier time feeling out the intentions and the goals of other people, as well as to protect myself from people who try to violate my personal space and my psychic space...

I like how you speak in your programs. You seem to know just what sorts of things I have given priority to when it comes to interactions with other people. "

- Jonathan G.
"Just wanted to say how great the Approach Women Now package is. I've always had the anxiety and fear when approaching women and with the help of your program I'm moving forward.

I've missed many women opportunities in life and with the help of the package I'm starting to turn this around. Thank you and I look forward to using more of your products to get better and better with the ladies!"

- Richard S.
"I got a lot from your Secrets of Alpha Man.After my divorce I thanked you greatly for it. I got good in dating after 2 years of going out and actually doing this.

I ended up sleeping with girls to a point that I had started my 4 girl rotation going :) Something I thought was never possible or out of luck if you were to ask me in 2007...."

- Sandros
"First of all, your dating black book and how to be an alpha male are just AMAZING, i need to thank you for that..."

- Ignacio G.
"Carlos!!! Love your stuff. I`ve been readin and getting all of your stuff thru your site ALPHA MALE! The stuff ROCKS!!!!"

- Pat J.
"Carlos-you Rock. I've turned several friends onto your programs and appreciate your clear, non-mysogynistic theme. I've followed your material for a couple of years and found it amazingly insightful-right on target, with fantastic results You're a brother from another mother. I owe you a beer. Make that a case of beer. "

- Cole S.

"Carlos, just wanted to say you have a great program for men. A program that is effective and ethical at the same time. Your program requires you to attract women by being exactly who you are.

...My skills are improving and no longer a nice guy, but now a man with ALPHA traits. To future students I say there are no excuses with your program.

Ask yourself just how much money you spent on your last date?? Did you get a hug and a kiss?? Did she say your were a really a nice guy but no cigar dude?? "

- Jeff B.

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...It's loaded with content, that's why I wanted to say that to people, like you're literally getting a ton of information for your money... Your stuff is what will help you KEEP her... Life changing forever... "

- Aaron Auxier - Las Vegas, NV
"I finished your Alpha Masculinity program, and I'm BLOWN AWAY with how much AMAZING content is in there. THANK YOU!"

- Jack J.
"Hey carlos your the man! All you teach is so RIGHT ON! track!

Im 48 years old and over 11 years ago been in a couple of real stupid relationships ... Im starting to get it all stright now I've become a much more social person lately and BOY is it paying off!

Carlos, love your emails and videos. I want to dig deeper and learn some of the 'high octane' material in your programs. "

- Don G. - Missouri
"*** From a Woman ***

I have recently purchased your Alpha Immersion program because I found the first one I bought great , (Secrets of the Alpha man .)

... I am a girl and the two programs I bought were a sort of present for my brother . Congratulations on your work . Blessings"

- Evita A. - Greece
"you have some excellent material..."

- Elias M.
"I'm getting married next month, many thanks to you for your help..."

- D.R. - Roanoke, VA
"I like your material... It is much in line with my way of thinking and interacting with women and it works for me. I believe that if the approach you teach to interact with women does not work... one should reconsider involvement with that particular woman. It tends to naturally filter out the ones not worth spending time on.

Keep up the good work"

- Helder F.
"your material is pure gold"

- Mick D.
"... the best things from carlos is that he gives you an authentic view of relationships without playing any tricks or mindgames with women. He is like the JEDI side of the world of attraction, facing the DARK SIDE of seduction that a lot of gurus teach..."

- Daniel - Spain

"... I am 61 years old. ... Im continuously working on becoming an Alpha male that walks into a situation and has my pick. Im a lot closer today than i was last year. With your focused determiation to help men like me. I'll be there very soon.

Your step by step material is well thought out and presented in a way " I " can understand it.

Carlos I appreciate you takeing your time to reach out to your subscribers and ask for our feedback. Keep up the very good work. "

- T.C.
"[Carlos] puts in so much time to help us. Thank you carlos xuma! You are under-rated."

- Justin - Toronto, CA
"i read the book,dating black book... I now see why things didn't work out with a co-worker i had my eye on ...thanks Carlos for helping me get my balls back..."

- M. T.

- Hernan
"... the Dating Black Book is eye-opening. For me personally, it has LITERALLY been a commentary on everything I did wrong on my first (and only) ever date.

Never again will I take on the role of needy wimp sweating in his socks about what to say next or whether she approves..."

- David L. - U.K.
"Just wanted to say that I am highly impressed with the amount of resourses and information for what I have invested into the program. The program teaches you to be "the man" instead of faking it with pick up lines that eventually get found out by women..."

- Jeff B.
"You seem to be one of the few men that realise what society has done to our masculinity over the last 50 to 100 years.

Keep up the good work of getting the word out to men to wake up !!!!!"

- Stewart C. - Melbourne, Australia
"Carlos I been following you for a long time and your stuff is awesome. I'm not saying it just to blow you up - but you have a way of nailing it. I will always support your work..."

- David B.
"Honestly, i've used the techniques from the free e-book form Carlos.And i can say that the result was amazing! i met a girl last week and i used some of the techniques in the book like ''tease to please'' , '' giving value when meeting!'' It really hepls a lot!) i've been able to attract gorgeous girls! good work! keep it up man! "

- Kuwat - Turkmenistan
"right now I'm devouring your Dating Black Book...i see myself and the mistakes I've been making on every page...the information in of the highest quality and spot is showing me how to respect and be true to myself without having to misuse women. "

- Warwick P.

"...I thought i was wrong and try to change that behavior by all means....

right now when i hear you, I feel like torchman from fantastic 4..."flame on"

Thanks for return to me "my confidence in myself" "

- Nahum C. R. - Sonora, Mexico

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"The one most influential thing in my life... more than any counseling... You are definitely on the point... and I bought in to the game..."
"I love your information... but I am using it WITHIN a great relationship to build it even stronger. We love role playing, so all the great "dating" ideas just sex it up for us.

My contribution to YOU is to recommend your program to some of my friends!"

- Alan G.
"And I gotta thank you again... with your teachings I've escalated my game to point where it's second nature. Honestly I just don't make it a priority anymore.

If you check out my profile, you can see I'm a 42 year old dating and living with a 23 year old aspiring model..."

- Ralph M.
"Hey carlos, I don't know how to thank you. No one can imagine that your stuff works in kenya but i'm your living testmony. I was a complete wussbag before you turned my life through 180 degrees.

Thanx a lot you're my hero..."

- Dennis - Kenya
"Now I have a new path... thanks to you, my friend. You provided me the tools, and I am now implementing them. Now at 43 I have several certifications under my belt and will be embarking on a new career path. This will enable me to pursue my women and socializing endeavor..."

- Chris
"i consider you as the wise older brother i never had.... if i had your advices 10 years ago i could have enjoyed much more my life....specially in those moments i needed that advice my friends couldnt give."

- Gustavo V. - Mexico City
"... read your dating black book about six months ago and ...these have helped me make some tremendous strides. I really appreciate your honest and open approach to teaching dating, as I've been following a lot of the "gurus" for about five years now and have realized who the dishonest ones are.

... I don't get to read your emails too often anymore because I'm too busy dating :), so I just wanted to say thanks for sharing all of this info with us all the time. It's made a difference..."

- Sean H.
"your alpha tips are second to none...Carlos you are the man!!"

- Evan L.
"Hey Carlos, I recently purchased Alpha Masculinity. It's truly great and has changed my life. Thank you..."

- Joey H. - Darien, CT

"Hey, Carlos - I've been thru all the DYD stuff, but for a 'quick shot' reminder or crash-course in inner AND outer game, and the beliefs you must have or attain, along with the skills and techniques and... awareness... of "how it all works" - this ["Get a Girlfriend"] 'primer' can't be matched!"

- Bill P. - Fort Worth, TX
"I feel great to have bought such a good, and really helping program. It really is gold, like all your programs by the way.

I polish my shiny golden thanks and raise it to you Carlos..."

- Roc F. - Quebec, Canada
"After listening to your material Approach Women NOW, it has really helped me in socializing with women and getting their numbers etc. I have become much more confident and no longer have a fear of approaching women, ever.

And my conversation skills have also improved as a result of putting myself out there and interacting with not only women but just people in general..."

- Mel Y. - Australia
"Just listened to UIG4 (Control Your Mind)... wow, awesome content"

- R.B.
"Ever since I subscribed to your newsletters alone, my life has changed, I feel more confident and powerful..."

- Josh N.
"...certainly unaware of the traits that make an alpha man. Now, after listening to the CDs for 5 times (in their entirety), I have a different story to tell...

When I used Carlos' program I had a pretty good idea of the traits of the alpha man, but CX did a job that I consider golden: put all those traits together in one place. CX opened my eyes: it is not about getting a woman/women, it is about getting my goals in life straight like a true alpha man.

I did not know how to handle all the issues of the single man. Now I do. And it is not about getting women: It is about enriching my life!

I'd tell guys to buy it. It is a life-changer. I pity you for not buying it! The program is THAT thorough!"

- Victor R. - Bahrain
"Secrets of the Alpha man woke me up in unimaginable ways. I've been using your material ever since. "

- Chris C.
"I just [got] your "Alpha Masculinity" program...your message of women simply being a side effect of living a passionate life makes perfect sense!

I am lucky to have found your program, and will wholeheartedly recommend it to any male friend!"

- Parth T.

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"Just wanted to call in and let you know how great the new Alpha Masculinity program is..."

- Steve F. - New York
"...I have been receiving newsletters from a couple different ''dating gurus'' (yours too!) for a few months already and I have dramatically improved my self-confidence, self-esteem ... RESULTS! I wanted to thank you for that by the way

But there is one thing I found out about you recently and it is that you focus on women and dating, but thats not all you talk about and suggest people to focus on, what you want us to learn is being ''Alpha Males'' in all areas of our life...

...i've been studying all other areas of life before dating... and your approach is absolutly the best."

- Olivier, France

"Let me start off by saying that your material is just the best...exactly what I was looking for.

In the past I had seen all the stuff from David D, the Mystery Method and etc...and in comparison, your take effectively cuts through all the BS and gets to what really matters...

forget the silly tricks and's about who you are. Being ALPHA..."

- Josh A. -
"Before I found this product, I had already been working on different aspects of learning to get better with girls for about five months. My success was pretty limited and I was becoming a "keyboard jockey."

When I used Carlos' program, I was quickly able to put together all the pieces I had been learning and apply them in real-life situations.

Specifically, I was finally able to get the courage to approach girls that I'd never spoken to and establish rapport and get true interest from them.

I'd tell guys to definitely buy Carlos' material. Before even getting through a fraction of Get a Girlfriend Fast, I already saw myself making progress, so I dropped the money for Secrets of the Alpha Man, which I'm extremely excited for...

Carlos knows how to motivate and encourage his students along the way to success with quality women. "

- S.F. - Great Neck, NY
"Hey Carlos! Thanks so much for helping us men who did not receive the education from a male role model in life grow up!

Feels great to have the confidence I now have - keep up the great work..."

- Kevin C. - I.E., California

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"This was the program that finally got me off my ass... This program really was just what I needed..."

- Frank F. - New York, NY

  Press play to hear Paul - Albany, NY...
"Your stuff is really really so helpful... This is great stuff... I would highly recommend it..."

- Paul - Albany, NY

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"The stuff that I have gone over is very phenomenal..."

- Colin - US Army

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"I am a firm believer in you and your products..."

- Jason E.

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"You've been giving some crazy good advice... Better than anything else out there..."

- Justin
"just after reading your emails and listening to a couple of your audio blitz sessions i have totally been able to use some of what you are teaching here. i am a very under-confident guy and this keeps me from talking to alot of women.

well guess what just using some of your strategies the other night at a local bar i had two beautiful women hanging on my arms. my friends were like what the hell happened to you? so i told him later about your site and he said he was definatly going to check out how to become an alpha male!

thanks for all the emails and keep the audio coming as well. "

- Grady K. - Hutchinson, KS
"I'm no great writer. But, I had to send a note over to express my sincere appreciation to Carlos Xuma for creating this Alpha Masculinity program. In just my first day of listening to it, my life has been made better. Carlos' prespective on overcoming fear has made me more of a confident man. By knowing, now, that I can handle the outcomes of the daily situations I encounter, I'm no longer reacting from fear, and the people around me now trust me more.

Carlos' insights into men and masculinity have shown me that he has a wealth of knowledge and years of experience in this subject. If I had know a tenth of what Carlos' knew, I would be a lot further ahead in my life. I've been a member of "The Community" for several years. Yet, in listening to this program, I'm hearing content that I haven't heard anywhere else. There's great wisdom here. It's not just for getting better with women and dating. I've got a great girlfriend. With the information that I'm hearing on this program, I can improve my career and worklife, as well.

I haven't gotten through very much of the program yet, and I might not agree with all the contributors, but I like the fact that so many expert's advise is contained in this program. I like that Carlos has given me so many points of view to consider. I've undercovered several great golden-nuggets of information. So many, in fact, that I've loaded the program into my i-Phone, so that I can listen to his teachings everywhere I go. There's enough great information in this program to last a very long time!

Thanks, Carlos. Masculinity is a great program!"

- Mike J. - San Francisco

"I was too much of a nice guy getting laid half as often as the hotshots. thought being a little on the shy side was cute ( yuck!!!) [when I used the program] - Boost in confidence, no longer fearing rejection, no apologies no approval seeking.

I'd tell guys to stop playing with the meat puppet and get out there and make that lone hottie next to the bartender yours!! Read the books its absolutely no bull!! its years of research put together creatively.

THANKS A TRILLION CARLOS. im finally on my way to becoming a true ALPHA MAN . "

- Ricky R. - Montego Bay, Jamaica
"My situation before I found this product was REALLY BAD...

When I used Carlos' program I know that I can always improving my self to be the best version of myself... Specifically, I move on from my anxiety and fear into a more calm state.

I'd tell guys to buy Carlos Xuma's product

Carlos is the house. "

- Mickel D., Muncie IN
"About 3 weeks ago I have purchased the approach women now cd set. Excellent resource as I have thoroughly enjoyed it and found it an excellent package as a whole..."

- Randy A. - Calgary, Alberta
"May I just say, the Alpha Manifesto was AWESOME! The E-book really impacted me and completely changed my view on Pick-up.

Your book really clicked it all into place for me(I.E., The think Barrier, The gap left buy pick up routines).

Thank you for making this!"

- Andy R.
"...Why I have ordered your Social Skills info:

1. I have been getting your e-mails for some time and find them very interesting and informative.

2. Your knowledge and expertise seems to be unending.

3. My social skills need a lot of improvement and you seem to be the best person to provide this needed info for me.

4. I have been on this journey of improving myself with women for the past 4 years. This is VERY important to me."

- Bob S. - St. Louis, MO
"I have been reading Secrets of the Alpha Male for years now and I've gone from being a virgin to having 8 women under my belt.

Last year alone 3 new women.

I've read other articles online that you've written and I like your methods because they seem to fit the real world. Everything you say I see in women I meet and It WORKS! "

- Mike P.
"Your alpha triple threat program was amazing ! There were several Aha moments that I have heard before lt; but never clicked until the way YOU said it !"
"I'm now seeing a stunning 28 blonde! In essence your Alpha Man Immersion DVD program has kinda done its job. it has changed me from an Ok Man to Confidence Man = Alpha Man Modern Man...

In essence it created a belief that I could do it myself. So then it was just a case of deciding exactly what I wanted, getting some sort of plan together, and putting it into action.

Ps. Oh my at this moment I have receive a text Message - it said (I am dying to feel your touch all over my body) This text message was made by the stunning 28 blonde that I been seeing :-)

Things have been full on since last week I left the club with a sexy brunette so I'm sure you understand. And things have improved from there. "

- Feliciano - Florida
"...Before I found this product was very lame and bad i was very shy and afraid of what other pople think about me and was very needy of people approval

When I used Carlos' program i started to feel very secure about myself i found alot of things about me (like old hobbies) that are very attractive to women ... starting to feel like a completely better man already.

...don't think twice this program really works, I'm a very SHY person by nature and this ... program of 15 audio clips is CHANGING ME already, my beliefs and behavior in a way that i never could achieve with all therapies in the world..."

- Jose G.
"Hey Carlos, I've received my Approach Women Now program few weeks ago. I've gotta tell you, your program is purely a mans saving time, energy, money, pain, and even his very life.

I'm at the very early stage of my game and am growing faster than I'd ever thought possible. Life is too short to waste anymore of my time figuring out things ...

your program awfully helps cleared up this rocky understanding of mine on dating... Thanks so much for your hard work in making this massive men's life changing program.

God bless ya bro.. "

- VJ

"Thanks man for the great material you produce. It has made a big change in my life with women..."

- Curtis W.
"Thanks a lot. this has changed me allready into a better person ... now i can just understand so much,and now instead of worrying so much i actually laugh, and think and see in a [whole] new light,my only regret is that i wish i had this when i was younger, but i still am young and have so much ahead, again thanks and keep it up..."

- Barry, Ireland
"My situation before I found this product was'nt at all where I wanted to be. I could start off great with women, but it would slowly get awkward. Or, I would hit it off great with a women and slowly but surely they thought I was a weird dork.

When I used Carlos' program the world opened up for me. I stopped hesistating, and started to voice my opinion, which needless to say spark the attention of ALL WOMEN and men as well.

Specifically, I gained the respect of peers ... one of a strong sexual and confidant MAN. No longer do i get the "that a boy!" comment. I now have people calling me to hang out on a regular basis

...either buy this program, or risk becoming a pick up artist or a player, neither of which will get you where you want to be. Carlos teaches you the fundamentals of being a real man. You'll find that your "powers" will exceed those of even men of age who you used to just follow. After these programs, youll have advice to give your father.

I'd just like to personally thank you Carlos. The legacy that your living is most definitly admired by me. Also in the Ultimate Inner Game program you said you would sacrifice yourself for a person in need. The utmost respect is all I give you homie. Buddha, Ghandi, Jesus, whoever you believe in, they would most certainly be proud of you."

- Jordan
"Thanks for all your stuff. I'm listening to power social skills right now, it's awesome!"

- Roman G.
"I would just like to thank Carlos on his material. I think its mind blowing. I have so much confidence in just understanding these things. "

- Barry, Ireland
"Carlos, I have tried a number of sites that all state they can cure whatever your problem is.

The truth is that your approach is the best I have seen. It is the only one that makes any sense. The only approach to this problem that works. Most guys have no idea what is wrong.

Keep up the good work. You are the only one who has any decent ideas. "

- Neil J.
"For those guys who doubt and think it does not work, let me educate them. I am a male in my 50's and considered obese by medical terms. I have been playing the girls for more years than I can imagine. My latest catch was a mid twenties very very pretty female that is on the cover of magazines. I cannot reveal which one because a female's privacy is also a key to success in this game. I also had the pleasure of a few playboy mag models.

My buddies keep asking me "how do you get the girls?" I just smile and walk away. We actually had a bet one day because they thought I set all this up. The bet was simple. Pick out ten girls and I'll get phone numbers of at least 7 and date at least 5 and score with the one they pick out. I won on all counts.

3 in bars, 4 in grocery stores, and 3 in a park with kids. 4 were married out of the ten. That's the break down.

These guys should kiss your ass for giving away these secrets... "

- Larry F. - Miami, FL
"My situation before I found this product was not good at all. Coming out of a long unsuccessful marriage I was very down and depressed. I had been out of the dating scene for so long that I was totally lost.

What women I did meet were all the wrong women like I usually got or settled for due to my low self esteem and I would head down the wrong road again out of loneliness. I was about to give up and be a hermit. No kidding, I really thought that living alone for the rest of my life was a definite posibility.

When I used Carlos' program I knew that I had to do something and I didn't expect anywhere near the results that I got. I half heartedly did it just to entertain myself and at least fantasize that I could be a babe magnet and have some "healthy" activity towards thinking about women

Specifically, I have experienced a complete and total change in my life. I am so much happier now. I don't know what it is but women see something different in me and I don't even have to say or do anything and they are opening up to me everywhere. When just a month ago I had to put out a lot of effort and was lucky just to get a smile out of a girl or have a little small talk with one now like magic they are starting conversations with me and approaching me. I can't believe it.

I am meeting and having fun with women everywhere, everyday. I easily get phone numbers now and women just give them to me like it's no big deal. Just last night for the first time since I started this a girl was obviously using an excuse just to give me her phone number and email without me asking for it and I was laughing on the inside and loving every minute of it and she was very attractive...

I can say that the quantity and the quality of women in my life has increased to the point that I have more options than I know what to do with and I am now becoming the one that gets to be the chooser. I can't wait to take it to the next level.

I'd tell guys to open their minds to the fact that this is a skill just like everything else and getting help makes all the difference. One reason I have been historically unsucessful in general with women was because I thought I already knew it all.

Looking back I wasn't a total idiot I did know a lot but I didn't necessarily have the right internal attitude about it or I didn't have all the necessary ingredients to make it all work.

The great thing about Carlos is that more so than some other the other guys out there he has a way of putting it together for you across the board with all the right ingredients in all the right order in a format that has given me great sucess and as a bonus a new outlook on life overall.

Thanks Carlos!!!"

- Jim W. - Nashville
"You Changed My Life...

When I first started being involved with women a few years ago, I definitely started as a Nice Guy.

I had a lot of bitterness towards women... An insane amount of fury and disgust for them was coursing throughout me, and all I could focus on was how little I respected all of them. It was seriously hurting everything about my life.

Then I had a life changing experience and stumbled upon you. You taught me something more important than any other “pick up artist” ever taught me how to be a man.

I've always had the fire and passion of a true Alpha Man burning at my core, but I never knew quite what it was or how to embrace it.

You helped me discover what being your own man entails. How to live a life free of the worries of other people, how to pursue your dreams, how to be comfortable in your own skin and not care what others think.

You showed me the way to becoming my ideal man, the man that I've looked up to for quite a few years now, the man that I've always thought completely embodied what a true Alpha Man is...

... I knew the man I wanted to be, but I couldn't figure out how to get there. You've shown me the way, and I'm already well on my way to achieving my goal... The women are just a perk...

thanks for the inspiration and guidance..."

- Austin M.
" your ideas made me more confident in there is a chance that i can get - every week a new girlfriend instead of no girl..."

- Mike K. - Germany

"It is excellent. Its Very good. I realised some mistakes I made in the past. And having used the" not Nice Boy " And getting a more" devil may care " attitude towards dating has hep\ed me a lot. It certainly works

I'd tell guys to listen to what this guy has to say. You will learn a lot. "

- Ernie W. - Cape Town
"The material is excellent ... inner game is definitely 'it' for me right now... Overall, you are a talented presenter... thanks again for your help!"

- Rupert B.
"Hey Carlos!! ...the UIG is fantastic!...the stuff on the brain....and especially the featured speakers!"

- Bill O. - Pittsburgh, PA
"Before coming across some of Carlos Xuma's products Dating Black Book, Alpha Male CDs I was completely lost. All the" How To Meet Women" books sold in books stores, were not helping, they were making things worse for me.

Even products I ordered online from other so called "Dating Gurus" were misleading or complex and confusing at best. I was looking for someone or something that would teach and break down the complexities of female psychology, women and dating in general, so I could figure out what the heck I was doing wrong!

My identity was like a feather in the wind. I was constantly nervous and uncomfortable in my own skin, especially in social situations and around attractive women ( at times even fat chicks) lol.I felt I'd be lucky to get one of them( fat chick), and I'm not a bad looking guy.

