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Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work..."Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!" "Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. I highly recommend Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, it's 100% real." "Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother." Press play to hear Rion... Press play to hear Jason... |
Read about how other guys like you have MASSIVELY improved their dating skills with Carlos Xuma's programs... |
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"The genius of Carlos's methods is that they value wit and creativity over "pick-up" lines and gimmicks. Carlos will help you understand women better, what they desire and what they find attractive, allowing you to customize your own approach techniques and put the best "you" out there. What you get out of this program is entirely based on what you put in, work hard (and play hard of course) and you will be rewarded!" - Scott K. - Seattle, WA |
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"Thank you very much for sharing your tactics with me ... I just ended a relationship I been in for 5 years of and on and it was very painful. Depression I said. And I thought I knew better... now your products are saving my (dating) life. To see all the free tips and write ups you gave me so far is joy to this 50 yr. old... I ... have been doing batting practice every day. Plus testing every thing I have been learning. When I read it, I was floored, one of the main ingredieant ... confidence. So I restarted my martial arts practice with a passion and deep breathing meditation to bring on relaxsations confidence. the response I been getting from the females here have been great. My fear level is down.Once again thank you." - Junies W. |
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"CX - OK it's working man, even for me just visiting the 3 S's in my mind each day has boosted (and I mean boosted) my confidence around women! I feel empowered just walking down the street and seeing beautiful women and being able to approach them, or in social environments, where before I was way too scared to look and chat and have confidence in conversation. Thanks Carlos, you are helping guys who would be living wasted lives. Grace to you !" - Tom M. - Australia |
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"Hi Carlos & staff. I have enjoyed the Alpha Man program, the Advanced Coaching, and now the Approach Now programs... Your stuff IS the best...
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"That was f*ckin' awesome! Finally, someone detailing out the main tactical step in talking with women in simple, rational, effective terms. I can definitely understand how it will work to dissolve approach anxiety..." - Andy H. |
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"hey Carlos
I just wanted to say that i appretiate all the time and effort you took into building this material. I've been one of those guys who have been badly wired since a child. but the past is of no use anymore. There are alot of things I've read in your material which I already knew deep down inside, and completely failed to acknowledge. At the same time, there are even more things i most likely would of never realised. I've decided that these are the essential skills i want to hardwire into my brain, and i'm not going to give up till i do. I've been aware of this for about a year. i've read lots of different materials, tried them and gave up... I found your material by far the best ones i can relate to, as it focus on the internal inner workings, and what reality is. thanks carlos, just wanted to let you know i acknowledge and appreciate your work. looking forward to moving forward. " - Mac |
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"Hey Carlos, I just thought I'd drop you another thank you message. Thank you for changing my life. Before I started the Alpha man programme I was everything that any guy shouldn't be and that was "NICE". Since completing the alpha man programme. I've started working as a freelance artist and now enjoy my passions and allow them to bring me an income. My dating life has exploded. I met an amazing woman and a few months ago, someone like her would have been totally unreachable for the guy I was. Even though women know I'm dating someone they constantly flirt and engage in conversation with me like never before. For the first time in my life I feel like a well rounded and complete person. I feel like a true alpha man... I'll definitely be getting the alpha immersion programme soon..." - Ryan J. - South Africa |
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"I cant thank you enought man, this is def a major turning point for me. great message..." - Ian |
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"I have already bought your Power Social Skills, and... it it is the best and the only program of its kind out there dealing with the tiniest subtle social cues..." - J.H. - New York |
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"...They say in the pick up community you should find a teacher/technique that works best for your personality. Your program is awesome dude and I can't wait to re-invest my time into studying your techniques and course work. I heard about you through the stylelife teleseminar you did and I'M HOOKED! I'm a Carlos Xuma student for life!! your program is a lot more down to earth than a lot of other stuff out there and I've been referring the crap out of it since I read alpha manifesto." - Charles C. - Miami |
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"I would just like to say thank you! your audio book is genius! ... this is definately in the top 5 best books I've heard /read* I was just amazed because I spent months looking for a book like this but couldnt put my finger on what it'd be called till I found this - I was hooked!! again thanks man and good luck to you!" - Dan B. New York |
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"Damn man you rock!! I just listened to your podcast pertaining to guys dealing with being divorced/broken up with. WOW! I wish I would have heard that a few years back before wasting years of my life away from being divorced..." - Jim |
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"Wow, I just finished listening to your podcast. I have to say it was very refreshing to hear someone who actually puts these ideas out there and doesn't try to "smooth" things out with political correctness, which is something I think is depriving men everywhere to exert their manhood and make their presence felt. Thanks for all your advice. It has changed my life. " - Daniel |
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"Good man, Be honest tell what people need, not what they want to hear. I am very happy with a woman for 2 years but still reading every email and it really helps for keeping perspective. " - R. |
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"There's a boatload of information in there and it will take me some time to assimilate all the techniques to defend myself against the games other people play. However, it didn't take me long to be able to spot the games in other people. Then I got pissed. After getting over the pissed feelings, I began to have a deeper understanding of what CX is teaching in the PSS.
Now I'm trying to use the knowledge to make MY world a better place. I know I can't change the people that are playing the games; it's become automatic for them. However, I can work against the games to diffuse or defuse the situations. It's been a great help on my current path of development that includes emulating the alpha traits of setting boundaries and facing conflict, instead of posturing or collapsing. It's really amazing to watch the expressions of people when their games don't work 100% on me! I know I'll get better at all of this as time goes by. I'm getting ready to listen to all the CDs again and take notes this time. It takes a lot of study time to listen to this course and learn it, but it's definitely worth the price of buying it and the time invested. I highly, highly recommend this set of CD's for anyone that wants to climb out of the Matrix of social games and live life with a new clarity." - T.C. - Denver CO |
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"Hey Carlos, Thanks a lot for your products. They're really good stuff. I've been an introvert since I was 5 up to around 18. It's quite a long time... Your products really helped introduced a new sense of what "lifestyle" means in me..." - B. F. - Brooklyn, NY |
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"Carlos has made me from wimp to champ now. I started reading his material when I was 17, I am 20 now. People have noticed a HUGE difference. It feels very rewarding after you put in the work and people start commenting on your new behaviours. If it wasn't for Carlos i'd probably still be a virgin..." - Justin G. - Canada |
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"Hey dude, You are great.... Your materials helped me to build that logic in the dating world. In just three weeks, I went from zero to ten. :) I am meeting with attractive women, left and right nowadays. It is a blast. :) Thanks a lot. Keep on motivating people." - Cem |
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"Awesome! Talk about a shot of the truth! Keep up the good work!" - Tobi |
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"Master Xuma ... God, I acutally love this podcast! It totally kicks @$$!!! Very direct and bold, that nobody else would have the ball to take the bullet to address...." - Jason |
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"That was f*cking outstanding, Carlos. You said what had to be said in the clearest and simplest terms. You are so inspirational and motivational...You're a great writer and speaker... I can't thank you enough for all the pumpitude!" - T. P. |
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"Powerful stuff Carlos I intend to listen many more times. I felt like a new man
after hearing this..." - John |
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"You hit life right on the head. You may have called it ranting....I think it was both ballsy and cool - thanks for the advice..." - M. |
