You're Just 60 Seconds Away From
Discovering How to Attract Women -
With Confidence and Alpha Male Power...

These are the secrets of how to meet women
and what women want that you won't learn from a "pickup artist..."


Wednesday: 12:43 AM

I want you to ask yourself this:

  • Do you ever feel like women have the "upper hand" when it comes to dating?

  • Do you feel confused trying to figure out if a woman is into you or not?

  • Do you ever feel like women are completely alien to you, and you have no idea where or how to relate to them?

  • Do you ever feel nervous and paralyzed with fear when you see a woman you want to talk to, but by the time you work up your courage, she's gone...?

  • Do you feel like you can't "escalate" things with a woman because you're afraid of making a mistake and blowing the whole thing?

  • Do you ever feel pissed at yourself for not knowing how it works with women? And then you get more and more frustrated and angry when you get more of the results you expect?

  • Do you find yourself having trouble talking to women and making the conversation go somewhere?

  • Do you ever feel like you want to be totally prepared to meet women, so that you don't run into unexpected challenges and surprises?

  • Do you ever feel like giving up on women and their crazy games, just because it's so tiring and futile?

  • Do you ever feel insecure that you're not as tall, good-looking, or rich as other guys out there?

  • Do you ever feel embarrassed or ashamed of your sexual desires of women? And you fear what a woman would say if she knew about what you wanted from her?

  • Do you ever feel like you get way up "in your head" when you're around a woman you find attractive and desirable? And then your mouth turns to mush?

  • Do you ever feel like there's some special training on understanding women that you missed out on as a kid that you should have had? And now you're playing 'catch-up,' but you feel completely lost?

  • Do you ever find yourself panicking when a woman becomes "emotional," and you don't know what to do or how to handle it?

  • Do you ever feel like there's a special "higher level" woman that you don't have access to? The more beautiful and elite women?

  • Would you like to meet one special woman to sleep with, create a relationship with, or just connect on an intense level, but you're afraid she either doesn't exist, or she just wouldn't be interested in you?

Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.

When you feel like you're not as good as other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man.

A few years back, I had what you might call a crisis.

I'm not going to bore you with all the details, but let's just say that my dating life was really empty. I went for about a year without a girlfriend of any kind. I was meeting the occasional girl, but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground. (I think they call this "failure to launch.")

I went out all the time and hung out with my other guy friends who had really attractive girlfriends, but I was the pitiful "lonely guy" of the group that would hardly ever get a phone number or date.

And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy."

But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart."

I Had To Figure It Out:
"How In The World Were
These Other Guys Doing It?"

I asked myself that over and over again.

I started to get really frustrated, and then I even got angry with women over it. I felt myself blaming them for my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem. It was very tempting to give up and just write women off completely.

But then I had a realization...

If there were things other guys were doing that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was, and then learn it and use it myself. I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different?

Well, I learned a few things...

Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught.

First, it's not the same as just learning the "notes" on sheet music. I'd ask guys what they were doing to get women interested, and most of them couldn't explain it. "Just be confident," one guy said. "Act like you don't care," another one told me.

Wow. That's a big help.

The truth is that once you do figure out the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right.

You need someone who's been through all the same things you have.

Lesson 2: Attraction Can't Be FORCED.

Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. I never talked a woman into liking me.

On the other hand, when I learned the right steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway.

Attraction isn't LOGICAL. It's emotional.

But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws.

Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden code..."

And then you'll get more and more success.

And the other cool thing is that when you know how this "emotional code" works, you'll be able to repeat your successes. Over and over and over, as much as you want.

Here are a couple tips I learned along the way that will help you...

FAST SUCCESS TIP #1: "Tease to Please"

I call this technique "Tease to Please", and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense mechanisms against meeting 'strange' men. You see, every woman comes with her factory-installed defensive shields against meeting new men or letting them into her life.

When a guy approaches her, for any reason, the woman assumes you're picking up on her. It's what she's gotten used to. All women are by now, and they all have a standard routine they use of being a little stand-offish to you until you can bust past this barrier.

Instead of complimenting a woman when you first meet her, take the opportunity to gently tease her.

Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... you don't have cooties, do you? I don't want to catch anything from you."

By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip her Trust switch in her head. You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend.


Translation: “Friend” = non-lover, a man she won’t sleep with.
Don't go there.

If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is he safe? Is he normal?" For all she knows, you're just another dweeb looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.

Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words and actions) that you might be more challenging. You're different - i.e., interesting to her. Maybe you’re not just another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.

Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction. Don't make it cruel, but make it clear that you're not intimidated by her beauty. Make it playful and fun. If you're reading her body language well enough, you'll be able to take this as far as you want.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Most guys will be afraid of making a woman mad, and will fear using this tactic, even though it makes complete sense to women and it will work like crazy on them.

If you play it her way, you're going to have to spend weeks and weeks, dates and more dates, money and more money, on a woman just to get her to open up and believe you're a good guy.


The best way is to learn how to shortcut past this and get women attracted right away. No more wasting time or energy on women that aren't what you want.

Do you ever feel like attraction between you and a woman is like some kind of magic 'trick'...?

And that it's something cool that you can see other guys do, but you'll never really "get it"?

Some guys out there will tell you that you need to get your "inner game" of confidence and self-esteem all taken care of before you can meet women and get more dates.

This is popular advice from people who don't understand how to train guys properly.

The most important thing for you to do is to get what I call "Fast Success." I'm not talking about the kind that you were warned about by your Jedi grandfather, who told you to "beware of the easy path."

Fast Success is getting you results as quickly as possible so you don't quit too soon!

So your first step is to learn the basic skills so you can get those quick victories and teach your "unconscious mind" that you can do this.

Let me give you an example of something quick and easy that you can use the next time you're out talking to a woman...

FAST SUCCESS TIP #2: "Conversation Jump-Start"

Have you ever been talking to a woman for a few minutes, and as the energy of the conversation starts to dip a little (right about where you are running out of things to say) she just looks back to her friends and turns her back to you?

I call this the "back turn," and it's one of those experiences guys hate more than anything. You get that sick feeling of not just being ignored, but de-valued as well. It feels like a punch in the stomach.

Even though she didn't actually do it or say it out loud, you feel like she just laughed and called you a loser.

Let me give you the best strategy you can use when you sense that this situation is coming up and you might lose her...

Just look at the girl and ask her to tell you how everyone in her group knows each other. You can say this:

"Hey, before you run out of cool things to talk about, tell me... How do you all know each other?"

If you listen closely, what she says will give you at least ten new subjects that you can then talk with her and her friends about - their jobs, their history, all the juicy stuff you can use for a good conversation.


Problem solved.

Plus, by getting her friends back in on the conversation, you avoid that "creepy guy hitting on their friend" situation. You may know this one, too, where you're talking with a woman, and suddenly one of her friends drags her away to go talk with some other "friend."

What really happened there was that the girl you were talking to used her "chick code" (those looks women share that seem telepathic) to say, "I need to find a new conversation..."

These are just some of the techniques and strategies you will learn in my dating manual, The Dating Black Book.

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You will learn...

  • How to Avoid the top dating mistakes men men make when they meet women...

  • How to use your "Power Points" - How to seduce a woman with your innate qualities and strengths

  • Learn the Secret Attitudes behind the Myths of the Nice Guy, the Jerk, the Natural... Find out which one you are, and how to get to be the type of guy that women want...

  • Why you must avoid the "Poison Women" - Who they are and why you never want to get caught in their traps...

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  • Understand what true "compatibility" is, and how to really attract women that are like you - not the women that annoy you or make you wish you were home watching "The Godfather" for the 40th time...

  • The Principle of Truth, and how it will increase your success with women instantly when you recognize where you've been hiding in denial...

  • The Dating Continuum explained - the architecture of relationships, from start to finish...

    • Where to meet women - the kind YOU are interested in...

    • How to pickup women the right way - without the memorized routines and games...

    • Do you ever run out of things to say in conversations? I'll show you the right things to say to women (with examples of what I say at every point during your dating) - No more stupid pickup lines that don't work...

    • How to maintain your posture - and command respect from every woman (and man) that you meet...

    • Leverage the Attitude Adjusters - How to keep your confidence with women on track, and avoid the inner game traps that destroy a man's confidence and self-esteeem...

    • How to handle conflict and win arguments with women so that you appear strong and cool...

    • What's really happening beneath the surface when a woman tests you or plays her games...

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  • The Psychology of Dating:

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    • Female tests and traps, and specifically how to handle them...

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  • Kinesthetics - exactly where, when, and how you should touch a woman to get her aching with desire, and understand at a primitive level that you are a dominant and masculine presence...