After working with Carlos Xuma's products for a while now, I completely understand how to get validation from myself , be strong and confident, and I have let go(drilled out) of almost all of my insecurites, socially condition limiting beliefs about women, dating, and how attraction and all that other jazz works.

I can't tell you how FREEING it is to be a confident man ... To finally be comfortable in your own skin. To be completely relax around attractive women, and in fact now, I tease them, and its so much fun! I thought it was all about having good looks and money...

I'm a real guy, who had SERIOUS social problems with women and people in general, and all I can tell you is Carlos xuma's products are POWERFUL and they WORK!

Anyway, I just want to THANK YOU for all your help Carlos. I would not have the level of success I have with WOMEN, and people, now if it wasn't for you..."

- Jeff M.
"When I used Carlos' program it was like the barren tree bore delicious fruit and completely changed me ... Specifically, I would say in one word- mindblowing ... start now or repent for the rest of your life... "

- Eddy T. - Thailand
"reading your work has changed my life..."

- Chris D.
"I found that the [Get a Girlfriend FAST program] got to the heart of the matter and gave tips and ideas that were actaully useful.

Specifically, I got a girlfriend less than a month after finishing the book.

I'd tell guys to give it a try, there is a lot of usefull stuff in there that every male human should know."

- Ian H. - Ontario Canada
"My situation before I found this product was that I was a shy, conservative guy who didn't have a good amount of friends and I often had anxiety in social situations or before approaching women.

When I used Carlos's program I began to learn a lot about my own inner game and how it works

Specifically, I understood the foundations of my own inner game and how to begin to change. Things that help me a lot were the 21 day success habits, abundance/scarcity thinking, and belief systems...

I'd tell guys to defintly buy this program, its worth it.

Awesome job man! I can't wait to check out some of your other programs. _____________________ "

- Sam C. - Pittsburgh, PA
"Hey carlos i recently bought your ultimate inner game and it changed my life!! you're so damn cool!"

- Al G.
"[Before I found Ultimate Inner Game] ...I was pessimistic, easily angry, nervous and awkward around people and ESPECIALLY attractive women, doubting myself, low self-esteem you name it

[The exercises] helped me figure myself out more and some of the things you said were eye openers and I was like If only I knew this earlier..

I am much better in staying positive with that positive self talk, much more calm, and I rarely react to whatever happens around me ...

I'd tell guys to check this program out if you want to your life the way you want it to be and you deserve...

Carlos is also genuine not like those who advertise just to sell their products but I feel like I have my money's worth. You left no stones unturned. Thanks now I have a guide on to becoming an alpha man!"

- A. G. - Milford, CT

"I had purchased Ultimate Inner Game a while ago. And ever since I have been trying to think of ways to say thank you. I am halfway through the program now but I still can't find anything that would expres the amount of gratitude I have for you putting that amazing program together...

I can't do anything at this moment yet but give you the biggest compliment that I can think of: You have changed my life man. For the better. And for that you have my life long respect and gratitude.

I really think your amazing inspiration. And this in a time where the world is flooded with so called guru's that promiss mountains but leave you hanging in the middle (that's if your lucky). Only with you have I got the feeling that I am truly working in a team, even though I have never met you. Thank you for the lessons, now I will do the work."
"F*cking hell man, you have no idea how incredibly apreciative I am for the incredible effort you seem to have put in to this for people like me.

I normally never take the effort to send any feedback to people (one of my weaknesses that I want to tackle with this program is my lazynes:p) but you deserve at least that. I wish I could do more cuz I really want to thank the person that has improved my life so much..."
"Carlos is a master teacher and great communicator, taking care to make certain his ideas and methods are clear and complete, and he never fails to credit those who helped him build these theories and concepts. he "shares the wealth" both up and down..."
"This stuff is awesome....its not all about women - its about getting the most out of life..."
"Great stuff. Its a battle out there but I have both your inner game and your day game products. I use them often and though my results are not great, I am still plugging along. "
"...If you want to learn how to be a more attractive masculine man, then take a look at his programs..."
"Your stuff is just great! I have learnt so much from it and I am learning more and more all the time. "
"Your work is the best most well thought out stuff out there. It makes things very clear to understand and that makes it easy to put into practice..."
"This has been mentioned many many times; THANK YOU for sharing your many insights and experiences. I cannot properly convey how much it has changed my life...

When I first started, I was only interested in the pick-up process. Then I found myself getting increasingly agitated and angry as I went through the material; due to realizing that, throughout my entire life, I have been fed all the b*llsh*t from hollywood, the media and society about attraction and my role as a MAN.

Carlos, your program is not just about women and sex (to put it crudely), but it is the best self-help material for men! And the male race desperately need this help! ... Keep up the work you are doing because you are an inspiration to our generation of men!"

- Johnny W. - London
"I'm a big fan of your products. Your products and the general advice contained in them have been an extremely positive experience in my life. I have a more active dating life, I've lost weight, and I'm happier in general. Thank you for all of your help..."

- Dan W. - New York

"Hi Carlos, each time i read ur newsletters and E book....i get new insights on dating..U really rock brother.....I've been using ur tricks, tips and am meeting a women right now... "

- V. L. - India
"I have learnt SO much from you, I absolutely love how you focus on relationships and meaningful interactions, not just on "picking up girls"

Your advice has really made a difference in my life already...

Keep up the good work dude... "

- A. H.
"Carlos is a man after my own heart. His focus and attitude are spot-on. The essence of being a man is the essential starting point. All else, thereafter, falls easily, gently, and successfully, into place"

- DG - Georgia, USA
"Thanks for the superb service and advice..."

- William
"My situation before I found this product was not very good. I was very insecure and defense. People would make jokes at me and I would either ignore them or i would get really pissed off...

When I used Carlos' program I slept with two girls since then. It really helped me play along with peoples insults making them look stupid and making me look like an indestructible wall.

I have the utmost respect for Carlos Xuma. I really admire your boldness to be able to just come out on the internet with this kind of stuff... you deserve a pat on the back. Peace and Love my friend."

- Jordan K. - Plymouth WI
"Hey Carlos... I just wanted to say thanx for a great product - Get a GF Fast! ...And part of expanding those horizons was buying your course and subscribing to your newsletters. I've gained a lot of value from that, and within three weeks of having listened to the course and trying out your advice, I've a new playmate... a hot little 19 year old that's totally out of control! (And did I mention I'm 37!)

I've also noticed with my change in approach how other girls are responding to me... and the more they respond the more brazen I become. It's very empowering..."

- Alan S.
"You are the only person, advisor/mentor, who has asked me how you have helped me...

When I get down, feel disgusted and disappointed in women, there is always something that you will say that will re-ignite my next growth step..."

- Robert S. - St. Louis
" OK carlos, lemme just say that your my fav out of all of the "gurus" and their wannabe counter parts... you just seem to be able to communicate to us better and am sure its because of being in situations where i myself have been in... i am confident enough to know that i have the power to do so if i really wanted to, i actually came in this "game" because i wanted to find a girl i can chill and maybe go through life with.

i've now found some1 who i think is "that girl""

- Tahir G. - Jamaica
"Outstanding program Carlos. I especially like the approach examples on DVD with commentary. I also really like the examples of a woman ... putting up resistance and objections to being "asked out"..."

- Joe G. - Maryland
"Carlos, You are absolutely right on about what women want... I have been getting your newsletters and had a chance to listen to a teleseminar you gave just before the Super Conference in Vegas... Keep up the great work!! "

- Cindy E. - Michigan

"My situation before I found this product was... mired in pessimism and negative thought about my present situation. I had alot of information and technique, but I could never get it to work effectively...

When I used Carlos' program, I saw that negative thinking patterns are self validating and you really have to choose to be happy. Carlos shows effective ways to turn the tide on the negative thinking patterns that were turning my worst fears into reality.

I'd tell guys to seriously give this program a look. All the dating and seduction technique in the world isn't going to help you if you don't have your inner game handled... "

- C.H.
"My situation before I found [Ultimate Inner Game] program was I had spent many dollars on counseling trying to undo the garbage from the past without much success. I have committed at least 1/2 hour a day to this course and already I am beginning to feel the difference...

When I used Carlos' program I find that my inner strength is returning to me as well as the sense of humor and hopefulness of a brite and wonderful future.

Specifically, I feel much stronger and happier than ever before! The impossible things as of late, no longer seem impossible but very probable! I now feel as though I am beginning to possess my present on the way to possessing my future and my Destiny! If I had had this 30 years ago, there is no telling where I would be today!

I am telling everyone I know who has had similar events in their lives about the positive changes that I am experiencing now, and many around me are noticing the difference too!

...If I had had this 30 years ago, I would have saved so much money on counseling just trying to regain my "peace" in life and how much better my life would be today because of all of the material that I am applying. I am becoming another person...the person I was many years ago who was full of life! "

- Anthony F. - Georgia
"My marriage ended recently. Prior to my marriage I was not slick with the girls. I wasn't really shy but really didn't know how to make things happen. Woman were a big mystery...

This program is great Carlos. I have been making an effort at knowing my self. Humility (accepting the TRUTH)is a core requirement for personal advancement. I see you have it and you do a fantastic job explaining inner serenity and how to minimize the negative noise. I had created my own rudimentary system for this but your explanation is a big step forward...

If you want to be the master of your world, master of yourself, master of you destiny, then this is the MOST important stuff you could do. Discover your purpose and LIVE LIFE. With Carlos's stuff you can begin to acheive your destiny ... GET IT!!! "

- Paul S. - Albany
"I was beginning to doubt I was ever going to be able to become more attractive on my own, the negative self-talk was getting so bad - AND because of the economy, not be able to afford live training for the forseeable future.

When I used Carlos' program, the reasons became clear why I was struggling with my inner self. You've now provided me with the tools and the explanations, and moreover, a way out of the Pandora's box of my negative thinking habits.

Specifically, I just feel greatly relieved. Now I can focus on just being happy and living in the moment - I still have work to do, however it is getting much easier. Falling bacvk on old thinking patterns now becomes a realization that I'm choosing to think and feel this way.

I'd tell guys to take a look at this program if they truly want their inner game issues handled.

Thank you, Carlos! Now I have the motivation to move towards my goals..."

- Chris Hascomb - Louisiana

  Press play to hear Hank Zolenus - Portland, OR...
"My situation before I found this was:Totally hopeless! I am almost 57 years old, though I look more like 45, and was a totally needy, clingy asshole. I was the "good" guy who would get a girl but then shower her with gifts, call, text, answer her calls or email immediately when she contacted me and just became the supplicating, masturbating lonely guy after just a few short weeks together. Needless to say, I never had much sex.

When I used Carlos' program, I began to approach women using the technique of commenting on something they had on their person, like a bracelet, shoes, etc. This is priceless!! I am now talking to women everywhere I go and gaining the confidence that I can be an Alpha Male without hesitation. Where I used to be a wallflower at a party, I am becoming the life of the party and it feels great!

Specifically, I can now walk into a room full of people and go around to everyone, guys and girls, and strike up a short conversation and introduce myself.

I have been teasing, flirting, complementing, and busting the balls of a coworker for about 3 months, just getting to know her as a friend, without having any expectations of the outcome and we are now going at it hot and heavy...

She can not get enough of me and she is 15 years my junior. She thinks I am God's gift to her.

I am so happy, I had not been laid in 3 1/2 years and I am giving her wild, screaming orgasms like she has never had before in her life.

I'd tell guys to get every program Carlos has and do everything he tells you to do. This stuff works!! I am astounded at the results I am getting from my coworker. "

- Hank Zolenus - Portland, OR
"Thank-you for the book... It really is changing me and I feel myself becoming stronger and better with both women (and men in fact). The thing I liked most about your book was the philosophical aspects. It was just the attitudinal gear shift that I needed.

It's funny, at one point it dawned on me that 'Women are emotional, they're not stupid. Men are rational and act stupid' I'm starting to see the Truth!

I think your book was a lot both more authentic and consistent. You book is certainly better than 'The Mystery method,'

ultimately it is the content of a book that matters and oth this score, I though it was truly first-rate. I really do feel I know you at some level.

Thanks again for writing such a book. You're opinions or masculinity, love and life, really resonated with me... I just need to let your book 'sink-in' and apply it, before reinforcing it with more stuff... I'm taking control of my [dating] life. "

- R. J. - Canada
""Carlos's material is very good; I really don't know where he finds the time and energy to produce so much!""

- Martin J.
"I always got your emails, newsletters and I think they are great. Anyway, I have to congratulate you for EVERYTHING, I think you are one of the best...

YOU ARE BIG HELP these days, and you are helping me to solving the puzzle. Or at least, mending the broken pieces of the inner mirror...."

- Dan F. - Buenos Aires
"Carlos your stuff is out of this world....."

- Paul T. - East Africa
" What was [my] situation before [I] found this...? Horrible. Carlos is the best PUA. When I used the program: Instant success, confidence, and best of all girls. Get busy and get started..."

- David A. - Texas

"The Secrets of the Alpha man has truly transformed my life... I've browsed on the web and looked at alot of the PUA's out there, but they're not teaching the fundamentals of inner game like Secrets of the Alpha Man does..."

- Ryan
"My situation before I found this product was I was actually looking for Inner Game training... I prefer you because strike me as being genuine and a little bit more moral than the others.

Funny thing, I haven't yet changed much about myself externally, but I find that people are starting conversations with me more. I have barely started listening to the audio disks.

Specifically, I am becoming more aware of negativity and limiting beliefs. When they show up, I have the option of ignoring them and reframing them in a positive light.

I'd tell guys to work on your inner game. It is at least as important as outer game and the two go together. "

- Gary S. - Sausalito
"My inner game has improved ever since I got into your community and the more information I get from you the more better my inner game gets. I have no problems talking to women anywhere now and I have more confidence and feel better about myself. I definitely get more women in my life now compared to the the past..."

- R. - United Kingdom
"I gotta tell you man, this is some really cutting edge stuff you got here! I watched the 2 preview videos... and it took me 2 watches to really GET IT... but boy, was that an eye opener!

First time I watched it, it got me thinking. Then the second time about a week later, it really clicked, and I was literally blown away by the whole concept of inner game not really existing, "me" as a fluid concept, and the "that was the old me" mental exercise... it's never been this clear before! I know you talked about these concepts a lot here and there, but you really put it together extremely well in this one video, and it was never as clear before!

... I have no doubt this is one of the best things you've ever released (and that's saying a lot!).

. thanks for all the awesome work you do man! :)"

- Roman R.
"Many thanks for your material ... I'm getting my pick of women and its down to your material. I was the original nice guy who always got let down by women and men alike.

since changing to the cocky and funny routine and take no crap, it has earned me respect. Don't get me wrong i still have my weaknesses but im always striving to improve myself as i believe theres always something new to learn...

Keep up the good work"

- Andy N.
"I just want to say, [ the Advanced Coaching Program] been an incredibly valuable resource, and I'm going to continue cycling round all the episodes like the guys who finish re-painting the Golden Gate bridge and then start at the beginning again....

Best regards from England "

- Neil D. in the UK
"Your stuff is awesome and has really started to change my life with respect to dating and my inner game.... I think you are the ultimate guru when it comes to filling in my inner game holes..."

- Simon C.

  Press play to hear Mike C. - San Diego...
"My skills have gotten so much better..."

- Mike C. - San Diego
"Hey Carlos, I just read your Alpha Manifesto article and eveything clicked for me. I jut wanted to say it is a big wakeup call for me that I am taking this getting a girl into my life thing wayy to serious.

I read it before but it did not really click for me until now. I got caught up with this aspect in my life instead of trying to enhance my lifestyle... I know exactly what I need to do now thanks to you reminding me my man..."

- John P.
"The Dating Black Book change my thinking and my life with women. Man did I see a change with the woman I was staying with she was game player... Man Carlos you are real with your stuff that is what I like about it. Results is all that matters "

- Curtis W.

"I will be in business with you guys for a very long time for your products..."

- Khawar J.
"I found more and more women interested in me without having to try ... my girlfriend got more and more interested in me because of my alpha attitude..."

- Patrick W. - U.K.
"I've read your materials and I have to admit, that you´re wise man. WISE MAN... I've heard/and give many dating advice, but they were covering just the part of the big picture...."

- Tom S.
"I have to say your programs are the best and I researched the different sites... No one has sh*t on you dude this is exactly what we need I am going to get all your programs and study my assssss off."
"I just purchased the get a girlfriend program and i bought the dating black book absoloute wonders and its amazing how much detail there is in your material..."
"since progressing and finding the overall wisdom from you, yourself Mr Xuma I assure you I am not sucking up to you when I say that I truly admire and respect the material knowledge that you are imparting to men, especially since it is not just about women but about adopting a whole REAL man's lifestyle which will then hopefully generate the attraction from the women naturally."
"I just finished reading the dating black book. I got heaps of valueable stuff from it, and I deffinatly have a whole lot more clarity of whats going on in that crazy world of "dating"... "

- Lance K.
"Before coming across the Alpha Man program I was perpetually locked into "nice guy" mode and unwittingly ruining one decent relationship after another.

Carlos helped me to become a real man again and shake loose the wimp role that society seems to be relegating men into these days. If I had to pick one element of my new found attitude is how effectively it weeds out the wrong women and holds on to the good ones.

Thanks Carlos, your system is changing my life in a big way!!"

- Kevin F.
"I was never really afraid to talking to women, most women find me attractive - I'm no Brad Pitt or anything - but when it came time to having a good conversation flow to get her to laugh or interested in me as a person not just the shell of me that they saw was somewhat difficult for me.

After purchasing [Approach Women Now] I notice all the things that I was doing wrong and making me a lot more confident once I got the conversation going.

keep up the good work Carlos, you're the man. "

- Pierre S.
"...I really enjoyed your products. Indeed the power social skills it is about one of the product I bought it from you, and it caused deep change in my life... "

- N. S. - Muscat

"Man, you're just too much. I mean, you just keep giving and giving and giving, non-stop. Your level of integrity to your students and subscribers is in a class of it's own. While your colleagues/competitors are coming out with tons of BS(the latest greatest crap) you only tell us about things that are legit, proven and are highly valuable...

You focus on the 'whole' man, which you call the Alpha Man. All other things, with practice of course, will fall into place...

I can spot bullshit from a mile away. My fellow martial artist and My Sensei in Pick-up, You are the Real Deal. You are an Amazing Human Being!!!

I certainly am looking forward to meeting you one day and even studying under you directly..."

- Alex F. - Asbury Park, NJ
"lets just say my life was being run by my beta male,no luck with women,crap job and a very negative outlook on life,my glass was definetly half empty

Pieces of the jigsaw started to click in to place,and it made me examine my own limiting beliefs,only after a few days with [The Secrets of the Alpha Man] i was feeling more positive,assertive and comfortable in my skin. the way people rsponded to me,especially women,lots of positive interactions,feeling more in control,being able to be assertive,generally the aura i am exuding is very positive.

i would reccomend this program to anyone who has lost their mojo!,to any man who after years of brainwashing has lost sight of there own power,or to anyone who justs want to improve their outlook on life...

just wanted to say carlos you da man!!!!,ever since i stumbled across your website i have been informed, educated, entertained, you have helped me break down the barriers of my old paradigm, and in its place something better is being made, always an ongoing proccess as you know, the masterpiece is still under construction!!

you do the world of men a great service,please keep up your good work"

- Paul E. - London, England
"I've been listening to your podcast material/ programs for 4 years. its amazing I've allowed your material to temper my outlook to life and outlook to relationships...

your material allowed me to get up and get over the small stuff WAY faster than I ever expected, and thats a skill most men don't have.

its changed my life and I just wanna thank you..."

- Brian G.
"I thoroughly enjoy your GREAT information. I view you as a mentor...a highly valued person in my life... Keep-up the GREAT work..."

- R.S. - St. Louis, MO
"this man is the real deal, no games, no techniques, no need to dress like a clown, just being a good old fashioned MAN... u rule carlos"

- Adrian G.
"Hey Carlos, I recently just bought your conversation and persuasion skills program and your Secrets of the Alpha Man program a while back. Your programs are really good stuff.

I've been working on raising my confidence level and social skills to new levels ever since high school...

your program has helped me so much on figuring out what direction I need in my life... My conversation skills are getting better and better every day as I am feeling what you refer to as more safe and relaxed. I don't feel like I have to prevent myself from speaking up and being me. My confidence is at a level I thought it would never be if I was to judge it a few years ago.

Once again, amazing work on the programs and happy holidays my man."

- John P.
"Hey Carlos, I just wanted to first say that I love your attitude when it comes to interacting with girls, and also life in general. I've read a lot of PUA's bogs and stuff but you really stand out from all that in an alpha sort of way! ;-) "

- Sean C. - Littleton, CO

  Press play to hear Jeff M - New York...
"Of course I've gotten all your courses... I find you to be a very very effective know-how dating coach... You've helped me tremendously...

your products are the real deal, and have helped me change my mindset and emotions more than... unfortunetly you'll ever no. lol

Your alpha secrets course has helped me big time over the past year especially with my inner confidence issues.

Hands down your products and line of thinking are better than 99% of the other products that are out there. I've read and listened to everything under the sun in the self-help and seduction community in the last 3 years..."

- Jeff M - New York

  Press play to hear Chris H. - Louisiana...
"I can go into any interaction now and not worry about being manipulated..."

- Chris H. - Louisiana
"Hey, besides me thinking your stuff is genius, it works..."

- Lucas A.

"Carlos, I've learned so much from you and your black book. Thanks. I've changed my personality and have trained myself for about one year.

You know, many girls now are telling me 'wow, you're such a confident guy', 'You're confidence is admirable'"

- F. P.
"That's really all there is for me to say- Thank you

Without sounding sappy or anything, you truly changed my life. Once I read your Secrets of the Alpha Man... it's just amazing."

- Martin R.
"I have to tell you that I'm a big fan of yours, I bought your Secrets of the alpha man material and it really helped me not only in my relationship but also in understanding women better.

Thank you so much for the great advice that you give to guys"

- Matt R.
"hey carlos.... i just wanted you to know that i consider you as one of my role models... i know you get to hear this every day...

i have been following all your books... especially Dating Black Book... n it has changed my life for good...thanks..."

- Praerit J.
"YOU'RE JUST FUCKIN AWESOME CARLOS!! No need for any detailed, long, drawn out comments.

I aspire to reach this elusive, mysterious, level of.. ALPHA MAN that you have reached and I won't stop until I'm there. Thanks for being such a powerful teacher and mentor in my life."

- Chris L.
"Carlos, I wish someone had spoken to me this way 25 years ago!"

- Jim
"What I like about you and your programs so much is that I never feel duped from your products. I always feel I get my money's worth ten fold.

I truly feel that you are one of the few advisors that care a great deal about trying to help guys improve the quality of their lives. I thank you for that..."

- Jim
"I watched the [Approach Women 2] discs last night. They are awesome! I really really liked Disc 4 especially, where Carlos and the woman demonstrated the approaching. This was just what I needed to see, and I appreciate how the two of them laid it out for me so clearly. social skills in talking to strangers has gone way up. I'm not thinking so much of what to say next as much as I am making it a point to stay calm and grounded... I still make mistakes--but I am getting better... "

- Mike C.
"Hey Carlos, I've read your book, and it has helped me a lot! I can't believe how accurate you are on your "procedures". I am learning a lot in the field, but your work has saved me light-years..."

- Juank D.
"AWESOME!! Carlos Xuma is right on! ... This guy is more than a dating guru! He almost can be your psychologist. He's basically a life coach!"