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"Hey carlos, your program has really helped me to change my mindset and attitude about myself BEFORE the approach and when I'm relaxed and feel good, they go better. Thanks for that. Because of your advice I feel better about myself as a person. I can't thank you enough." - A.M. |
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"That was awesome man! You really laid it on the line. Some of us really have to hear it like that. My friends especially have to hear this. Thanks man you pumped me up again I love your Approach program, I'm definitely gonna do the Alpha program when I finish those cd's. Thanks so much for doing what you're doing. I was so lost before this stuff. You're the best!!!!!" - Adam |
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"This is remarkable and delightful; makes me feel exactly like the favorite violin teacher I've ever had.. I've studied with many famous teacher from all over... from Juilliard, SFC, Rice, Royal Academy (England), Curtis, etc. But this makes me FEEL it... you know, that determination, confidence, enjoyment, and absolute mastery (with a sense of beauty etc.) that this violin teacher taught me... from 'survival on stage' to 'knocking out your audience'. Thanks a bunch. What a blast." - J.B.S. |
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"I'm running 3 girls from listening to your stuff and reading your lit thanks..." - DC |
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"I am dating lots of great women, and I am taking the lead; Not handing my manhood to the first woman that comes along. I am feeling more like a Champion all the time (not like my wussy old self). Now when I see the guy she is dating, I feel sorry for him (she is super high maintenance). Thanks Carlos! Keep up the good fight... Jerome" - Jerome |
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"Hey Carlos, I've bought several of your products over the last year and your material is awesome, it has helped me in all aspects of my life. I'm a 45 yr. old recovering nice guy, who is back on the market after my 15 yr. marriage fell apart. ... I'm totally in the drivers seat - and my game has improved immensely! Like you say, the only options with a potential mate are NO, and MAYBE, And you should always consider yourself to be the big fish in the pond that all the fishermen want to catch. P.S. I am teaching my son these things, so that he doesn't have to go through the pain that I had to. Thanks Bro ! " - Brian B. |
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"I bought your "Alpha Lifestyle: Triple-Threat Program" ... and needless to say it rocks! - thank you so much..." - Heiko S. - Berlin, Germany |
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"Thank you so much carlos for your advice it is the best and you're the best....wow" - Ary - United Kingdom |
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"Your dating materials are WORTH THEIR WEIGHT IN GOLD!!! I seriously have improved my skills with women because of you man! Thank you SO MUCH!" - Drew M. - Auburn, AL |
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"One of the things I like about the course, is that Carlos wants us to be ourselves and not tell women a bunch of lies just to get them. This is important to me and also, keep you from getting into the cycle of telling more lies to cover the one told before. I also like how he lays out his course in clear and easy to understand language. Thanks, Carlos." - Will W. |
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"CX - Yeah a fine Podcast and great call to arms for the troops, and you know what if people aren't ordering some of your gear then - they are losing time fast. We, Team-Alpha, have got a once-only opportunity on Earth - so lets all live Alpha-max lives and make women actually like having an opposite sex! " - Tom M. - Australia |
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"Carlos, First I just want to say that your content is awesome. I have been your customer for a few years now (bought several of your products) and have seen dramatic results from what I have learned from you. So THANK YOU. " - Greg H. - Los Angeles, CA |
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"Hey Carlos, I read a lot of dating sites, ebooks, newsletters. You definitely have the best material in regards to being ambitious and going after what you want in life period (not just with women and dating)." - Sean |
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"Yeah CX, this material is A++! I am just new to you lists and man it has boostd - yes rocket propelled me forward after30 years in a non-Alpha life! I am about to order a ton of you material..." - T., Australia |
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"Carlos your programs are awesome. i could go on and on... I have the dbb and am reading Secrets of Alpha Man..." - Alex D., |
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" I was very impressed with the way you applied the scientific method to dating and women. You might also be interested to know I purchased the DBB (Dating Black Book-we work in acronyms here) even though I am already married and have no plans to get divorced... I've been married for 4 years and my wife, long ago, stopped wanting sex more than ~1x per month. It seemed as though the reasons why, which completely baffled me for years, would be spelled out in something like the DBB. They were, in fact, completely spelled out in black and white, along with the solution to the problem. I read all 400 pages in about two days, and it hit me like a ton of bricks like nothing else has before. I'm confident at this point that applying the principles in the DBB, with some modifications for a marriage context, will likely work... " - Jason L. |
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"I just wanted to send you a quick msg regarding [Secrets of the Alpha Man, Alpha Immersion]... I love them. They have helped me to realize that media and society have severely influenced my thinking to destroy me as a true man. Thanks again..." - Ron H. |
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"...I've chosen to stop reading David DeAngelo's e-mails in light of better material from men such as yourself..." - Abel G. |
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"I think You are TOP-NOTCH in your field,-one of the best self-development experts in the world, probably THE best one! -Im SURE that with your genius and multi-talent, your future will be bright and you will suceed with WHATEVER you decide to do with it! Finally I want to THANK YOU for all your great work and advice that has inspired and helped me so much!" - Matt M. |
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"Hi Carlos. Just wanted to tell you that you ROCK! I am the proud owner of Secrets OF The Alpha Man which has absolutely changed my life, never before have felt such confidence in myself, this programme has given me the faith and belief in myself to walk up and talk to any woman I want without my fears getting the better of me. I have also started The Dating Black Book which has already helped me to build outstanding rapport with women. I feel like the man I never thaught I could be...THANK YOU!! The benefits of your Advanced Coaching Programme are too many to list. They include helpful tips for inner and outer game, learning more and more about women (from the horse's mouth...so to speak) and an all round motivator for all those times I may feel discouraged. Again...Thank you!" - Kevin B. - New York |
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"I usually don't go through the trouble of tracking down the author of some good book I read or some good Audio tapes I hear. But this time I'll make an exception, your audio tapes were truly amazing, the amount of truth in them is astonishing, and they have been of great use to me. What 'Mystery' provides men with is advice on how to get a woman for a week or maybe a few weeks. You provide men with advice on how to lead life in order to become more successful in general; women, family, friends, work.... The difference between yours & Mysteries method is probably that with your method you can not only find women for a week or a few weeks, you can also find a quality woman for a long time relationship, even marriage. Your method is simply better, you deserve the respect you get. " - Jonas, L. - Belgium |
"... would like to say thanks for providing such eye-opening material. Keep up the great work!!!"- Marcello M. |
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"First off, thanks for the great information you present in your programs! I have several of them and they really have helped me to not focus on getting a woman to fulfill my life, but to have a fulfilling life first and then having the women follow..." - Jessie H. - Miami, FL. |
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"I just want to say a huge thanks for you writing those book. Man I consider you are the master of seduction, as Bruce Lee was with the Martial Arts. And you are the Criss Angel, revealing the secret of the true seduction Method. I took some seduction program here, in Quebec, read a lot of psychology books on seduction, but you're right. Your book is the true reality of this amazing world... I am addict now. (your fault). I'm probably your most Fan in the whole Quebec. I bought (and read all the time) the seduction method book and The dating black book. I used to be very... very shy in my early years. Your book has defenitively help to break that damn fears I was in all the time. " - Yann L. |
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""The thing I like most about Carlos is his use of Martial Arts metaphors as teaching points... one of the great lessons any good martial art teaches is the importance of fundamentals and of focus ... important with women. It's not the fancy clothing or the sly pickup line that attracts women, it's a man being a man and focusing on her... Carlos has the skill and ability to help men understand and embody these qualities."" - Craig Eubanks - Meetings With Masters - San Francisco |
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"Most gurus think that they know every single thing about talking to women and try to map out everything to say. But you stay humble and honestly say, " Listen, I can't map out your whole conversation for you but I can give you tools to help drive the car." This tells me that you are for real and truly understand what the dating game is about. Thanks for the audio advice and I look forward to hearing more in the future..." - |