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  • Three essential things you must NEVER do when you walk up and talk to a woman...

  • My simple 2-step training method to get you from being afraid to approach women, to talking with any attractive woman that you see...

  • 6 Methods to have a woman feeling a powerful magnetic attraction for you on your first date that will establish you as unique in her mind...

  • How to handle all the basics of outer game with your appearance, grooming, your car, your home - everything a woman will see - and how she will interpret it...

  • 6 Ways you can confuse a woman into feeling inescapable attraction for you, and how this one psychological principle is the most powerful ingredient of attraction in your arsenal...

  • Ever wonder what the really "Alpha" guys out there have? Starting on page 83, I analyze and break down the key elements of what women look for in "masculine" men...

  • The 5 Reasons you must do exactly the opposite of what most men do when they find a woman they really want - and how this can kill your game with women completely if you don't know the rules...

  • The most important emotion a woman can experience with you, and the 3 parts of it...

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  • The 3 Myths that you must understand about what women think of "Jerks," "Nice Guys," and "Destiny..."

  • 15 Attraction Killing behaviors - chances are you're doing one or more of these without even knowing it...

  • The 3 Primary Desire Factors - what they are, how they work, and the one that can destroy a relationship quicker than anything else...

  • The Big Trap and the Big Myth of Game Playing - Two more deadly pitfalls to avoid when dating women - and how guys "learn" their anger toward women accidentally...

  • Why women put up defensive shields to you, and how you can easily talk past them and create REAL connections...

  • 13 simple words that will get you a phone number every time...

  • On page 131, I explain how to get rid of your fear of rejection, and the one word that impacts your self-image more than anything else...

  • 7 Ways to create anticipation and desire in a woman - and these are simply things you should NOT do, and take no effort or energy on your part...

  • Why do women tell you, "Let's just be friends"? The two big mistakes men make that lead to this - and how to avoid it for good...

  • The ABB rule of how to keep a woman's interest level in you as high as possible for as long as possible...

  • Beware the "Date Questionnaire" mode, where a woman steers you with questions - and before you know it, you've lost control. I'll point out the questions you should never ask, or answer...

  • Male Panic Syndrome - How to recognize the deadly downward spiral that turns nice guys into total wimps for women - with a word for word example...

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  • The signals to know when to call it quits with a woman, and how to handle it...

  • The 2 Ultimate Tools of control in relationships - and how to use them to create better and more authentic connections with women...

  • The two primary types of women to watch for, and which kind you must avoid at all costs...

  • My super calming tactic I discovered that defuses emotional situations with women and keeps you from losing your cool...

  • How YOU can turn the tables and test women - instead of the other way around...

  • How to handle the questions you can't handle from women - What to say, and the basic principle of how to manage your natural (and dangerous) reflexes with women...

  • How to handle it when you feel under emotional "attack" from a woman so that you don't give up your power, and you make her feel even MORE attraction...

  • My most important rule for all men: The Contention Principle - what it is, and why you must use it to avoid getting stuck in dead-end relationships with women that drain you dry...

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And That's Just the Beginning...


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" search for Truth is over..."

"You're right on target and I can honestly say that after reading your book, I believe my search for Truth is over. Other books have part truths and some offer good techniques, but yours covers the most thoroughly..."

- D.M, Washington, USA


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"I just got your Dating Black Book and Seduction Method. I must say that they are the very best works that I have ever read on the subject.

"Your writing style is personal, as though you are speaking directly to me [and] I enjoy the audio coaching too. Bravo"

- P.


"...Approaching woman just ain't a big deal anymore..."

"Your Dating Black Book just cleared what before was a cloudy and mysterious subject for me... I think that was an awesome investment not just for my dating life but for my life in general... now I'm just not afraid of taking action about anything, I don't even hesitate...

"Approaching woman just ain't a big deal anymore, by using the techniques I got a number of a 10, older than me ... it's going to happen I can feel it... "

- R.



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"This is practical information, just what I have been searching for. My search is over. I have found the best of the best. THANK YOU!

"Men everywhere really should get this, but a part of me doesn't want them to because I want these secrets for myself!"

- D. S.



"Carlos, I'm almost done reading your Dating Black Book and it's so good that I dont need to finish it to tell you what I think of it.

"But first I would like to ask you HOW DID YOU FIND OUT ALL THIS STUFF? ... You're a good person for sharing this information with the rest of us...