- RussX5Z

"And I love the program, I really like how you took an "Alpha" and "REAL" approach to it, it comes off as more genuine and in integrity with what you have to say...

Thanks again and keep doing what you do man!"

- J. K.
"I gave [your Get a Girlfriend Program] to my flatmate who has been in a really bad relationship recently. Your bit on relationships helped him out so much its rediculous.

He is finaly able to move on and leave the relationship that he knew was bad for him. Without your program he was going to keep at the relationship despite the negative effect it was having on him.

He was a bit anxious at first but he is much better for it and is finally able to start making a positive change to his life.

So thanks"

- Nick D.
"I've already listened to the Secrets of the Alpha Man program (as well as loads of other material from Carlos), which is just awesome by the way and I would strongly recommend it to everyone...

but the Get a Girlfriend Fast program still caught my eye as I've just ended an LTR. The program is a great, quick-start, get-your-ass-into-gear listen from start to finish. This is a great way to get motivated and will leaving you wanting to get out there and mixing with hot women fast! Great content especially for the low asking price."

- Steve P.
"I have always found your advice fantastic. You have pointed out alot of useful information and the education has taught me a lot of concepts...

I have purchased your other products and there is more than enough information for me. I will certainly recommend you to any other person whom I come across that needs your advice... "

- Anthony G.
"I have bought Dating Black Book and now the Secrets of the Alpha Man recently.

I must ADMIT, it's SERIOUSLY A GREAT PACKAGE on anyone's invesment. Not to mention their 90 days money back guarantee. It's awesome, no regrets!"

- Leo

  Press play to hear David DeAngelo -Double Your Dating...
"Listen to Carlos Xuma's Interview with David DeAngelo here..."

- David DeAngelo -Double Your Dating
"I've now bought two of Carlos' programmes, and I appreciate his company's integrity (regrettably I've been having problems with a 'competitor' of yours who doesn't answer my emails even though the expensive product I ordered didn't arrive).

So please pass on my thanks to everyone! "

- David, Prague
"I saw your hidden camera pickups and noticed the energy and the spontaneity and the confidence...awesome..."

- K.T.
"Love your [Alpha Rules] program Carlos, and I have also noticed a better difference in my interaction with women already!"

- Jonathan C. - Austin, TX
"The CD's are jam-packed with so much good advice. Seriously, going through the program, it seems that you were NOT content to JUST give us our money's worth. You HAD to go above and beyond and give us WAY more than that.

Anyway, thanks again for the program!"

- Michael C. - Annapolis, MD

  Press play to hear Kai Powers...
"Guys, you should definitely check out Carlos' programs..."

- Kai Powers
"I enjoyed listening to the how to get a girl friend fast program... It definitely pointed out a few mistakes I was making chronically, and If i could kick my younger self, I sure as hell would... I can say easily that the whole program is worth it, for me a lot of it was reminders and eye-opening about my mistakes, but It can be just as good for someone just starting out."

- Ricky S.
"I just gotta say, all of your material has been life changing, the Girlfriend a great Porgram Carlos ... the Get a Girlfriend program is a great tool to get to your goals with women fast, Its great how you split it into sections and an audiobook too! you're the man Carlos..."

- Juan J. - Las Vegas
"I think [the Get a Girlfriend program] was an excellent program ... I've eliminated alot of the negative behaviors that were making me an easy mark for abuse and can now command respect in the community and at the job... I appreciate your program and congratulations on your good work..."

- Chris H. - LA
"Hey Carlos. Steven Ritucci here. I am a long-time participant in game-boosting products... I'm coming off a 3.25 yr relationship and I have to tell you , my game got rusty. Your product has given me a boost in a number of ways:

-It's helping me avoid suffering "one-itis" -It's refreshing my memory about how to be cocky and funny


- Steven R. - Norfolk
"hey man, just wanted to let u know that ur direct approach is sick.. much better than the indirect stuff mystery and those guys teach..

keep up the good work!"

- Angel A.
"Well, your book was the second piece of "material" I got my hands on three years ago. It was truly lifechanging for me back then, and set me off on the right track. If I ever get the pleasure of meeting Carlos, I'll buy him the biggest beer available"

  Press play to hear Sandy M....
"I want to thank you for the Alpha Man Program... it's literally changed my life... I am a different person after your program..."

- Sandy M.
"Carlos, you are unbelievably inspirational and certainly a positive role model for any guy out there. I could only hope that all men will have the intestinal fortitude to face challenges and grow from within as you have. Thank you."
"My education in Natural Game has been with Carlos Xuma [and others]... Applying what I’ve learned from these teachers has changed my life..."

- Mission PUA

"What's up Carlos. Love your info. I've passed it on to my guy friends that will listen.

I'm a few years ahead of them in skill, so; they watch and learn from me now.

I'm actually getting married to a beautiful women in two weeks thanks to the skills"

- Brett B.
"Thanks for your products, I now I have a great girlfriend of several months and things are pretty serious.."

- Eric C.
"I own all your programs, DVD's, Ebooks, audio coaching etc.... They are FANTASTIC! They have also made an improvement in my life... I must admit I love all your programs, not only because they have enhance my life, but the psychology behind all your analysis...

I don’t look as you as a therapist, however I find you incredibly gifted with life experiences... "

- Jim
"I'm sure you get a lot of ass kissing emails but 'm sure it's still a good feeling when you know you have changed someones life so anyway here is mine. Fallowed your career since I heard you on [David D's] interviews,

got my hands on most all your products and you truly you have been an inspiration and in helping me put together my career, going above and beyond what I thought I would ever achieve so Thank you for everything...

...Thanks man, without yours and so many other gurus material and teaching I would probably be in some office making a living instead of making a LIFE like I am right now."

- Eros
" The Approach Women Now program has all the tips I have craved for so long. As I started to hear this valuable information, the anxiety I had in my approach was fading, as was my fear of rejection.

After listening to the first CD twice, I simply applied the tips and started to receive positive results...

this program really sheds light on all approach situations any man could have with a woman and was well worth purchasing..."

- Ed L.
"... about a year ago I faced a severe confidence crisis in my relationship. After using your material, I've really changed my life for the better. Keep up the outstanding work!"

- Cale C.
"I love Approach Women Now the best... "

- Jeff A.

  Press play to hear David...
"The stuff you have put in [the Dating Black Book] is so awesome... I cannot thank you enough for changing my life and changing my behavior and making me the Alpha Man I deserve to be...and thanks to you, I have a new wife-to-be...and I cannot thank you enough..."

- David
"Thank you! Your programs have been making a difference."

- Mike C.
"I read all your books actually and definitly think they're great! I'm very enlightened on how women think and behave! Women actually love me now thanks to my new Alpha Man behavior! IT rocks!"

- W. H.

"The price is incredible. It was an offer I coudn't refuse. I have read Carlos's advice in previous emails. He has advice that is different than what your father or mother would give you about dating. The difference is it works in today's culture."

- Ron H.
"i've been a regular subscriber of your newsletters and have been taking your advice on how to bring out the alpha man that is in every one of us. Your newsletters are my regular dose of reminders that no matter what is around me, I am still the centre of my world..."

- K.L.
"I can't begin to thank you for all I've learned from you, your an inspiration..."

- Shane W. - British Columbia
"Carlos ... You are a genius. I followed the advice on this article today and it worked like champ! Thanks man!"

- Bobby D.
"The Secrets of the Alpha Male and The Dating Black Book helped me alot with women, and even my whole life.. and i read them and i keep reading them over and over again..

It helped me to discover my strengths and how to develop these strengths..."

- O.Q. - Jordan
"Hey Carlos I just want to say you have opened my eyes to what women want and you have shown me I am worth a lot. I want to thank you. One eye opener that I realised is when you said that the women will say " I don't know what I want".

That is exactly what my x girlfriend told me and that's when I started to stop loveing her and started to pull my feelings out of the relationship. I was feeling guilty that I had done that but I now know what I did what my gut told me to do was right.

Thank you again and I am a loyal fan of your course. I do brag about your course to all my friends They need to learn your technics."

- David
"great book Carlos, i just finished reading the book "secrets of the alpha man" for the second time, great info..."
"Carlos - Thank you so much for making this information available to me. Buying this course has been the smartest move I made in a long, long time.

My family and friends have noticed that I am much more confident, assertive and happy and I actually look forward to go out looking for women I can talk to, to hone my skills as well as to meet some awesome women I would have never had the nerve to approach in the past.

I had been hit by a drunk driver several years ago and after years in a hospital bed I had NO confidence at all to walk up to a girl and start a conversation because I have to walk with a cane and had gained some weight.

You and the information you have put together in this course Carlos, has truly given me my life back, and I will always be thankful for your help.

Guys, if you are having trouble making a decision to invest your cash in your love life and this course, DO IT! The results you'll get from studying this material will help you for the rest of your life. "

- Victor B.
"I have just got through all of the material in Secrets of the Alpha Male and am amazed at how unattractive I must have been before! The book is so much better than a lot of the other 'dating' books out there.

People at my school now say that I dress better, am more confident, I can make people laugh and generally I try to use the cocky and funny technique when possible..."
"Gold again Carlos! Thanks Alpha Champion!!

I am becoming more Alpha all the time with some of the excellent foundational stuff you taught me earlier... the 3 S's and the 3 things women find alluring.

This stuff works man, and it didn't take me long to get it activated in my life. It's like it was always there and just needed to be resurrected. I feel a lot more powerful around not just women but everyone, work, church, social outings - where as before I was timid in just the last 2 months I have become a powerhouse.

I especially love being able to walk into a room of people and not feel scared of them but rather I am able to approach anyone and even lead the room in discussion. Great for parties!"

"I gotta tell ya, you have changed my life tremendously! Your CD's have been my tools to success. Just wanted to give praise for the work that you are doing... "

- Eric K.
"I'm listening to approach women 2 right now. You HAVE to get this program..."

- Justin G.
"Hey Carlos, thanks for all the insight !!! I invested in your Alpha Lifestyle Triple-Threat DVD program recently and I am very impressed with the content.

I have researched a lot on the subject of becoming and Alpha man and I have to say that your whole philosophy and approach is the deepest out there. Great stuff !"
"I love your approach women now CD's and I have worn the grooves off listening. It has helped me overcome my approach anxiety and I have so many dates this weekend that I can't keep track.

A high quality problem, I know so now I just have to get organized. Thanks for the good work. "

- John S.
"Your Approach Women NOW program is fantastic! Approach Women NOW really breaks down the basics of meeting women, and I have found many of the techniques to be incredibly useful.

This program has made me more confident and much less nervous about approaching women; my dating life has improved significantly! I would recommend Approach Women NOW to any man who wants to be proactive about improving his success with women... "

- Cody F.
"I think you are the best on this subject carlos . If i wanted about basketball i would ask mike. If i wanted to know about golf i would ask tiger.

If i want to know about women i ask carlos..."

- Jim T. - Arkansas
"Hey there Carlos!

I've been a follower, basically a "tester" of all types of stuff from your Dating Black Book, to the advanced stuff all with the newsletters I receive and well after almost 8 years of research, studies and well in the field practice I am now growing better and better at everything relating to human interaction not just seduction....

the reason I'm writing is because recently you've sent us all an email about facebook and how it is a great way to meet women...well your absolutely right in fact my ex and my current gf I met here on facebook and I'm currently juggling a third lady where the flirting is better than ever, I have her number, her email, her pictures with her family and alone....i mean its just amazing how a few words can get u into a girl's attention and heart!

another thing I have tested and done (and is based on some material in the Dating Black Book which I then took and evolved as I worked through) and the story is AMAZING! its that ... got a friend of mine to actually ask for sex with me! yes and the better thing is SHE WAS AT THE TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP! and till today she asks me for sex he he (how can I refuse!)

man that was amazing! I tried this again with other girls I know... worked as a charm!

... I'm a follower and fellow partner and basically I will not stop learning from u and your programs....

so for that thanks a lot mate and thanks for all the great info all the time! keep up the great Alfa work!"
"I'm Chris from South Africa, and ive been reading your free newsletters for a few months now, and i have to say it has completely changed the way i not only view women but myself as well..

in the short time ive been using your advice, i have hooked up with more absolutely gourgeous honeys than i ever thought possible !

i now realise... it is all about "inner game".....

you my man, are a f*%# ing legend mate...."

- Chris D. - South Africa
"I wanted to tell you that you are doing a great job as a mentor out there. You are a person of great character providing a valuable service who can get to the bottom-line on so many areas crucial to men's lives. "

- K. E. - Ft. Lauderdale, FL
"Follower and huge fan ...bought 3 of your programs and seeing enormous changes, great results and women after that."

- G. G. - Lebanon

"Your products opened my eyes. Thank you Carlos!!"

- F. Young
"Hi Carlos, i got your new [Approach Women 2] program. It's awesome! I loved it! This really an epic sequel like 'the empire strikes back'!!! "

- Gunalp K.
"Hey Carlos I just want to To take a second to really thank you for how much you helped me... now that your stuff actually sunk in Ive had a date recently (its been 4 years) :D went in with out expectations and I got to make out with the hottest girl ive ever made out with

it was great ... Years ago i'd never even put myself out there to even get a date with someone like her and now I've got 2 more lined up who are even hotter and I will have many more.

Thank you Carlos, your words have been the greatest purchase of my life."

- Cody K.
"I came across one of your podcasts on my mates ipod one afternoon, and instantly it caught my attention. Not specificly from the point of dating and trying to pick up woman, but rather from a personal development point of view. ...

... the most profound thing that i have enjoyed about your program is that, you do not need to become a particular type of person or use a particular technique, but rather adopt an attitude that i believe is very inate to us yet has just been masked by the bullshit of social conditioning. And whats even more profound is the fact that you dont have to do anything other the BE YOUR SELF!

Which is why I have gone out of my way to write to you about the benifite I have recived from your e-course. This attitude of "becoming your self" is really one that is so valueable and yet for most people its over looked, ...since doing your e-course, i have realised that this attitude is applicable to not only woman, which by the way is highly useful!!! :) But to LIFE. I can apply it to work, to sales, to socialising with new people, to my family.

... please keep up the great work, its not only helping men undo the blown up perception of the things called "women" but also in the process really, creating an awareness and promoting conciousness in your average jo blow man. Which i think is pretty fucking clever."

- Lawrence K.
"Thank you SOOOO much for the Alpha trainings over the years, especially this newest program. I've proven to myself that I can handle any challenges a woman can throw my way. This experience has been priceless..."

- Chris H. - LA
"I feel better about myself ever since I became a member of your community. I feel more confident about myself and have been able to finally destroy this fear of approaching women.

You have really transformed my innergame since I watched you Alpha Triple Threat DVDs, dude the information it contains are more valuable than the jewelleries I wear lol. I definitely reccomend it to every man out there who want to get better not only with women but in everything they do!"

- Ranjiv - U.K.
" I've learned so much from you about being a man, and your quotes on life are priceless. I can't thank you enough.

My friends always seem to turn to me as a mentor for advice about being a MAN, about girls, life, money etc... And I owe it all to you. Heck, I even recite some of your phrases, which dazzles the hell out of them. "

- J. O.
"I am so glad YOU took your time, energy, and made the effort to sort out alot of issues involving what motivates men. I have greatly benefitted from your constant reminders to push ahead, een when it hurts. The Alpha Tip you sent today contained a simple, yet POWERFUL truth. Its one of the obvious things I tend to overlook...

I feel excitement, like I am getting ready to fight a great battle and I will either destroy my enemies or die trying. That is the way I am beginning to go after my goals now! It is a natural HIGH! Thanks again! "

- Jason B.
"I've written you before and have posted to your blog. I'll be no stranger to you. Your material is great, your free e-courses are great, your Alpha man series is great. Hell, your whole damn system is GREAT!

You offer so much and you're sincere, that alone is what attracted me to your courses and will for many others too. What bothered me about the seduction community was that everyone was always trying to sell the latest greatest technique. They weren't interested in helping anyone but taking their money.

I don't get that feeling from you. Carlos, keep doing what's putting you above everyone else and you will continue to out pace them.

I Believe in You, I Believe in what You do for Men Everywhere, I Believe in Your Products! "

- A.F.
"Bud your act is nothin short of class. Sure there are other guys out there like David D, Lance M. and Pick up 101, but they're like comparing a go-cart to a dragster. Your info goes well beyond meeting women (don't mean to make it sound like a bad thing).

Although I didn't have much of an issue with communicating with people in general, I did find myself needing a little honing on the confidence aspect in approachin women. Soon after obtaining your advice and filing down the rough edges, things went swimmingly (no kiddin).

I've learned a great deal from you..."

- Mike B. - Monroe, WI

"Carlos your the Sh*t man...

I recently bought your 28 sure fire ways book, and let me say it sure is impressive... And Your newsletters are as amazing as your are man."

- Sarmad A. - India
"I like to say Carlos Xuma you are a legend The secrets of the alpha male is the most complete E-Book out there and it has helped more than any other E-Book in the seduction community..."

- C.C. in the UK
"I think you are the most intelligent one of the bunch of pua teachers out there..."

- Patrick L.
"There is something about your program that has got me thinking. It is more to pick up women it is about creating a lifestyle of being a better person. Out of all the stuff that is out there that is what I am looking for...

I am in the military and I have been inconsistent with my confidence. You really speak to what I am looking for. It is great to get the girl but if you don't have the lifestyle to support it then what is it worth?"

- I.H. - Army
"Carlos, you have raised the bar again. You're giving gems away!

Carlos, I've looked at all the gurus sites and if they were smart, they would learn from you. Thanks for the audio. Keep up the great work."

- Alex F.
" I just want to say Thank You (!) for all your great work (I've got both your PSprogram and Approach Women NOW) - You are the best in your field today!!! Keep doing your fantastic stuff and stay gold man "

- Matt - Sweden
"I must really thank you for your Alpha Male Conversation and Persuasion program. In a short period of time i've noticed that i'm able to pull in conversations and hold them twice as much as I was before.

The best thing about it is I don't feel like a "pick up" artist most of the time because i'm just showing a different part of myself that i've always had but couldn't get to surface until just now... "

- Derek M. - NPR Florida
"... At the moment I'm starting to really push my boundaries with approaching, as just walkin up to them no longer seems to give quite the buzz it used to. (By the way, I'm definitely going to be practicing some more of those direct approaches you just talked about.)

Anyway, I owe a lot to you, the Alpha Rules has become my bible! And when you're in UK, you and we definitely need to go out for a drink."

- Archie C. - U.K.
"First, I'd like to say, I enjoy your blog and your ebooks. I found out about the seduction community about a year ago... I joined countless forums, even bought some things. Well, in my heart, I believed the routines they were teaching were childish and absolutely stupid.

Your material is great. You come across as being very sincere in what you do and I find your material to be classy and not cheesy.

Great Work Man! Your material is so much more natural. I don't have to feel like a clown everytime I go out and try to recall the latest greatest routine.

I appreciate you and the work that you do..."

- Alex F.
"Hey Carlos Along with the S. of the Alpha men & Dating black book, [Approach Women 2] is going to be amongst the best... ...after only one session of approach academy this morning, I was so fired up and motivated by what you said that I started interacting with cold targets... which for me, had never been done before. And I can feel that with this program, I will be approaching regularly & fearlessly & that's like feeling at the top of the world... Great masterpiece & this idea of Academy class just rocks... I just feel like going back to school, to master a new subject and having the belief that there's only one way out: SUCCESS... "

- A. J. - Tarbes, France

"This stuff is gold Carlos, you are doing for men what the whole Government should be doing in the world.

My game, inner and outer is improving massively... and even in this city here in Australia, where men out number women 6 to 1, I am excelling beyond my peers...

Genuine thanks Carlos"

- Tom M. - Australia
" I appreciate you taking care of that and for getting back to me so quickly. Your integrity stands tall above the rest!"

- Paul S.
"Subject: Yea....your stuff is the shizzall!

Carlos, I love your products! They focus men on how to live an active, attractive, lifestyle. The end result of this transformation is what attracts women. Awesome! "

- Jim O.
"I enjoy the depth of your programs, you really cover both inner game and outer game. I enjoy the fact that you tell men find the passions inside rather than reaching for outside influences..."

- M. J.
"Thanks man... jesus you have no idea how much your stuff has helped, If you got time to read a bit i'll tell you my story of how I ended up in the singles bin before I came across your stuff... I'm 26 now and since I read your books I pretty much auto dumped that approach in life and im even more happier with the way things are and the way women are responding to me, it seems now it aint nothing to get "REAL" phone numbers to get dates that dont get cancelled on me you name it.

Ironically like you said it all came down to self confidence self control and I found most important self esteem which I demonstrated to the kind of girls I wasnt intersted in but when a girl who I was came along I enacted this lame setup that got me a whole lot of nothing, I had plenty of the sort of women I wasnt interested in chasing me and not much else, luckily I dont settle.

So anyway all up thanks man I'll be buying your online alpha rules soon and continuing to now give tips and advice refer your stuff to guys at my work who I think could use the help rather than just other "players"."

- A. S.
"Hey Carlos, I'm a HUGE fan of your products. I first bought the Approach Women NOW! program, which led me to the Secrets of the Alpha Man, and I'm seeing results in a very short period of time. I recognize that it's going to be a difficult process to transition from the Nice Guy that I've been for a long time to the Alpha Man, but I'm excited for the challenge and the benefits it will bring in all aspects of my life.

Thank you for your products. I'm looking forward to Approach Women 2!"

- Dan W. - Philadelphia
"Hello Carlos, wanted to let you know I purchased your Dating Black Book and I have to say it is filled with great information and a wealth of knowledge...I feel like the techniques and information within the book are great for any situation..."

- Joe
"just wanted to say that your advice on dating and women is priceless and that my stumbling upon it was the greatest blessing in life. thanks for the tough love bro "

- Ruslan

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"I'm not even trying hard... just in the last hour, I've had two women who have become very friendly with are the man! Your information has radically changed the way I think... by the way I'm 48 years old, so this is really cool!"

- Sean
"The genius of Carlos's methods is that they value wit and creativity over "pick-up" lines and gimmicks. Carlos will help you understand women better, what they desire and what they find attractive, allowing you to customize your own approach techniques and put the best "you" out there.

What you get out of this program is entirely based on what you put in, work hard (and play hard of course) and you will be rewarded!"

- Scott K. - Seattle, WA

"Thank you very much for sharing your tactics with me ... I just ended a relationship I been in for 5 years of and on and it was very painful. Depression I said. And I thought I knew better... now your products are saving my (dating) life. To see all the free tips and write ups you gave me so far is joy to this 50 yr. old... I ... have been doing batting practice every day. Plus testing every thing I have been learning.

When I read it, I was floored, one of the main ingredieant ... confidence. So I restarted my martial arts practice with a passion and deep breathing meditation to bring on relaxsations confidence.

the response I been getting from the females here have been great. My fear level is down.Once again thank you."

- Junies W.
"CX - OK it's working man, even for me just visiting the 3 S's in my mind each day has boosted (and I mean boosted) my confidence around women!

I feel empowered just walking down the street and seeing beautiful women and being able to approach them, or in social environments, where before I was way too scared to look and chat and have confidence in conversation.

Thanks Carlos, you are helping guys who would be living wasted lives.

Grace to you !"

- Tom M. - Australia
"Hi Carlos & staff. I have enjoyed the Alpha Man program, the Advanced Coaching, and now the Approach Now programs... Your stuff IS the best... "

- Randy J.
"That was f*ckin' awesome! Finally, someone detailing out the main tactical step in talking with women in simple, rational, effective terms. I can definitely understand how it will work to dissolve approach anxiety..."