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" First things first: your products are first rate --- no guy should interact, let alone look at a woman without first purchasing then studying your material (be it the ebooks, the audio coaching, or the DVDs). I've recommended your products to friends across Canada..." - Ken |
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"hey carlos! I have been following your emails and the weekly alpha tips, for months now, the Dating Black Book was such an eye opening book, and I have tried to integrate every advice in the lifestyle I was living, and now have become more confident to the extent that I now have several hotties on my list of "interests" ... things are going great since they seem interested in the alfa (true) me that I have become after following your advice ... this has helped in making me a more successful man in my work environment and my work interviews as well as with the ladies! its amazing how people will change their ways with you just as they see confidence and a sure character, a person in such control and passion in his life....it just resonates success!!! I can't thank you much for those! you have given me more knowledge of who I can be, the true REAL me instead of a wuss, a fearful guy who creates scenarios in his own mind just to escape something he doesn't know its outcome! Even close friends are just wanting more of me around! they wanna have fun with me! And this is real success, how its all supposed to be!" - Gabriel G., Lebanon |
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" this stuff is gold ... for me it has been a real awakening. For too long I was a kind of conversational weakling but now my Alpha qualities are developing and the female interaction is improving out of site, plus general life skills fo all situations. I am not totally there yet but I know that changing the way I think about myself and knowing who I really am (and can be) is the most important aspect. Over just knowing the 'moves' abd script and all that it is what you teach for the 'inner guy' that really makes these lasting results. I've gone from below average to the top 20% of the popultion since learning from your material." - Tom M., Australia |
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"First,Carlos, I just want to say that I think You are TOP-NOTCH in your field,
and Im SURE that with your genius and multi-talent, your future will be
bright whatever you decide to do with it! Ever since I heard you on the David Deangelo audio session I've followed your teachings in your newsletters. I've also bought your PowerSocialSkills-program and listen through it a couple of times. -Its great(!) and I'm thinking of getting the Alpha Conversation-program as well...Keep up the good work-Your stuff is supergreat Carlos!" - Matthias - Germany |
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"I have been studing dating material over 5 years now and my heart resonates most with the stuff that you teach. It really helped me out from some of my limiting beliefs and put forward more my real personality. Seriously ... Thank you SO much. " - J. |
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"Hi Carlos, I have been reading your newsletters and other material for almost a year. It has been quite an experience. I have been quite successful because of an Alpha Lifestyle. I have collected more than 100 mobile phones over the last 8 months in Amsterdam and Frankfurt. In fact on some occassions some women have tried to pick me up..." - Vishal S. |
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"I'm a big fan of Carlos Xuma's work. He fits squarely in the Natural Structured methods, teaching men to be confident in general, and only after that in their dealings with women..." - |
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"Your the f*cking man, gave me a 180 degree turn around in life. Got my first girlfriend and have never been happier..." - |
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"Hi Carlos, I wanted to thank you for all your help in my life over the past 2 years or so. You've turned my life around! A couple of years ago I was in the doldrums when it came to women and life was very blasé. I had just gotten out of a bad relationship only to fall into another one and I wasn't happy with myself as a person. I started listening to your podcasts, I got your Dating Black Book, and I was quickly on the path to success. As a bit of a side note, I'm actually a clinical psychologist and I was impressed with how much you've incorporated psychological theory and research into your work. Your advice is not just a collection of hunches and "off-the-cuff" suggestions - it is all based on solid empirical evidence. I love it. If other guys knew this isn't only about getting chicks - it's about growing as a person and becoming someone you are truly comfortable with. There's nothing I've enjoyed more than having my own private "therapy" sessions via your podcasts after a long day of providing therapy to others. I'm currently in a newer relationship and it's the healthiest relationship I've ever been in. And I know I wouldn't have made it to this point without following your advice. If I had gone about things how I normally would have in the past, I would have turned a potentially awesome situation into a disaster (long story). But with your programs, I've been instilled with better mindset, alpha confidence, and an all-round better perspective on life. This, in turn, has rubbed off on the people around me and I can sense their satisfaction with me as a friend, brother, son, and relationship partner. It feels great! Thanks again Carlos" - Will S., PhD. |
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"Hi Carlos, I love your advice, it is really helpful, I've gotten other products and I believe you are one of the best at what you do..." - Berto F., Oceanside, CA |
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"My Dear Freind Carlos, Thanks for the lexicon. Your stuff really rocks, man! No wonder you are at the top of your game. It's great to learn from a master like you..." - Matt D. |
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"Carlos, You really are brilliant!" - R. S., Beverly Hills |
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"Dear Carlos,
After reading your 70 something page masterpiece, I became filled with an incredible sense of urgency to do something more with my life, my relations with family and friends, my outlook, and my attitude. Aside from the advice for getting better with females, your advice on becoming a man with ambition and a sense of being is something that is invaluable. Those words were pure gold, and there are no words to explain my gratitude for you writing them and making them available to me, but I just wanted to write you and thank you anyway. I've been on the mailing list for David D. and Mystery, and your e-mails are the only ones that make sense to me. I trust what you have to say, and look very much forward to anything else you have to offer. Best wishes," - A.G. |
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"Hey Carlos I want you to know that all your stuff absolutely rocks. I've been using your Seduction Method with women and I've become an awsome ladie's man..." - Nizu A., Mexico |
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"Hey Carlos, I've recently been reading your newsletter and your Dating Black Book, and I've found both incredibly helpful... " - Fraser W., West Sussex, England |
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"Thanks for all your advice and effort ... You wouldn't believe what a difference it has made in my life..." - Gerhard V. |
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"Carlos provides extremely insightful ideas about what it takes to approach women, and build the attraction necessary to get them interested in you. There are many, many sources for dating advice, but only Carlos seems to be able to put everything you need to know into simple terms, and easy-to-understand analogies. Whether it be his use of martial arts ideas and terminology, or his examples found in movies we have all seen, Carlos always manages to find a way to break through to me, and make me have that elusive Aha!, or Eureka! moment. What can I say? The Approach Women Now program is awesome." - |
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"I have now got to the point where women can't stop chasing me..." - M.K.M. |
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"Your Dating Black Book is fantastic, by the way. So much
information..." - Matt |
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"This DVD set is simply amazing. It can change your life forever and for the better. The amount of information that Carlos and his friends share in the DVDs will definitely make you live the alpha-lifestyle. Since I got the DVDs I watch them over and over again and I definitely notice an improvement in myself, I feel happier, more confident to talk to women and now there is NO ONE in the world who can change that. THE ALPHA LYFESTYLE TRIPLE THREAT is DEFINITELY a must for anyone out there who are willing to improve their lifestyle." - R. D. |
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"Calos, I want to thank you for all of your help, and to let to know that your programs are really good stuff with tons of useful knowledge..." - Greg C. |
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"Carlos, I must say that after listening to the [Approach Women] CDs I had to go out and give it a try... with unexpected consequences. Suddenly a new world opened up for me! I don't have to think anymore what to say when approaching women. I get good responses (smiles on their faces! and sometimes more). Keep up the good work! " - G. K. |
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"Carlos, your stuff really open my eyes and help me become a better lover...
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"Just sitting back admiring how well your programs are put together... You are definitely a stand out relationships and dating expert. It is always great to read your stuff ..." - David B. |
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"Carlos!