"So about the Black Book, I have to say that it's very easy to understand plus you give good examples ... and the best thing is that you not only tell us what to do but you actually tell us how to do it. So again, THANKS you're the best."

- H.G



Listen to what the other gurus are saying about Carlos' work...

  Press play to hear Simon...
"Hey Carlos, due to our line of work, we're constantly working hand in hand with A LOT of other Dating 'Gurus' and top-notch Authors... We're here to say with absolute CERTAINTY that you clearly deserve to be amongst the top 1% within the crowded triangle...

For those of you out there who are dead set on accelerating their dating & social 'skills' with women, Carlos is DEFINITELY your No.1 'go to' guy. He always OVERDELIVERS in his dating programs and, long story short... his techniques WILL get you the results you want. Period."

- Simon Heong/David K Publishers - Instant Approaching Secrets,

"Carlos Xuma is a man who has a clear passion for imparting the success with women he has experienced to other guys worldwide. He approaches his craft with immense integrity and a distinct style!"

- Scot McKay, X & Y Communications,

"Carlos Xuma is the REAL DEAL! If you are serious about creating an extraordinary relationship. You will learn more about the needs and desires of women than they do themselves! I highly recommend Carlos to any man who is ready to get the woman of his dreams. I love his game, its 100% real."

- the dean,

  Press play to hear James...
"Carlos Xuma is one of those rare guys in the field who actually GETS what interacting with women is all about. His advice goes beyond the pick-up lines and approach techniques that so many guys use and fail with. Rather, Carlos gives guys everywhere practical, valuable advice that will make men attractive not just for one night, but for many, many years. He lays down the foundation for becoming a NATURALLY attractive man, full of confidence and the ability to fully ENJOY being around hot babes.

Unlike other pickup artists, Carlos shares information that helps you not only in one area of life, but in many: in social relationships, at work, sports, with personal goals. He'll help make you a well-rounded, self-believing alpha MAN who's capable of just about anything. And seducing gorgeous, high-quality women, is just the beginning."

- James Brito, How to Be Irresistible to Women

  Press play to hear Grant...
"Carlos Xuma is one of the few men in the 'seduction' or 'attraction' community who digs beneath the surface of passing attraction, and Explores what it is to be a man who attracts women by virtue of his character and, consequently, the natural outward expression of high character.

He brings words like 'discipline' and 'integrity' to the forefront, and waddya know, those are exactly the qualities women truly crave in a man."

- Adam Gilad, CEO -

"Hey Carlos, I write about the biology of men and women's behavior. You seem to know the biology of behavior without knowing it. How do you do that? You have a deep intuition of dynamics - it took me 7 years of academic research to discover. And you find sharp ways to apply it practically... Keep up the good work, brother."

- Joe Quirk, Author of "Sperm are from Men, Eggs are from Women"

"I've read every book and studied every system on dating and seduction. The problem with most 'gurus' in this field is that they're not teaching men how to build a solid foundation. Until you change your internal belief system and adopt an Alpha mindset, all the tactics and techniques in the world aren't going to do you any good. (Actually, it's like learning just enough karate to get your ass kicked!)

"Carlos Xuma is the best there is at teaching men how to develop their 'inner game.' From there, he'll give you the complete set of tools for approaching women, and life, with absolute confidence and skill. If you're in this game to win it, these are the rules you need to learn."

- Supreme, M.A.C.K. Tactics co-creator



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"He invests both his time and money to provide his subscribers with the best dating tips, resources and information. I already got more than my money's worth from his Dating Black Book and highly recommend it to you."

- David Kwan,


" is like shooting fish in a barrel..."

"My problem is if you follow your rules it is like shooting fish in a barrel ... All these chicks wanna have sex the first night..."



"...I truly thank you..."

"I'm already thinking in a different light and acting more confident, and looking forward to the dating experience. Thank you for opening up new 'pathways' that I can think about and use when I'm dating. I truly thank you ..."

- J. K.



"...It cuts through all the BS..."

"This is the most amazingly insightful, fascinating and well organized book I have ever seen that explains what is really going on between men and women, and how you can dramatically improve your own love and sex life.

"It points out truths that should be obvious but are all too often illusive or buried under layers of clutter in our minds.

"It cuts through all the BS that has been laid on us men throughout our lives, and shows us how to get our inner game as well as our outer game together when dealing with women."

- D.G.