- Andy H.
"hey Carlos I just wanted to say that i appretiate all the time and effort you took into building this material. I've been one of those guys who have been badly wired since a child. but the past is of no use anymore. There are alot of things I've read in your material which I already knew deep down inside, and completely failed to acknowledge. At the same time, there are even more things i most likely would of never realised.

I've decided that these are the essential skills i want to hardwire into my brain, and i'm not going to give up till i do. I've been aware of this for about a year. i've read lots of different materials, tried them and gave up...

I found your material by far the best ones i can relate to, as it focus on the internal inner workings, and what reality is.

thanks carlos, just wanted to let you know i acknowledge and appreciate your work. looking forward to moving forward. "

- Mac
"Hey Carlos, I just thought I'd drop you another thank you message. Thank you for changing my life. Before I started the Alpha man programme I was everything that any guy shouldn't be and that was "NICE".

Since completing the alpha man programme. I've started working as a freelance artist and now enjoy my passions and allow them to bring me an income. My dating life has exploded.

I met an amazing woman and a few months ago, someone like her would have been totally unreachable for the guy I was. Even though women know I'm dating someone they constantly flirt and engage in conversation with me like never before. For the first time in my life I feel like a well rounded and complete person.

I feel like a true alpha man...

I'll definitely be getting the alpha immersion programme soon..."

- Ryan J. - South Africa
"I cant thank you enought man, this is def a major turning point for me. great message..."

- Ian
"I have already bought your Power Social Skills, and... it it is the best and the only program of its kind out there dealing with the tiniest subtle social cues..."

- J.H. - New York
"...They say in the pick up community you should find a teacher/technique that works best for your personality. Your program is awesome dude and I can't wait to re-invest my time into studying your techniques and course work.

I heard about you through the stylelife teleseminar you did and I'M HOOKED! I'm a Carlos Xuma student for life!! your program is a lot more down to earth than a lot of other stuff out there and I've been referring the crap out of it since I read alpha manifesto."

- Charles C. - Miami
"I would just like to say thank you! your audio book is genius! ... this is definately in the top 5 best books I've heard /read* I was just amazed because I spent months looking for a book like this but couldnt put my finger on what it'd be called till I found this - I was hooked!! again thanks man and good luck to you!"

- Dan B. New York

"Damn man you rock!! I just listened to your podcast pertaining to guys dealing with being divorced/broken up with. WOW! I wish I would have heard that a few years back before wasting years of my life away from being divorced..."

- Jim
"Wow, I just finished listening to your podcast. I have to say it was very refreshing to hear someone who actually puts these ideas out there and doesn't try to "smooth" things out with political correctness, which is something I think is depriving men everywhere to exert their manhood and make their presence felt.

Thanks for all your advice. It has changed my life. "

- Daniel
"Good man, Be honest tell what people need, not what they want to hear.

I am very happy with a woman for 2 years but still reading every email and it really helps for keeping perspective. "

- R.
"There's a boatload of information in there and it will take me some time to assimilate all the techniques to defend myself against the games other people play. However, it didn't take me long to be able to spot the games in other people. Then I got pissed. After getting over the pissed feelings, I began to have a deeper understanding of what CX is teaching in the PSS.

Now I'm trying to use the knowledge to make MY world a better place. I know I can't change the people that are playing the games; it's become automatic for them. However, I can work against the games to diffuse or defuse the situations.

It's been a great help on my current path of development that includes emulating the alpha traits of setting boundaries and facing conflict, instead of posturing or collapsing. It's really amazing to watch the expressions of people when their games don't work 100% on me!

I know I'll get better at all of this as time goes by. I'm getting ready to listen to all the CDs again and take notes this time. It takes a lot of study time to listen to this course and learn it, but it's definitely worth the price of buying it and the time invested.

I highly, highly recommend this set of CD's for anyone that wants to climb out of the Matrix of social games and live life with a new clarity."

- T.C. - Denver CO
"Hey Carlos, Thanks a lot for your products. They're really good stuff. I've been an introvert since I was 5 up to around 18. It's quite a long time... Your products really helped introduced a new sense of what "lifestyle" means in me..."

- B. F. - Brooklyn, NY
"Carlos has made me from wimp to champ now. I started reading his material when I was 17, I am 20 now. People have noticed a HUGE difference.

It feels very rewarding after you put in the work and people start commenting on your new behaviours. If it wasn't for Carlos i'd probably still be a virgin..."

- Justin G. - Canada
"Hey dude, You are great.... Your materials helped me to build that logic in the dating world. In just three weeks, I went from zero to ten. :) I am meeting with attractive women, left and right nowadays. It is a blast. :)

Thanks a lot. Keep on motivating people."

- Cem
"Awesome! Talk about a shot of the truth! Keep up the good work!"

- Tobi
"Master Xuma ... God, I acutally love this podcast! It totally kicks @$$!!! Very direct and bold, that nobody else would have the ball to take the bullet to address...."

- Jason
"That was f*cking outstanding, Carlos. You said what had to be said in the clearest and simplest terms. You are so inspirational and motivational...You're a great writer and speaker... I can't thank you enough for all the pumpitude!"

- T. P.

"Powerful stuff Carlos I intend to listen many more times. I felt like a new man after hearing this..."

- John
"You hit life right on the head. You may have called it ranting....I think it was both ballsy and cool - thanks for the advice..."

- M.
"Hey carlos, your program has really helped me to change my mindset and attitude about myself BEFORE the approach and when I'm relaxed and feel good, they go better. Thanks for that. Because of your advice I feel better about myself as a person. I can't thank you enough."

- A.M.
"That was awesome man! You really laid it on the line. Some of us really have to hear it like that. My friends especially have to hear this.

Thanks man you pumped me up again I love your Approach program, I'm definitely gonna do the Alpha program when I finish those cd's. Thanks so much for doing what you're doing. I was so lost before this stuff. You're the best!!!!!"

- Adam
"This is remarkable and delightful; makes me feel exactly like the favorite violin teacher I've ever had.. I've studied with many famous teacher from all over... from Juilliard, SFC, Rice, Royal Academy (England), Curtis, etc. But this makes me FEEL it... you know, that determination, confidence, enjoyment, and absolute mastery (with a sense of beauty etc.) that this violin teacher taught me... from 'survival on stage' to 'knocking out your audience'.

Thanks a bunch. What a blast."

- J.B.S.
"I'm running 3 girls from listening to your stuff and reading your lit thanks..."

- DC
"I am dating lots of great women, and I am taking the lead; Not handing my manhood to the first woman that comes along. I am feeling more like a Champion all the time (not like my wussy old self).

Now when I see the guy she is dating, I feel sorry for him (she is super high maintenance). Thanks Carlos! Keep up the good fight... Jerome"

- Jerome
"Hey Carlos, I've bought several of your products over the last year and your material is awesome, it has helped me in all aspects of my life. I'm a 45 yr. old recovering nice guy, who is back on the market after my 15 yr. marriage fell apart. ... I'm totally in the drivers seat - and my game has improved immensely!

Like you say, the only options with a potential mate are NO, and MAYBE, And you should always consider yourself to be the big fish in the pond that all the fishermen want to catch.

P.S. I am teaching my son these things, so that he doesn't have to go through the pain that I had to. Thanks Bro ! "

- Brian B.
"I bought your "Alpha Lifestyle: Triple-Threat Program" ... and needless to say it rocks! - thank you so much..."

- Heiko S. - Berlin, Germany
"Thank you so much carlos for your advice it is the best and you're the"

- Ary - United Kingdom

"Your dating materials are WORTH THEIR WEIGHT IN GOLD!!! I seriously have improved my skills with women because of you man! Thank you SO MUCH!"

- Drew M. - Auburn, AL
"One of the things I like about the course, is that Carlos wants us to be ourselves and not tell women a bunch of lies just to get them. This is important to me and also, keep you from getting into the cycle of telling more lies to cover the one told before.

I also like how he lays out his course in clear and easy to understand language. Thanks, Carlos."

- Will W.
"CX - Yeah a fine Podcast and great call to arms for the troops, and you know what if people aren't ordering some of your gear then - they are losing time fast.

We, Team-Alpha, have got a once-only opportunity on Earth - so lets all live Alpha-max lives and make women actually like having an opposite sex! "

- Tom M. - Australia
"Carlos, First I just want to say that your content is awesome. I have been your customer for a few years now (bought several of your products) and have seen dramatic results from what I have learned from you. So THANK YOU. "

- Greg H. - Los Angeles, CA
"Hey Carlos, I read a lot of dating sites, ebooks, newsletters. You definitely have the best material in regards to being ambitious and going after what you want in life period (not just with women and dating)."

- Sean
"Yeah CX, this material is A++! I am just new to you lists and man it has boostd - yes rocket propelled me forward after30 years in a non-Alpha life! I am about to order a ton of you material..."

- T., Australia
"Carlos your programs are awesome. i could go on and on... I have the dbb and am reading Secrets of Alpha Man..."

- Alex D.,
" I was very impressed with the way you applied the scientific method to dating and women. You might also be interested to know I purchased the DBB (Dating Black Book-we work in acronyms here) even though I am already married and have no plans to get divorced...

I've been married for 4 years and my wife, long ago, stopped wanting sex more than ~1x per month. It seemed as though the reasons why, which completely baffled me for years, would be spelled out in something like the DBB. They were, in fact, completely spelled out in black and white, along with the solution to the problem.

I read all 400 pages in about two days, and it hit me like a ton of bricks like nothing else has before. I'm confident at this point that applying the principles in the DBB, with some modifications for a marriage context, will likely work... "

- Jason L.
"I just wanted to send you a quick msg regarding [Secrets of the Alpha Man, Alpha Immersion]... I love them. They have helped me to realize that media and society have severely influenced my thinking to destroy me as a true man. Thanks again..."

- Ron H.
"...I've chosen to stop reading David DeAngelo's e-mails in light of better material from men such as yourself..."

- Abel G.

"I think You are TOP-NOTCH in your field,-one of the best self-development experts in the world, probably THE best one! -Im SURE that with your genius and multi-talent, your future will be bright and you will suceed with WHATEVER you decide to do with it!

Finally I want to THANK YOU for all your great work and advice that has inspired and helped me so much!"

- Matt M.
"Hi Carlos. Just wanted to tell you that you ROCK! I am the proud owner of Secrets OF The Alpha Man which has absolutely changed my life, never before have felt such confidence in myself, this programme has given me the faith and belief in myself to walk up and talk to any woman I want without my fears getting the better of me.

I have also started The Dating Black Book which has already helped me to build outstanding rapport with women. I feel like the man I never thaught I could be...THANK YOU!!

The benefits of your Advanced Coaching Programme are too many to list. They include helpful tips for inner and outer game, learning more and more about women (from the horse's to speak) and an all round motivator for all those times I may feel discouraged. Again...Thank you!"

- Kevin B. - New York
"I usually don't go through the trouble of tracking down the author of some good book I read or some good Audio tapes I hear.

But this time I'll make an exception, your audio tapes were truly amazing, the amount of truth in them is astonishing, and they have been of great use to me.

What 'Mystery' provides men with is advice on how to get a woman for a week or maybe a few weeks.

You provide men with advice on how to lead life in order to become more successful in general; women, family, friends, work....

The difference between yours & Mysteries method is probably that with your method you can not only find women for a week or a few weeks, you can also find a quality woman for a long time relationship, even marriage.

Your method is simply better, you deserve the respect you get. "

- Jonas, L. - Belgium
"... would like to say thanks for providing such eye-opening material. Keep up the great work!!!"

- Marcello M.
"First off, thanks for the great information you present in your programs! I have several of them and they really have helped me to not focus on getting a woman to fulfill my life, but to have a fulfilling life first and then having the women follow..."

- Jessie H. - Miami, FL.
"I just want to say a huge thanks for you writing those book. Man I consider you are the master of seduction, as Bruce Lee was with the Martial Arts. And you are the Criss Angel, revealing the secret of the true seduction Method.

I took some seduction program here, in Quebec, read a lot of psychology books on seduction, but you're right. Your book is the true reality of this amazing world... I am addict now. (your fault).

I'm probably your most Fan in the whole Quebec. I bought (and read all the time) the seduction method book and The dating black book. I used to be very... very shy in my early years. Your book has defenitively help to break that damn fears I was in all the time. "

- Yann L.
""The thing I like most about Carlos is his use of Martial Arts metaphors as teaching points... one of the great lessons any good martial art teaches is the importance of fundamentals and of focus ... important with women.

It's not the fancy clothing or the sly pickup line that attracts women, it's a man being a man and focusing on her...

Carlos has the skill and ability to help men understand and embody these qualities.""

- Craig Eubanks - Meetings With Masters - San Francisco
"Most gurus think that they know every single thing about talking to women and try to map out everything to say. But you stay humble and honestly say, " Listen, I can't map out your whole conversation for you but I can give you tools to help drive the car."

This tells me that you are for real and truly understand what the dating game is about. Thanks for the audio advice and I look forward to hearing more in the future..."
" First things first: your products are first rate --- no guy should interact, let alone look at a woman without first purchasing then studying your material (be it the ebooks, the audio coaching, or the DVDs). I've recommended your products to friends across Canada..."

- Ken
"hey carlos! I have been following your emails and the weekly alpha tips, for months now, the Dating Black Book was such an eye opening book, and I have tried to integrate every advice in the lifestyle I was living, and now have become more confident to the extent that I now have several hotties on my list of "interests"

... things are going great since they seem interested in the alfa (true) me that I have become after following your advice ... this has helped in making me a more successful man in my work environment and my work interviews as well as with the ladies!

its amazing how people will change their ways with you just as they see confidence and a sure character, a person in such control and passion in his just resonates success!!!

I can't thank you much for those! you have given me more knowledge of who I can be, the true REAL me instead of a wuss, a fearful guy who creates scenarios in his own mind just to escape something he doesn't know its outcome! Even close friends are just wanting more of me around! they wanna have fun with me! And this is real success, how its all supposed to be!"

- Gabriel G., Lebanon

" this stuff is gold ... for me it has been a real awakening. For too long I was a kind of conversational weakling but now my Alpha qualities are developing and the female interaction is improving out of site, plus general life skills fo all situations.

I am not totally there yet but I know that changing the way I think about myself and knowing who I really am (and can be) is the most important aspect. Over just knowing the 'moves' abd script and all that it is what you teach for the 'inner guy' that really makes these lasting results.

I've gone from below average to the top 20% of the popultion since learning from your material."

- Tom M., Australia
"First,Carlos, I just want to say that I think You are TOP-NOTCH in your field, and Im SURE that with your genius and multi-talent, your future will be bright whatever you decide to do with it!

Ever since I heard you on the David Deangelo audio session I've followed your teachings in your newsletters. I've also bought your PowerSocialSkills-program and listen through it a couple of times. -Its great(!) and I'm thinking of getting the Alpha Conversation-program as well...Keep up the good work-Your stuff is supergreat Carlos!"

- Matthias - Germany
"I have been studing dating material over 5 years now and my heart resonates most with the stuff that you teach. It really helped me out from some of my limiting beliefs and put forward more my real personality.

Seriously ... Thank you SO much. "

- J.
"Hi Carlos, I have been reading your newsletters and other material for almost a year. It has been quite an experience. I have been quite successful because of an Alpha Lifestyle. I have collected more than 100 mobile phones over the last 8 months in Amsterdam and Frankfurt. In fact on some occassions some women have tried to pick me up..."

- Vishal S.
"I'm a big fan of Carlos Xuma's work. He fits squarely in the Natural Structured methods, teaching men to be confident in general, and only after that in their dealings with women..."
"Your the f*cking man, gave me a 180 degree turn around in life. Got my first girlfriend and have never been happier..."
"Hi Carlos, I wanted to thank you for all your help in my life over the past 2 years or so. You've turned my life around!

A couple of years ago I was in the doldrums when it came to women and life was very blasé. I had just gotten out of a bad relationship only to fall into another one and I wasn't happy with myself as a person.

I started listening to your podcasts, I got your Dating Black Book, and I was quickly on the path to success. As a bit of a side note, I'm actually a clinical psychologist and I was impressed with how much you've incorporated psychological theory and research into your work.

Your advice is not just a collection of hunches and "off-the-cuff" suggestions - it is all based on solid empirical evidence. I love it.

If other guys knew this isn't only about getting chicks - it's about growing as a person and becoming someone you are truly comfortable with. There's nothing I've enjoyed more than having my own private "therapy" sessions via your podcasts after a long day of providing therapy to others.

I'm currently in a newer relationship and it's the healthiest relationship I've ever been in. And I know I wouldn't have made it to this point without following your advice. If I had gone about things how I normally would have in the past, I would have turned a potentially awesome situation into a disaster (long story). But with your programs, I've been instilled with better mindset, alpha confidence, and an all-round better perspective on life.

This, in turn, has rubbed off on the people around me and I can sense their satisfaction with me as a friend, brother, son, and relationship partner. It feels great! Thanks again Carlos"

- Will S., PhD.
"Hi Carlos, I love your advice, it is really helpful, I've gotten other products and I believe you are one of the best at what you do..."

- Berto F., Oceanside, CA
"My Dear Freind Carlos, Thanks for the lexicon. Your stuff really rocks, man! No wonder you are at the top of your game. It's great to learn from a master like you..."

- Matt D.
"Carlos, You really are brilliant!"

- R. S., Beverly Hills

"Dear Carlos, After reading your 70 something page masterpiece, I became filled with an incredible sense of urgency to do something more with my life, my relations with family and friends, my outlook, and my attitude.

Aside from the advice for getting better with females, your advice on becoming a man with ambition and a sense of being is something that is invaluable.

Those words were pure gold, and there are no words to explain my gratitude for you writing them and making them available to me, but I just wanted to write you and thank you anyway.

I've been on the mailing list for David D. and Mystery, and your e-mails are the only ones that make sense to me. I trust what you have to say, and look very much forward to anything else you have to offer. Best wishes,"

- A.G.
"Hey Carlos I want you to know that all your stuff absolutely rocks. I've been using your Seduction Method with women and I've become an awsome ladie's man..."

- Nizu A., Mexico
"Hey Carlos, I've recently been reading your newsletter and your Dating Black Book, and I've found both incredibly helpful... "

- Fraser W., West Sussex, England
"Thanks for all your advice and effort ... You wouldn't believe what a difference it has made in my life..."

- Gerhard V.
"Carlos provides extremely insightful ideas about what it takes to approach women, and build the attraction necessary to get them interested in you. There are many, many sources for dating advice, but only Carlos seems to be able to put everything you need to know into simple terms, and easy-to-understand analogies.

Whether it be his use of martial arts ideas and terminology, or his examples found in movies we have all seen, Carlos always manages to find a way to break through to me, and make me have that elusive Aha!, or Eureka! moment.

What can I say? The Approach Women Now program is awesome."
"I have now got to the point where women can't stop chasing me..."

- M.K.M.
"Your Dating Black Book is fantastic, by the way. So much information..."

- Matt
"This DVD set is simply amazing. It can change your life forever and for the better. The amount of information that Carlos and his friends share in the DVDs will definitely make you live the alpha-lifestyle.

Since I got the DVDs I watch them over and over again and I definitely notice an improvement in myself, I feel happier, more confident to talk to women and now there is NO ONE in the world who can change that.

THE ALPHA LYFESTYLE TRIPLE THREAT is DEFINITELY a must for anyone out there who are willing to improve their lifestyle."

- R. D.
"Calos, I want to thank you for all of your help, and to let to know that your programs are really good stuff with tons of useful knowledge..."

- Greg C.
"Carlos, I must say that after listening to the [Approach Women] CDs I had to go out and give it a try... with unexpected consequences. Suddenly a new world opened up for me!

I don't have to think anymore what to say when approaching women. I get good responses (smiles on their faces! and sometimes more). Keep up the good work! "

- G. K.

"Carlos, your stuff really open my eyes and help me become a better lover... "

- Willy L.
"Just sitting back admiring how well your programs are put together...

You are definitely a stand out relationships and dating expert. It is always great to read your stuff ..."

- David B.
"Carlos! I just want to take a minute to compliment you on your work. I've read a lot about the PUAthing and I got a lot of info and material but had often a hard time relating with it, it wasn't me you know.

So rather then making me more at ease with the whole thing it actualy stressed me out a little; in approaching women instead of more in control in felt more uncomfortable and less natural, like a athlete being filled up with things to do by his coach decreasing all his natural abilities.

Things changed when I heard your interview with David De Angelo (interview with Dating Gurus) and I could directly realy relate to the things you said. This is the stuff! ...your work eases me down instead of gets me uptight and that's one of the Alpha male characteristics I think.

Your approach about changing who you are in stead of who you 'act to be' ... really changed my views on things. Thanks for that man.

Looking forward to your next newsletters."

- Roel W., Amsterdam, Holland
"Love the material ... the genuine approach works better than any canned material its all about delivery and belief in yourself and what you are doing... Am having great fun with meeting new people and being more attractive...Thank you Carlos"

- Craig R.
"Prior to obtaining the Secrets of the Alpha Man, I was your typical "beta, nice guy, average frustrated chump." Years of programming from my father led me to believe that I was not worthy of women or of success.

My initial purpose for obtaining the tapes was to improve my belief in myself, improve my over-all self confidence and to learn social dynamics for improving myself in social and professional enviroments. After listening to the tapes over and over again, I began to see the patterns that have plagued me and affected my life for so many years.

One by one I have began to replace old beliefs with new ones. In regards to women, I used to go numb and shy away from beautiful women. Now when I see a women I remind myself, "They do all the disgusting things in private that I do, so they are no better than me." I no longer think, "Oh yeah....definitely." Now I think, "Maybe or no. They have to prove their worth to me first."

The funny thing is, it works!! I no longer get nervous around beautiful women. Thanks Carlos for your help!"

- John S.
"I have to say, you were the first person who introduced me to this Forum, and you and you... have extremely sound and "HEALTHY" exercises, advice, for either Gender, and responsibilities that go with open dating, and respect for what it is ultimately to achieve...

[I] have found it much easier to really express who I am by implementing some of these techniques, offered here, on these sites...

Keep up the good work, Outstanding. "

- [email protected]
"Hi Carlos, [The Dating Black Book] is unbelievable. I'm 42,and now know to possess the "3 S's." Thanks 4 the 411!"

- Rocco S., Los Angeles CA
"...You've got some great stuff to offer. Your Alpha MANual was (#&$ing AWESOME!! That's the kind of stuff I'd LOVE to get more of...

Thanks again for all the time and effort you've put into creating materials for guys/helping guys to live their lives better :) You're an example of the less than 1% of people I'd be interested in getting to know better... "

- Andy H., Japan
"Great program, but I'm getting married now... Thanks for the help Carlos. You rock!"

- Andy J.
"Hey Carlos, i'm currently reading your Dating Dynamics EBook and I can't wait to get the money to buy your "Alpha Man Conversation and Persuasion"...

Your ideas are just brilliant...I'm loving your EBook and I'm only 8 pgs in... I actually felt a very positive "high" from reading this..."

- Robert M., Newark, NJ

"I should tell you that since getting your e-mails and buying some of your products a few months ago, I've definitely noticed that for whatever reason, I'm meeting and attracting more and more of the girls I want to meet. Like, each girl gets better than the last. And for the first time in about 5 years, I meet a girl who I can see myself in a relationship with. I guess I'm a little shocked and don't know how to handle it!