I just want to take a minute to compliment you on your work. I've read a lot about the PUAthing and I got a lot of info and material but had often a hard time relating with it, it wasn't me you know. So rather then making me more at ease with the whole thing it actualy stressed me out a little; in approaching women instead of more in control in felt more uncomfortable and less natural, like a athlete being filled up with things to do by his coach decreasing all his natural abilities. Things changed when I heard your interview with David De Angelo (interview with Dating Gurus) and I could directly realy relate to the things you said. This is the stuff! ...your work eases me down instead of gets me uptight and that's one of the Alpha male characteristics I think. Your approach about changing who you are in stead of who you 'act to be' ... really changed my views on things. Thanks for that man. Looking forward to your next newsletters." - Roel W., Amsterdam, Holland |
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"Love the material ... the genuine approach works better than any canned material its all about delivery and belief in yourself and what you are doing... Am having great fun with meeting new people and being more attractive...Thank you Carlos" - Craig R. |
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"Prior to obtaining the Secrets of the Alpha Man, I was your typical "beta, nice guy, average frustrated chump." Years of programming from my father led me to believe that I was not worthy of women or of success. My initial purpose for obtaining the tapes was to improve my belief in myself, improve my over-all self confidence and to learn social dynamics for improving myself in social and professional enviroments. After listening to the tapes over and over again, I began to see the patterns that have plagued me and affected my life for so many years. One by one I have began to replace old beliefs with new ones. In regards to women, I used to go numb and shy away from beautiful women. Now when I see a women I remind myself, "They do all the disgusting things in private that I do, so they are no better than me." I no longer think, "Oh yeah....definitely." Now I think, "Maybe or no. They have to prove their worth to me first." The funny thing is, it works!! I no longer get nervous around beautiful women. Thanks Carlos for your help!" - John S. |
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"I have to say, you were the first person who introduced me to this Forum, and you and you... have extremely sound and "HEALTHY" exercises, advice, for either Gender, and responsibilities that go with open dating, and respect for what it is ultimately to achieve... [I] have found it much easier to really express who I am by implementing some of these techniques, offered here, on these sites... Keep up the good work, Outstanding. " - blshollenberger@yahoo.com |
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"Hi Carlos, [The Dating Black Book] is unbelievable. I'm 42,and now know to possess the "3 S's." Thanks 4 the 411!" - Rocco S., Los Angeles CA |
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"...You've got some great stuff to offer. Your Alpha MANual was (#&$ing AWESOME!! That's the kind of stuff I'd LOVE to get more of... Thanks again for all the time and effort you've put into creating materials for guys/helping guys to live their lives better :) You're an example of the less than 1% of people I'd be interested in getting to know better... " - Andy H., Japan |
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"Great program, but I'm getting married now... Thanks for the help Carlos. You rock!" - Andy J. |
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"Hey Carlos, i'm currently reading your Dating Dynamics EBook and I can't wait to get the money to buy your "Alpha Man Conversation and Persuasion"... Your ideas are just brilliant...I'm loving your EBook and I'm only 8 pgs in... I actually felt a very positive "high" from reading this..." - Robert M., Newark, NJ |
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"I should tell you that since getting your e-mails and buying some of your products a few months ago, I've definitely noticed that for whatever reason, I'm meeting and attracting more and more of the girls I want to meet. Like, each girl gets better than the last. And for the first time in about 5 years, I meet a girl who I can see myself in a relationship with. I guess I'm a little shocked and don't know how to handle it! Thanks man..." - Dan S. |
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"Carlos, I recently got your Conversation & persuasion program, it is fantastic..." - R.S. |
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"By 2004, it had been a good five year without a proper date or a girlfriend for me.
I came across Carlos stuff in early 2004 and step by step I broke out from my rusty shell. From a self loathing, below average loser who could not stand looking at himself in the mirror I became a confident man, my life improved, there is No scarcity of women in my life, but this is not ONLY about women, it is about my body, my soul, my mind, my life's objectives , my everything. I think Carlos is a messanger to improve our lives, and his commitment to his mission is an example for me, to give every task I set out to do, all my heart and soul. I admit it is hard to stay on the ALPHA path, but Carlos is here to guide us. " - Ramin T.- Toronto, Canada |
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"I just wanted to thank you for starting me in the right direction to tapping the inner Alpha Male that has been laying dormant in me for over 12 years. Your weekly aplha tips, and Alpha Immersion DVD series is helping me be my true self and further enhancing my life with my new girlfriend who is the love of my life. Thank you so much, Carlos!" - Chris L. |
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"Carlos, the line "...no fun" in your dating black book, ROCKS man, this sentence works everywhere, not just when she is not ticklish ...I've tried it... it's like a magic word ... it works every time AMAZING." - D. |
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"First off i want to tell you that i recently got your e-book the dating black book; the book is amazing and very insightful..." - Chris G. |
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"Carlos, First of all, I'd like to express my gratitude to you and all the work you've put out there for other people. I purchased the Dating Black Book at the end of last summer, and ordered your Social Dynamics CDs not too long ago. Both have helped to make me a smarter, less-highstrung, and more self-aware individual to the point where I am now refered to by some of my friends as 'the most approachable...'" - Charlie E. |
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"I've just listened to your alpha man conversation and persuasion. Great program!" - Victor B. |
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"THIS PROGRAM IS SO UNDER-RATED ANYONE LEARNING TO ATTRACT WOMEN NEEDS THIS PROGRAM. IT IS MANDATORY..." - Justin G. |
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"...You know you have done a great job. Helping and educating people (besides other things) is the activity that I too want to perform in the future. I hope I can put in my work as much passion as you can. Keep up the good work and thank you! " - Siim S. |
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"Thanks for taking the time to explain how some of these "mind games" are working... God bless you, man, for being such a dedicated giver of inside information on these life lessons." - A. |
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"I just purchased your triple threat DVD program. I have many of your products and previous audio coaching, They ROCK..." - Jim O. |
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"Just wanted to say thanks for the extreme candidness and common sense you display in your material. You are one of the few who has really altered and shaped the course of my life. Thank You.
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"I've been a customer of yours for a couple of years and I have not writen one single line to thank you from the bottom of my heart. Here I am a couple of years later. I hope you can and have time to read it because I speak from my heart when I say thank you Carlos, you've done more to me and other men alike than words can speak... I have to say that I first started with your material, I ran into other material and along the way I kept track on what you where teaching and I have to say after all this pick'up things and material I learned from other sources what you teach is what really has counted in my life. I now finally understand what it really means to be an Alpha Man and be on your path. I want to thank you for your work because after owning all of your product (Yes all of them :) ) you trully taught me what I have always known deep inside me what it means to be a man. I just never was in touch with who I really was. I have to a point out that I am tired of lines, pick'up stuff etc... Don't get me wrong I learned alot from everything I did but not once did I really meet a woman that trully was aligned to who I am. They were more attracted to the pick'up tricks, material whatever you want to call them. I was playing a role that was not true to me and... well, I got what I asked for... in a sense I got NOTHING for I conveyed nothing true as of to WHOM I TRULY AM AS A MAN, AS AN ALPHA MAN. My true self. I can go on and on thanking you for what you have taught me and have a hours long conversation... I want to thank you for you three most latest products: Most of all Alpha Lifestyle, best program ever, Power Social Skills, damn good one and Alpha rules e-book. All of those three got me out of the pick'up jam that I was in... well conveying a fake me. A fellow man on his personal path... " - Adrian S. |
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"I've been receiving your e-mail newsletters for a while, and I've thought you were a cool guy from the start ;-), but just now, after listening to your new Blitz program, the one with the phone call from the guy who had approach anxiety, I have to say, I really admire your special understanding of how things work..." - Aaron Z. |
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"I have long had a deathly fear of initiating conversations, especially with women. I had listened to all the advice, some good, some bad, but could never get a handle on the problem. I received and listened to Carlos's program, Approach Women Now. What a revelation! I'm already getting much better results with it, and with little repetition, I'll soon be approaching fearlessly, like the masters of the art do. Thanks, Carlos. Your program has already made a big difference. " - Serginho, São Paulo, Brasil |
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"Thanks to your stuff I got a girl friend now..." - Matt S. |
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"Hi Carlos, I just wanted to say that I've finished your Power Social Skills, and I am seriously impressed. It's your masterpiece, absolutely. I've signed up to your programs for over two years, and they've all been good ... This time, however, I was blown away. This time I'm going to work and work and work these CDs, get them in my head, get them as second nature - or first nature, even better. And I have several people to thank. Myself, for wanting the change and seeking to do something about it. And you, for doing something about making a difference out there. Well done, dude..." - Daniel C. |
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"I am very excited about this purchase and I already covered some of the material, and I love it !" - Christian D. |
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"I loved the Blitz Session you did on approach anxiety - it really highlighted some major problems for me. Unlike other programs though, it gives ACTIONS to take on the problems, which is the important thing!