"...Wish I had this kind of information 30 years ago..."

"I found your information to be top notch and very informative. Wish I had this kind of information 30 years ago when I went to school. Should be required reading in High School.

"I am a 49 year old business owner and a retired Marine, and even though Marine's are tough in many ways, they are tough in the "wrong ways" and not tough enough in the "right ways" when it comes to handling women.

"It's true, Big tough Marines turn into wimps around good looking women, just like every other guy. Now women are attracted very much so to a Marine in Dress Blues but then she may quickly get disappointed or turned off when the Marine starts wimping out with her.

"Marines are taught to respect and be "nice" to all women (especially Mom), because they are the weaker sex, and we might hurt them, so its "yes-ma'am, no-ma'am" with women in general.

"Carlos, your information could save a lot of men a lot of heartache. You are doing your part - it's up to the rest of us to do ours.

"Read, and soul search guys, it will come to you, and one day you'll get it. Again, thank you, Carlos..."

- P. S.


"...I owe a lot to you Carlos..."

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"They say experience is the best teacher but the most costly. I say learning from example is the best Carlos, since you've gone before us and we need not go through those hell holes to learn. You're a hero!!!!"

- A.D.



"Thanks ... your work is excellent, inspiring, and required reading for any serious human male!"
- E.H.

"...the best of all the books I've read on dating and women..."

"The Dating Black
Book is easily the best of all the books I've read on dating and women. This is because every page has much relevant material writen by someone who is the real deal when it comes to understanding women."There is so much quality of wisdomon the subject in this ebook...This is a true handbook on women and dating---one of the absolute elite. I will be referring back to this book many times!"



"...Every man should read it..."

"Thank you so much for your Dating Black Book and Transitions!! I never thought it could be so easy. The tips helped me from next to never getting laid to being a real player with girls. Every man should read it!!!"

- F.M.


"... You totally saved my life..."

"Dude, You totally saved my life. After a year long relationship my girlfriend dumped me apparently for a surgeon. You have no idea how messed up I was, but after 4 days of feeling like a total loser I decided to take matters in my own hands. I stopped calling her and have not heard from her since, that was almost two months ago.

Got your e-book and audio sessions and to tell you the truth things are going great...

I had no idea how easy it was to talk to women, get their phone number, go out on dates, etc. Turns out a lot of women at the hospital wanted to date me for a long time. So to keep this short I once again thank you for everything..."




"Hi, Carlos, and thank you. Your material has helped me in so many ways, especially as I have grown in confidence and am starting to attract girls."

- G.F.


"...I am genuinely impressed!..."

"Your observations and conclusions reveal a great deal of insightful analysis. Like most guys frustrated with women, I typically just 'shrug my shoulders' and never adequately reflect on what or why something happened.

"The Dating Dynamics Black Book successfully helps men begin to more fully understand cognitive behavior (emotional and behavioral problems) and dating, an area where many women often have maintained a slight advantage.

"I am genuinely impressed!"

-Sean. F. in San Francisco

"...Your stuff is brilliant..."

"Your stuff is brilliant! It has really OPENED MY EYES! I have seen a lot more positive responses from women since using your techniques and I’m lovin' every second of it.

"My life has been much more enjoyable since using your techniques and attracting women the way a guy should."

- Carl D., from Arizona

"...This book is a great reference manaul
that every guy should have

"Carlos, I read your ebook "The Dating Black Book" and I must admit I'm impressed. On many occasions I remember having a smile on my face and thinking, AH-HAAAAA.

"Your material was VERY easy to read and constantly kept my interest peaked. Many situations you discussed I could closely relate to. I am astonished how you outlined in detail the dating process from start to finish. This book is a great reference manaul that every guy should have when in a 'jam'"



"Carlos, you rock! Your books and audio coaching make me feel like I'm actually in a class of some kind that is teaching me what I've always wanted to know. Keep it up, and I'll see you in class..."

- G.C.

"I just finished your Dating Black Book.  People can say what they want ... but yours zeroed in on all the mistakes I've been making since 1990!  All of them!"

- Steve

"... I really enjoyed your book. It is very complete and seems to cover everything... The tip on coffee dates will save me a fortune. The section on kinesthetics was great.

Thanks for helping to change my mindset. From now on, I will do the choosing..."

- Nick



"I’ve read a lot of different material but found your material to be truly inspirational. Your material is very informative and I really enjoy how you add psychology to the mix. Keep up the good work!"