Thanks man..."

- Dan S.
"Carlos, I recently got your Conversation & persuasion program, it is fantastic..."

- R.S.
"By 2004, it had been a good five year without a proper date or a girlfriend for me. I came across Carlos stuff in early 2004 and step by step I broke out from my rusty shell.

From a self loathing, below average loser who could not stand looking at himself in the mirror I became a confident man, my life improved, there is No scarcity of women in my life, but this is not ONLY about women, it is about my body, my soul, my mind, my life's objectives , my everything.

I think Carlos is a messanger to improve our lives, and his commitment to his mission is an example for me, to give every task I set out to do, all my heart and soul.

I admit it is hard to stay on the ALPHA path, but Carlos is here to guide us. "

- Ramin T.- Toronto, Canada
"I just wanted to thank you for starting me in the right direction to tapping the inner Alpha Male that has been laying dormant in me for over 12 years. Your weekly aplha tips, and Alpha Immersion DVD series is helping me be my true self and further enhancing my life with my new girlfriend who is the love of my life. Thank you so much, Carlos!"

- Chris L.
"Carlos, the line " fun" in your dating black book, ROCKS man, this sentence works everywhere, not just when she is not ticklish ...I've tried it... it's like a magic word ... it works every time


- D.
"First off i want to tell you that i recently got your e-book the dating black book; the book is amazing and very insightful..."

- Chris G.
"Carlos, First of all, I'd like to express my gratitude to you and all the work you've put out there for other people. I purchased the Dating Black Book at the end of last summer, and ordered your Social Dynamics CDs not too long ago.

Both have helped to make me a smarter, less-highstrung, and more self-aware individual to the point where I am now refered to by some of my friends as 'the most approachable...'"

- Charlie E.
"I've just listened to your alpha man conversation and persuasion. Great program!"

- Victor B.

- Justin G.
"...You know you have done a great job. Helping and educating people (besides other things) is the activity that I too want to perform in the future. I hope I can put in my work as much passion as you can.

Keep up the good work and thank you! "

- Siim S.

"Thanks for taking the time to explain how some of these "mind games" are working... God bless you, man, for being such a dedicated giver of inside information on these life lessons."

- A.
"I just purchased your triple threat DVD program. I have many of your products and previous audio coaching, They ROCK..."

- Jim O.
"Just wanted to say thanks for the extreme candidness and common sense you display in your material. You are one of the few who has really altered and shaped the course of my life. Thank You. "

- Tom K.
"I've been a customer of yours for a couple of years and I have not writen one single line to thank you from the bottom of my heart. Here I am a couple of years later. I hope you can and have time to read it because I speak from my heart when I say thank you Carlos, you've done more to me and other men alike than words can speak...

I have to say that I first started with your material, I ran into other material and along the way I kept track on what you where teaching and I have to say after all this pick'up things and material I learned from other sources what you teach is what really has counted in my life. I now finally understand what it really means to be an Alpha Man and be on your path.

I want to thank you for your work because after owning all of your product (Yes all of them :) ) you trully taught me what I have always known deep inside me what it means to be a man. I just never was in touch with who I really was. I have to a point out that I am tired of lines, pick'up stuff etc...

Don't get me wrong I learned alot from everything I did but not once did I really meet a woman that trully was aligned to who I am. They were more attracted to the pick'up tricks, material whatever you want to call them. I was playing a role that was not true to me and... well, I got what I asked for... in a sense I got NOTHING for I conveyed nothing true as of to WHOM I TRULY AM AS A MAN, AS AN ALPHA MAN. My true self.

I can go on and on thanking you for what you have taught me and have a hours long conversation... I want to thank you for you three most latest products: Most of all Alpha Lifestyle, best program ever, Power Social Skills, damn good one and Alpha rules e-book. All of those three got me out of the pick'up jam that I was in... well conveying a fake me.

A fellow man on his personal path... "

- Adrian S.
"I've been receiving your e-mail newsletters for a while, and I've thought you were a cool guy from the start ;-), but just now, after listening to your new Blitz program, the one with the phone call from the guy who had approach anxiety, I have to say, I really admire your special understanding of how things work..."

- Aaron Z.
"I have long had a deathly fear of initiating conversations, especially with women. I had listened to all the advice, some good, some bad, but could never get a handle on the problem.

I received and listened to Carlos's program, Approach Women Now. What a revelation! I'm already getting much better results with it, and with little repetition, I'll soon be approaching fearlessly, like the masters of the art do.

Thanks, Carlos. Your program has already made a big difference. "

- Serginho, São Paulo, Brasil
"Thanks to your stuff I got a girl friend now..."

- Matt S.
"Hi Carlos, I just wanted to say that I've finished your Power Social Skills, and I am seriously impressed. It's your masterpiece, absolutely. I've signed up to your programs for over two years, and they've all been good ... This time, however, I was blown away. This time I'm going to work and work and work these CDs, get them in my head, get them as second nature - or first nature, even better.

And I have several people to thank. Myself, for wanting the change and seeking to do something about it. And you, for doing something about making a difference out there.

Well done, dude..."

- Daniel C.
"I am very excited about this purchase and I already covered some of the material, and I love it !"

- Christian D.
"I loved the Blitz Session you did on approach anxiety - it really highlighted some major problems for me. Unlike other programs though, it gives ACTIONS to take on the problems, which is the important thing!

Thanks for all the help!"

- Danny W.

"Carlos, This was f***in great!! Thank you for breakin down the basics and just making things simple... That's the best, most accurate, logical and immediately usable dating advice I've heard yet. "

- Andy H.
"Hey Carlos, I first want to say that I have a lot of respect for the way you attempt to educate us laymen. Your teachings, I feel are more lifestyle beneficial rather than "just" dating advice..."

- Eric W.
"I didn't have one date in 3 years; until I started reading this material. Now I've got a steady girlfriend and more confidence with women in general than I've ever had before. Not only that; but, they're looking at me like I am real hot stuff. And I'm 53, not rich or good looking ..."

- John R.
"The Secrets of the Alpha man has completely changed my life. Since using it I've improved my career. I have tons more interests and hobbies than before. I'm in better shape, mentally and physically. The insight gained from the Alpha man program is truly invaluable. Coupled with the Audio coaching makes it a timeless resource.

Oh snap!!!! Did I forget to mention that I have frequent dates now? Juggling my dating life and my personal interests has added even more interest...from the opposite sex of course...This coming from a guy who didn't even have the guts to walk up to a woman and introduce himself. Now it's become just one of those things I do daily.

Carlos knows his shit!!! "

- Ryan J.
"Thanx a bunch to you and crew for the swift efficiency in solving my issue, as far as I've seen your co. is tops in customer service,Thanx... "

- M. Hogan
"Your stuff is excellent, probably some of the best stuff I have come across in this community for actual personal change.

Just read your "Change" report. Really short, but has just given me a wake up call! I have so many things I want to do in life that it's difficult to know where to start! It's given me an amazing perspective of focusing on one thing at a time."

- Craig H.
"You seem to make more sense than 'The Game' does..."

- Frankie W.
"I really enjoyed The approach women now program, It was very fascinating and really makes a lot of sense, its a great starter tool on your success with women... "

- Thomas B.
"Hi Carlos, After the Dating Black Book, I bought the secrets of the Alpha Man and I've got to say, wow.

I've got to say that the Dating Black Book completely changed my whole plan to the Dating Game and the Secrets of the Alpha Man is changing my whole attitude to the Dating Game.. Thanks a lot.

I was a lost boat after a really crappy relationship, and spent eight months not knowing how to get on with life and a new relationship.

Now, thanks to you, I've not only got and applied rules which work, but more importantly, I've started developing a winning mentality which is the foundation of success in life.. And like you said, this is the best way to attract women.. and it is...

I'm loving the journey on my way to a complete Alpha guy...

On another note, I wanted to add that I respect the guy you are : You're not just a guy out there to give a lecture and show your superiority to us, Alpha-to-be guys,and make money, but you're actually a guy who cares about other guys in the community of men.

I'm saying this because you do regularly reply to my emails, and I really appreciate that you find and take time to reply and help us..."

- A.
"I've studied much of your material, including the Dating Black Book, Secrets of the Alpha Man, and the Alpha Immersion DVDs... all f*cking awesome and life changing! "

- R.R.

"Thanks mostly to your program I have progressed in a couple of years from being dateless and a virgin to dating beautiful women. It's been hard but so worth it! Bulding up self-esteem was critical part for me as well as dispelling some of that mystique that beautiful women have around them..."

- J in Sydney
"You have changed my life ... Hope you keep doing what your doing and helping those dudes in need..."

- Mark T.
"You are the man you changed my life I used to be so shy..."

- Craig, in the UK
"I really appreciate your work and it is helping my life with women, ALL of your articles are very valuable and I read them whenever I need motivation...."

- R. in the UK
""Secrets of the Alpha Man" awesome book dude, I give u credit for my success (even outside of women)... Your book has helped lots, I give you my thanks for helping me develop myself to the man I wanted to be... "

- Jon K.
"Well done. You are impressing me more and more, and I have read many different gurus on the scene... "

- M. R.
"hey Carlos, I've got your dating e-book and it rocks...definately takes a good few reads to make sure us guys are doin all the right things every step of the way."

- Andy W.
"I've really enjoyed your Power Social Skills program. It's helped me realize a lot of manipulation tactics that I didn't even realize were manipulative, both in myself and others. It's helped me start building more healthy relationships with the people I interact with daily. "

- Marshall, Washington D.C.

I don't know if you actually read these emails but I have to tell you that you truly have changed my life. Buying your book was one of the best things I have ever done.

I am still in the process of absorbing and putting into practice what you've taught me but I can tell you that I feel more confident and better about my dating situation then I can ever remember. Thank you and keep the advice coming!"

- William A.
"Thank you Carlos. Your advice is certainly making a difference...I have had three hot dates in the last 3 weeks and it has been fun for me and the date. I have never experienced this pleasure before with girls who are, for all intents and purposes, strangers!"

- Dipak

"Carlos, your teaching and philosophy are the future and the new generation for social success with everybody. You are like the new Godfather of social success, the new Mystery.

You are way ahead of the GAME of our time. Even on the show "The Pick-Up Artist" -Mystery mentioned it's not about the women but about building a life; and you have always said that since the beginning.

In the future, once all these pickup arts have been exposed, the alpha man will be the next step to the new generation of seduction. Like you said, Pickup is a dying art. You are a pioneer and founding father of all Alpha Men. You are like the guru of guru.

We need to have MMM - Masculine Man Movement, and you should be the leader. You definitely need to start your own TV show to empower men. There are none out there. I am just sick of Oprah and Tyra Banks hampering our masculinity!

I have recently bought your Power Social Skills. I LOVE IT!

I feel like I received a PhD for socialites. As a former nerd, you helped me catched up my years in social understanding that I neglected when younger and back in school because I was the good kid, the great student with a purpose in life striving for a great university... All nerds, dorks, and geeks, and people who will eventually run this planet NEED THIS PROGRAM!

This is a rare, one of a kind, gem treat, finally! No recycled materials regurgitated. I find the program to be a lot me engaging, more practical, and focused more on real life applications than just theories and fluffs. I love how you delineated with examples.

This is your best released program. It is new. It is refreshing. It is a topic that have not been dealt or explained. It is finally good to see something different and innovative, than the same old stuffs that have been around in the community.

Overall, you were the only one that took the initiative to create a program like this; nobody else had the solid balls. I give you infinite credits for that. Keep up the awesome work you are doing Carlos! "

- Jason H.
"Carlos, Well man I have had so much success with your stuff. I am 42 divorced, 2 kids. I have been divorced for a year and a half. I have bedded 8 girls, totally great. Now I have a 26 yr old Olympic swimmer who is sooo smoking that is my girlfriend... 16 yrs younger than me. It is awesome. Thanks. I owe it to you. My life has changed so much. I know cocky funny and all of your stuff. I am so much more confident. Everybody has noticed. You are the best.

Your stuff really helped me alot. I appreciate it. You have done good work. "

- Chris N., San Francisco, CA
"Carlos, I have been using the techniques from both your "Secrets of the Alpha Man" and "Approach Women Now" products. In my opinion both of these products are priceless because of the success I have been having in my life.

The success I am now getting is not only with the ladies but also in every other facet of my life, and I cannot thank you enough for all that you've done to help me. They have helped me meet and attract many great women over the past year, but now I have been seeing a girl for the past two months and things are getting pretty serious. It did not start out being that way because I was seeing a couple other women (thanks to your products)... now our relationship has progressed over time and we are only seeing each other...

I sincerely appreciate all that you've done and I am looking forward to your reply. Keep up the great work and helping MEN everywhere. "

- Taulby E., Virginia
"On another level, I wanted to say Thanks... After the Dating Black Book, you really interested me, because I thought, "Hey, that's a guy who's out there and who knows how it works".. When you advised me to take the Secrets of the Alpha Man programme before the Approach women now, I remember thinking, " What the heck!! I just want to seduce women"...

Now, however, I see BIG. You are damn right. The secrets of the alpha man is a MUST program for us all, because it's the bigger picture of life. It teaches us how to really feel alive, how to be MEN again, and it does real wonders for getting self-confidence.

Self-Confidence is inside to outside, and your programme is going that great for me.

And the best part is that I've only read one-third of your books and listened to 2 of your cds yet, and already, with your Alpha exercises, tactics and Audio, my level of Alphaness is already way up. And the best part of it is that by making me feel alive, you're making women come more naturally and often to me...

I'm still learning alphaness, but my life is up, and instead of being a dork watching TV with a beer as I was before, I'm starting developping an Alpha lifestyle and getting things done, and by just being ME, women are coming and more importantly, I'm feeling ALIVE again just to be me (with or without women) and that's the best part of this programme....

Love it and will certainly come back for more when I'll finish and mastered the Secrets of the Alpha Man...

So thanks a lot for making me be me again........ "

- A.
"Wow... you unlocked a lot of the mysteries of my behavior with this program..."

- Chris H., Louisiana
"I wanted to add that I respect the guy you are:

You're not just a guy out there to give a lecture and show your superiority to us, Alpha-to-be guys,and make money, but you're actually a guy who cares about other guys in the community of men. I'm saying this because you do regularly reply to my emails, and I really appreciate that you find and take time to reply and help us...

See you later... Great advice and great mindset for the new attitude I've adopted..."

- A.J.
"Your new program is phenomenal...

I can't believe you came out with a program like this... I love it. Its different and unique then every fu*** thing out there. "

- R.
""Let me tell you Carlos that you are a life saver. I just got out of a really bad marriage... I mean bad... no self confidence whatsoever. To the point that I was willing to take the abuse just to stay in it. Luckily she got a boyfriend and kicked me out. That's when I came across your products. I decided to buy the approaching women CD's and let me say they are AWESOME. Those CDs alone have shot my confidence levels way up and made me really start to retrain my brain and regain my confidence. I've already listened to them 5 times and in the next month I'm buying the alpha male program. Needless to say my charming abilities are coming back full force. Thank you so much and keep up the good work.""

- Darrin K., Sacramento, CA
"Hi Carlos,

After the Dating Black Book, I bought the secrets of the Alpha Man and I've got to say, wow.

I've got to say that the Dating Black Book completely changed my whole plan to the Dating Game and the Secrets of the Alpha Man is changing my whole attitude to the Dating Game.. Thanks a lot.

I was a lost boat after a crappy relationship, and now, thanks to you, I've not only got and applied rules which work, but more importantly, I've started developing a winning mentality which is the foundation of success in life.. I've got to say it's really fun to be in the Dating Scene and do mistakes and come back to your programmes, and say, "That's it.. That's where I failed - Now, how am I going to change this?" Thanks..."

- Ash J., France
"Outstanding program. Keep up the good work!"

- Ken H.

"...Thanks for your expertise!

You gots skills!!!!!! Where did you learn all this stuff?

Since listening to your audio about not backing down from women like a wuss but taking charge with a "whatever" mentality and attitude that they are coming into MY world and they can come along for the ride if they want to... WORKS!!!!!! They seem to like that alot! I thought they would be mad and hate me, but they LOVE it!

Who knew? ... Well, I guess you did!!"

- Mark T.
"I have to tell you that you truly have changed my life. Buying your book was one of the best things I have ever done. I am still in the process of absorbing and putting into practice what you've taught me but I can tell you that I feel more confident and better about my dating situation then I can ever remember. Thank you and keep the advice coming! "

- WIll A.
"Hey Carlos,

A few years ago I was obsessed with the whole PUA thing. I studied the seminars, did the live 3 day bootcamps with the gurus, read the ebooks etc, even wrote my own stuff on the net. I got to the point where I was able to go out to any club and KNOW I could pick up a girl and get laid. I could break into sets, tool AMOG's, create attraction, get numbers, do phone game, close the deal. I was able to pick up 18-19 year olds with ease and I was 33 at the time. I guess you could say I managed to do the stuff and get the desired results.

However the strange thing was it made me depressed over time. I think it was the overall basic outlook on life that accompanies that PUA universe plus the meaninglessness of it all. I could do it, but so what? I later realized that it just didn't gell with who I am, my values and outlook, or my real goals. So I dropped it all completely.

When I saw that your course came with a months subscription to the alpha male lifestyle stuff my reaction was "Oh NO! Not that sh*t, where do I cancel my subscription?"

But having listened to the downloads I'm totally impressed. Your material is POSITIVE and HEALTHY; totally inspirational and uplifting. Well done mate for giving this material a whole new spin.


- Simon H.
" I've been listening to your stuff for over a year now on and off. Just a few months ago, I bought the Dating Black Book and the monthly Advanced Coaching. I've noticed more results with women...

I look forward to buying another one of your programs. ...You offer a great service to all us guys out there. Thanks so much. Your material stands apart from competitors. "

- Ryan B., Texas
"Hi Carlos, the Secrets of the Alpha Man program is the best I've come across so far. I'm getting good results..."

- Randy
"I recently picked up your Alpha Man program and wow have I learned a lot. I didn't realize all the little things I'm doing that make me a wuss and ultimately hurt my chances. I also loved your Dating Black Book which really got me started in your program and I've made sure to recommend it to all my friends and as a result one of them even used it to get his current girlfriend...

Thanks for all your support Carlos it means a lot and has truly helped a lot of guys out there including myself... "

- Robert M.
"I never thought I would be one of the many guys who would end up writing a letter to you, but after the past few months I really felt that I should. First off, I wanted to thank you for all you have done to change my life the past few years with the Dating Black Book and Secrets of the Alpha Man programs.

Your education has certainly improved my overall outlook on life and my lifestyle, not only with women, but in my business and personal life as well. Thank you...

I would love to have the opportunity to fly down to one of your seminars or workshops and listen to some of your material in person. If you could let me know when and where you do many of your seminars and workshops, I would jump at the chance to leave the “Great White North” for a few days to learn from you first hand.

Thanks again Carlos, you truly are an ambassador for creating the ultimate Alpha lifestyle and information that will be carried until my dying days!!! "

- Adam M., Canada
"You are the MAN! ...You're so motivational. I never bothered with any of the "dating gurus" you talk about, but I'm thrilled and inspired by your accomplishments. You really walk the walk and talk the talk, which I'm sure none of these other gurus are doing. You're giving plain, simple advice about following your passion to turn your life around. I'd love to give you a big hug.

Thanks for taking your time with my fan mail..."

- T. Pratt
"Yeah, I love you guys thats why.
You have the best business that I know online.
You guys reply back QUICK!"

- Jay
"I am becomming a fan!

A couple months ago I ordered the Triple Threat DVD series... I finally got it, and am lapping it up. Also, while I was waiting for y DVDs, I got impatient, and ordered the Dating Black Book, which I also find solid."

- Roy R. (Portugal)

"Going through DVD number two and taking notes like crazy. Alot of new stuff which blows my mind and some older stuff which are familiar but expanded in a ways that expands my on reality in life. So thanks for your help again.

This program combined with some of other Carlos's programs are really... well I do not know how to put in words but this is really just... GREAT to simply put it. So thanks to Carlos and to you and to anyone else who is working on helping men and women. So thank you again. Damn good program. Worth every penny. Keep up the great work.

Great thanks from a man who is creating a way to become a man, an Alpha Man... "

- Adrian S.
"I find your newest program "Power Social Skills" unbelievable. I love how you talk about social skills on a general level rather than just pickup skills. Its really great..."

- Ron N.
"Before I even started with the Alpha man programme. I had never in my life even asked a girl out. But since starting with the e-books and audio sessions, my world has been opened up to a whole world of possibilities with women.

Carlos hits it right on the money. I'm creating interest with women even before I start talking to them, just by using the guides on body language and behaviour I'm able to create an impression on which to build. This is the best New Years resolution ever!!!"

- R. J.
"Hi Carlos. Firstly I have to admit, I was totally a skeptic when I first read about your Alpha Man programme. But initially even the little tips I recieved in my mailbox helped my game tremendously.

Now I'm using the Alpha man strategies and guides and yes... IT WORKS!!! I will definitely go for the other programmes.


- Ryan J.,
"...Keep up the excellent coaching !! You have meant so much for so many men who, like me, were on the point of despair as regards our relations with women. Sincerely, Hernan"

- Hernan B., Cancun
" I am so glad that I ran into your material a couple of months ago because without it my life would totally be different without it. Not just in the women department, but almost every aspect. Because of the confidence that I have gained from listening to your stuff I've become a different man. I'm still in college but I'm working in a job that requires a college degree which is so awesome!

Hey just want to say that you're stuff is so amazing it's ridiculous! My skill with women has gone up by so much, and so has my skill in other conversation as well. "

- Aaron S., Washington
"I just wanted to say thanks Angel Eyes for encouraging me to buy Carlos Xuma's Dating Black Book because that book jumped me out of my seat. Literally. The next day, I went to the mall and started to use his material not really expecting anything, but the women were responding like ways I have never seen them respond. My path to finding my own Alpha Man within myself is not without thanks for your support and your great insights.

I love your posts my man! Sam Moon, Nashville"

- Same Moon, Nashville, TN
"I would like to say I love what you teach... Everyone out there says you are one of the top experts and just from listening to what you teach and your newsletters I have to agree."

- Austin
"For my part I want to say that what Carlos does is a great thing and in my personal life it has helped me more than I can describe with words.

When I first read some material on the web what Carlos whas teaching I was a total wussy then. A total nice guy. I thought to myself: "This can not possible work. I must be nice to girls. Buy them stuff, compliment them, kiss ass etc..."

At first I fought against what Carlos teached but luckily I had something inside of me that just told me that his stuff make sense. I though I got nothing to lose since I had really nothing :). A year later and alot of work on myself I have had a total paradigm change in my life, on how I think things, act on things... on how I live my every day life. No longer I react on my impulses or act like a total wuss.

I started not being able to approach and talk to girls to simply approaching girls when I want, where I want and how I want. I banter, tease and flirt with all women I get a chance to and they love it. Although sometimes I take it over the top being a bit to cocky but hey luckly I am aware of these behaviours. I look at things objectively, learn and move on. I no longer act like a victim and make myself into a martyr. I do my best to take resposibility for my actions and do what is courageous and constructive.

I could write a book about all the things that has changed in my life due to what I have learned from Carlos but simply all I can say is thank you.

... thank's from me to Carlos here where some words to describe my gratitude towards his work. "

- Adrian S.
"Keep up the good work!! You have changed my life no doubt."