Thanks for all the help!" - Danny W. |
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"Carlos, This was f***in great!! Thank you for breakin down the basics and just making things simple... That's the best, most accurate, logical and immediately usable dating advice I've heard yet.
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"Hey Carlos, I first want to say that I have a lot of respect for the way you attempt to educate us laymen. Your teachings, I feel are more lifestyle beneficial rather than "just" dating advice..." - Eric W. |
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"I didn't have one date in 3 years; until I started reading this material. Now I've got a steady girlfriend and more confidence with women in general than I've ever had before. Not only that; but, they're looking at me like I am real hot stuff. And I'm 53, not rich or good looking ..." - John R. |
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"The Secrets of the Alpha man has completely changed my life. Since using it I've improved my career. I have tons more interests and hobbies than before. I'm in better shape, mentally and physically. The insight gained from the Alpha man program is truly invaluable. Coupled with the Audio coaching makes it a timeless resource. Oh snap!!!! Did I forget to mention that I have frequent dates now? Juggling my dating life and my personal interests has added even more interest...from the opposite sex of course...This coming from a guy who didn't even have the guts to walk up to a woman and introduce himself. Now it's become just one of those things I do daily. Carlos knows his shit!!! " - Ryan J. |
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"Thanx a bunch to you and crew for the swift efficiency in solving my issue, as far as I've seen your co. is tops in customer service,Thanx...
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"Your stuff is excellent, probably some of the best stuff I have come across in this community for actual personal change.
Just read your "Change" report. Really short, but has just given me a wake up call! I have so many things I want to do in life that it's difficult to know where to start! It's given me an amazing perspective of focusing on one thing at a time." - Craig H. |
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"You seem to make more sense than 'The Game' does..." - Frankie W. |
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"I really enjoyed The approach women now program, It was very fascinating and really makes a lot of sense, its a great starter tool on your success with women...
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"Hi Carlos, After the Dating Black Book, I bought the secrets of the Alpha Man and I've got to say, wow. I've got to say that the Dating Black Book completely changed my whole plan to the Dating Game and the Secrets of the Alpha Man is changing my whole attitude to the Dating Game.. Thanks a lot. I was a lost boat after a really crappy relationship, and spent eight months not knowing how to get on with life and a new relationship. Now, thanks to you, I've not only got and applied rules which work, but more importantly, I've started developing a winning mentality which is the foundation of success in life.. And like you said, this is the best way to attract women.. and it is... I'm loving the journey on my way to a complete Alpha guy... On another note, I wanted to add that I respect the guy you are : You're not just a guy out there to give a lecture and show your superiority to us, Alpha-to-be guys,and make money, but you're actually a guy who cares about other guys in the community of men. I'm saying this because you do regularly reply to my emails, and I really appreciate that you find and take time to reply and help us..." - A. |
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"I've studied much of your material, including the Dating Black Book, Secrets of the Alpha Man, and the Alpha Immersion DVDs... all f*cking awesome and life changing! " - R.R. |
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"Thanks mostly to your program I have progressed in a couple of years from being dateless and a virgin to dating beautiful women. It's been hard but so worth it! Bulding up self-esteem was critical part for me as well as dispelling some of that mystique that beautiful women have around them..." - J in Sydney |
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"You have changed my life ... Hope you keep doing what your doing and helping those dudes in need..." - Mark T. |
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"You are the man you changed my life I used to be so shy..." - Craig, in the UK |
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"I really appreciate your work and it is helping my life with women, ALL of your articles are very valuable and I read them whenever I need motivation...." - R. in the UK |
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""Secrets of the Alpha Man" awesome book dude, I give u credit for my success (even outside of women)... Your book has helped lots, I give you my thanks for helping me develop myself to the man I wanted to be... " - Jon K. |
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"Well done. You are impressing me more and more, and I have read many different gurus on the scene...
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"hey Carlos, I've got your dating e-book and it rocks...definately takes a good few reads to make sure us guys are doin all the right things every step of the way." - Andy W. |
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"I've really enjoyed your Power Social Skills program. It's helped me realize a lot of manipulation tactics that I didn't even realize were manipulative, both in myself and others. It's helped me start building more healthy relationships with the people I interact with daily. " - Marshall, Washington D.C. |
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"Carlos, I don't know if you actually read these emails but I have to tell you that you truly have changed my life. Buying your book was one of the best things I have ever done. I am still in the process of absorbing and putting into practice what you've taught me but I can tell you that I feel more confident and better about my dating situation then I can ever remember. Thank you and keep the advice coming!" - William A. |
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"Thank you Carlos. Your advice is certainly making a difference...I have had three hot dates in the last 3 weeks and it has been fun for me and the date. I have never experienced this pleasure before with girls who are, for all intents and purposes, strangers!" - Dipak |
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"Carlos, your teaching and philosophy are the future and the new generation for social success with everybody. You are like the new Godfather of social success, the new Mystery. You are way ahead of the GAME of our time. Even on the show "The Pick-Up Artist" -Mystery mentioned it's not about the women but about building a life; and you have always said that since the beginning. In the future, once all these pickup arts have been exposed, the alpha man will be the next step to the new generation of seduction. Like you said, Pickup is a dying art. You are a pioneer and founding father of all Alpha Men. You are like the guru of guru. We need to have MMM - Masculine Man Movement, and you should be the leader. You definitely need to start your own TV show to empower men. There are none out there. I am just sick of Oprah and Tyra Banks hampering our masculinity! I have recently bought your Power Social Skills. I LOVE IT! I feel like I received a PhD for socialites. As a former nerd, you helped me catched up my years in social understanding that I neglected when younger and back in school because I was the good kid, the great student with a purpose in life striving for a great university... All nerds, dorks, and geeks, and people who will eventually run this planet NEED THIS PROGRAM! This is a rare, one of a kind, gem treat, finally! No recycled materials regurgitated. I find the program to be a lot me engaging, more practical, and focused more on real life applications than just theories and fluffs. I love how you delineated with examples. This is your best released program. It is new. It is refreshing. It is a topic that have not been dealt or explained. It is finally good to see something different and innovative, than the same old stuffs that have been around in the community. Overall, you were the only one that took the initiative to create a program like this; nobody else had the solid balls. I give you infinite credits for that. Keep up the awesome work you are doing Carlos! " - Jason H. |
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"Carlos, Well man I have had so much success with your stuff. I am 42 divorced, 2 kids. I have been divorced for a year and a half. I have bedded 8 girls, totally great. Now I have a 26 yr old Olympic swimmer who is sooo smoking that is my girlfriend... 16 yrs younger than me. It is awesome. Thanks. I owe it to you. My life has changed so much. I know cocky funny and all of your stuff. I am so much more confident. Everybody has noticed. You are the best.
Your stuff really helped me alot. I appreciate it. You have done good work. " - Chris N., San Francisco, CA |
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"Carlos,
I have been using the techniques from both your "Secrets of the Alpha Man" and "Approach Women Now" products. In my opinion both of these products are priceless because of the success I have been having in my life. The success I am now getting is not only with the ladies but also in every other facet of my life, and I cannot thank you enough for all that you've done to help me. They have helped me meet and attract many great women over the past year, but now I have been seeing a girl for the past two months and things are getting pretty serious. It did not start out being that way because I was seeing a couple other women (thanks to your products)... now our relationship has progressed over time and we are only seeing each other... I sincerely appreciate all that you've done and I am looking forward to your reply. Keep up the great work and helping MEN everywhere. " - Taulby E., Virginia |
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"On another level, I wanted to say Thanks... After the Dating Black Book, you really interested me, because I thought, "Hey, that's a guy who's out there and who knows how it works".. When you advised me to take the Secrets of the Alpha Man programme before the Approach women now, I remember thinking, " What the heck!! I just want to seduce women"...