- T.O.


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"This book really showed me how girls think and what I exactly, step-by-step, needed to do in order to have more success with them.

Before this book, I was clueless and also frustrated due to the fact that I saw other guys at my college pull in the girls while I sat there all alone on Friday nights hanging out with 'Loser Boy' watching reruns of Sportscenter.

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I wrote The Dating Black Book to give guys the straight TRUTH about attracting women and dating.

Most men won't ask for help, especially help with women. Now, with this book, you can learn dating secrets that will SHOCK you...

"Just wanted to drop you a note of thanks for your contribution to males everywhere (if they are smart enough to do something about it).

I am reading your Black Book and am finding it quite impressive the more I read it... Your book has loaded my mind with information. I know I will succeed... I'm getting back on the upward spiral."

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"Your stuff is the brilliant! It has really OPENED MY EYES! I have seen a lot more positive responses from women since using your techniques and I'm lovin' every second of it.

My life has been much more enjoyable since using your techniques and attracting women the way a guy should."

- C. from Arizona

Carlos Xuma is one of the Internet's top advisers and authors.

You've seen him on numerous sites and respected dating publications, such as:
  • ABC Television
  • Allen Handelman's Rock Talk Radio Show
  • David DeAngelo's Interviews with Dating Gurus
  • Playboy Magazine
  • Maxim Radio
  • Bikini Hangout
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  • Seduction Method
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  • Savvy Insider - the art of single living
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"Hey Carlos, One honest thing I could say about [The Dating Black Book] is that compared to other authors (I've read quite a few) this is the BEST.

Period. I've swept the whole thing several times, and now I use it as a reference manual, it's been real helpful."

- D.H.

"Instead of promising supersonic seduction with canned speeches, you tell it like it is so you can get results by being yourself - thank you... I have spent hundreds of dollars on other "information" and yours covers the most topics ... [there's] no theory-only B.S. here.

It would take you hundreds of hours, thousands of dollars and lots of heartache to figure out what Carlos has done for you. If you have ever wondered why the jerks get all the girls - you need this book."

- C, Milwaukee, WI

"Your observations and conclusions reveal a great deal of insightful analysis. Like most guys frustrated with women, I typically just 'shrug my shoulders' and never adequately reflect on what or why something happened.

The Dating Dynamics Black Book successfully helps men begin to more fully understand cognitive behavior (emotional and behavioral problems) and dating, an area where many women often have maintained a slight advantage. I am genuinely impressed!"

- S.F. in San Francisco

The Dating Black Book is written for the intelligent man, who has taken women on dates too many times just to hear them say:

"You're so nice!
I'd like to just be friends..."

"I've been studying your techniques for almost a month now and wow what a difference!

Just a few short weeks ago I was recovering from a breakup- not my decision, feeling sorry for myself, and in a 'funk.'

After studying the Dating Dynamics™ program for a few weeks now my reality is beginning to change because I'm successfully creating the reality that I want!

If I'm doing this good after only a few weeks, imagining one year from now is almost scary! Thanks!"

- J.B.

"Carlos, I read your ebook 'The Dating Black Book' and I must admit I'm impressed. On many occasions I remember having a smile on my face and thinking, AH-HAAAAA.

Your material was VERY easy to read and constantly kept my interest peaked. Many situations you discussed I could closely relate to. I am astonished how you outlined in detail the dating process from start to finish. This book is a great reference manaul that every guy should have when in a 'jam'"

- J.O. from Pennsylvania.

Carlos Xuma is the cement that will lock in your "inner game," "outer game," and your Motivation...

"Just thought I'd write you an email and say that the stuff in your book is great and its changing a lot of things for me. Already working, getting phone numbers and meeting girls I never would have approached before.

Initially I thought your ebook would be a corny thing ... but I bought it out of curiosity, and its really great. Basically what I'm saying is, Thanks..."

- Josh E.

"Big Carlos! You should win the Nobel Prize of Peace, for your contribution to the well-being of mankind!

I truly believe that the stuff you teach is a lot more important for the peace in our lives and houses than anything else one can learn at school, with our parents, from (the pundits) books and from television.

What you teach to us is a lot more than 'how to get laid.' I believe that it is a lot more about how to be a man, go for what you want and to get it. The psychological principles you teach to us are the ones that FIRST make us better and stronger men and BECAUSE of that, make us able to get laid more often.

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