- Chris N., San Francisco, CA

"Well, for me I was in a crappy relationship for long, living without pride and self confidence.. Now that it's finally over, andl I bought the Dating Black Book as a start and wow... I'm seeing all the mistakes I did and now, up to me to improve myself..

I'll buy the Secrets of the Alpha Man or Aproach Woman now soon ...

I'm ready to start feeling alive again...

Life is about to start again and reading your book and becoming a member of this forum where I've been reading all your tips and topics is getting me even miles ahead...

No more beta, only Alpha...

So I'm ready to become like you and get a hold of my life to get what I deserve....And I will... I need to completely get my self confidence back and start..

So thanks to you and to the Alpha men on this forum in advance... Thanks a lot Carlos... "

- Jan - France
"Hi Guru...

I bought your dating black book a month ago and I've got to saw wow... You stuff is great...

I've started improving myself with the 3Ss and I've got to say that the rules you give do work.. For now, I'm still doing meetings by online dating because I still have the dread of the first meeting... I've started the initial steps as you say; Step 1 go out and look in the eyes and Step 2 : Smile... "

- Ash, France
"Carlos...thank you very, very, VERY much for making the 2008 shyness smasher article [for] the Approach Women NOW program.

All this time I have been buying all these other programs and did not even know how to get a phone number!

I am deeply impressed. When I become rich I'm buying you a house! "

- Justin G., Mississauga, Ontario, Canada
"The Dating Black Book has helped me realize that women are actually simple to understand. The information within this book lays the foundation for evolving men into becoming honorable beings; Having no shame or guilt to want women to become a great part and addition of our lives and not the reason for our existence. This book has helped me be able to cultivate the behaviors that women respond to from men and own them as well."
"thanks for the great customer service.."

- Tim A.
"From the first words i read of yours I already learned a big lesson... It was like someone pushed my head in a bucket of ice and screamed extremely loud (when my head was out): WAKE UP!!! And I did... I realized that you don't gain a women's interest just by saying a fancy opening line, you do it by your character - Alpha character. And this attitude is not only working for your love life, but your WHOLE life. By reading your book I started thinking why the hell I was scared to approach a women (on a decent way) like I was before. Just by reading your book my self-confidence and self-esteem went extremely up!! And becoz of this, I dared to approach a women at alpha-style... ...and dude, you rock!!! You are really a guru, I won't say its like a new father-figure (I had good one)... but it's comparable to that... Robin"

- Robin L.
"Hi Guru, I've got to say that your book looks awesome. I've read it once now and am planning on reading it again, because I'm tired of being the nice guy..."

- Ash J.
"Hi Carlos, First of all i want to say that your material is great! I don't want to butter you up but it's really top-notch. I learned massively from your books and videos..."

- Robin L.
"Hello Carlos, I am new to your club and have read your Dating Black Book completely and several times. This book really opened my eyes about women and I would really like to thank you with all my heart for that, as I just couldn't get women before. "

- Ranjiv - Reading, UK
"Hey, I am 28, ever since I hit puberty I've been trying to perfect the pick up. Honestly, I have spent thousands of my cash on books and such with no results. Even flew out to NYC with a dating coach that was a complete waste of money.

I like your style, to work on yourself, to like yourself and it all makes sense. A lot of the things that you say in your book have been in the back of my head for years. To me self improvement is critical, my rule when you get dissed is to work on yourself..."

- G. Zahran

"I must say it's pretty cool that thru internet you reach guys around the globe and not just in your area. I've got your Triple-threat program, finished DVD 3. I think this might be the best self-help program ever...

I've got recently the triple-threat program, but I got your newsletter since a few months now. I think this program is effective, easy to understand, and most importantly deep, since ALPHA men need to be savvy. I've had during the first 3 DVDs so many 'A-HA' moments.

I think if this program would distributed more and it will crush any other system or method. Nothing against all the pick up methods, but this is like Bruce Lee against any other normal fighter.

I've read most of the other methods they lack the inner game, and they dont want me to success other areas of my life. I feel they delude me in thinking I need to be pua in order to sleep with a woman. You tell me, hey you can have both, and even MORE.

You need to get deeper... (oh, no! a little effort!). Through your newsletter I got acquainted with the three S's, but the triple-threat program helped me more by applying a confident attitude to ALL areas of my life, not women only. I see the alpha attitude as the successful men's point of view to improve your life every single day.

It's my option to be sincere and stop deluding myself, when the results are not what I want. As you said it's about the RESULTS are what matter.

The most helpful diagram was 'Flipping the Switch' so far, by juxtaposing two different angles, the beta and alpha man's. Every time I'm about to fall into a beta attitude I think about the alpha man's attitude and changed to it because that's the one which brings me to where I want to be. Good at every area: uni, martial art, work, friends and family, and girls!

As you say 'Find the right Attitude and you'll always have a technique'. I think if you have the right attitude the three S's are 'included'.

The Genuine Connector Technique is I think the ultimate technique against anxiety towards bitchy or hostile looking women. After visualizing the filament of light connecting with you and her, they suddenly change their behaviour and start being nice to me!

The alpha mantra 'DO IT NOW' probably used battles any thoughts of hesitation or anxiety something to do.

I haven't finished the triple-threat program yet, but I havent expected to be it that powerful, smart, and easy to understand. I have strived before to be alpha, but those DVDs push you as they explain it easy to understand, but most of it they break my negative belief bit by bit, by saying see it from this angle, see it in a way so that you can improve from it, not pull yourself down. I think the most important thing is the inner game.

You're like Morpheus in the Matrix showing us the path, giving us knowledge, but in the end its our decision to do with it what we want."

- G. Kocak
"Doctor Carlos, I've got to thank you. You have awakened me from something no man should face. Growing old. I am 55 years old, quite healthy and good looking, so I am told. Any way for the last year while being surrounded by woman I had slipped into a state of 'I don't care about sex anymore because its to much trouble and I'm to old anyway' syndrome. I always found myself with a lump in my throat even when approaching woman my own age and especially the younger woman. I thought I was finished. But now after reading your stuff I'm having success and lots of fun approaching woman of both age groups. That's Fun with a capital F. Being armed with just your basics has opened up a whole new chapter in my life. The lump is gone and the game is on!"

- Dallas
"Hi, you wont believe this. I am 55, she is 20 and can you believe it, she does not mind dating me in the least... Thanks to your tips... love you."

- A. Khan
"I have been receiving newsletters from you for a couple of months now and I'm comparing it to other newsletters that I'm also receiving from other 'gurus', and you sir, stand out!... I'm going to try your program and I'm hoping to really learn from you sir as I think you have a more comprehensive program than the rest of the dating gurus out there."

- E. Gruta
"Hey, Carlos Xuma I would just like to open by letting you know how much of a revelation and invaluable tool your programs have been for me. Growing up in divorced home with three sisters and my mother led me down a road almost completely devoid of what a man should be. I found myself forming my own understanding and perspective through trial and error and still that wasn't enough to truly understand my role as a man.

I had read and listened to a couple of other dating programs from other gurus in the field before I came across yours and can truly say yours has been the most impactful and beneficial personally.

My sincerest of thanks! I have really enjoyed your Alpha Conversation program A LOT since this was one of my weakest areas with women."

- O. Contreras, San Antonio, TX
"I would like to say that they are sensational. Within some months my life has changed radically. I've now got some friends, I no more attract creepy girls, and my relationship with my parents is getting better everyday. They told me that they had a difficult past, I forgave them.

Tears roll down my cheeks as I write this man, you've just saved a life, better, you've completely transformed someone. Now i want to help other people in need, in fact that was always my dream as a boy... Eternal thanks man, wish you success and love."

- Ruskofun
"Your products have been the best investment I've ever made! I'm MASSIVELY more confident with women now. I have virtually no problem just striking up a conversation with any girl that catches my eye! Its amazing, where I'm now, life is great! I've had your news letters for a long time now, and they've made me realise how I can change my life for the better, all it takes is a little bit of effort!"

- A. Cunningham
"Carlos, Thanks for a great book, full of motivation and ways and means. I've had it about 3 months now, and have been working with it. It has totally opened up a whole new way of thinking about being a man in a social circumstance.

It is enabling me to recognize certain aspects of my current ways of thinking that have been impediments in the past to happiness and satisfaction with relationships. I tended to be the kind of guy that would latch onto a woman that I liked and focus on her alone, until, usually, she left me.

Now I am finding that the best way is to keep a wide focus on many opportunities until the RIGHT one for an exclusive relationship comes along. Almost like looking at a star in a telescope. You can see more light and more details of the stars when you DON'T focus on them. My life is changing for the better now, 3 years after ending a 20 year marriage and your books and podcasts have helped. Thank you Peter R. G. Small"

- Peter Small, Santa Fe NM
"Carlos, I have read and listened to your cd's and found the information extremely helpful... something every guy should know before approaching women. Your material has helped me improve in every area of my life with women and with people in general.

I would have to say that you're amazing when it comes to talking to women. The material shows examples of what to say and I find that very helpful in developing my understanding for what women really want to hear. Thanks again, Carlos."

- Tony F.
"Thanx Carlos... The information you've given me thus far is invaluable... I've even tried one or two things and it's worked... This has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for me... ;-) Awesome! Thank you!"

- R. Joel

"Alpha Communication & Persuasion... great program... dense as hell and not a second wasted, totally exceeded my expectations..."

- S. Minassian
"Keep up the good work Carlos!! You're the only person in this community giving 'real' advice not based on gimmickry, and your monthly coaching is extremely listenable..."

- N. Durant, London, England
"I wish I had had you to write to a couple of years ago so that you could have bitch slapped the shit out of me...

the silver lining of that relationship for me was that I was so disturbed and disenchanted after it that it lead me to this world of the 'men who undertand the game of life and women' (dont want to use PUA, it can have a negative connotation) because I realized that i was doing something terribly wrong for all of my life with women. I had literally come to my wits end looking back over my relationships and am glad I found, for example, YOUR products. I have a long way to go but it feels good that I am actually on my way to understanding things for once.

one thing that really hit me hard reading your books is the fact that men have pretty much been demasculated in the last 40 years or so and unfortunately I have been one of them. I have been way to submissive and it has affected EVERY RELATIONSHIP I have been in! for a while I admit that I went the pity pot routine and blamed women for all my woes, that they were too hard to understand, confusing pain in the asses, etc. then I realized it had to be something I must be doing wrong and thank god I can now begin to rebuild my dignity and understanding after finding products like yours. also, it feels good, even though I dont know a lot of you guys personally, to be connected to a world of men who can talk about LIFE and something interesting (like women) with authority, not just sports and investing, (which is why I dont have many male friends)

thank you for being there and doing what you do..."

- P. Castellano
"I would just like to say, since I purchased the Secrets of the Alpha Man, my outlook of myself has changed signicantly. I was never really happy with myself, and not really knowing what I wanted to do with my life. I guess you could say I was in a state of depression. After reading this e-book, and building my confidence up, things are looking more positive. After working in restaurants for almost 15 years, I had an awakening. I said I did not want to do this any more, and picked up the phone and called a college, and earning my certificate to become a dog obedience instructor/behaviorist. Had I not followed Carlos' teachings, I would not be where I am today. Thanks a lot, Carlos!!!"

- Paul Gernhauser - Orlando, FL
"This program does nothing but keep you motivated and encouraged it makes you feel like you are on a journey. Many products seem to feed you tactics because thats what they feel the consumers want.

Tactics are fine but they are a small part of becoming successful in dating. Carlos realizes this so he will give you these tactics but more than that he gives you a set of attitudes, beliefs and a sense of direction. He makes it clear that this is a learning process and that he is going to be there every step of the way to help us out (and he does give you the steps).

What he has done with this program is encourage us to improve our lifestyle and not just focus on women but on every area of our life. . Thanks Carlos, Live everyday as if it was on purpose. Eddy, NY"

- Eddy R., New York
"My sincere opinion about your way of thinking is that you are the most close to the truth between all the other dating well known personalities.

As my experience till now, not with woman, but with people around me, friends or working colleagues, they are afraid of showing what they really are. They are bounded by the people around them, influenced and not able to show who they really are.

Because finally a man is a person who is able to express his feelings and his thoughts and follows his purpose in life being ready to dye for it. It needs a lot of courage for this and personally I haven't met so many people of this kind.

You are definitely right about what it means to be a man. "

- Pintilie S., Aalborg, Denmark
"Wonderful book. It has been my textbook for the last couple of months...."

- D. A., Dallas, TX
"My luck with women has really changed after using the Secret of the Alpha Man program. Thanks Carlos!"

- Estuardo A.
"All your stuff is AMAZING!!! Thank you so much!!!"

- Nathan S.
"Carlos catch phrase says it all: "Real Game". I would add: real game for real man from a real coach! Thanks again Carlos!"

- Jean L., Montreal, Canada

"I wanted to tell you that I really am enjoying the Alpha Advanced Conversation program.

This is program works on so many levels. I appreciate the fact that there are no researsed gimicks or lines that I need to know but, rather it affords me the opportunity to create my own game for life in general.

Thanks for all the Advice!!! "

- Tony M., Dumfries, VA
"The Dating Black Book has been instrumental in making good decisions on dates as well as managing my emotions against falling into one-itis..."

- R. J., Ohio

- J.M.
"Great work Carlos!

My game is pretty solid, but I like hearing you discuss it because it reaffirms a lot of my beliefs. Sometime I feel like I'm the only man with enough balls to celebrate my alpha-ness. Sometimes I'm tempted to be more of a "nice guy" because it seems like that is what everyone else is doing.

Your tips help to remind me to not follow the herd. Thanks Man."

- R. VM., Nebraska
"When Carlos Xuma asked me if I would write a review I thought it would be a good idea... What I was pleasantly surprised with was how much of his material echoed some of my own teachings, but wonderfully articulated in new ways, which helped me better understand concepts that I have learned to be true.

Starting from page 4 of this book were a listing of The Alpha Rules which actually serves as a table of contents for the entire book, as each rule is later expanded on in numerous pages, so there is no room for misinterpretation of his ideas.

How much quicker my own development would have been if I had Xuma's work as a reference. His insertion of Comfort into the pre-established Pain and Pleasures model is something new I have not seen before, and his analysis by juxtaposing these known concepts was a refreshing take.

What I also found appealing is how Xuma writes in a way to be able to apply these seduction concepts to other areas of life. Specifically concept #6 of Surround yourself with winners. A common running theme in his book is the idea to use the basics to getting your dating life together apply in the rest of your life like getting your own career handled as well.

My absolute favorite chapter was Alpha Rule # 15 Eliminate Distractions and Motivation Killers. It was refreshing for me to see this articulated the way it was. This can be applied to all areas of life.

Throughout the book, I LOVED the categories of women that this books define 'the fallen star, the drama queen, the stunner, emotional taker, time taker, gold digger,' this was a great concept... And I totally agree with the concept of Men being the stable bedrock of the relationship (p164)... The 10 Step Alpha Seduction Plan (p191) Using Limited Availability full circle as a place to start and finish your cycle is incredibly Clever and I wish I had thought of it first."

- Frank B Kermit,, For the Art of Relationship Management
"Really good inspiring book. Shows some things every guy must know and helps to develop personality "

- Adrian B., Lithuania
"Your Conversation program is Sensational!"

- Vaughn B., Boston, MA
"I'm telling you the dating black book is a great way to start into the dating scene! This stuff unleashed my inner alpha that has been dormant for soo many years. Looking back, what a shame. Thanks Carlos for an eye opening experience! "

- Curtis, J.
"The dating black book:

Excellent book that gives all the fundamental skills to succeed with women and in life in general. It completes the DYD ebook to give the basics like understand women and the way to approach them and not approach them. However, the writer lacked a little self-discipline with spelling errors like your vs you're, a bit vs habit, etc.

Seduction method:

This ebook is good but one notch under the dating black book, mainly because of all the copy/paste from the dating black book. Maybe it will be better to put the seduction method in the dating black book instead, who knows... All the steps are very well explained. Maybe my expectations were too high for this one because I read it just after the dating black book and I found less content in it for the same price though...Oh and the other thing that bugged me besides the copy/paste is the section about the "truth technique" like the surveys, pictures, etc. It's kind of a desperate mean to catch a woman's attention. Where's the integrity or HONOR (strenght and honor, Carlos) or self-discipline. Maybe it works with dumb girls but a smart one will smell the desperation a mile away. I find it inconsequent with all of the principles you teach/believe in. Alpha rules: I enjoyed it almost as much as the dating black book. The rules are on what the alpha man is guided to behave like an alpha man . I like the structure of it : from general to particular.

On Carlos, dating dynamics:

You're my favorite 'dating guru', because your vision is more general than others I know. You're focus more on character rather than the techniques that works for you. You're right about the REAL game vs bar/club personna or the getting laid in 20.75 minutes out there. So keep it real! "

- Frederic V., Quebec, Canada
"[Alpha Conversation & Persuasion] Awesome Material!! You truly covered it all. Just the program I was waiting for."

- R.S., Morton, PA

"The stuff is right on, as an older guy you get to a point in life and want answers or at least confirmation of what you've learned is the best way to live. Alpha man is the only way to go, even without the women the personal sense of confidence and self-esteem is worth the price of admission, it's helped me confirm what I believe and opened my mind to a few things I havn't thought of . "

- A. G., California
"It was a awesome program that really opened my eyes to learning how to communicate effectively."

- M.P., Ano Voula, Greece
"Do you REALLY want to make a CHANGE in your life?
Do you REALLY want to live up to your DREAMS?
Do you REALLY want more GIRLS in your life?
Do you REALLY want to have SUCCESS with women and relationships?
Get CARLOS stuff. IT KICKS! Believe me!! No Kidding!!!"

- G. Rocco
"I am probably much older than your average client, however I think there are so many 'older' guys who still have questions and want answers, your Alpha Man course gives those answers, I bought seduction courses, cocky comedy stuff but they didn't quite fit until I recieved Alpha Man, your Alpha Man program is the FOUNDATION that makes anything else work, without the correct foundation anything else is just parrotting someone else and won't have the NECESSARY attitude to really effectively execute their 'seduction or comedy'."

- A. Gunter
"I've only listern to about half, and I'm blown away by the information in it.

I have ordered and read other cd's on the same topic, but this is terrific for the buy. I can't wait to finish this course just to watch it again, and it's only day two."

- R. Spencer
"Hey Carlos, I must say that Secrets of the Alpha Man has been the greatest injection of self improvement-building tools that I've seen out there. All of your programs and e-books I've checked out so far have been absolutely wonderful and vital to reshaping my overall game, but dare I say that Secrets of the Alpha man has to be the most key program of all to have in your repertoire as a growing man. There is fair amount of dating techniques to be found here to help you with your attraction skills, but what makes SotAM extra special is that it cuts down right to the grain of what makes you as an individual attractive to anyone in life in the first place. Carlos has mentioned that every man has the ability within himself to attract anything he wants to in life, be it success, women, career advancement, etc. but this program gives you the exercises and insight to help you move past that proverbial invisible barrier that most men are stuck behind called 'I don't know what to do!'... but with SotAM, you'll be able to forge your own path. Plus, it's extremely refreshing and rare to find a program that encourages and strengthens a positive male empowerment mindset within yourself without having its information being cut down by political correctness.

As a recent college graduate heading out into the real world, SotAM couldn't have come into my life at a better time. Most of the other 'gurus' out there won't mention this, but Carlos makes it perfectly clear that in your quest to improve your dating skills, you must really be working on improving ALL areas of your life at the same time! Since I've been through the program a few times, I've found that my overall attitude has improved ten-fold. It's presented in an easy-to-digest format, with a massively packed e-book and its accompanying 6-cd set. I personally enjoy how the e-book provides you with essential strategies and exercises to do at anytime, while the CD portion is designed to nail and reinforce much of the info you read about into your brain. Both parts work hand-in-hand, and guys, you MUST DO the exercises! They are where the gold is at. Overall, Secrets of the Alpha Man is a stellar program that provides a solid direction that keeps your life from fumbling in the dark, so to speak. I'll keep reviewing it on a regular basis and I look forward to exploring other programs in your catalogue! Don't be a Beta guy, AMP up your lifestyle!"

- M. Link, Derby, KS
"Hey Carlos! This advice is spot on man! I've been listening to you ... for well over a year now. While I still have a ways to go, I'm finding that practicing these techniques and (moreso) ATTITUDES are changing not only my outlook on getting women, but on life in general as well. You guys are awesome!"

- Glenn
"The Dating Black Book has changed my life. Ultimately, it led me to believe in myself and my innate abilities. That is why I recommend this book to my friend. It doesn't change who you are, but it allows you to be who you really are. And you don't beat around the bush, no bullshit here."

- E. Cannell
"Your 'Secrets of the Alpha Man' is the best book I've ever read. Thank you a million times over; completely eye opening."

- John Battista
"Whew! I've finally gotten the chance to do my part in commenting your Secret of the Alpha Male Carlos... To tell you the truth, your products aren't the first I've gotten and it won't be the last.

I was quite apprehensive initially to purchase more products from seduction gurus until I've taken a look at [your] alpha male program. When I purchased it, it really made a different in my life. It taught me how to overcome my worst fears, and to bring out the the best of my personality.

For example, I had previously suffered from social phobia... Thanks to your program, I've taken a quantum leap to being able to converse well in front of an audience and being able to express my ideas and opinions in a confident manner...

Nevertheless, one side effect of all these is that chicks find me attractive too... Hehe... Anyway, thank you once again Carlos for your advice.

Pickup artists out there who live their life solely for seduction should learn from your example."

- Q. Zhengquan, Singapore

"I bought your Secrets of the Alpah man about a year ago and it has completely changed my life and my interaction with people. I am more confident, able to flirt with women effortlessly..."

- Damian N.
"Hi Carlos Xuma, Having given your company a hard time for having the order arrive late, ... I even started doubting the contents of your products (audio).

Was I wrong after listening to your audio I picked up that, this is not somebody talking about the first thing that pops into his mind, this was wise insightful man discussing a topic that not only does he excel at it but is a master and just happens to know his stuff, I was impressed, also with the interview, u convinced a woman on how her attraction mechanisms work. Amazing."

- F. Dupont
"hey whats up Carlos, it's Jason, a long-time reader/fan. I've been studying your scriptures and dvds and must say I am most definitely impressed. Trust me when I say, 'You are the dating guru'."

- Jason G.
"I am sending you this because I truly believe that you are value for money, providing with exceptionally unique and easy to understand mind blowing concepts and tools...

What sets Carlos apart from other dating coaches and experts is his sheer volume of invaluable and simple practical tools that he provides which you can use from Day 1.

Carlos teaches you how to teach yourself, so you don't need to rely on weird pick up lines, or weird rehearsed approaches. Carlos has an uncanny understanding of human behaviour which he explains with incredible precision.

His understanding on women is mind blowing, and when you hear him talk and explain, it all becomes so amazingly clear. No matter what situation you are in, if you are stuck in a deep rut, Carlos will guarantee to get you out of it..."

- A. J. Hussain
"Carlos Xuma's material is the foundation for the real growth, he shows you how to become a REAL MAN. You will find on his material the key to improve yourself in all areas of life and then attacting females will be just part of it.

Stop being lazy, procastinating is not going to lead you anywhere, you want to have love, sex, you want to be proud of yourself and attract people to you, get Carlos material and get real guidance."

- Max Ramirez, Montreal, Canada
"I purchased Carlos Xuma's 'Dating Black Book' and 'The Secrets Of The Alpha Man' about a month ago, and I gotta tell you...the program has changed ENTIRELY my belief system AND my attitudes toward women and life. The moment I started listening to the easy-to-understand program and reading the e-book, I felt like an Alpha Man ALREADY.