Now, however, I see BIG. You are damn right. The secrets of the alpha man is a MUST program for us all, because it's the bigger picture of life. It teaches us how to really feel alive, how to be MEN again, and it does real wonders for getting self-confidence. Self-Confidence is inside to outside, and your programme is going that great for me. And the best part is that I've only read one-third of your books and listened to 2 of your cds yet, and already, with your Alpha exercises, tactics and Audio, my level of Alphaness is already way up. And the best part of it is that by making me feel alive, you're making women come more naturally and often to me... I'm still learning alphaness, but my life is up, and instead of being a dork watching TV with a beer as I was before, I'm starting developping an Alpha lifestyle and getting things done, and by just being ME, women are coming and more importantly, I'm feeling ALIVE again just to be me (with or without women) and that's the best part of this programme.... Love it and will certainly come back for more when I'll finish and mastered the Secrets of the Alpha Man... So thanks a lot for making me be me again........ " - A. |
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"Wow... you unlocked a lot of the mysteries of my behavior with this program..." - Chris H., Louisiana |
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"I wanted to add that I respect the guy you are:
You're not just a guy out there to give a lecture and show your superiority to us, Alpha-to-be guys,and make money, but you're actually a guy who cares about other guys in the community of men. I'm saying this because you do regularly reply to my emails, and I really appreciate that you find and take time to reply and help us... See you later... Great advice and great mindset for the new attitude I've adopted..." - A.J. |
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"Your new program is phenomenal... I can't believe you came out with a program like this... I love it. Its different and unique then every fu*** thing out there. " - R. |
""Let me tell you Carlos that you are a life saver. I just got out of a really bad marriage... I mean bad... no self confidence whatsoever. To the point that I was willing to take the abuse just to stay in it. Luckily she got a boyfriend and kicked me out. That's when I came across your products.
I decided to buy the approaching women CD's and let me say they are AWESOME. Those CDs alone have shot my confidence levels way up and made me really start to retrain my brain and regain my confidence. I've already listened to them 5 times and in the next month I'm buying the alpha male program. Needless to say my charming abilities are coming back full force. Thank you so much and keep up the good work.""- Darrin K., Sacramento, CA |
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"Hi Carlos, After the Dating Black Book, I bought the secrets of the Alpha Man and I've got to say, wow. I've got to say that the Dating Black Book completely changed my whole plan to the Dating Game and the Secrets of the Alpha Man is changing my whole attitude to the Dating Game.. Thanks a lot. I was a lost boat after a crappy relationship, and now, thanks to you, I've not only got and applied rules which work, but more importantly, I've started developing a winning mentality which is the foundation of success in life.. I've got to say it's really fun to be in the Dating Scene and do mistakes and come back to your programmes, and say, "That's it.. That's where I failed - Now, how am I going to change this?" Thanks..." - Ash J., France |
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"Outstanding program. Keep up the good work!" - Ken H. |
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"...Thanks for your expertise! You gots skills!!!!!! Where did you learn all this stuff? Since listening to your audio about not backing down from women like a wuss but taking charge with a "whatever" mentality and attitude that they are coming into MY world and they can come along for the ride if they want to... WORKS!!!!!! They seem to like that alot! I thought they would be mad and hate me, but they LOVE it! Who knew? ... Well, I guess you did!!" - Mark T. |
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"I have to tell you that you truly have changed my life. Buying your book was one of the best things I have ever done. I am still in the process of absorbing and putting into practice what you've taught me but I can tell you that I feel more confident and better about my dating situation then I can ever remember. Thank you and keep the advice coming!
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"Hey Carlos, A few years ago I was obsessed with the whole PUA thing. I studied the seminars, did the live 3 day bootcamps with the gurus, read the ebooks etc, even wrote my own stuff on the net. I got to the point where I was able to go out to any club and KNOW I could pick up a girl and get laid. I could break into sets, tool AMOG's, create attraction, get numbers, do phone game, close the deal. I was able to pick up 18-19 year olds with ease and I was 33 at the time. I guess you could say I managed to do the stuff and get the desired results. However the strange thing was it made me depressed over time. I think it was the overall basic outlook on life that accompanies that PUA universe plus the meaninglessness of it all. I could do it, but so what? I later realized that it just didn't gell with who I am, my values and outlook, or my real goals. So I dropped it all completely. When I saw that your course came with a months subscription to the alpha male lifestyle stuff my reaction was "Oh NO! Not that sh*t, where do I cancel my subscription?" But having listened to the downloads I'm totally impressed. Your material is POSITIVE and HEALTHY; totally inspirational and uplifting. Well done mate for giving this material a whole new spin. " - Simon H. |
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" I've been listening to your stuff for over a year now on and off. Just a few months ago, I bought the Dating Black Book and the monthly Advanced Coaching. I've noticed more results with women... I look forward to buying another one of your programs. ...You offer a great service to all us guys out there. Thanks so much. Your material stands apart from competitors. " - Ryan B., Texas |
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"Hi Carlos, the Secrets of the Alpha Man program is the best I've come across so far. I'm getting good results..." - Randy |
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"I recently picked up your Alpha Man program and wow have I learned a lot. I didn't realize all the little things I'm doing that make me a wuss and ultimately hurt my chances. I also loved your Dating Black Book which really got me started in your program and I've made sure to recommend it to all my friends and as a result one of them even used it to get his current girlfriend... Thanks for all your support Carlos it means a lot and has truly helped a lot of guys out there including myself... " - Robert M. |
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"I never thought I would be one of the many guys who would end up writing a letter to you, but after the past few months I really felt that I should. First off, I wanted to thank you for all you have done to change my life the past few years with the Dating Black Book and Secrets of the Alpha Man programs.
Your education has certainly improved my overall outlook on life and my lifestyle, not only with women, but in my business and personal life as well. Thank you... I would love to have the opportunity to fly down to one of your seminars or workshops and listen to some of your material in person. If you could let me know when and where you do many of your seminars and workshops, I would jump at the chance to leave the “Great White North” for a few days to learn from you first hand. Thanks again Carlos, you truly are an ambassador for creating the ultimate Alpha lifestyle and information that will be carried until my dying days!!! " - Adam M., Canada |
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"You are the MAN!
...You're so motivational. I never bothered with any of the "dating gurus" you talk about, but I'm thrilled and inspired by your accomplishments. You really walk the walk and talk the talk, which I'm sure none of these other gurus are doing. You're giving plain, simple advice about following your passion to turn your life around. I'd love to give you a big hug.
Thanks for taking your time with my fan mail..." - T. Pratt |
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"Yeah, I love you guys thats why. You have the best business that I know online. You guys reply back QUICK!" - Jay |
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"I am becomming a fan! A couple months ago I ordered the Triple Threat DVD series... I finally got it, and am lapping it up. Also, while I was waiting for y DVDs, I got impatient, and ordered the Dating Black Book, which I also find solid." - Roy R. (Portugal) |
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"Going through DVD number two and taking notes like crazy. Alot of new stuff which blows my mind and some older stuff which are familiar but expanded in a ways that expands my on reality in life. So thanks for your help again.
This program combined with some of other Carlos's programs are really... well I do not know how to put in words but this is really just... GREAT to simply put it. So thanks to Carlos and to you and to anyone else who is working on helping men and women. So thank you again. Damn good program. Worth every penny. Keep up the great work. Great thanks from a man who is creating a way to become a man, an Alpha Man... " - Adrian S. |
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"I find your newest program "Power Social Skills" unbelievable. I love how you talk about social skills on a general level rather than just pickup skills. Its really great..." - Ron N. |
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"Before I even started with the Alpha man programme. I had never in my life even asked a girl out. But since starting with the e-books and audio sessions, my world has been opened up to a whole world of possibilities with women.
Carlos hits it right on the money. I'm creating interest with women even before I start talking to them, just by using the guides on body language and behaviour I'm able to create an impression on which to build. This is the best New Years resolution ever!!!" - R. J. |
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"Hi Carlos. Firstly I have to admit, I was totally a skeptic when I first read about your Alpha Man programme. But initially even the little tips I recieved in my mailbox helped my game tremendously.
Now I'm using the Alpha man strategies and guides and yes... IT WORKS!!! I will definitely go for the other programmes. EXCELLENT!!! " - Ryan J., |
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"...Keep up the excellent coaching !! You have meant so much for so many men who, like me, were on the point of despair as regards our relations with women.
Sincerely,
Hernan" - Hernan B., Cancun |
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" I am so glad that I ran into your material a couple of months ago because without it my life would totally be different without it. Not just in the women department, but almost every aspect. Because of the confidence that I have gained from listening to your stuff I've become a different man. I'm still in college but I'm working in a job that requires a college degree which is so awesome!
Hey just want to say that you're stuff is so amazing it's ridiculous! My skill with women has gone up by so much, and so has my skill in other conversation as well. " - Aaron S., Washington |
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"I just wanted to say thanks Angel Eyes for encouraging me to buy Carlos Xuma's Dating Black Book because that book jumped me out of my seat. Literally. The next day, I went to the mall and started to use his material not really expecting anything, but the women were responding like ways I have never seen them respond. My path to finding my own Alpha Man within myself is not without thanks for your support and your great insights.
I love your posts my man! Sam Moon, Nashville" - Same Moon, Nashville, TN |
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"I would like to say I love what you teach... Everyone out there says you are one of the top experts and just from listening to what you teach and your newsletters I have to agree." - Austin |
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"For my part I want to say that what Carlos does is a great thing and in my personal life it has helped me more than I can describe with words.
When I first read some material on the web what Carlos whas teaching I was a total wussy then. A total nice guy. I thought to myself: "This can not possible work. I must be nice to girls. Buy them stuff, compliment them, kiss ass etc..." At first I fought against what Carlos teached but luckily I had something inside of me that just told me that his stuff make sense. I though I got nothing to lose since I had really nothing :). A year later and alot of work on myself I have had a total paradigm change in my life, on how I think things, act on things... on how I live my every day life. No longer I react on my impulses or act like a total wuss. I started not being able to approach and talk to girls to simply approaching girls when I want, where I want and how I want. I banter, tease and flirt with all women I get a chance to and they love it. Although sometimes I take it over the top being a bit to cocky but hey luckly I am aware of these behaviours. I look at things objectively, learn and move on. I no longer act like a victim and make myself into a martyr. I do my best to take resposibility for my actions and do what is courageous and constructive. I could write a book about all the things that has changed in my life due to what I have learned from Carlos but simply all I can say is thank you. ... thank's from me to Carlos here where some words to describe my gratitude towards his work. " - Adrian S. |
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"Keep up the good work!! You have changed my life no doubt." - Chris N., San Francisco, CA |
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"Well, for me I was in a crappy relationship for long, living without pride and self confidence.. Now that it's finally over, andl I bought the Dating Black Book as a start and wow... I'm seeing all the mistakes I did and now, up to me to improve myself..
I'll buy the Secrets of the Alpha Man or Aproach Woman now soon ... I'm ready to start feeling alive again... Life is about to start again and reading your book and becoming a member of this forum where I've been reading all your tips and topics is getting me even miles ahead... No more beta, only Alpha... So I'm ready to become like you and get a hold of my life to get what I deserve....And I will... I need to completely get my self confidence back and start.. So thanks to you and to the Alpha men on this forum in advance... Thanks a lot Carlos... " - Jan - France |
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"Hi Guru...
I bought your dating black book a month ago and I've got to saw wow... You stuff is great... I've started improving myself with the 3Ss and I've got to say that the rules you give do work.. For now, I'm still doing meetings by online dating because I still have the dread of the first meeting... I've started the initial steps as you say; Step 1 go out and look in the eyes and Step 2 : Smile... " - Ash, France |
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"Carlos...thank you very, very, VERY much for making the 2008 shyness smasher article [for] the Approach Women NOW program.
All this time I have been buying all these other programs and did not even know how to get a phone number! I am deeply impressed. When I become rich I'm buying you a house! " - Justin G., Mississauga, Ontario, Canada |
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"The Dating Black Book has helped me realize that women are actually simple to understand.
The information within this book lays the foundation for evolving men into becoming honorable beings;
Having no shame or guilt to want women to become a great part and addition of our lives and not the reason for our existence.
This book has helped me be able to cultivate the behaviors that women respond to from men and own them as well." - |
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"thanks for the great customer service.." - Tim A. |
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"From the first words i read of yours I already learned a big lesson...
It was like someone pushed my head in a bucket of ice and screamed extremely loud (when my head was out): WAKE UP!!! And I did... I realized that you don't gain a women's interest just by saying a fancy opening line, you do it by your character - Alpha character. And this attitude is not only working for your love life, but your WHOLE life.
By reading your book I started thinking why the hell I was scared to approach a women (on a decent way) like I was before. Just by reading your book my self-confidence and self-esteem went extremely up!! And becoz of this, I dared to approach a women at alpha-style...
...and dude, you rock!!! You are really a guru, I won't say its like a new father-figure (I had good one)... but it's comparable to that...
Robin" - Robin L. |
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"Hi Guru,
I've got to say that your book looks awesome. I've read it once now and am planning on reading it again, because I'm tired of being the nice guy..." - Ash J. |
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"Hi Carlos,
First of all i want to say that your material is great! I don't want to butter you up but it's really top-notch. I learned massively from your books and videos..." - Robin L. |
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"Hello Carlos,
I am new to your club and have read your Dating Black Book completely and several times. This book really opened my eyes about women and I would really like to thank you with all my heart for that, as I just couldn't get women before. " - Ranjiv - Reading, UK |
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"Hey, I am 28, ever since I hit puberty I've been trying to perfect the pick up. Honestly, I have spent thousands of my cash on books and such with no results. Even flew out to NYC with a dating coach that was a complete waste of money. I like your style, to work on yourself, to like yourself and it all makes sense. A lot of the things that you say in your book have been in the back of my head for years. To me self improvement is critical, my rule when you get dissed is to work on yourself..." - G. Zahran |
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"I must say it's pretty cool that thru internet you reach guys around the globe and not just in your area. I've got your Triple-threat program, finished DVD 3. I think this might be the best self-help program ever... I've got recently the triple-threat program, but I got your newsletter since a few months now. I think this program is effective, easy to understand, and most importantly deep, since ALPHA men need to be savvy. I've had during the first 3 DVDs so many 'A-HA' moments. I think if this program would distributed more and it will crush any other system or method. Nothing against all the pick up methods, but this is like Bruce Lee against any other normal fighter. I've read most of the other methods they lack the inner game, and they dont want me to success other areas of my life. I feel they delude me in thinking I need to be pua in order to sleep with a woman. You tell me, hey you can have both, and even MORE. You need to get deeper... (oh, no! a little effort!). Through your newsletter I got acquainted with the three S's, but the triple-threat program helped me more by applying a confident attitude to ALL areas of my life, not women only. I see the alpha attitude as the successful men's point of view to improve your life every single day. It's my option to be sincere and stop deluding myself, when the results are not what I want. As you said it's about the RESULTS are what matter. The most helpful diagram was 'Flipping the Switch' so far, by juxtaposing two different angles, the beta and alpha man's. Every time I'm about to fall into a beta attitude I think about the alpha man's attitude and changed to it because that's the one which brings me to where I want to be. Good at every area: uni, martial art, work, friends and family, and girls! As you say 'Find the right Attitude and you'll always have a technique'. I think if you have the right attitude the three S's are 'included'. The Genuine Connector Technique is I think the ultimate technique against anxiety towards bitchy or hostile looking women. After visualizing the filament of light connecting with you and her, they suddenly change their behaviour and start being nice to me! The alpha mantra 'DO IT NOW' probably used battles any thoughts of hesitation or anxiety something to do. I haven't finished the triple-threat program yet, but I havent expected to be it that powerful, smart, and easy to understand. I have strived before to be alpha, but those DVDs push you as they explain it easy to understand, but most of it they break my negative belief bit by bit, by saying see it from this angle, see it in a way so that you can improve from it, not pull yourself down. I think the most important thing is the inner game. You're like Morpheus in the Matrix showing us the path, giving us knowledge, but in the end its our decision to do with it what we want." - G. Kocak |