I felt like I'm one of the LUCKIEST guys who has his hands on 'The Secrets of the Alpah Man'. Nowadays, I've the confidence and the right attitude toward dating and I'm starting to approach so many women that I never used to, and I'm carying myself with 'Alpha Body Language' and I'm getting LOTS of attention from women everywhere.

The moment I walk to different venues, such as restaurants, grocery stores, strees, subway, etc.. women start checking me out. They try to make eye contact with me, which is GREAT! This is GOLD guys! I'm looking forward to purchase more and more products of Carlos Xuma. I personally thank Carlos for doing a WONDERFUL job putting together all his the-hard-way learned stuff in an easy-to-understand program."

- Essa N.
"Carlos, I am finding your programs very useful in many areas of life. Much of this stuff is so simple, it should be common sense. But, most guys have never been exposed to these concepts. Most importantly, what these programs do is ignite a new thought process. I've looked at other programs and yours is the only one that goes directly to the root of the problem... Your programs are a step above all the others..."

- J.W. - Syracuse, NY
"Hey Carlos, I'm 51. After reading your stuff online for 6 months, I decided to get your Alpha Immersion program. Awesome...nothing short. I realized I had NO game, not just a weak one. I finally feel relaxed and comfortable seeing more than one woman at a time. I quit complimenting women out of a long-standing habit (especially if they are HOT), and now they not only seem more interested in me, but are complimenting me and going out of their way to get my attention. This has been an unexpected side effect and totally uninvited.

It's like my inner attitude and greater confidence gained from the perspectives in the Alpha Immersion program is attracting more (and younger) women to me. And sex is BETTER than EVER. Great stuff! Thank you from the bottom of my heart, man."

- R.B., Des Moines, IA
"Carlos Xuma's Alpha Man Program is the guide to being a man that most men are looking for. He teaches you how to develop qualities within yourself that naturally attract respect, money, and women into your life. As a man, you learn to live your life from the inside out. The more effort you put in, the more his program will work for you.

I know because I have been going through his material for only three months now, and my mindset on life has moved noticeably from timid wussy to alpha man. People now always tell me, "Gosh, you've changed so much," and they say it in an interested, intrigued manner.

The feeling you get from that makes Carlos's materials worth any price he puts on it."
"Hey Carlos,

Due to our line of work, we're constantly working hand in hand with A LOT of other Dating 'Gurus' and top-notch Authors... We're here to say with absolute CERTAINTY that you clearly deserve to be amongst the top 1% within the crowded triangle..

For those of you out there who are dead set on accelerating their dating & social 'skills' with women, Carlos is DEFINITELY your No.1 'go to' guy. He always OVERDELIVERS in his dating programs and long story short... his techniques WILL get you the results you want. Period. "

"Let me tell you Carlos that you are a life saver. I just got out of a really bad marriage...I mean self confidence whatsoever. To the point that I was willing to take the abuse just to stay in it. Luckily she got a boyfriend and kicked me out.

That's when I came across your products. I decided to buy the approaching women CD's and let me say they are AWESOME. Those CD's alone have shot my confidence levels way up and made me really start to retrain my brain and regain my confidence.

I've already listened to them 5 times and in the next month I'm buying the alpha male program. Needless to say my charming abilities are coming back full force.

Thank you so much and keep up the good work."

- Darrin K., Sacramento, CA
"I would recommend the Alpha Man Program to any guy. The best part of the semester was about how to develop your "Day Game" which has helped me to meet smart and sexy professional nurses and therapist at coffee shops, large business meetings, and professional semesters . Thanks, Carlos"
"Carlos within the first week of getting these discs, I was already exercising this material. Now at least every week I'm talking and approaching women. And because this material is so versatile I've gone beyond talking to women, and now talking and approaching people...period.

Through this Approach Women-Now program, I've really opened up generally to the world. I find myself breaking out of my shell and becoming more expressive... I'm more intuitive and futher to the social world around me. [This program] has basically help me become a better, sociable man.

Thanks so much, and a bunch Carlos, keep on keepin' on. A desire accomplished is sweet to the soul.... "

- Victor A.
"Thank you Carlos,thanks for all the advice. You've helped a whole lot of guys out there,really.

The main reason I (and I'm sure a zillion other guys) choose you over other experts' is because your stuff is the most holistic in nature. You don't just give different 'methods' of eye contact, or conversation starters,or seduction tricks and lines. You teach the guy how to be an alpha man,which is the best thing anyone could do.

I don't know about others,but I wouldn't always call you a dating expert. Maybe that's just me, but what I love about your work is that it's something that you apply to your life, and not just memorize and use on women. It's not a 'technique' or a 'trick'..It's a transformation of self.

Just keep what you're doing Carlos,you're the best. Your stuff helps us guys get better at tackling life's problems,and that includes everything from jobs to women. And the best part is you're somebody we can relate to.

I get the feeling that you're not some guy sitting on a pedestal giving out tips constantly, something I feel when I'm reading the material of the other gurus. I feel like you're more like us; and that's really a great feeling because it helps me understand your teachings better. I'm sure other guys would say the same. There is no other so-called 'dating guru' out there with work that comes close to your's.

So thank you Carlos; I hope you're releasing another book like Secrets of the Alpha Man again."

- A. J.
"I have recently purchased your Dating Black Book in paperback to save a little money on my utility bill, and I have to say it is absolutely amazing and the best dating book out there and I am only half way through it..."

- Jason H.
"I want to say thank you for creating the ebook for the Alpha Man Conversation program. You made your most important program even better. Now I can finally master the program and be successful in all areas of life.

I find your dedication to helping and improving our fellow men out there astonishing. You are truly the best guru I have ever encountered."

- Jason H.
"Carlos, your programs are s-t-u-p-e-n-d-o-u-s. They are life-changing. They approach your "inner confidence" and bring it to a whole new level. Thanks Carlos, from when I bought the Dating Black Book I got back with the girl I had lost and, in the meantime, had plenty of other stories going on as well!!!

I think you should dedicate one chapter or podcast on handling multiple girls, as this is sure one side effect of reading your programs!"

- Giovanni
"I would just like to thank you for giving me my confidence back. I have read the secrets of the Alpha Man, and listened to the audio series, and has been fantastic.

Since reading and listening to your program, I started a new career path. I know your program is more about gaining confidence towards women, but it has put me in the mind set to step out of my comfort zone.

I have been working in the restaurant business for almost 15 years, and after reading your Alpha Man book, I had an awakening. I no longer wanted to stay in the food service business, and so I started volunteering at the SPCA, and started taking classes to become a dog obedience instructor. Talk about a total 180!! If it wasn't for your program, I would probably continue in the food business.

.... I think you said in your e-book, find something that you enjoy, and confidence in yourself, women are sure to pick up on than.

Keep up the good work."

- Paul G., Orlando FL
"Hi Carlos. Thanks to your material I went from having dated no one in the last three years, to having dated three beautiful women in the last three months.

Through changing my behaviours to be more in accordance with my values, I am more confident and attractive in the eyes of women.

Also, I want to thank you for making me aware of the Secret - the affirmations idea in that has helped me to. I tell myself "I am constantly surrounded by beautiful women" and it manifests. Cheers man..."

- James, Brisbane Australia
"I know I've commented before, but I truly think your program is one of the cornerstones for building the necessary skills for interacting with women. Once you have the confidence down, the rest will fall into place.

Just this past weekend, I met a very pretty Latino girl. I didn't use any fancy techniques or pickup lines. I spoke with confidence and let things flow. We connected instantly and by the end of the night she was putty in my hands.

A large part of the success was because of reading the Alpha confidence e-book and listening to the audio and working thru the exercises. This material should be the part of any collection of material of an AFC because it helps provide the necessary foundation. "

- Chuck - Wilmington, DE

"Finally! A program that will help me in verbal judo and not have to avoid social interactions anymore!

Actually, Alpha Secrets 2 years ago shored up my self esteem so other people's judgments don't get to me anymore, but it really sucks to be constantly beat in a conversatiuon into buying into other's frame simply out of social ignorance - to the point of reclusiveness.

Many years I avoided social situations so I wouldn't look like the Village Idiot... however, it was happening already and anyway at the job and elsewhere by being passive, not taking action, and just throwing my cards on the table and folding right away and letting everyone win at my expense from a belief I was in a No-Win situation.

Learning this this skill is paramount; self-incrimination for ignorance isn't. Chris Louisiana"

- Chris H., Louisiana
"Where do I start? Carlos is an amazing mentor/coach/teacher in all things with women, being a REAL man, feeling great about yourself, and being an Alpha Man in all ways. Immersing myself in his material (all are extremely helpful) has made the game easy and fun. In contrast from my clueless years, I can see where everything that goes around about male-female dynamics in the media, socially, etc is completely wrong.

You might be making several mistakes thinking you're doing the right thing as it is. While I recommend ALL of his products (can't wait till I get to look at the new conversation/communication program) at the very least starting with his e-books will change your life in amazing ways if you APPLY it.

Carlos is my recommendation to all of my friends who suck at getting women or being an Alpha Man. Quit wasting your time doing the wrong things with women and pick up a copy of The Dating Black Book today to get started on this journey, you won't regret it (and if you for a strange reason do regret it..which I can't fathom, he offers a risk-free guarentee on his products). What are you waiting for?

Quit reading this and get busy learning the information and principles that will change your life. Your new life is waiting."

- Mario, Portland, OR
"I would like to be your apprentice..."

"omg holy shit: Your stuff works ... I used it on girls in groups in restaurants just now and amazing how all three girls wanted me and even one that was engaged was takin interest.

Just listening to your bad ass body language and flirting already sent me from my old scale of a 6 To a hardcore 10!

Wish we could work one on one together and I could be your apprentice.."

- Philip G. -
"Hey, I just had a great idea..."

"Mr. Carlos Xuma, you are doing a great work, you are like a messenger, most men need the knowledge you are presenting, but the don't know it, you are like a comforter it is over 3 years now have been studying your work on and off, I had recently join your affiliate program, I am working on idea, for the best way to promote it and am building a website to promote this great and need knowledge you are offering to all humanity TERRY CHANEC, AND THANK YOU FOR ALL THE EMAILS, LOVE THEM."
"Do you know why I recommend Carlos's system so highly? Because it's easy to understand, easy to put to use, and it simply works! If you're looking to skip past a lot of the usual bullshit you hear when it comes to seducing women, and finally get the truth - you NEED to check his stuff out.

I believe that it's Carlos' focus on helping guys feel masculine and confident with women - without any tricks or games - that makes his programs stand above all the rest. Hell, that's probably why he's been one of the most popular dating advisors for over 10 years..."

- Isabella Stone,
"...get a lot of success in attracting this woman"

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- - David R.
"Re: Kevin, what's wrong?"

"Hey Kevin, it's Carlos Xuma here. I wanted to find out what was holding you up. A few days ago you were a few seconds away from getting your free copy of the "Supreme Self-Confidence With Women" CD... I also noticed you haven't claimed it yet, and I wanted to find out what was wrong. (?) Since supplies are limited, I wanted to make sure you knew I have your copy of the program sitting here on my desk, ready to send to you - and I've got a link to send you so you can download it right now. No waiting. I've been helping guys get more success with women for over 8 years now, and I know you came to me for a reason. I want to do what I can to help you out. Just go to your custom link here and I'll get your program out to you today. If you need something else from me, please feel free to send me an email here: Thanks! Carlos Xuma PS: Go get your free CD now - before they're all gone: "

  Press play to hear Ken H....
"Just wanted to say thank you for the bad boy lifestyle, bad boy attitude, bad boy whole image thing... I find it invaluable..."

- Ken H.
"The vibe and your program rock. They're solid."

"I have purchased a few programs from you and many others in general, but none come close to the get a girlfriend fast program! got to the point, it's a good pace, it's not all chopped up like other programs. .With all the 30 - 45 sec plays.

The vibe and your program rock. They're solid..."

- Matt A.
"I don't take sh*t anymore from girls..."

"I've read your book the dating black and it helped me a lot being an alpha man. I don't take shit anymore from girls - they live in my rules now."

- Jhayeey M.

"Just had this email from a hot lady. Hey Carlos! All this stuff works and at 53 after a 30 year marriage wish I'd known all this. Lots more to tell but gotta go out. Carlos the man cheers Tom U.K. --- evening Tommers..I forgot that its Friday and you probably have plans this evening so I wont call you..I will try you tomorrow as its Saturday. you probably still have to work but I will try and call after 4pm YOUR time..have a great night.(if you are doing nothing tonight, which I doubt because you are "The Man", Casanova! I can call still). just let me know when is good."

- Tom E. - United Kingdom

- Mandar
"The results are startling..."

"Some of the transformational changes that have occurred in my life since becoming a student of yours... I had been studying your material since 2004... The results are startling, becoming an alpha man has helped me reframe the way I approach the world, the universe, and more powerfully my own life.

This is has been a liberating and powerfully positive experience.. and I know that it is just the beginning... I started feeling alive in every part of my life... I wanted to share this with you if for anything motivation and gratitude... a whole bucket of gratitude to you Carlos."

- Liang W.
"Just to thank you bro..."

"Hey Carlos, just wanted to drop you a quick message to thank you for your videos... you're always giving me inspiration and motivation.

One of the main reasons why I like your videos is because you first point out the obvious problems we guys face then you handle us the solution. So thanks and please keep motivating us... I'm always following. :)"

- Luca
"Not sure if you ever read this email. I was looking over the Internet for some hints why my life isn't as wished. And I found on a forum a comment about your Alpha man book and I read it. I started Sunday evening and reading it I saw that for the last 7 years I was dead.Your book helped me to rediscover myself, the one I let behind 7 years ago at age of 23. So Sunday evening I started to read it and also start doing your exercises from there, by Wednesday things were so different in my life. Today is Saturday evening guess what I found enough confidence(reading and learning from Alpha Man book) that yesterday I asked to go out a very nice woman I met her few months ago in a Drug Store, she is a pharmacist. God was so easy and so great night. I have some friends who are reading your book and they are just oooooaaaaaaaauuuuuuuu. Thank you! Good job. "

- Dragut F.
"Thanks Carlos for that excellent 'free' video on inner game, it was spot on. I just wanted to thank you for all your advice and tips, I am subscribed to probably 30 news letters on 'seduction/game etc but. I like your stuff the best ,and I respect you, because like you say it's 'Real Game' and not just PUA stuff; and I don't want to be a PUA. I've got your 'Dating Black Book' and have learned a lot from it and intend to get a lot more of your programs ASAP.Thanks again"

- Richard B. - UK
"Guidelines to get a hot girl"

"Hey, I've just started using your program and I must say they are a real deal keep up the good work dude. I've just starting dating this hot girl well of course I used all your advice but the thing is you've never mentioned how to treat a girl to keep her. So Carlos man if u can give me guidelines on how to treat a girl I'd be happy."

- Duke - Newcastle, SA
"His materials well worth their price..."

"I recently purchased the Alpha Confidence programme. Before that I've purchased the GTP. I am impressed by all of Carlos' programmes - his clarity of expression and ability to render clarity to those difficult dating dynamics makes his materials well worth their price."

- Mike W.
"I have literally done a 180 from a loser with very little social life to a pretty successful Alpha"

"I subscribed to a number of newsletters, and so far I have to say yours has been the best for me.

A few months ago, something just clicked. I can't describe it, but it culminated with me taking a girl home that I had known (and wanted) for some time. Since then, it has been almost non-stop for me, and I can't seem to even go one weekend sleeping alone.

Since I've been reading your newsletters, I have literally done a 180 from a loser with very little social life to a pretty successful Alpha who knows how to get things done."

- Jeremy C.
"Thank you Carlos, for untangling that complex knott of issues around attraction - for exposing the different threads and clarifying what happens when you pull on different ones. Your materials are great, your message top and the job you do a good one. You're a real help to others. I look forward to covering more materials."

- Mike W.

"It's like having been given a whole new lease on life..."

"I'm writing out of gratitude for your guidance and advanced wisdom...

First I'm 60 years old and currently separated pending the divorce after a 35 year marriage... I'm not wealthy...only 5'6", balding, greying, and currently without even a car or license.

Attached is a photo of the beautiful 27 year old woman who has already fallen for me through our correspondence... thank you, my friend. And mentor. It's like having been given a whole new lease on life, with an exciting and wonderful future ahead regardless of whatever transpires this week when I meet in person this lovely woman I'd have never dared even approach before I began receiving your newsletters and other materials. Thank you, Carlos."

- Dan T. - Austin, TX
"Surely Carlos, I have subscribed to many newsletters online but I wanna tell you something. I have read your articles and men you're so talented, so natural and full of wisdom in dating matters. Your work is so unique, your approach so simple. Keep it up and help single men get those pretty women they deserve. Good job bro!"

- Zac - Nairobi, Kenya
"Your programs are BAD ASS!"

"I recently purchased your Calling and Texting Program. My friend wanted to hook me up with one of his personal training clients. I sent some pics, and asked him to do the same with her. We text back and forth for a few days before I flew out. When we met, IT WAS ON... BIG TIME!

Your programs are BAD ASS!"

- Ray G.
"My results are AMAZING!"

"My results are AMAZING! I am 45 & getting better results than i was in my early 20\'s!! Am seeing 3 different women a present aged 45, 34 & 27! Excellent program... Fantastic! Have been a natural Alpha Male all my life but tried to supress the traits/qualitys as i thought they we was my mind-set that was wrong!!! Thank-you Carlos!"

- Ian L. - Derby, UK
"Opened up a whole new perspective..."

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"Wanted to thank you for putting out a very sound product... It opened up a whole new perspective on interaction with people... My perspective has changed and I'm still learning..."

- Courtney J.
"Out of this world..."

"Excellent presentation and defining of the topics, and tons of information...

Carlos Xuma I love both the Bad Boy and Girlfriend Training programs ... I will be purchasing more programs of you because I have improved. The work ethic Carlos has put in is out of this world and I really want to thank you for the time and energy you have put in to help guys.

I would recommend Carlos to anyone who wants to be successful at the dating game and he is a life coach and his knowledge is masterful. To people out there don't waste time - purchase a program and start developing and educating yourselves."

- Abnashi B - West Midlands

- Francis M.
"Get out of the mindset that women only look for money, good looks and age..."

"I didn't believe that a program could really help a person of my age, get into the game of today's dating. I feel a lot more confident in myself when I go out and look to find the right ladies I want to spend my time with... Get out of the mindset that women only look for money, good looks, and age..."

- Jim H. - New Jersey
" I could see how redicously easy it is to approach women"

"I had previously bought "How to talk to women" and "Bad boy formula"... Approach Women 2 was a natural progression. It includes practical examples, both good and bad, of applying the strategies.

My results are not from buying the program but from implementing it, was a significant reduction in my anxiety level because by the time I had done the first pass through the material, I could see how ridiculously easy it is to approach women and have a worthwhile conversation with them. It's going to be a fun part of my life as I become the person I want to be.

The program is a complete solution. It addresses the emotional issues, provides solutions, and finally shows how easy it is to "Talk to Women" in a meaningful and enjoyable way. I think the program is great and worth every cent..."

- Peter E. - Canberra, A.C.T., Australia
"I would buy all of your stuff..."

"Trust me when I say I would buy all of your stuff if I could I even told my older brother about you I hope he checks out your stuff... Anyway I'm loyal... Thanks for all you do and the time and effort you have put into your products to help me become the man that I want to be."

- Mark B.

"You are changing my life when it comes to women. Thank you very much."

- Ryelan D.
"Cleared up all my confusion as to what was going on..."

"I have been dating a woman for 6 months and am doing this totally differently since I read your stuff.

Your materials really re-invigorated my life, and cleared up all my confusion as to what was going on between men and women. It all makes sense, and is really easy once you understand it. It's also made me creative in ways I could never imagine. I think it is a shame that older guys have given up , because they'll go thru life always wondering what they missed, and never understand what went wrong. What I learned is that older guys have so much life experience to convey to women, that younger guys don't."

- Marvin G. -
"Thank you again for the excellent advice you continually put out there!"

"I have been in a relationship with a very cool chick for 8 months now. I was just reading your latest email about the dude who was being an emotional tampon with the chick he was interested in. I totally agree with your advice.

I've noticed that my 8 months of continuing success (there has been ZERO drama! Not one major argument in all this time, nothing but fun and a strong, true connection) is very much due to behaviours that match everything you talk about. (been watching the old Bogart movies every once in a while to refresh my programming as well as reading your posts. They go well together ;-)

So I just wanted to thank you again for the excellent advice you continually put out there!"

- Tristan L.

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"I've been getting your downloads and listen to 'em as much as possible... I was just recently divorced... Never felt like I had a problem with approaching women... Your stuff has definitely brought my game to the new level. It's gold, it's working, it's gonna be a lot of fun. Thanks! :)"

- Marlon

" I have been listening to your Alpha Man rules ...and you know what?

Hehehehe...I AM LOVING IT!

The other thing is that the women are paying more attention to me?!Why? From 40 years old winging boy I became a 40 years old MAN that are woman looking for!

Thanks to your Alpha Rules,thanks for that, cause in my marriage of 10 long,hell years i didn't see that!

Keep up a good work MY FRIEND,keep up a GOOD WORK!

Thanks my Dear Friend that you open the eyes to this little 40 years boy, about the Alpha Rules, And i hope the other man will see the sunshine at the end of a tunel in relationship with their girlfriends, wife or what ever they are in relationship with!


Your friend from Downunder in Sydney,Australia"

- Alex P. - Sydney, Australia
"Your programs have truly inspired me and changed my life..."

"I'm a huge fan your material has changed my life. Over a year ago I purchased the GTP then got the Secrets of the Alpha Man and Bad Boy formula, and wow I must say I've gotten very confident on my path to becoming an alpha man.

I since purchased your Alpha Masculinity Program, and Ultimate Inner Game Program, and it's taking my whole life to a new level. I have gone through all the programs at least three times in the last year, having done all of the exercises... and I've gotten results, and I know this is just the beginning. I have taken action on everything.

...I am getting far better results than I have with women ever in my life. Results are what matter. Your programs have truly inspired me and changed my life in so many ways and I'm truly feeling alpha."

- Mike F. - Florida
"This has been the best thing that has happened to me in the passing years. Carlos is a soldier. After hearing Carlos' programs I realized I was completely full with wrong information... Right now I am more comfortable when approaching women, I still have my flaws since I'm just starting in this field but i know that if I keep working on this skill I'll master it. Carlos handles it in a simple and straight language that's why he reaches deep into the male community. I would just say thumbs-up Carlos and team I hope they keep up the good work."

- Mark A. - Berlin, Germany
"The best investment in this area I've made..."

"I sort of fell into Xuma's material from a random e-mail I received from David Wygant talking about the Girlfriend Training Program - which turned out to be the best investment in this area I've made.

I've tried other programs, and by far Carlos's is the best! I still see it like a secret weapon because I know a lot of friends who study the Mystery Method or David D's stuff, which is great, but Carlos's is the absolute best. I think the delivery of the audio, the slides, video, and PDF is fantastic."

- Mike F. - Hamlin, NY
"Thank's for the great customer support and I'll definitely be back for more after I finish this one!"

- Garrett H.
"an awesome CD!"

"I just want to say thanks and that ["Badass Body Language"] is an awesome CD!"

- Brandon W.

"A life changing experience"

"Hello world! I"

- D. Brooks -
"Thanks for the help...You rock!"