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"Doctor Carlos, I've got to thank you. You have awakened me from something no man should face. Growing old. I am 55 years old, quite healthy and good looking, so I am told. Any way for the last year while being surrounded by woman I had slipped into a state of 'I don't care about sex anymore because its to much trouble and I'm to old anyway' syndrome. I always found myself with a lump in my throat even when approaching woman my own age and especially the younger woman. I thought I was finished. But now after reading your stuff I'm having success and lots of fun approaching woman of both age groups. That's Fun with a capital F. Being armed with just your basics has opened up a whole new chapter in my life. The lump is gone and the game is on!" - Dallas |
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"Hi, you wont believe this. I am 55, she is 20 and can you believe it, she does not mind dating me in the least... Thanks to your tips... love you." - A. Khan |
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"I have been receiving newsletters from you for a couple of months now and I'm comparing it to other newsletters that I'm also receiving from other 'gurus', and you sir, stand out!... I'm going to try your program and I'm hoping to really learn from you sir as I think you have a more comprehensive program than the rest of the dating gurus out there." - E. Gruta |
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"Hey, Carlos Xuma I would just like to open by letting you know how much of a revelation and invaluable tool your programs have been for me. Growing up in divorced home with three sisters and my mother led me down a road almost completely devoid of what a man should be. I found myself forming my own understanding and perspective through trial and error and still that wasn't enough to truly understand my role as a man. I had read and listened to a couple of other dating programs from other gurus in the field before I came across yours and can truly say yours has been the most impactful and beneficial personally. My sincerest of thanks! I have really enjoyed your Alpha Conversation program A LOT since this was one of my weakest areas with women." - O. Contreras, San Antonio, TX |
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"I would like to say that they are sensational. Within some months my life has changed radically. I've now got some friends, I no more attract creepy girls, and my relationship with my parents is getting better everyday. They told me that they had a difficult past, I forgave them. Tears roll down my cheeks as I write this man, you've just saved a life, better, you've completely transformed someone. Now i want to help other people in need, in fact that was always my dream as a boy... Eternal thanks man, wish you success and love." - Ruskofun |
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"Your products have been the best investment I've ever made! I'm MASSIVELY more confident with women now. I have virtually no problem just striking up a conversation with any girl that catches my eye! Its amazing, where I'm now, life is great! I've had your news letters for a long time now, and they've made me realise how I can change my life for the better, all it takes is a little bit of effort!" - A. Cunningham |
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"Carlos,
Thanks for a great book, full of motivation and ways and means. I've had it about 3 months now, and have been working with it. It has totally opened up a whole new way of thinking about being a man in a social circumstance.
It is enabling me to recognize certain aspects of my current ways of thinking that have been impediments in the past to happiness and satisfaction with relationships. I tended to be the kind of guy that would latch onto a woman that I liked and focus on her alone, until, usually, she left me. Now I am finding that the best way is to keep a wide focus on many opportunities until the RIGHT one for an exclusive relationship comes along. Almost like looking at a star in a telescope. You can see more light and more details of the stars when you DON'T focus on them. My life is changing for the better now, 3 years after ending a 20 year marriage and your books and podcasts have helped. Thank you Peter R. G. Small" - Peter Small, Santa Fe NM |
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"Carlos, I have read and listened to your cd's and found the information extremely helpful... something every guy should know before approaching women. Your material has helped me improve in every area of my life with women and with people in general. I would have to say that you're amazing when it comes to talking to women. The material shows examples of what to say and I find that very helpful in developing my understanding for what women really want to hear. Thanks again, Carlos." - Tony F. |
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"Thanx Carlos... The information you've given me thus far is invaluable... I've even tried one or two things and it's worked... This has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for me... ;-) Awesome! Thank you!" - R. Joel |
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"Alpha Communication & Persuasion... great program... dense as hell and not a second wasted, totally exceeded my expectations..." - S. Minassian |
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"Keep up the good work Carlos!! You're the only person in this community giving 'real' advice not based on gimmickry, and your monthly coaching is extremely listenable..." - N. Durant, London, England |
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"I wish I had had you to write to a couple of years ago so that you could have bitch slapped the shit out of me... the silver lining of that relationship for me was that I was so disturbed and disenchanted after it that it lead me to this world of the 'men who undertand the game of life and women' (dont want to use PUA, it can have a negative connotation) because I realized that i was doing something terribly wrong for all of my life with women. I had literally come to my wits end looking back over my relationships and am glad I found, for example, YOUR products. I have a long way to go but it feels good that I am actually on my way to understanding things for once. one thing that really hit me hard reading your books is the fact that men have pretty much been demasculated in the last 40 years or so and unfortunately I have been one of them. I have been way to submissive and it has affected EVERY RELATIONSHIP I have been in! for a while I admit that I went the pity pot routine and blamed women for all my woes, that they were too hard to understand, confusing pain in the asses, etc. then I realized it had to be something I must be doing wrong and thank god I can now begin to rebuild my dignity and understanding after finding products like yours. also, it feels good, even though I dont know a lot of you guys personally, to be connected to a world of men who can talk about LIFE and something interesting (like women) with authority, not just sports and investing, (which is why I dont have many male friends) thank you for being there and doing what you do..." - P. Castellano |
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"I would just like to say, since I purchased the Secrets of the Alpha Man, my outlook of myself has changed signicantly.
I was never really happy with myself, and not really knowing what I wanted to do with my life. I guess you could say I was in a state of depression.
After reading this e-book, and building my confidence up, things are looking more positive. After working in restaurants for almost 15 years, I had an awakening. I said I did not want to do this any more, and picked up the phone and called a college, and earning my certificate to become a dog obedience instructor/behaviorist.
Had I not followed Carlos' teachings, I would not be where I am today.
Thanks a lot, Carlos!!!" - Paul Gernhauser - Orlando, FL |
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"This program does nothing but keep you motivated and encouraged it makes you feel like you are on a journey. Many products seem to feed you tactics because thats what they feel the consumers want.
Tactics are fine but they are a small part of becoming successful in dating. Carlos realizes this so he will give you these tactics but more than that he gives you a set of attitudes, beliefs and a sense of direction. He makes it clear that this is a learning process and that he is going to be there every step of the way to help us out (and he does give you the steps). What he has done with this program is encourage us to improve our lifestyle and not just focus on women but on every area of our life. . Thanks Carlos, Live everyday as if it was on purpose. Eddy, NY" - Eddy R., New York |
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"My sincere opinion about your way of thinking is that you are the most close to the truth between all the other dating well known personalities.
As my experience till now, not with woman, but with people around me, friends or working colleagues, they are afraid of showing what they really are. They are bounded by the people around them, influenced and not able to show who they really are. Because finally a man is a person who is able to express his feelings and his thoughts and follows his purpose in life being ready to dye for it. It needs a lot of courage for this and personally I haven't met so many people of this kind. You are definitely right about what it means to be a man. " - Pintilie S., Aalborg, Denmark |