"I just want to send a quick note to thank you for addressing the few glitches with my server that seemed to cause a download problem on a couple of different courses I ordered from you. (I am sure customers with up to date internet providers will have no glitches at all) Your support service was prompt, professional and courteous and I have no reservations in recommending your programs to other customers. In addition to the fantastic support service, I would like to say that the Carlos Xuma programs have to be some of the best and most legitimate ones out there. As a 54 year old guy who was something of a "bad boy" in my university days and am clearly an "alpha man" now (one of my much younger and gorgeous dates literally described me as that just this week) I have found your programs on those topics to be valid, in depth and immensely useful. So why would I shell out money for programs on those topics if I already believe I possess the traits? Well, I am coming off of a 28 year " 'til death did us part" marriage and it seemed wise to brush up on my game a bit, particularly the "bad boy" edge that has dulled a bit over time, as I reentered the dating game. After all, I share with Carlos a 35 year enthusiasm for the martial arts and no mater what my age or Dan level, I would always do extra training before a competition. Consequently, I have searched around online and checked out various programs. Some of them (and these are $100.00 + programs) are pathetically disappointing. "Experts" teaching humor who are not even remotely funny themselves, body language gurus who fidget and stumble though their instructions and pseudo-psychological nonsense from guys that my daughters wouldn't date if they were the last male on earth abound. Carlos Xuma is a refreshing change. He comes across as articulate, classy and well informed. Better yet, his programs really work! Clearly he has applied his considerable intellect and experience to the whole subject area to compile a total package for dating, success and personal happiness. Even if you already posses authentic masculinity coupled with reasonably good dating and attraction skills, sometimes the objective breakdown of how these things work that Carlos provides help raise your game to a new level and identify your weak areas. If you don't already have an abundance of these genuine masculine traits in your personality then you really need Carlos' programs! As a father with attractive daughters in the dating world I can assure you that young woman are very frustrated with the scarcity of the type of man that Carlos will help you become. Furthermore, when the time comes for grandchildren, I don't want their dad to be either a "jerk" or a " wussy nice guy"! A man with the traits Carlos espouses and teaches, on the other hand, will have my respect. Once again, I wholeheartedly endorse his products, integrity and support staff. "

- L. in Alberta
"My Apology"

"Hi Carlos Xuma I am sorry for the last message that I have sent to you, and after your recommendation I bought the Ultimate Inner Game and after getting it I started with confidence and it really helps me a lot. Well,you are giving life skills..I can't thank you enough and because of you I got accepted by a top coaching institute. In that coaching institute, most people never even get entrance, but because of my confidence and knowledge I got accepted and I am in class 11 and now I am ready and hope to go in IIT...well wish me luck. The institute name is Bansal coaching classes. It is the top Institute for iit in India. Well wish me luck and without you I cant get the entrance. Thank you,Carlos Xuma! P.S. I am sorry for my last and this boring message I hope you will accept my apology"

- A. Panjwani - India
"I'm finally free..."

"Hey Carlos this is Seth, All of your material is 100 percent effective especially down to the things that you mentioned that some guys wouldn't be able to handle about women, it's been very difficult to implement all of this because I've been a nice guy for so long however, a lot of what allows me to use any of this stuff is that I'm still bitter from a breakup with an ex-girl that I thought I was going to marry. we broke up because well truthfully somewhere during the relationship I lost my balls to this woman and wasn't displaying those alpha male attributes or alpha sexual power. Consequently things spiraled down-hill and she ended up breaking it off during my military training (I cried like a little bitch was and was at a very low moment). When I finally got home to go get official closure I got the pleasure of seeing the new guy on the cell phone background photo. Somehow this information you provide kind of cushioned the blow (be mindful that i found your programs while in training) because at least now I have a guideline to follow and that is important to me because I never had my pops around to teach me any of this stuff and it takes a man to teach a man how to be a man. I know I'm rambling but basically I want to just say thanks for all that you're doing please continue your mission because there's several guys out there (such as myself) who need this stuff . Take care and God bless"

- S. Boone -
"A Personal Thank You"

"Hey Carlos, I just wanted to send you a personal thank you for the life changing work you have contributed to me and many others. I met a fantastic girl and we plan to get married."
"You've put me back on track and gave me the confidence..."

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"I just wanted to tell you thank you so much. I just went through divorce and you just basically help me out to put me back on track and gave me the confidence to approach and feel better about myself... Once again I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart... Keep up the good work."

- Edgar
"This will make you a woman's drug!!!"

"On Carlos Xuma's Girlfriend Training Program: I've really got to hand it to Carlos and the way he presents his work in the Girlfriend Training Program, I'll be frank in saying this was one of the first 'self-help' or 'dating' products I've ever bought so naturally I was a little skeptical about the whole thing. I've almost got to laugh about that worry now looking back because the second I cracked open the program, it was just like jumping into a pile of gold! Carlos really does lay out everything you could ever need to know about relationships from start, to finish! Not only does he give you the ENTIRE BLUEPRINT on how to do things the right, masculine way - Carlos also takes the time to explain all the reasons WHY. Knowing the why is priceless! It gives you an unshakable sense of confidence, it lets you take his information and adapt it to an infinite amount of possible situations. I really wanted to test out Carlos's ideas before I wrote this testimonial so I could be honest when I wrote this. I've been actively practicing the ideas in the Girlfriend Training Program for about a month now with my current girlfriend and let me tell you the difference in her is like day and night. I can safely say before the program our relationship consisted of pretty much me spending hours on end worrying about what I could do to keep her interested in me, if she still really liked me (part of that stress led me here). After putting these ideas, this mindset that Carlos has shown me into action - its as if my girlfriend has become a whole new person! An no guys, there are no sneaky 'tricks' involved here. She has changed, because I have changed. Carlos tells you everything you need to know to think and act from a powerful, self-sufficient position Carlos will teach you that you never have to throw away what you want for a woman, in fact - she thanks you for it! Ever since I have been using this information to assert myself in the right way its as if my girlfriend has fallen for a new guy. She just loves to be around me, she loves to do random things for me, she loves to call me and tell me how much she loves to call me. And boy, has she started wanting sex more then ever, I couldn't even catch my breath these last two weeks (and I can safely say I'm no stud). This information will make you a woman's drug! I really can't wait to see where we will go from here! Carlos is going to have to release a therapy / Guy-a-Holic's anonymous program soon if more guys get their hands on this :) -Kyle from Toronto (Canada) PS. The customer service reps Carlos employs are amazing! I had a shipping issue that I caused by giving bad information and they handled it with amazing care for me. Don't hesitate to contact them with your problems, you aren't alone at all!"

- Kyle M. - Toronto, Canada
"You are like a superhero"

"Hey Carlos, I have to write to say how much of an inspiration you are to me. I know you probably get emails like this all the time. I think what you do is quite remarkable. I can't begin to write down what I've been through the past 7 years but I'm glad I found you. If I did 7 years ago then I believe my life would have turned out very differently. Having said that, thanks to you I am now equipped with the tools to move forward with my life. You are like a superhero. I have learned so much from your words, your compassion and advice. All I can say is thank you...and than you again. God bless Vince"

- Vince M. -
"It is no longer impossible!"

"Hey Carlos, just wanted to tell you I just started reading the ebooks for you GGF program. As usual, very well structured program. The last three years have been very good to me. I have had three GFs, one which I dated for just a little over a year. We broke up mutually three weeks ago because she had reached the point where she wanted a kid and I am not ready for that. But the breakup was not only amicable, but one of the most magical and romantic moments in both our lives. I am a better man since that relationship. And, a mere week later, I met and successfully started another relationship with a gorgeous girl 14 (!) years younger than me. It started off so well, that on the first night she told me that because I was so "

- Tristan L. - Canada
"Carlos's "Bad Boy Formula" Rocks!!!"

"Hey Carlos, I know you get this all the time, but i just wanna say THANK YOU! I really don't know where to begin, but all i know is that after listening to all your audio and video recordings, i've become fully aware of what were the things i was doing back then that totally screwed my dating life and relationships, you're BAD BOY formula is what i listen/watch right now and i do get what you are trying to say in that video, hey man all i can say is i hope you'll never get tired of doing this stuff! and return i hope you get more than you deserve for helping guys out. talk to you soon, JONAS peace out btw i also play guitar, we should jam sometime, ...that's if you'll ever visit the philippines =)"

- Jonas R. -

"Carlos, You are a Jedi!"

"Carlos, Direct, justifiable and grounded. Your advice its very compelling. Many times I thought I was correct about situations with my ex. Many times I second guessed myself. How I wished that I found your site earlier. Notice I said wished.... I'm glad I didn't as now I'm keen to attract a woman who Is as good as me. I will endeavor to revisit this one email that I have replied to in order to remind myself this keep grounded and not try tho solve every emotional vent that my next woman has. Keep it real Carlos and keep the advice flowing. The recovering Problem Solver and New Alpha Male. Kyel from Down Under in Oz!"

- Kyel E. -
"thank you for helping overcome my fear of talking to women..."

"first of all I like to thank you for helping overcome my fear of talking to women, I'm now officially engaged I met this wonderful lady march 27, 2012, and the day before my birthday nov 29, 2012 we got engaged. "

- Israel F.
"you CHANGED MY LIFE in some miraclous way..."

" Never had the chance to say thanks for your work and your purpose. You're doing holy work in my opinion. Because of your work I kinda became an addict for success, I really put my mind in every moment I live for my evolution as a man ... Your methods taught me to put my ego aside to gain focus And because you helped me I have the power to help others, friends and family which I feel obligated to help them so you kinda created a chain reactions with your work. you CHANGED MY LIFE in some miraculous way. "

- Rom B.
"Bro - I've been like a program madman out of everyone and I mean ALL your programs are by far the best blow away mystery, deangelo, dicarlo, winggirl love system, Cortez all! I got 2 and you have inspired me to finally break down and get a PC for myself. I'm 47 look 30, 18 black belts I look like Adonis but in my head with chicks! Retarded, only your programs are worth my money - I now plan to one buy one buy them all so keep em coming !!!"

- Joseph N.
"Unbelievably effective... Saved my soul..."

"This is almost embarrassing to admit, but a few years ago I hit a personal rock bottom as my first multimedia company (POINT.CLICK.SHOOT) had to disband due to financial and legal matters. I had to say goodbye to 4,000 sq feet of studio space, and let go of all 17 people. Tack on the fact that my girlfriend of the time decided to leave me while I was trying to combat stability, and one could say that I had absolutely hit an emotional and financial depression. Searching endlessly online for any personal help or motivational tools to pick myself up one night, I suddenly discovered Carlos Xuma and his unbelievably effective “Alpha-Male” course. I know what you’re probably thinking… “LAME! Who the hell needs another guy to tell you how to be an Alpha Male?” It’s not exactly about being a macho douchebag and sleeping with every woman you’ll ever meet. What his PDFs and simple online course did was remind me of the potential that I’ve always had but lost momentarily. What his course did for me is what a therapist would charge upwards of $1000 and six weeks of trying to figure out your best “self” that’s hidden beneath that current situation that you can’t dig yourself out of. This was the most organic and holistic route that literally dug me out of a trench that I didn’t think I could ever get myself out of emotionally. We’ve all had weak moments and situations that have left us in such dispair that you didn’t think you’d ever pull yourself back together. That was me a few years ago. Not everyone may find this offer in the slightest bit enticing, but for me, I can honestly say that it saved my soul, and it wouldn’t be fair to at least offer it to anyone out there that might need a bit of a pick me up from the credible Carlos Xuma, who’s been on ABC News, FHM, Playboy Magazine, etc. "

- John A, - San Leandro, CA
"girlfriend of ten years is astonished at how I've changed for the better..."

"I'm told I look like a model but I've always been awkward with females - I'm always approached but I can't talk or say the wrong things.

Out of all people out there including all the pioneers like magic, mystery , Jeffries , Deangelo etc- I find your programs to be way better than all others. More descriptive and practical and your voice and presentation. Always hold my attention

I plan to buy every single program you have!!! I broke down and got a PC and an iPad just for the purpose of getting all Carlos Xums programs ! You are the head and antlers above them all- please keep em coming

I got all kinds of book lights cuz your info is absolutely inspiring and fad fascinating - my on and off girlfriend of ten years is astonished at how I've changed for the better even after sex she comments what the hell have you been reading , as her orgasms she says are mind blowing lol.

thanks for being my guide and teacher and enriching my life and feel free to use this as a testimony cuz even as a great looking handsome man ... I was socially inept until I began taking control..."

- - Joseph Nevaras - Phoenix, AZ
"girlfriend of ten years is astonished at how I've changed for the better"

"I am like a PUA fanatic- I'm a social worker full time and part time teach quick kills to military personnel - I'm 47 never married - spent my entire life 5-12 hours studying and training in martial arts and fitness - also my CSCS in streghtnth training - I'm told I look like a model but I've always been awkward with females - I'm always approached but I can't talk or say the wrong things. Out of all people out there including all the pioneers like magic, mystery , Jeffries , Deangelo etc- I find your programs to be way better than all others. More descriptive and practical and your voice and presentation. Always hold my attention - Mack tactics I like buy only when you are includes as one of the bonuses. I have approaching , girlfriend training and two earlier programs - I used to hate digital because I didn't have my own PC but because I plan to buy every single program you have!!! I broke down and got a PC and an iPad just for the purpose of getting all Carlos Xums programs ! You are the head and antlers above them all- pleas keep em coming cuz now I'm learning how to use the PC and download digital stuff - I have all the ebooks printed and placed in3 ring binders ~ I got all kinds of book lights cuz your info is absolutely inspiring and fad fascinating - my on and off girlfriend of ten years is astonished at how I've changed for the better even after sex she comments what the hell have you been reading , as her orgasms she says are mind blowing lol. thanks for being my guide and teacher and enriching my life and feel free to use this as a testimony cuz even as a great looking handsome man as I'm told , with a body like Adonis and advanced college education I was socially inept until I began taking control . Thanks again "

- - Joseph Nevaras - Phoenix, AZ
"As a divorced father - 52 years old - I re-learned and got my mojo back. [Three different women] are all calling me because of your services. thanks again man- I am unemployed right now and STILL have these women wanting to take me out..."

- Steve Jones, Boston, MA
"I have been ultra confident and cocksure even, still me, but a me with alpha attitude!"

"You are amazing! I am a little embarrassed to admit this but I bought your 'get a girlfriend fast' program months ago and didn't take action and even listen to it (I'll not bore you with the excuses why). Anyway, I listened to the audiobook a few times and started making notes and coming up with things I could use. In particular qualifying her, and I took your advice and opened an online dating account too. I have been ultra confident and cocksure even, still me, but a me with alpha attitude! And it paid off! I have a coffee date tomorrow with a sexie little blonde and most importantly a high calibre woman it seems "

- David B. - United Kingdom
"Girlfriend of ten years is astonished at how I've changed for the better"

"... I've always been awkward with females - I'm always approached but I can't talk or say the wrong things. Out of all people out there including all the pioneers like magic, mystery, Jeffries, Deangelo etc- I find your programs to be way better than all others. More descriptive and practical and your voice and presentation. Always hold my attention

I plan to buy every single program you have!!! I broke down and got a PC and an iPad just for the purpose of getting all Carlos Xums programs! You are the head and antlers above them all - please keep em coming...

- my on and off girlfriend of ten years is astonished at how I've changed for the better even after sex she comments what the hell have you been reading , as her orgasms she says are mind blowing lol.

thanks for being my guide and teacher and enriching my life and feel free to use this as a testimony cuz even as a great looking handsome man... I was socially inept until I began taking control."

- Joseph J.

"I've been studying your material for the past three years and have found it to be the ideal guidance I've needed post divorce (was married 17 years)... I found your approach to be ideal for becoming the solid real man that I am. I was offtrack in some of my perspectives and behavior with women and more importantly myself. I have since put myself in a place where other guys ask me how I do it. I have become very comfortable in my own skin with the confidence to approach any woman nearly anywhere and it is very liberating. Thanks so much keep it up."

- Adrien L. - Chicago, IL
" Headline: Excellent Material dude!"

"I recognized your name from the old days and immediately ordered The Bad Boy Formula, excellent material Dude! I really appreciate your over the top respect for women as that's the only way to be. "

- Bill from Birmingham
"Your stuff is amazing..."

" My friend started applying the info you discuss on [your] cd - In one day he met and spoke with 3 women.He was amazed at the attention he got from them.He told me that ... he realized he wasn't as smart as he thought he was. Your stuff is amazing. It transformed his life. I have been gaining more confidence and working on the materials you send me in my emails. It is good I came across this... If I didn't I would still be lost and without much success. Thank you Carlos"

- Leon F. - Albania
"It works like a charm..."

"Hi Carlos: I write to you frequently about how well your program works. I have 4 women who are chasing me and the one that I think of the four (whom l like the best) is always rather non-chalant about me in public but is ga-ga ( according to her friends ) over me in private, You taught me about inner game confidence and ... It works like a charm... She just took me out for an early Xmas dinner and is now paying for me to go out on New Years Eve... The other women want me to go out with them too ,but she is first in line... Thanks again"

- Steve Jones - Milwaukee, WI
"a damn masterpiece..."

"> [Power Social Skills] thus far is a damn masterpiece - I can't find the words to describe how much I enjoy it . You may not know real martial arts lol, but sheesh you got it going on - you display all qualities as well, your tone, very articulate . Other puas I can't take seriously . There are only five I will listen to but you are the best ."

- Joseph N - Foster City, California
"Most incredible program..."

"Wow, I got the HUGE pack today of the discs, the most incredible program made by any human. "

- Joseph N - Foster City, California
"I'm so damned impressed... worth every penny"

" Now I'm so damn impresses with the Power Social Skills program , worth every penny. I now see that you and my second favorite PUA / self improvement Guro teamed up to make alpha rules - your programs are incredible - I got girlfriend training , girlfriend fast , bad boy formula . The power social was not only fascinating and interesting but I love that you allowed us to download part of it and then surprize us with this huge handsome looking cd folder pack, is any other have huge hard copy pack? I think alpha masculinity? I love your section on Mack tactics so I'm excited to see a whole project you too teamed up on. Ever do any with vin dicarlo ?"

- Joseph N - Foster City, California
"Alpha Rules was the most influential book of my life."

"Thank you, Alpha Rules was the most influential book of my life. I read The Alpha Rules months ago and it has changed my life. I continue to read your emails and watch your videos. I am going out of my way to write you this because you deserve it. All i know is that now I am more confident and active than I ever was, and girls love it... I am getting so much action from different people without any negative consequences or deceit. Your products are not just about girls and I get that. The Alpha Rules has improved my life in every area. You could take out every mention of women and sell it as a self help book and it be the best out there. You are awesome. Thank you for sharing how to be awesome. "

- Joe French
"Very real. Very applicable..."

"Hey, I got your program and I like it. Very real. Very applicable I like that you are first breaking down the psychology and then the tactics. Most other dudes in your field just focus on tactics, many of which are old and tired. Your program is a great way to rejuvenate and sharpen the axe again. Keep up the good work!"

- JC
"I just got a girlfriend..."

">Hey I just got a girlfriend ... thanks to you and your info. I thought you would like to know, and it really wasn't that hard. Thanks again, and keep up the good work."

- Michael F. - Fairfax,VA

"It works like crazy..."

"Firstly thanks for all ur tips, emails etc. really changed my success with women and in life just in general....I read through ur text game reports, and it works like crazy, I have women asking me out on dates instead of me asking! "

- Sukhi Rai
"I'm over the moon about the product and its value for money..."

"Hey I've recently [got] the product Approach women Now system. I'm over the moon about the product and its value for money. Not only do you get pdf's but you also get AUDIO tapes CD"s and a forum to discuss different topics related to the subject :) I will be recommending this to friends and I can hardly wait to download this information into my brain so I can put it to practical use. I'M VERY VERY EXCITED AND CAN'T WAIT TO START MEETING WOMEN EVERYWHERE I GO FROM NOW ON!!!! "

- Dylan T. - Memphis, TN
"H: Thanks for all you have done in my life thus far Believe it or not, I still see you (besides God) as the best source of social skills and change.. Thanks for all you have done in my life thus far as I wouldn"

- Mikhiel H.
"It has all the information I was needing..."

"thank you, thank you so much... I am already enjoying the Alpha Masculinity program! and it is just like I imagined. It is great instructive material that I'm loving already. It has all the information I was needing, its wonderful!"

- - Marlon M.
"the alpha masculinity system helped me..."

"THANKS FOR ALL YOUR WORK, the alpha masculinity system helped me to put my head over my shoulders. "

- Luis David Carrasco Ibarra
"Carlos Xuma Changed my life"

"Carlos Xuma changed my life. If that sounds a little extreme, let"

- Ted D. -
" Thanks man, you the man"

"Carlos, you the man. I can write and tell people that you the man. First i wanna thank you for what you have done for me. Your systems are working for me man. For the first time in my life i feel the man in me, every bit of it. I have the alpha confidence and i dont know whether you realise that your program teaches a man to care less about women but make them care about you. I talk to many women, they give me their numbers which i even never call due to many loads of them but in turn i get them calling me asking me why i never called yet i had even forgotten about them. Thank you man. I use women the way i want, thats how brutal and lethal your system is and one good thing is that they dont know whats happening to them but you know what you are doing and whats happening to them, its like watching a girl masturbate because of you. I dont know how you did it but what you present to the table is lethal. I just discovered that your system is also good at making a person succed in life, get rich. All that is happening to me. Because you reprogrammed my mind to have ultra confidence in myself. Man you can share this if you like, for all i care myself is getting in order. And even good rejection from some women is inevitable but i know how to handle it that after some time they come seeking me. Thanks man, you the man."

- [email protected]
"You taught me how to feel confident once again..."

"Hey Carlos, I'm sitting here this morning, writing my wedding speech when one of your emails popped in my inbox. I wanted to reach out to you and say thanks. When I first discovered your work, I was a divorcee and had just moved across the continent. I was feeling scared and uncertain. I was reaching to all kinds of self-help...Landmark, Zen teaching, etc...but I was hurting on the inside for sure. And then I cam across your material and it painted things in a different light. ... I want to congratulate you on the way your present the material. For us analytical folks, you taught the value of feeling and driving through emotion. You taught me how to feel confident once again...and countless other tips and tricks. As I said, I'm writing my wedding speech this yes, I'm getting married again. I think you once said that be careful about the girl you marry...It's the most important decision you make in your life! I do want to say that your statement made me evaluate and choose my next wife in a much more critical way. Without you and your work, I would not have been back here in the saddle again...ready for my next adventure in love. Thanks Carlos..."

- Kunal Patel

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"John calling from the London UK, I read your things on a regular basis. I used to listen to David DeAngelo and John Alanis, I've now moved from John and David to you. Your stuff is more dynamic. Your stuff is fantastic because your stuff its helping me to be a more of a refined guy, rather than an aggressive dude, so reading your stuff is fantastic because it helps you maintain your alpha male women are looking for now in a guy. Giving me confidence of how to be a guy..."

- John, London UK
"I wish something like this was out there when I was 20 something..."

  Press play to hear James, San Jose...
"I've been listening to you for about a month or two now... All these things I've been learning from you they just kinda came up out of me... She told me within 5 minutes after talking to her that she felt like she's been knowing me for long time... I'm pretty sure I'll be talking to her again... I wish something like this was out there when I was 20 something. I'm 47 now, we just didn't have this kind of stuff back then."

- James, San Jose

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